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Dress Code Issues/Reminders:• Shorts/Skirts – Mid-thigh in length (not
fingertips)
• Spaghetti straps, tank tops not allowed
• Shirts/blouses should cover undergarments; we don’t want to see straps
• No athletic shorts – period!
• T-shirts/clothing should not have inappropriate words or references to sex, alcohol or drugs
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Some Safety Issues:• Only 4 doors unlocked/monitored before
school
• Do Not let strangers in locked doors! They must enter through a monitored door. Think safety!
• Know the evacuation plan – students report to their advisory teachers on the field.
• Know what to do in other situations: Lockdown, Severe Weather Evacuation, etc.
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A Respectful
School
Highland Park Middle School
2013-2014
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Objectives• Review school expectations
about put-downs and bully prevention
• Understand how to build a respectful school climate
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Respect (from the dictionary)• Respect is…
• …showing high regard for an authority, other people, self and country
• …treating others as you would want to be treated
• …understanding that all people have value as human beings
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No Put Down Policy • From the Student Handbook
(Agenda Book):
• Verbal or non-verbal negative expressions for the purpose of making someone feel inferior
• Put Downs are not tolerated
• Classroom Behavior – Teachers Domain
• Hallways/Cafeteria – can be a problem
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Bullying – Definition:• When a student or group of
students engages in:
• Written or verbal expression, expression through electronic means or physical conduct that occurs:• On school property,• At a school sponsored or related
event,• Or in a vehicle operated by the
school, And …
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Bullying – Definition:• The HPISD School Board or
Administrators determines that the behavior:• Has the effect of physically harming a
student, damaging a student’s property, or placing the student in reasonable fear of harm to person or property, or
• Is sufficiently severe, persistent and pervasive enough that the action or threat creates an intimidating, threatening or abusive educational environment.
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Bullying - Definition• This conduct is considered
bullying if it:• Exploits an imbalance of power
between the student engaging in bullying and the victim through written or verbal expression or physical conduct, and
• Interferes with a student’s education or substantially disrupts the operation of a school.
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What is Bullying? Key Concepts:
• Written or verbal expression, expression through electronic means or physical conduct,
• Has the effect of causing physical harm, damaging property, or causing fear of harm,
• Is severe, persistent and pervasive enough that it creates an intimidating, threatening or abusive educational environment
• Exploits an imbalance of power, and
• Interferes with a student’s education or substantially disrupts the operation of a school.
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Bullying Examples• Verbal aggression
• Name calling• Teasing• Threatening
• Social aggression• Spreading rumors• Exclusion from a group• Facebook Posts• Instagram
• Physical aggression• Hitting• Kicking• Destroying property
• Intimidation• Graffiti• Dirty tricks• Note writing• Texting
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Cyber-Bullying• Use of an electronic
communication device(s) to engage in bullying or to threaten students, teachers, volunteers, etc.
• Includes posts, texts, messages, Instagram, etc., that are harassing, threatening, obscene or damaging someone’s reputation.
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Cyber-Bullying• Actions occur on or off school
property
• Key phrase: “Interferes with a student’s education or substantially disrupts the operation of a school.”
• Thus it creates an intimidating or threatening environment.
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Cyber-Safety• Remember: When you post
something or hit “Send,” it is Public and Permanent!
• Pictures, FB posts, etc. Think before you “Send!”
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Reporting Bullying• Bullying is not tolerated by the district and any student
or parent who believes that a student has experienced bullying or that a student has engaged in bullying is encouraged to immediately report the incident.
• Retaliation against anyone involved in the complaint process is a violation of district policy and is prohibited.
• Students or parents may report an alleged incident of bullying, orally or in writing, to a teacher, counselor, principal or other district employee.
• More information about the district’s bullying policy can be found in the campus administration office or school board policies FFI(LEGAL) and FFI(LOCAL) at www.hpisd.org.
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Sexual Harassment• Comments or actions of a sexual
nature which are unwelcome and make the recipient uncomfortable
• Coerced, unethical, and unwanted intimacy
• Comments or actions are repetitive; creating an intimidating/threatening environment
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Sexual Harassment Examples• Rude sounds
• Whistling suggestively
• Jokes about sex
• Gestures
• Graffiti
• Unwelcome physical contact
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Have you ever been a… ?(Please don’t raise your
hand!)
• Victim or Target
• Bully
• Bystander
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What is a bystander?• Not actively involved as a bully
or target
• Remain silent or inactive when bullying occurs
• Aware of bullying, but unable or unwilling to take action
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Why do people “stand by”?• Don’t know what to do
• Afraid of retaliation
• Afraid to make the situation worse
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Consequences for bystanders:How does the bystander feel?
• Anxiety and guilt
• Loss of self-respect and self-confidence
• Desensitized to negative behaviors, diminished empathy for others
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Be A Courageous Bystander!• Don’t be part of the “Silent
Majority”
• All it takes sometimes is ONE PERSON
• Take responsibility for creating safe and respectful school
• “Lend A Hand” to the Target (an acronym/things to do to help the victim)
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Courageous Bystander:• Let bully know it’s not okay
• (Show) Empathy to the Target
• Never bully back
• Distract the bully – make conversation with the bully
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Courageous Bystander• Ask an adult for help
• Hang out with the target; let them know you care
• Ask the target to join your group
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Courageous Bystander• Never cheer the bully on,
laugh, encourage or stand around and watch
• Don’t ignore the bullying; it will only get worse
• “Lend A Hand”
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If you’re bullied: “Take a Stand”• An acronym for the target/things he/she
can do:
• Tell an adult – parent, teacher, counselor, administrator
• Agree with the bully - use sarcasm: “Thank you; Thanks for sharing”
• Keep friends close; walking the halls
• Emotions – share, don’t bully back
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If bullied or targeted.…….• Avoid the bully – walk a
different route
• Stand up for yourself – “Leave me alone; Stop making fun of me; That’s not funny.”
• Talk to someone about how you feel – Counselor, safe adult, friends, parents
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If bullied or targeted……..• Ask the bully questions – “Why
are you doing that?”
• Never bully back – but be assertive
• Don’t show fear – but show that you can be confident/assertive
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Don’t be a victim…• Don’t laugh it off if it offends you. This
sends the wrong message.
• Don’t hesitate to tell your teacher, counselor, principal, and/or parents.
• Don’t ignore the situation. This can lead to a cycle of ongoing harassment and victimization.
• Harassment is not your fault!
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Our Goal – To Build A Respectful School
• Respect between peers
• Respect between students and teachers
• Respect for our school traditions