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  • EquallyokedSo, How Do You Know?Liberal Arts and Humanities(Equally Yoked)

  • what Endogamy meansEndogamy means, in-marriage and is when an individual according to his/or her own social customs (comment: this maybe more like community (psychosocial) health, such as, a social mores or even an actual practiced religious law). .marries an another individual within his or her own cultural Social group*. *Note; a Social group a tribe, a sect or cult, or a even a de facto Civil Identity,..

    Equallyoked (also spelled, Equally yoked) is a term used to identify a couple in a multicultural society who share the very same (or at least nearly equal) civil identities and who may be either going steady, engaged, married, or married with children.

  • the Homogenous CoupleMutually Favorites:

    MusicArtFoodRecreation

    Laugh at Same JokesShare in Favorite RestaurantsSeeks similar Entertainment and Movie Genres Seeks same Vacation Spot Destinations

    Marriage, Family, and Child PsychologyThey like the same.more of a colloquial term

    Homogenous couples are not equallyoked couples however, an equallyoked couple may be homogenous as well.

  • Understanding theTermsEqually-yokedSocial Science i.e., Clinical Social Psychology

    Defined: A Dyadic (Spouses) with the Same Civil Identity Equally YokedReligious i.e, Holy Bible /Christian /Doctrinal

    Defined: A Couple with the Same Civil Identity with a focus on Same Religion and the Same Spirit especially. EquallyokedSecular i.e, Social Ethics /Justice /Social Mores

    Defined: A Homogamous Pair with the Same Civil Identity

    Note: Pronounced the same and colloquially used interchangeably - practically meaning the same to all.Lexicon: Definition of Terms

    For ethical purposes in the social sciences

  • Civil Identity Civil identity is a Social Psychology term describing an individuals collective of features concerning his or her present: ethnicity, political party membership, race, color, religious membership, disability/handicap, age/generation, (proper) sexual orientation, and marital status.2 Also, see Self-identity-Social Psychology/Self and Identity

  • Biopsychosociocultural Model

    BiologicCivil IdentityPsychologicSocialCultureSexDisabilityColorRaceDisabilityEthnicityMartial StatusBelief/CreedSexRaceColorFOOTNOTE: To a lesser or greater degree of mental disability always coexists with any physical disability and so it is therefore that with a mental disability a physical disability or a biochemical imbalance is coexistent-affecting/or effecting an individuals civil identity. SocialReligionMartial Status+sexual pleasure preferencesPoliticalPartyPoliticalParty-Social Psychology/Self and Identity

  • Civil Identity1Ethnicity: Politics: Religion: Race: Color: Age: Sex: FemaleSexual (pleasure preference) Orientation:Marital status: Civil Identity is actually a unique mosaic of ones present: Ethnicity, Political Party, Race, Color, Religion, Disability, Sex, Sexual (Pleasure Preference) Orientation, Marital Status, Family Status, .. Ethnicity: Politics: Religion: Race: Color: Age: Sex: MaleSexual (pleasure preference) Orientation:Marital status: Civil Identity2-Introduction to Sociology: Soc101

  • understanding basic Social Moresa basic rule within a specific cultural groupObedience to this cultural groups rule results in formal and casual social acceptance..the foundation of all community laws within a culture began with a specific social mores..In order for there to be a continuance of culture such social mores are formally and casually observedSocial mores are r/t mental and social wellbeing..Socialization, childrearing, marriage, and mate selection are founded up good social mores.

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  • . Social Mores: +|-Equallyoked

    Good self-esteemSpiritual maturitya high level moralitySocial resilienceStable family valuesQuality of relationshipFinancial security

    Unequally yoked

    False self-imageDrug abuse implicatedImmaturity/immorality Lying/deceptionFun over factsDestruction of family lineage

    -Social Psychology: SocPsy202

    Living a lie about sexuality -> lying about civil identity too. equally yoked - Its the right thing to do its righteous there is righteousness in it.

  • morality and Social MoresThe definition of morality and Social Mores has changed and evolved into a more multifaceted meaning

    Good mental health values expressed openly Social manifestation of intrinsic positive moral codes e.g., positive existential and/or spiritual ideologies, Extrinsicallypositive social customs and norms: Proper social conduct and manners, Polite meaningful social etiquette, and Positive social standards of behaviors Acceptable health habits that comprise a healthy lifestyle and are binding for optimal wellness and longevity yet differ according to individual group.

    -Social Psychology: SocPsy303

  • ..having a Look at MoralityA Check List:Sensibility about Moral valuesIdentify certain Habits and lifestyleHistory of abiding in proper Social Mores

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  • so, what Now?Beware of: Any potential Equally Yoked (Equallyoked) Help Meet WHO does

    NOT want to meet, and....Become acquainted with....Your family of origin, or.. ..Your relatives,....and

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  • is a Sloppy DresserUnless your Equally Yoked Help Meet is on a deployed night mission or on a police SWAT team, BEWARE of those dressing in very very dark solid colors such as all black:..coat....shoes&socks....pants....shirt&t-shirt....hat!

    A NinjaA Cat BurglarMotorcycle MilitantA Witch in Costume

    All black hearse with black tires and black attire-seems appropriate for some cultures.

  • doesnt Get Along with Parents

    ..Never Calls home..Never Writes to relatives..Never VISITS family

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  • ..acquainted with Shady Characters

    peers were prison cell mates..has gangster/or organized crime-associates..hangs out with Street people or those who are involved in illegal acts

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  • tells Off-Color Stories

    ..blurts out with a sense of Ill-humor..tells unusually perverted tales..is full of Offbeat Jokes

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    Cusses, profanity,

  • ...brags/has a Shifty- lifework

    ..has a history of Unemployment..has been Fired from a good jobhas Quit a job or walked off..has no shows to work

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    A job the job of no show, the job of quiting, the job of perpetrating in some way getting fired!

  • ..gives a lot of Hard-Luck Stories

    ..about being a crime victim..about lack of love or affection...about having NO money

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  • makes Excuses/or Apologies alot

    Sorry, doesnt have the Time ..other People are making me do it..short or low on Money (no money)

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  • definitely is a Blamer

    ..finding faults in other people..Plays the blame game alot..has a loud 5th columnist attitude and is an anti-government activist

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  • tendency to tell Little Lies

    ..criticizes others - to look (self) better ..Exagerates a little to gain something..tries to cover up something

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  • is a Petty Cheat

    ..tries to get-an-edge or/and take more than ones fair share..looks for little ways to quickly grab-and-go ..takes a wee bit more of an advantage over others some how in some way

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  • ..trys to Arrange Being Alone alot

    to have get away together..arranges for specific special dates..tries for private celebration activities

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  • is a Quick Promiser..to get a favor..to score relationship points ..in order to gain some (self) advantage

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  • is Overly Personal

    ..talks in front of others about you....tells your friends about Youre quirks..this and that..about your private business and/or about the personal you

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  • is a Borrower

    ..it is Little things at firstLater, larger and more valuable thingsSmall amount of money and then,..

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  • is a Credit card Charger

    ..uses credit cards excessively..applies for any and all credit cards..is a compulsive spender/over charger

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    credit card mall spending addiction/shop-o-holics

  • is ill at ease in Company

    ..makes excuses to avoid people..arrives late/leaves early at social events ..would rather forgo most events

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  • condones an Evil Act

    ..makes a bad Omen about a person got what he or she deserves..if somebody leaves - Good riddens

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  • speaks for the Both of You

    ..interrupts your conversations..tells others in front of you about your ..tries to prevent you from talking to others

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  • ridicules Your Moral Code

    your personal beliefsyour manners - behavioral standards..your familys social ethics

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    even with facial gestures or behind others back/sneaky

  • doesnt participate in Religion

    ..has a history of no religion..goes out of the way to avoid..or very little participation at all

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  • quick to tell of Old Ways

    I used to be a..misdemeanors and Felonies/Crime..other Infractions of lawa faked out someone, was a phony

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  • ..an Unequally Yoked - Player..uses people to their disadvantage..is a player of Unequallyoked relationships..Exploits people who know people

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  • a few Formal PerspectivesAn equally-yoked relationship is born when both civil identities of the couple are rather matched, not mismatched.

    A couple is considered equally yoked when both individuals have a civil identity that is the same or at least fairly equal.

    The equallyoked couple may have exactly the same or very similar civil identities.

    - Marriage and Family Therapy- Social Psychology Research: Reference Couple Indices- Sociology 101

  • ..fulfilling an Equallyoked CoupleshipA few fulfilling features an equallyoked coupleship: honesty, vulnerability, mutual respect for healthy boundaries, a full range of emotions, constructive ambition, sharing of personal philosophy of life, full expression of love, admiration, and respect, high level self-esteem, excellent communication, true bonding, fun times together, really healthy sex, negotiation with supportiveness, activity variety, commitment, seeing the best in one another for the best outcome, true love, etc.

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  • Please Read - DisclaimerThe viewer must assume all responsibility in an understanding of the topic associated with the presentation facts and truths fore stated.Issues that differ within diverse sociocultural perspectives should be decided upon on an individual bases and not to taken too generally.Limitations in intellectual understanding and grammar must been taken into account and decided upon when using this material for educational practical use.This presentation is to be used for educational purposes only.Liberal Arts and Humanities

  • EquallyokedNow You Know!A Liberal Arts and Humanities Presentation(Equally Yoked)

    Equallyoked (also spelled, Equally yoked) is a term used to identify a couple in a multicultural society who share the very same (or at least nearly equal) civil identities and who may be either going steady, engaged, married, or married with children. Homogenous couples are not equallyoked couples however, an equallyoked couple may be homogenous as well.For ethical purposes in the social sciencesLiving a lie about sexuality -> lying about civil identity too. equally yoked - Its the right thing to do its righteous there is righteousness in it. All black hearse with black tires and black attire-seems appropriate for some cultures. Cusses, profanity, A job the job of no show, the job of quiting, the job of perpetrating in some way getting fired!

    credit card mall spending addiction/shop-o-holicseven with facial gestures or behind others back/sneaky