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WORKING WITH CHILDREN WITH DISABILITIES: TOOLS FOR PARENTS AND SCHOOLS
NAVIGATING THE SYSTEM: CREATING PARTNERSHIPS FOR K-12
AND POSTSECONDARY OPPORTUNITIES:
“A PARENT’S PERSPECTIVE”
Sue Badeau
[email protected] University , May 18, 2012
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Outline of Remarks• Why a Parent-School Partnership
Matters
• Challenges & Opportunities for Parents– Your Child with Disabilities & the School– Children with “invisible” special needs– Children in Foster Care and/or Juvenile
Justice
• Transition to Adulthood– Exploring post-secondary opportunities
for children with disabilities
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Welcome to Holland
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For Parents - Challenges
Finding the support needed to cope with your own feelings and needs
Navigating multiple systems in order to get the information you need to make wise, informed decisions
Knowing how to prioritize among competing needs to get the best mix of services for your particular child
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You Expect This
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But you get this!
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Challenge for Parents - Knowing we have to work through the struggle to get to progress
– They ask if we are prepared for wheelchairs, but do they ask if we are prepared for the struggle to make real progress?
– Challenge our children to strive for wholeness– Alysia’s story – including 8 PT visits – how to be creative within limits
– Dance made a difference – working with the school to get dance in the IEP and the high school of our choice
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Its All About Climbing the Mountain ~ not getting to the top
- Who sets the goals?
- Who sets the pace?
- How do you know when you arrived?
- There is always another mountain to climb- How do you decide if you - and your child - are successful?
Story of Wayne being placed in a classroom primarily for hearing impaired children
Story of George “may learn to write his name, but not to graduate from high school”
Their Mountaintops
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For Parents - Opportunities
• Believe in your own expertise• Become your child’s primary
advocate• Learn when to fight and when to
collaborate • Become not only part of the team,
but the leader of the team (example of 7 case managers)
• ADAM story – school, pediatrician, hospital
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For Parents - Opportunities~ Create a Toolkit for Success
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Become Familiar with your child’s School
• Get to know the principal and other key staff
• Participate in the “Home/School Association”
• Get to know how your school district operates in terms of budget
• Issues, special education rights of parents, chain of command
• Talk with other parents to learn of typical assignments in various grades
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Do Your Homework
• Observe your child well, record what you see
• Investigate your options
• Know your rights as a parent and your child’s rights
• Keep good notes, document everything – create a “care notebook” (see Medical Home site for samples and resources)
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Develop a Partnership
• Build a relationship• Conduct yourself in
a professional manner
• Be accessible, keep appointments
• When you need to go up the ladder - go up one rung at a time
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Become Part of a Larger Group
• For support
• For information
• For advocacy
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Advocate for Special Services
• Request Evaluation
• Participate at every stage
• Ask “WHY” (a lot!)
• Keep abreast of changes in the law and in local resources
• Normalize your child’s life as much as possible
• Maintain your own sanity
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Challenges For Children in Foster Care or Juvenile Justice
• Educational needs often missed completely or misdiagnosed (David’s deafness)
• Or diagnosed but treatment plan/ IEP not implemented
• Records lost (Janae carrying records in backpack)• And then – starting over again, and again when
placements change• Confusion about who can speak for them
– Role of parent, foster parent, caseworker, placement staff (residential)
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Transition to Adulthood
Equipping child to become their own self-advocateMoving from “family-centered” to “person-centered” model -
http://www.ilr.cornell.edu/edi/pcp/ Learning and engaging new systems – i.e. Vocational
Rehabilitation & Adult Basic EducationDon’t allow “inclusion” practices to work against you at this
stageExamples: Trish & Alysia
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Help Your Child to Speak for Him/Herself at School:
Telling “My Own” Story
• Help your child have the language s/he needs to feel understood
• Help your child to become a self-advocate– http://www.fvkasa.org/
• Help your child practice his/her story• Teach pro-active problem-solving strategies
– Practice responses to difficult situations
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For Educators: Essential Components of Family Engagement
• Honesty & Clarity • Respectful and mutual relationships • Identify everyone’s strengths & roles• Shared responsibility for success
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Traditional Approaches• “The professionals” (Educators, clinicians)
are the experts• The job of the professional is to know
about various problems, have assessment procedures and techniques for intervention
• The job of the family is to comply• The family is primarily identified by its
problems, losses or issues• The family is one-dimensional and their
strengths or talents are not relevant.
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Engagement >> Involvement >> Partnership – A new paradigm
• Why is it so hard?• Establish trust• Communication is frequent
and not solely crisis or problem-centered
• Identify a continuum of possibilities and opportunities for engagement & partnership
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In Conclusion
• For parents of children with special needs, as well as for the youth themselves there are many challenges and many opportunities
• Opportunities often translate to success when meaningful partnerships between parents, schools and providers are established and sustained
• Some particular situations – including foster care, juvenile justice and transitioning into adulthood for all persons with disabilties – require additional supports and advocacy
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Resources for Families
• Family-to-family health information centers and Parent Training & Information Centers www.pacer.org
• Grass-roots family organizations ala Family Voices www.familyvoices.org
• Family-centered care - Medical home initiative - http://www.medicalhomeinfo.org/
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Resources & Promising Practices For Foster Care & JJ youth
• Training & supporting foster parents to become the child’s advocate in schools and communities (PEATC) http://www.peatc.org/
• Involving bio family in appts & decisions
• Equip judges to ask key questions via benchguides -Casey (education)
• Clearinghouse for best practice http://www.cachildwelfareclearinghouse.org/
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Resources for Transition to Adulthood
• Health & Ready to Work Initiative http://www.hrtw.org/• Kids as Self Advocates http://www.fvkasa.org/• Jim Casey Youth Opportunities Initiative
http://www.jimcaseyyouth.org/• Foster Club http://www.fyi3.com/• Berkshire Hills Music Academy http://berkshirehills.org/• Threshold Program
http://www.lesley.edu/threshold/threshold_home.htm• Vermont Work Incentive Initiative
http://www.uiowa.edu/~lhpdc/work/States/Vt/Vermont_Overview_Presentation_Development.ppt