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Rob Judgeof
Get Girls, Not Headaches
45 Minutes to Better Game
Amazing things to say!
Smooth strategies!
Under-the-radar attraction techniques!
Secretly we’d all like to know...
Will NOT Help in the Long Run
Sorry, Won’t Do It
Because You Don’t Need to “ADD” Anything to Your
Personality
Challenge YOUR Mindsets
You’re a funny, cool, awesome guy around your friends, but you can’t act that way around women because of how you’relooking at things
Values = Perception
Attraction is a self-fulfilling prophecy
How people treat you reflectshow you see the world. How you
seethe world reflects what you’ve
beentaught to believe.
Get Offended, Get BetterButthurt now will leadimprovement later
You’ve tried adding things to your personality—fail
Try changing your perspective
Why Are You Even Here?
Answer: Women
Say No To Dick-Logic
Advice by MenFor Men
Bromance is OVER
Focus on getting girls,not getting high-fives from
dudes
Focus on Women
Effective communicationwith her and you...
...and THAT’s it.
Empowering Mindsets
See girls as girls
Pickup is not epic warfare
Guess What: Girls Want To Meet Cool
Guys Think About It...
How would your “game” change if you approached girls
believing they wanted to meet you
Much of Pickup Theory...
...indicates you don’t believe the girl wants to meet you
Typical Night OutGuys act like buffoons, don’t understand why they aren’t attracting women
My Best Nights Out
1 Approach, 1 Girl, 1 Happy Rob
The Myth of PerfectionIdeally your “approach” will suck but the girl will like you anyway
The Opener FallacyGreat opener = lots of work to keep up a song-and-dance
Crap opener = lowered expectations
Take the Pressure Off Yourself
And Make It FUNYou’re there to meet girls, right?
So What’s Your MotivationAre you...
Trying to possess women?Improve your pickup skillz? Become more social?Impress all the guys?
Trying to Get the TruthThe Truth About...
HerYou You & Her TogetherWomen in generalDating
Live by the Truth, Get Blown Out by the
Truth It’s not a big
deal...and it’s pretty fucking funny
It’s About You, Then It’s About Her
Action is primary, results are secondary
Effective communication begins with self, ends with the girl—no middleman
How to Effective Communicate with Her
Drive
Inspiration
Connection
Mechanics
Drive: Genuine Sexual Attraction for a Women
She knows. You know.So make it awesome.
Inspiration: Emotional Transparency of Your
Personality Understand how to access your creativity to express yourself
Connection: Creating an Emotionally Relevant
Relationship Build rapport and trust by sharing experiences and emotion—not just biographical facts
Mechanics: The Roadmap for Moving Things Forward
SmoothlyReduce the friction of progressing a romantic relationship forward by knowing the “angles”
Balance: The Secret of Attracting Women
Each element has an appropriate time—and an inappropriate time
Learn to Interact with the 4 Elements, Learn About
YourselfYou are much more attractive, funny, charming, and witty than you give yourself credit for
Get Out and Find the Truth
How many girls have you regretted approaching?
Remember:It’s About You, Then About
Her