ACROSS 1 Leafy side
dishes 7 “Marriage
Story” Oscar winner Laura
11 Type of therapy for people with autism: Abbr.
14 2017 skating biopic
15 Oregon Trail animals, once
16 Mire17 *Primate
exhibit19 Disapproving
noise20 Spice Girl B
or C21 Afro-Brazilian
dance22 “Little Women”
sister23 Site that
prohibits the selling of souls
25 “Respect your ___!”
27 Animal that plays dead
30 *Matcha, for instance
32 Park, e.g., in NYC
33 City where pesto originated
35 In any way36 Whiskey
flavoring38 Nary a soul40 Peace Prize city41 Plot ___
(protagonist’s “protection”)
43 Assail45 Casual shirt46 *Have mercy48 “Mister ___
Neighborhood”50 Conundrum51 Journalist Ifill52 Group of
performers53 City near Dallas55 Poke bowl
tuna58 Telecom letters
separated by an &
59 *“Shocker!”62 “To Kill a Mock-
ingbird” author
63 “Sure about that?”
64 Hairdo whose “business in the front, party in the back” description hints at what can follow the two words in each starred clue’s answer
65 New Deal prez66 Oscar-winning
director Chloe67 Arranges,
as hair
DOWN 1 Kind of card in
a phone 2 Molecule
component 3 Word before
“wolf” or “Star” 4 Often-rolled
joints 5 Good ___
Young (hair color brand)
6 Concludes a prayer, maybe
7 Apt rhyme for “gloom”
8 Jumping for joy
9 Transaction at a flea market
10 Washington-to-Syracuse dir.
11 Lingering flavor
12 Successful book
13 Word hidden in “Tutankhamun”
18 Stable staple22 Box in
Japanese cuisine
24 Creepy-crawly26 Grp. that
regulates LSD27 Dads28 Wasn’t cool
enough?29 Kraken or
Scylla30 Like
undercooked brownies
31 Soothing succulents
34 Feeling of longing for the Before Times
37 Namely39 Songs stuck in
people’s heads42 D&D, e.g.44 Lower-body
ring site47 Mischievous49 “Far out!”51 Bearded
antelope
52 Baby whale54 “___ your
other question ...”
56 “The ___ We Climb” (Amanda Gorman poem)
57 “Got it”59 URL ender for
a company60 Place (on)61 UFO
occupantsANSWER TO PREVIOUS PUZZLE:
UNIVERSAL CROSSWORD
Mull It Over by Rebecca Goldstein and Rachel Fabi 12/20
Dear Abby: I have been dating “Mark” for 18 months. Four months ago, his 17-year-old daughter, “Hayley,” started disliking me — my dog, my kids, anything having to do with me. She forbids me from going to Mark’s house when she’s there and has an emo-tional meltdown every time we see each other. She has major episodes whenever my name is mentioned and has become violent with her sister, “Lily,” Mark and me.
Last night, Lily told Hayley my kids and I were invited over for dinner (Hayley is going to be gone for a football game), and Hayley accused Lily of “ruining their family” for lik-ing me. Mark had to separate them to protect his younger daughter.
The problem is, there are never any consequences for Hayley’s behavior. Mark keeps telling me she needs “time.” I have tried to end the relation-ship, but Mark insists we just need to stick it out. We had been talking about moving in together before Hayley went into this phase. Now every-thing is on pause, and our relationship has taken 10 steps backward.
How can I get over this and become comfortable rather than upset in our relationship? He keeps promising me he will make changes, but he doesn’t. Nothing is moving forward. Do I walk away or wait it out? — No Progress in Iowa
Dear No Progress: That Mark is unable to assert him-self with Hayley is, to say the least, regrettable.
If you haven’t already done so, “suggest” to Mark that fam-ily counseling could help him get to the root of what has caused Hayley’s abrupt change of attitude. From what you have described, she may have severe emotional problems that require professional help.
Dear Abby: Occasionally when my husband goes run-ning, I drop him off at the park while I do the grocery shop-ping. We agree to meet back at the drop-off spot in one hour. Occasionally, I’m late by maybe five minutes, and certainly no more than eight or nine. When this happens, my husband gets extremely angry, although the very first thing I do is apologize for being late.
Sometimes the grocery store line is long or there’s traffic in town. When he gets angry, he says, “Why can’t you do this simple thing?” and rants on and on despite my apologies. I never intend to be late; it hap-pens only one out of five times. Besides, I’m doing the shop-ping, which benefits us both.
It hurts me when he does this and I tell him so. Honestly, I feel it is verbal abuse. We are self-employed and work together. Our relationship is generally more or less OK. What are your thoughts? — Unappreciated in California
Dear Unappreciated: My “thought” is that your impatient and immature husband should provide his own transportation if he wants to go running in the park rath-er than berate you for things that are beyond the control of his chauffeur and grocery shopper.
DEAR ABBY
Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
Teen does not like dad’s significant other
JEANNE PHILLIPS
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY: Formulate ideas and imple-ment change. Don’t wait for others to do things for you or take charge of your life. Look for what moves you, and focus on using your skills masterfully. You will excel. Put your energy where it counts.
ARIES (March 21-April 19): You’ll meet with opposi-tion if you are insistent on doing everything your way. A little compromise will go a long way when dealing with someone who can influence the outcome. Choose your battles wisely, and focus on honoring promises. 2 stars
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Spend more time nurturing relationships and taking care of your work responsibilities, and you will feel confident moving forward. Knowing you can fin-ish what you start and handle personal matters without a hitch will put your mind at ease. 4 stars
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Don’t make an emotional financial move. Iron out any foreseeable problems before you jump into a joint venture. A sincere attitude and an open mind will help you develop a workable plan that can easily fit into your schedule. 3 stars
CANCER (June 21-July 22): Address issues that concern others. Offer suggestions to encourage others to take care of their responsibilities, leaving you more time to address prob-lems directly linked to your personal life and meaningful relationships. R3 stars
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Stop overthinking and analyzing; start enjoying what life has to offer. Worrying about things you cannot change is a waste of time. Reach out to people who lift your spirits and put a smile on your face. 3 stars
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Trust what’s tried and true. Someone will mislead you if given a chance. Concentrate on personal growth, physical improvement and altering your lifestyle to suit your needs bet-ter. Do your own thing. 4 stars
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): An emotional matter will esca-late if you cannot compromise or come to terms with what others want to do. Take care of responsibilities on your own to avoid interference and inconve-nience. 2 stars
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Gather information, and pursue what you want to do. Touch base with people who make you think, and offer
helpful suggestions. Limit your spending, drinking and indul-gence. 5 stars
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Make changes that will help you navigate your way to stardom. Select the people and the path that feel most comfortable, and nothing will stand between you and getting what you want. 3 stars
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Share memories and dreams with the people you love, and you’ll find common ground that will encourage better relationships. Put in extra time if it will help get you closer to the goal you set for yourself. 3 stars
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Say what’s on your mind, and deal with unfinished busi-ness. A responsible attitude and quick pace will diminish any doubt others may have regard-ing your ability to get things done. 3 stars
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Handle situations unique-ly, and you’ll make an impres-sion on someone influential. Enforcing positive change will show your ability to take charge and live up to your promises. 5 stars
HOROSCOPE FOR DECEMBER 20
By Eugenia Last
PREVIOUS SOLUTION
Directions: Complete the gridso that every row, column and3x3 box contains every digitfrom 1 to 9 inclusively.
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