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Mentoring –
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• Who’s My Best Mentor in this group?
• Interview any 5 participants • Ask them any 4 questions• Write down your questions & their
answers• Score them on a scale of 1=low to
10=high• Tell them your score• Who has the highest total score in
the group?• What were the most important
questions?• What did we learn?
• Who’s My Best Mentor in this group?
• Interview any 5 participants • Ask them any 4 questions• Write down your questions & their
answers• Score them on a scale of 1=low to
10=high• Tell them your score• Who has the highest total score in
the group?• What were the most important
questions?• What did we learn?
Ice BreakerIce Breaker
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Introduction
What is mentoring?
Benefits of mentoring
Mentor Skills
Mentoring process
Mentoring guidelines
Mentor quotes
Case studies
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• Course Facilitator• Participants• Course Objectives• Your Objectives• Course Schedule• Ground Rules• Logistics• Any Questions?
• Course Facilitator• Participants• Course Objectives• Your Objectives• Course Schedule• Ground Rules• Logistics• Any Questions?
Course IntroductionCourse Introduction
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• My Name• What I like to be called• My Greatest Success• My work background• What mentoring means to me• My course expectations• How I will use my mentoring skills
• My Name• What I like to be called• My Greatest Success• My work background• What mentoring means to me• My course expectations• How I will use my mentoring skills
Individual IntroductionIndividual Introduction
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Aim: To provide information & practice skills needed in working as a mentor
Objectives: Consider how to communicate effectively
as a mentorClarify how the mentoring programme
worksExplore support & resources
Aim: To provide information & practice skills needed in working as a mentor
Objectives: Consider how to communicate effectively
as a mentorClarify how the mentoring programme
worksExplore support & resources
Course ObjectivesCourse Objectives
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• Participation• Interaction• Confidentiality• Mobile Phones• Questions• Manage Time• Have Fun!
• Participation• Interaction• Confidentiality• Mobile Phones• Questions• Manage Time• Have Fun!
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ReviewReview
Ground RulesGround Rules
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Participation
8What you put in is what you get outWhat you put in is what you get out
ParticipationParticipation
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Having Fun
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Should we? – If so, how?Should we? – If so, how?With sensitivity & in moderation.With sensitivity & in moderation.
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Questions
• Any TimeAny Time• Any AspectAny Aspect
Please Ask QuestionsPlease Ask Questions• Be ready to answerBe ready to answer• Develop your reasoningDevelop your reasoning
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• Introduction• What is Mentoring?• Benefits of Mentoring• Mentor Skills• Mentoring Process• Mentoring Guidelines• Mentor Quotes• Case Studies
• Introduction• What is Mentoring?• Benefits of Mentoring• Mentor Skills• Mentoring Process• Mentoring Guidelines• Mentor Quotes• Case Studies
Introduction - Agenda
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Introduction
What is mentoring?
Benefits of mentoring
Mentor Skills
Mentoring process
Mentoring guidelines
Mentor quotes
Case studies
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Exercise 1
In small groups discuss these questions & record the responses on flipchart.
1. What is mentoring?2. What are the benefits of mentoring for mentors &
mentees?3. What skills and qualities do mentors need?
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•What is Mentoring?
•Who is a Mentor?
•What is the Mentor’s
role?
•What is Mentoring?
•Who is a Mentor?
•What is the Mentor’s
role?
What is mentoring?
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Mentoring – DefinitionA one-to-one, non-judgmental relationship, in which an individual mentor voluntarily gives his/her time to support and encourage another, the mentee. Organized relationship: (partners carefully selected) •It is voluntary•It is confidential•Serves mentee needs
Home office 2001
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Mentoring – Definition
• Mentoring is a means for sharing experience between two parties a two-way street –with benefits for both sides
• Mentoring is actually a form of informal learning
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A mentor is…
►a good listener constructive►►open to challenges
► non-judgemental►non-intrusive
trustworthy►►100% reliable►100% committed.
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Introduction
What is mentoring?
Benefits of mentoring
Mentor Skills
Mentoring process
Mentoring guidelines
Mentor quotes
Case studies
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentors:increasing personal effectiveness as a result of
experiences as a mentorexperiencing the satisfaction of helping mentees to
gain clarity and achieve their goalsbecoming informed about the services & resources
available to mentees in their areabeing able to use the experience on your CV to
enhance your career prospects
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentors:• interpersonal skills such as negotiating and
listening• communication skills, including clear oral
communication• report writing and recording skills• target and goal setting skills• confidence, self esteem and resourcefulness
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentees:• Experiencing the positive effects of being
deeply respected• Having a clearer understanding of the issues
that face them• Becoming clearer about ways to solve
difficulties
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentees:• Realising that they have knowledge and skills
regarding their situation• Increased self esteem and confidence• An increased sense of direction and purpose• The acquisition and development of new skills
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The Mentor is
► respectful ► genuine ► empathetic ► humble ► personal integrity ► quiet enthusiasm ► a good listener
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The Mentor is
► constructive ► open to challenges
► non-judgemental ► non-intrusive ► trustworthy ► 100% reliable ► 100% committed
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How to be a good mentor• Be positive• Be reliable• Be a good listener• Show interest• Be reliable• Be non judgemental• Be approachable• Be realistic
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MENTORING SKILLSKey stages in mentoring process
• getting to know each other • establishing rapport• diagnosis• agreeing a programme and mutual
expectations• implementation• periodic review• exit strategy.
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The structure and organisation of a typical mentoring meeting
• Prepare for the meeting.• First thing when you meet your mentee is to
reconnect to the last meeting.• Establish progress since the last meeting.• What is the central focus of the meeting today?• Work through today’s agenda.• Agree an action plan for the following week(s),
ready for the next meeting.• Review the meeting and agree date/time/venue of
next meeting.
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Discussion – Do’s Agree on the framework of the discussion.• Maintain a constructive & supportive
atmosphere and tone.• Be certain you have all the necessary
information.• Encourage your mentee to reflect on her
responses, performance, attitudes etc.
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Discussion – Do’s
• Encourage trust and mutual responsibility.• Be prepared to discuss and negotiate.• Be comfortable with silences.• Recognise when you don’t have the skills to
deal with a problem and find appropriate help and advice
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Discussion – Don’ts
• Allow outcome to dominate the process.• Allow paperwork to dominate the
discussion.• Inhibit the mentee from talking.• Be a know it all.• Be bland or over-cosy
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Discussion – Don’ts
• Use inappropriate language.• Pressure the mentee to adopt your own
views.• Appear rushed or pressed for time.• Show extreme agreement or disagreement.• Only praise or approve behaviour because
it only conforms to your own standards.
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Exercise
• In groups of three:• Take turns to play mentee, mentor and
observer• This is the first or second meeting. • Each person speaks for 5 mins with 2 minutes
feeback and then swap over.
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Mentoring Focus
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Intellectual / Skill N
eed
Directing (Tell)E
motional N
eed
Coaching Facilitating
Networking Counselling
Non-Directing (Ask)
Mentoring
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The Mentoring Focus -Finding the right balance
(Between Protégé Needs and Mentor Approach)
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CounsellingNetworking
FacilitatingCoachingEmotional NeedIntellectual / Skill Need
Protégé NeedsM
entor Approach
Non-Directing (ask)
Directing (tell)
Em
otional Need
Inte
llect
ual /
Ski
ll N
eed
Mentoring
Asking
Telling
Mentoring
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Styles of Mentoring
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High Assertiveness
Low Assertiveness
Hig
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Exp
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Tells
Ask
s
Hides Emotions Shows Emotions
DirectSpirited
Systematic Considerate
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Style of Mentoring
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High Assertiveness
Low Assertiveness
Hig
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Exp
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Tells
Ask
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Hides Emotions Shows Emotions
Coaching Facilitation
Networking Counseling
Mentoring
Direct Spirited
Systematic Considerate
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Mentoring Styles
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StyleDescription Mentors
By
DirectHigh assertiveness, low expressiveness
Taking charge
SpiritedHigh assertiveness,
high expressiveness.Inspiring
ConsiderateLow assertiveness, high expressiveness
Building group
harmony
SystematicLow assertiveness,low expressiveness
Planning carefully
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Mentoring Styles
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• Produces quick results
• Gets people moving
• Takes charge no matter how challenging the situation
Direct
Less Effective in situations requiring careful planning and in situations requiring tact and sensitivity to others’ feeling
Most Effective in crisis situations or rapidly changing situations in which bold action and quick decisions are needed
Direct
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Mentoring Styles
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• Inspires others to develop fresh, new approaches
• Create a fun atmosphere by acting spontaneously
Less Effective in urgent situations in which deadlines must be met and in situations in which long-term planning is vital.
Most Effective in situations in which people need to be motivated to develop fresh, innovative ideas.
Spirited
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Mentoring Styles
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• Provides a space for mentee to explore feelings
• Creates an opportunity for self-reflection and challenging
Considerate
Less Effective in situations which there is not enough time and the mentee is not relaxed
Most Effective in situations in which people need to problem solve & deal with setbacks.
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Mentoring Styles
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Most Effective in situations calling for careful, long-term planning, accuracy, and objective analysis.
Systematic• Makes decisions based on facts
• Asks for specific details
• Is analytical
Less Effective in situations requiring quick decision-making or flexibility because of ambiguity or interpersonal conflict.
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Habit 1 – Be Proactive• Stimulus• Initial Reaction• Response
• Stimulus• Initial Reaction• Response
Stimulus
Initial Reaction
ResponseResponse
Response
Response
Response
Proactive Response
Choice
Reactive ResponseNo Choice
Choose Your Response
Choose Your Response
Response = Initial Reaction?
Response = Chosen Reaction?
The ModelThe
Model
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Habit 2: Begin With The End In Mind
• Base today’s choice • On your long term goal
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Habit 4 – Think Win-Win
Win-winAttitudeWin-winAttitude
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Mentoring Skills - Principles
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Understand Before
Responding
Understand Before
Responding• Understand First• Understand First
• Be understood• Be understood
Then
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Mentoring – Base Skills
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ListeningListening
• Attention• Hearing• Understanding• Feeling
• Attention• Hearing• Understanding• Feeling
““Most people don’t listen with Most people don’t listen with the intent to understand; they the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply” listen with the intent to reply” Steven CoveySteven Covey
Responding with empathy
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Mentoring – Base Skills
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QuestioningQuestioning
Types of probes
• Neutral (Follow-up) – “That would be one way to…”• Summary – “From your perspective…”• About – “How do you feel about…”• Brief Assertion – “You have more to say about this”• Reflective – “You don’t feel comfortable with…?”• Pause – “…………………..”• Open “What…/How…?”• Closed – “Which/what specifically…?”• Leading – “Don’t you think it would be better if…?”• Framing – “Help me see how this fits in with…”• Hypothetical – “What would happen if…?
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Mentoring – Secondary Skills
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RapportRapport Listen deeply
Cultivate empathy & respect for the protégé’s experience
Put your own agenda on hold
Mirror the protégé’s language
Check for matching body language
Elicit & respect the protégé’s values
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Exercise – Paraphrasing
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• Ask for confirmation
• Listen• Repeat in own words
• Reflect emotion
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Mentoring – Secondary Skills
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FacilitationFacilitationSocratic Direction
Learning Styles
Developing your protégé by asking the
right questions
Understand and adapt to the learning
style your protégé
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Mentoring – Socratic Direction
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Developing the protégé by asking the right questions
QuestionsStatements
Pauses
InformationThoughtsOpinions
Socrates
Mentor MenteeQuestion Direction of learning
Answer
Reformulated questionAnswer
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Mentoring – Learning Styles
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TheActivist
TheReflector
TheTheorist
ThePragmatist
Testing new knowledge
or skills immediately
and then correcting
Thinking carefully about how to apply new learning before acting
Conceptualizing how the
learning fits with coherent
models and theories
Highly practical; only learns if
new knowledge makes sense and can help achieve goals
Understand and adapt to the learning style of the protégé
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Mentoring – Secondary Skills
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Goal SettingGoal Setting Focus on outcomesnot activities
Choose good measures of success
QuantitativeLeadingTime based
Good stretch Too little?Too much?
Link to goalsof others For synergy
Activity Outcome
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Guidelines for good mentoring 1
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Make sure you meet
Keep meetings brief
Use a simple process (KISS)
Develop the ‘ask, don’t tell’ habit
Remember it’s all about learning
Plan your own self improvement
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Guidelines for good mentoring 2
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Make the protégé independent of you
Share your failures & your successes
Prepare specific goals for your relationship
Use a stepping stone process to build on success
Celebrate successes no matter how small
Make mentoring a fun experience for
both of you
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Mentor quotes
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What would you like to talk about today?
Tell me about your experience of …
Shall we start by recapping on our
previous meeting?
What I understand you’re saying is …
You have said very little about X, but that seems to be central
to this issue The way you are talking now reminds me of the time I …
Well done! That feels like a breakthrough.
Let’s explore this issue some more
How could we find out what we don’t know about this?
It seems you don’t feel comfortable talking about this
I went through a similar experience 25
years ago…
Lets look at the pros & cons of this option.
How would you assess the mentoring process so far?
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Boundaries
Boundaries help the mentor and mentee to know exactly where they stand on issues of confidentiality, conduct and working limits.
• If boundaries are not clear this could cloud the development of the relationship.
• An example of a boundary is time: mentors need to be reliable and consistent.
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Boundaries
• Your relationship should be friendly and supportive.
• You should not get over emotionally involved.• You should not be a bank or a taxi service.• Your mentee may want to give you a thank
you gift at the end of the mentoring relationship and while you won’t be expecting this, it is fine to accept.
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Boundaries•You should never give or loan money •Do not gossip, but be aware that if something serious is raised you are obliged to seek advice.•Always be aware of your personal safety when visiting your mentee at home and leave if you are not comfortable. •You should not become involved in complex personal, domestic, or political issues with the mentee.•
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Boundaries
•You should not talk about the personal/intimate areas of your life.• You should not provide advice on anything that is beyond your knowledge or skills.
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CONFIDENTIALITY – DO’S AND DON’TS
•You should share with the Programme Co-ordinator any concerns about anything your mentee has disclosed.•Be careful who you talk to about your mentee.•Keep to general information.•Maintain safe systems for recording information.•Be aware of your own limits when dealing with difficult issues.
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CONFIDENTIALITY – DO’S AND DON’TS
•Never promise to keep secrets.•Never reveal personal information about your mentee to anyone outside the project.•Never disclose personal information without the mentee’s consent – although there are some exceptions to this.•It is important that mentees feel that most of what is said is confidential and kept within the mentoring programme
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CONFIDENTIALITY – DO’S AND DON’TS
•But mentees need to know that content of sessions is not strictly confidential.•Mentors have to keep logs and write reports, which may have to be referred to.•Sometimes information has to go outside the mentoring programme – child protection issues, offending etc.
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CONFIDENTIALITY – DO’S AND DON’TS
• Mentees should have this explained to them before they begin the programme.
• ‘I have not got the authority to keep secrets – I’m part of a larger project’.
• Confidentiality needs to be discussed in the first session as part of setting up ground rules.
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Types of questions
• Open: To gather information and opinions• Probing: To explore and extend• Summary: To check/clarify what has been said• Reflective: To get views and opinions
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Types of questions
• Factual: To get facts
• Comparison: To explore similarities and differences
• Hypothetical: To think more widely
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Effective Questioning Checklist
• Keep your objectives clearly in mind.• When a mentee asks ‘What do you think I
should do/say?’ turn it round and send it back ‘What do you think you could do/say?’ giving them a chance to find the solution before you give one.
• Establish a pattern of questions that can be sustained: e.g. ask open questions, followed up by probe questions.
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Effective Questioning Checklist
• Limit the number of closed questions.• Avoid counter-productive questions.• Use plain language.• Allow thinking time for responses, don’t feel
you have to rush in to fill a silence.
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Effective Questioning Checklist
• Analyse replies.• Observe and interpret the non-verbal signals
of the mentee.• Maintain an atmosphere of friendly neutrality.• Don’t talk too much.
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First Session with Mentee
• Introduce yourself first• Who you are?• What should your mentee call you?• Get your mentee to write down your name – but be
aware that she may not be able to write in English, the Mentoring Programme Co-ordinator will have briefed you about her literacy in both English and her first language.
• AND/OR• Spend the first session finding out what you have in
common.
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First Session with Mentee
• CHECK LIST FOR FIRST SESSION• Introductions Have your questions ready,• decide on your introduction in advance• What have you both got in common?• What is mentoring about? be prepared to
answer the question• Why are you both meeting for a mentoring
session?
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First Session with Mentee
• You will need to outline some sort of Ground Rules or Contract. See example of a contract.
• Complete the Mentor/Mentee Contact Sheet in the first session
• Log Sheet photocopy the log sheet in your folder
• Have prepared your set of open-ended questions• See examples in your guidelines both in First Session• and in Active Listening
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Mentor/Mentee Contract• This contract is to encourage both Mentor and Mentee to think
about the relationship and what you expect from the mentoring process. Some examples of mutual agreements are:
• Attend all mentoring sessions as agreed• Arrive on time for mentoring sessions• Let each other know if there are any changes to the
arrangements• Respect confidentiality• Add your own:• Contract Points• Mentor’s Name Mentee’s Name
• SignatureDate
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Action Planning and Target Setting
• The targets should be:• Clear and precise• Realistic• Limited in number• Achievable • Interesting and challenging• Monitored over the agreed timescale• Revised as appropriate
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Action Planning and Target Setting
• Specific and clear• Measurable• Achievable• Relevant• Time limited
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Action Planning and Target Setting
• Target
• Action
• Date for Completion
• Progress Update
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MENTORING PROGRAMME LOG SHEET • Mentor’s Name: Mentee’s Initials• Date: Session #:• Content of Today’s Session: Additional notes on
session:• Targets set: Mentee: Mentor: • What went well? What went wrong? • What skills I used today • Would I do anything differently? Any problems?
(mentee, journey etc) • Date & time of next meeting:
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ENDING THE MENTORING• You may come to realise that the mentoring
relationship is just not going to work:• You must ensure that your mentee is given an
opportunity to signal their need for ending.• You need to manage positively any differences that
may have arisen between you and your mentee. • You need to be aware of limits of own competence
and responsibilities.• The ending process needs to include a review and
mutually agreed summary of the interaction between you both.
• In any case, mentoring comes to an end when mentee has had their one year or equivalent.
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PREPARING THE LAST SESSION
• As the end of the programme approaches, decide when your last meeting date will be.
• Prepare your mentee for the approach of the last session by beginning to talk about the end of your meetings together. Begin to do this about three sessions before the last one, and mention the end at every meeting from then on. Give them the date of the last meeting.
• It is recommended that the last session will be only about saying good-bye. Reflect on all the positive aspects of the relationship, be as specific as you can, letting them know what made the meetings successful for you
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PREPARING THE LAST SESSION• Then begin to look at the work you did together, again
being as detailed as possible, and describing what you perceive to be real achievements. Ask them to do the same.
• If you are going to do this work in the last session, and you bring a card for them, then you can mention all these things there, so that they have something written down to go away with.
• Apart from looking back at the work you’ve done together, also look forward. Your mentee will have other support in their lives, and when mentoring is finished, explore who will be supporting them. There is a handout called ‘Support Networks’, if you haven’t already used it with your mentee, do it now. Bring to their attention all the people in their life who will continue to offer support.
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PREPARING THE LAST SESSION• Your mentee may have gained confidence, and
acquired skills which they may want to use by becoming a mentor themselves, sharing with another person their experience of mentoring.
• Decide in advance if you would like to be in contact with them when mentoring has ended, and in what form that contact will take, for example:
• through emails, occasionally exchanging news?• meeting once a month?• phoning for news and update?• sending birthday/religious cards?• will you exchange addresses?
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PREPARING THE LAST SESSION• Finally, the end of the last session – think about
how you would like that to be, for example:• with a hug/handshake?• with a present/card• taking photos of you together?• Endings are as important as beginnings, and can be
painful to experience. It is important, however, to model a positive ending, sharing what’s been good and useful about meeting. This kind of ending lays the foundations for future positive endings for your mentee.
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SUPPORT NETWORKS• Mentoring is about enabling and supporting
others. The notion of support needs looking at closely.
• All of us have people and other sources of support to which we can turn when we need it. But what one person finds supportive another may find inhibiting.
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SUPPORT NETWORKS
doctorfriend
family member
neighbour
partner
work colleague
health visitor
Who gives me support?
voluntary agency
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Mentoring Tools
• Mentoring Wheel• Mentee Assessment Form• Mentor objectives & targets
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• MENTORING WHEEL OF LIFE• Physical • Environment Career• Fun and Recreation• Finances• Health and Fitness• Personal Development• Significant Other / Romance• Friends and Family•
Our life can be represented by the eight areas above. When they are all in balance we feel fulfilled and successful. Assess how fulfilled you feel in each area by drawing a straight or curved line in each segment to create a new outer edge. The centre of the wheel represents 0 ie no fulfillment and the outer edge equals 10 ie complete fulfillments.
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Review & Action Planning
1. What are you feeling now?2. What have you heard or seen today that has
inspired you?3. What changes will you make to you practice
as a result of attending this workshop?
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Mentoring – Socratic Direction
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Developing the protégé by asking the right questions
QuestionsStatements
Pauses
InformationThoughtsOpinions
Socrates
Mentor MenteeQuestion Direction of learning
Answer
Reformulated questionAnswer