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Follow-Up Report: Our Date

Copyright 2011 Divitouwski LLP

Agenda

Statement of Purpose

Note of Caution

Background

Flirting: Signs of

Commonalities

Attraction

Career

Conclusion

Contact


Statement of Purpose

I’m disappointed in you.

Haven’t responded to voicemail, text

I believe we should go out again

Flirting

Shared Interest

Attraction

My career

Contact me

Second date or

Apology


Note of Caution

[Powerpoints] sound more impersonal Harsher

Easy to misinterpret

Can’t see body language

Can’t hear tone of voice

I’m honest and direct by nature Not trying to:

Be harsh

Patronizing

Insulting

I Google searched your email, approx. age


We went out on a date You did not return my calls

Background


Flirting, Signs Of

Playing with hair Common sign of flirtation

39M Google results

Never dated a woman with so much hair playing

You didn’t seem nervous

Eye contact Set personal record for eye contact/minute

Stated, “It was nice to meet you” Inconclusive

Nice conversation over dinner Incontrovertible


Commonalities

Intelligence

Classical Music

We can watch together

NY Philharmonic

Stated interest

Convenience – no extra time necessary

Age

Google states 32-33

Optimal


Attraction

You were attracted to me No one will go on a date to those they are not attracted to

You knew what I looked like before date

I have attractive features Philosopher

Writer

I have gone out with a lot of women If they are attracted to me, so should you be

Not a serial dater

Occasionally date once

Sensitive person Ref: this powerpoint


Career

I have a job

Manage my parent’s money

Ref: Trumps, Soros

I make money

Not monopoly money

Have made millions of dollars with my parent’s money

Ergo, “real” job


Conclusion

We should go on a second date Let’s see what happens

However, I find you less appealing now

Willing to give you second change

Open minded and flexible • Benefit of the doubt

I thought the date went well, deserved 2nd date

First date went well enough

Not a Hollywood movie

Remember, I spent time, effort, and money on first date

You owe me

You arrived 30 minutes late


Conclusion, continued

If no second date

Biggest mistake of your life

Should have called to tell me so

Not emailed

Maybe emailed

Or texted

Should have responded to my messages

Impolite

Immature

Passive Aggressive

Cowardly


Contact

Phone Please leave a detailed voicemail

Will call you back

Email me, and I will call you back

Would appreciate the courtesy of a call

Email Email is ok, but not preferred

Better than no response at all

Potential for miscommunication, etc.

Text Last preferred method


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