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Do men and women Do men and women understand each other?understand each other?
The art of communicationThe art of communication
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Non-verbal communication
• Immediate effect• Universal use• Facial gestures
– Smiles– Eyes– Looks
• Posture• Distance from others• Physical contact• Eye contact• How we shake hands
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Communication stylesCommunication styles
WomenWomen• Intimacy is essential Intimacy is essential
within a friendshipwithin a friendship
• Discussing a problem Discussing a problem lightens the load – lightens the load – even if no solution is even if no solution is foundfound
Talk to Talk to create relationships create relationships
……women confidewomen confide
MenMen• Intimacy is an optional! Intimacy is an optional!
• Discussing a problem Discussing a problem means reliving it – this means reliving it – this is avoided unless a is avoided unless a solution can be foundsolution can be found
Talk to Talk to share opinions share opinions ……men confermen confer
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Spiritual communicationSpiritual communication
• Common languageCommon language• Higher levelHigher level• UniversalUniversal• Language of feelings and Language of feelings and
desiresdesires– Happiness, fear, sadness, etc.Happiness, fear, sadness, etc.
• No opinionsNo opinions– therefore no judgementtherefore no judgement
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A common FaithA common Faith
• Basis for our everyday valuesBasis for our everyday values• Share the same life goalsShare the same life goals• Can save us in times of crisisCan save us in times of crisis• Creates a lifetime projectCreates a lifetime project• Encourages activity & serviceEncourages activity & service
– Within the coupleWithin the couple– Toward societyToward society
• Solid foundation for the familySolid foundation for the family
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No preconceptionsNo preconceptions
See the person for See the person for who they are…who they are…
not the image you’ve not the image you’ve created of themcreated of them
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Being positiveBeing positive
• See things and See things and people in their people in their entiretyentirety
• ‘‘Positum’ (Latin) Positum’ (Latin) means ‘whole’means ‘whole’
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Who are we?Who are we?
• You can only know others You can only know others once you know yourself once you know yourself (strengths, needs, (strengths, needs, weaknesses, motivations, weaknesses, motivations, etc.)etc.)
• Before choosing a partner, Before choosing a partner, be sure you’re not fulfilling a be sure you’re not fulfilling a need or weaknessneed or weakness
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Getting to know a person• Shallow knowledgeShallow knowledge
– Have fun togetherHave fun together
• Deeper understandingDeeper understanding– Observe in times of difficultyObserve in times of difficulty
• Travel togetherTravel together
• Do they take responsibility Do they take responsibility for their actions?for their actions?
– Or blame othersOr blame others
• Beware of spoilt individualsBeware of spoilt individuals– They are the centre of their They are the centre of their
worlds and always will beworlds and always will be
• Family relationshipsFamily relationships– Showing respect importantShowing respect important
• Respect for othersRespect for others
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The faculty of beliefThe faculty of belief
• Can influence our whole Can influence our whole lifelife
• Ability to be ‘a self-fulfilling Ability to be ‘a self-fulfilling prophecy’prophecy’
• Positive or negative effectPositive or negative effect– HealthHealth– Interpersonal relationsInterpersonal relations– LifestyleLifestyle– Optimism/pessimismOptimism/pessimism
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The faculty of faithThe faculty of faith• Gives us the ability to Gives us the ability to
achieve high goalsachieve high goals
• Power of transformationPower of transformation
• Guides us to the right Guides us to the right pathpath
• Helps our inner Helps our inner developmentdevelopment
• Fulfil our ultimate goalFulfil our ultimate goal
• Sustains us in times of Sustains us in times of difficultydifficulty
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The faculty of energyThe faculty of energy
• Spiritual energy is limitlessSpiritual energy is limitless
• Capacity increases with useCapacity increases with use
• Spiritual energy does not Spiritual energy does not diminishdiminish
• Memory is an example of Memory is an example of this capacitythis capacity
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The rules of consultationThe rules of consultation
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The first rule is to identify the problem precisely
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To limit the scope of the problem
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Never interrupt the other person while he is talking
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Not to reply to an accusation with another accusation
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To choose the right time and place for a discussion
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To mantain a margin of respect
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To avoid talking about the past
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To avoid mentioning the other person’s weak points
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To consider the discussion to be the result of mutual behaviour
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Thank youThank youfor understanding me!for understanding me!