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DYNAMIC
COMMUNICATIONS
FOR THE
DYNAMICALLY
CHALLENGEDEDWARD YOUNG
My Story:
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Have you heard this lie???
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The best communicators know who to blame:“I AM RESPONSIBLE:”
WHAT WE WILL COVER!!
Why here? Why now?
Communication Model.
Recognize your communication default position and how it relates
to others communication styles.
Listening skills and what to LOOK for.
Email; Communicate for change; and Bridge Building.
Why it matters to you:
15% of our success comes from our
technical skills, but 85% will come
from how well we communicate with
others.”
Brian Tracy
The Psychology of Achievement
Communication Model
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Drive a car:
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What is
important to
you?
Groups of 3 or 4.
One is the expert.
The others are novices.
The expert write down the three most
important things one must know to drive a
car.
Novices write down the three things you
most want to know.
Do not collaborate. One minute.
GO!
Debrief:
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Define teamwork:
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What is your style?
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Breakdown of Population
17% are D.
17% are I.
17% are C.
49% are S.
Important to a “D”: might say.
Win.
Bottom Line
Looking good
Right now
Challenge
Best
What is the “I”
in it for?
Fun!!!
Socialize.
Recognition
Excitement
Says something like, “Picture this!!”
PEOPLE!!
What a “C” wants to see.
“Just the facts Ma'am”
More data the better.
Proof of everything
“C’s” do not want to be
rushed—give them time.
Analyze Guarantee
“S” searches
for these:
Step-by-Step. Collaboration.
Promise, trust.Time to think
about it.
Feelings of everyone.
How would you do it?
discpersonalitytesting.com/free-disc-test/
Email:--
how to be
“DA BOSS”
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What is your sign?
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NO
FLAMING!!
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Pyramid to change behavior
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Six steps on the
pyramid of change.
6-What can I do to help you make this
happen?
5-If not then…..
4-The correction must be seen by.
3-This is what we expect
2-This is what you’re doing is causing.
1-This is what you're doing.
A true sorry.
This is what I did.
This is what it caused.
This is my plan to make sure I will not make this same mistake.
Is there anything else you would like to see from me?
Then; be like Nike and JUST DO IT!!
Listening: A key to dynamic communication.
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SIX LETTERS
BSAINXLEATNTEARS
The greatest need of every human soul is to be validated,
understood, and appreciated.” Stephen Covey
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Three
Obstacles to
Listening:
Rate of speech vs. hearing speed.
Loss of objectivity.
Busy planning response.
What do you like about your job?
Teams of two.
One person list 5 things you like
about your job. You have 1
minute.
Person two you will have a
chance to respond.
Communication Model
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Listening with your eyes:
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Communication break down.
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Shall we play a game?
Well that went well
Say these words, only these
words in this exact order but
change the meaning with
how you say them.
Body language
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7-11, it’s
not just
a store
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In first 7 seconds, 11 impressions
and 3 decisions.
1. Clean
2. Attractive
3. Credible
4. Knowledgeable
5. Responsive
6. Friendly
7. Helpful
8. Understanding
9. Courteous
10. Confident
11. Professional
Three decisions about you are made:
Like you.Like
Dislike you.Dislike
Dismiss you.Dismiss
On your feet for a game of “ED SAYS!”
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Communicate
long and prosper!
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