Know a bit about what you are questioning about .
You must at least have some idea of what you are talking about.
If not, you will always end up asking dumb questions.
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What is a dumb question?
A question that you could have answered if you just used your brain.
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Be very clear about “what-will-you-achieve” thing.
If you give this a thought, you will appear more intelligent than you really are.
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Asking more questions shows that you are really processing the information they are giving you.
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Look for the points which are very intricate & confusing.
Know the correct answer if you ask a intricate & confusing question.
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Be very particular about it, as your reputation rests on it.
Research thoroughly, if you truly want the image of a MOTHER F***ER SOB, who knows how many hairs are there on his A***OLE.
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Use the most correct grammar and the most correct
pronunciation when you ask the question.
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Speaking the most correct grammar and the most correct pronunciation, clearly & loudly, will establish you as the master of your domain.
Most of the times, it intimidates the person you are talking to.
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When the person finishes his answers, ask questions using words like, What? Who? Where? When? Why? How? Whose?
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As soon as the person fails to answer one of your questions, look unimpressed.
Do not let the person explain or clarify his point, ask another question.
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When the person fails to answer you convincingly, behave apologetically.
This will establish your intelligence subtly in his subconscious brain.
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Never use fillers.
Words like erm…, umm…, uh…, ah…, em…, like…, well…, you know…, you see…, etc should never come out of your mouth.
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If the words are not coming fluently, pause for a while, it is okay to pause.
Moreover, it establishes your authority.
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It clears any misunderstandings and the person understands (or pretend to understand) why those intricate questions were heaped on him.
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It shows that you are trying to show that you are right and the other person is wrong.
It also shows that you are argumentative.
We do not want to create such image.
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If the person gets angry and answers in a confrontational manner, keep on smiling, and this will further aggravate his anger, and he will commit some mistake.
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In such situations always apologize later. Say
"I am sorry that this disturbed you." "I am sorry that we had this misunderstanding." "I apologize, I must have made myself more clear." "Let us figure out what went wrong, and how to set it right.“
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If you feel that the person is beginning to feel uncomfortable and is unable to answer it, it is the exact opportunity to press the question.
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It is impossible that such a situation will not mentally disturb the person, at such instance, most of the people say such things which they should not.
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Always let them complete the answer.
If you want to get the ammunition, listen, and of those answers, you can ask most of the unanswerable questions.
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If it takes more than 1 minute to complete his point, you can tell the person, that he was beating around the bush.
And that he should have cut short, and used fewer words.
This usually embarrass every one.
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If you are unable to ask a question (or counter question) immediately, ask for clarification.
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