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Page 1: Emotional Intelligence, Mindfulness, Empathy, Empathic Listening: Quotes and Tips

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56 Tips & Quotes for Emotional Intelligence, Mindfulness, Empathy,

Empathic Listening

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Wrong: How would you feel “in his boots”

Right: Put your ego back, how do they feel?

Empathy Tip 1A

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Wrong: Empathy cannot be learned.Right: Cognitive empathy can be

trained, emotional empathy (feel how someone feels) cannot be learned.

Empathy Tip 2A

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Wrong: Empathy is weakness.Right: Empathy is knowledge,

knowledge is power!

Empathy Tip 3A

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Wrong: Empathy is the same as sympathy.

Right: Empathy is judgement free.

Empathy Tip 4A

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Wrong: Empathy means shared values.

Right: You neither have to like nor tolerate someone else's view. Empathy is understanding someone's motives.

Empathy Tip 5A

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Wrong: Empathy means excessive public display of emotions.

Right: Emotionally intelligent people are in control of their emotions.

Empathy Tip 6A

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Wrong: Empathy is the same as compassion.

Right: You can understand someone else's emotions and motives without

liking them or caring.

Empathy Tip 7A

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Wrong: Empathy is for pussies.Right: Empathy is considered an

important leadership skill.

Empathy Tip 8A

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Wrong: Empathy is always “good”.Right: Empathy can be used for

manipulating people for good or bad.

Empathy Tip 9A

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Stay in bed a few minutes longer and focus only on your breath, emotions and physical

experiences.

Mindfulness Tip 1 - MorningA

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Make your shower a mindfulness practice: “Empty” your brain and

only experience the feeling of every step of the process.

Mindfulness Tip 2 - MorningA

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When you walk around focus on your breath and every single

step only.

Mindfulness Tip 3 - During the dayA

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Eat mindful. Experience your food with all senses: Look at it, smell it,

(if applicable) touch it, taste it, experience the consistence and how it changes while you chew.

Mindfulness Tip 4 - Breakfast, lunch, dinnerA

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Put back your ego, beliefs and value system and

listen

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Use fewer filler words and buzzwords

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If you feel uncomfortable change the setting and

analyze what exactly causes that feeling.

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Be assertive. Neither aggressive nor pushy -

just assertive.

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Give (heartfelt) compliments.

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Don't finish other's sentences. LISTEN.

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Use the right words instead of buzzwords or trying to sound fancy.

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Don't send mixed messages. Your expression and the sound of your

voice should be in accordance with your words.

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Expect the best. When in doubt, assume it's meant

positive.

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Say what you think! What you have to say

IS important.

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Keep negative feedback on point.

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Look people in the eyes.

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Undivided Attention = Don't play with your cell in

conversations.

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Ask questions and reflect your understanding back.

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Learn to say “No”

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Receive feedback positively.

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Value yourself and your opinions. They matter.

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Be vulnerable. Vulnerable people are more likeable.

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Don't listen to your “gut” feeling, it might be clouded by fear.

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Be authentic!

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Do not assume you know what someone is about to

say. Listen.

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Try to understand not just the facts but also the

emotions.

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It's ok to interrupt if you need to ask a question for

better understanding.

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Stay focused. Don't lose focus on what you're

going to say next.

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Look your conversation partner in the eyes most

of the time, don't look away.

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Emotionally intelligent people are able to influence change.

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A high EQ leads to better relationships in business

and life.

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People with a high EQ are able to form emotional

connections.

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Emotionally intelligent people are in control of

their emotions and actions.

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People with a high EQ are able to deal with

emotional pain in a constructive way.

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Emotional Intelligence enables us to “chase away” demons of the

past.

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People with a high EQ are better and more likeable

leaders.

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A high EQ enables you to deal with setbacks and

failure easily.

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A flop will never hurt as long as “I should have”

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The opposite of optimism is cynicism

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The best source of confidence are inner values. Nobody can take them away from you!

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You can't live a positive life with a negative mind

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I travelled a lot. But I have never met a common

person.

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Dare to Dream!Dream big!

ButDream your own Dream!

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Success is HappinessHappiness is individual

Success is what makes YOU happy!

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Who is not happy with what he has would not be happy with what he wants

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