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July-August 2011
CONTENTS
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Cover photo by Grey Hutton Photography
Extraordinary Profiles
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Cover Story—
Nicko Williamson–London’s Green Entrepreneur Achieves Success with
Climatecars
63 Susan Ellis—From Challenge Comes
Knowledge and Triumph Inspiration
68 Doors of Opportunity Usually Swing Open on the Hinges of Adversity
70 Stacy Hawkins Adams in Profile
72 Turning Challenges into Opportunities
73 Summer Self-Care
The Lighter Side
75 Water, Water, Everywhere
79 Profile Resources
80 Writers and Contributors
Focus intently upon your life's passion. Focus intently upon your life's passion. Focus intently upon your life's passion. Focus intently upon your life's passion. Don't lose sight of your goal.Don't lose sight of your goal.Don't lose sight of your goal.Don't lose sight of your goal.
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Thank you...Founder, Monica DavisThank you...Founder, Monica DavisThank you...Founder, Monica DavisThank you...Founder, Monica Davis
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How manyHow manyHow many of us can say that
at age 22 we
wanted to become
an entrepreneur?
Londoner Nicko
Williamson did
just that. While
attending Marlbor-
ough College he
envisioned himself
becoming his own
boss, but more impor-
tantly, he wanted to
make a significant con-
tribution to his coun-
try’s environment.
Nicko is beginning
to see the fruits of
his labor after three
years of hard work
that he spent to begin
his company Climate-
cars.
Not only is he fulfilling
his dream as an entrepre-
neur and contributing to
changing London’s environ-
ment, but Nicko’s entrepre-
neurial endeavor has become
an asset to London’s economy.
He employs 60 plus employees.
In today’s world that’s a major
feat, especially for the 27 year-
old entrepreneur extraordinaire.
Nicko’s dream behind Climatecars
was to introduce a vehicle that
would have lower levels of
emissions, thereby helping to
create a greener environment.
He is succeeding, and his goal is
to become the first company to
provide a 100% emission-free
taxi service within a few years.
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Monica: What was your vision behind starting Climate-
cars?
Nicko: My vision was an eco-friendly taxi company. I
could see that everybody was using taxis. Taxis are in-
credibly popular in London. I thought why not make this
green? I couldn’t see a reason why it couldn’t be green. I
started looking at gas conversion as my first idea. I was
going to convert them to run on LPG, liquefied petroleum
gas, which has a lower emission than petrol or diesel. I
then decided that really wasn’t the way because I couldn’t
get it to work or make the emissions savings stack up.
About that time the new generation of Toyota Prius came
out and it was the obvious thing to use.
We didn’t have to convert the Toyota Prius. If you com-
pare a Prius to a standard black taxi, which are what most
people use to get around town, the emissions on the new
model Prius is around 89 grams per kilometer. The black
cab is around 230 and at the high end 260 or 270 grams per
kilometer. So the savings are vast and there’s no difficulty
in doing it. We didn’t have to charge more for our service.
Although there is no lower level of service, I wanted to cre-
ate something that was better than our competitors.
We have leather seats in all of our cars and we give away a
special environmentally friendly branded bottle of water in
all of our cars. We’ve got magazines and smart drivers
who deliver great service.
I want to be the car company that people or companies will
use while feeling good about themselves while sharing and
caring about the environment. But we’re also giving them
great service.
Monica: I would imag-
ine that you had to
acquire
fund-
Climatecars has changed the tone of London’s taxicab
industry. Nicko saw a need and quickly began to find a
way to fill it. As the top green cab company, Nicko
wanted to ensure that his customers would not sacrifice
comfort and convenience. As a matter of fact, Climate-
cars offers enhanced customer service, from the time that
the customers are picked up until they arrive at their des-
tinations.
Let’s take an interesting trip into Nicko’s entrepreneurial
dream as he shares his experience with Exceptional Peo-
ple Magazine.
Monica: Tell me about yourself in terms of growing up
– your high school years.
Nicko: I went to school called Marlborough College in
Wiltshire, which is a boarding school. From there I grew
up in the countryside and I had a rather nice upbringing.
At about age 18 or 19 I went to Bristol University and
studied Modern History which of course is a bit unrelated
to what I’m doing now.
But that was my main degree and when I was there I was
always thinking about what I was going to be doing while
my friends were applying to become investment bankers
and entering other professions. I wanted to start my own
business, so it was while at Bristol that I actually had the
idea for Climatecars.
It started during my last year at the university while I was
writing my dissertation. I was scribbling down ideas
about Climatecars and it progressed to the point where I
began writing a business plan.
Upon leaving Bristol University I began to focus on Cli-
matecars in 2006. It took me a year after leaving
Bristol to start the company.
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ing. How were you able to get the funding and what
challenges if any, did you encounter in trying to fund
your idea?
Nicko: Lots of challenges. When I left the university, I
was 22 years old. I had never run a business, never
worked for anybody though I had participated in some
internships. I didn’t have a lot of credible experience
behind me. I knew a lot of entrepreneurs and I sought a
lot of advice. One of them told me to go work for a taxi
company in London, pick apart the business, to under-
stand and build myself a bible, as it were, on how to op-
erate this type of business. So at age 22, I went off and did
that. I really came to understand the process. I went back
to the entrepreneur and he was quite surprised that I did it.
He began advising and mentoring me. By this time I was in
a good position because I had a business plan and I had also
attended London Business School which is the business
equivalent of Harvard or Yale in the United States.
I approached them with the idea and asked for help. They
put two MBA students on it, and we actually entered a
business planning competition. It was called a Global So-
cial Venture Competition which is a competition for busi-
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nesses with an environmental or social impact. These
two individuals were able to help me with the numbers
and I was able to build a solid, robust business plan. I
then approached a network of people who I knew had
funds they may want to invest. I explained what I wanted
to do -- I was trying to raise £200,000 to start the busi-
ness.
A number of them said yes. I submitted the plan and it’s
amazing. The first person that I sent my business plan to
contacted me and said he would give me £50,000. An-
other person came along and gave me £25,000 and an-
other gave
£20,000. I was
over half way
and suddenly
the rest of it
kind of fell into
place. I man-
aged to get a
few relatives to
contribute as
well.
It was all equity
funding and I
sold 30 percent
of the company
back in 2007.
That allowed
me to be ade-
quately capital-
ized. I also
leased vehicles
and that gave
me capital that
I needed to
start.
Monica: When you were
learning how to
run a business
by working for
a rival taxi
company, how
long did that
process take?
Nicko: About
three months. I
was young and impatient, so I literally crawled all over the
business, spoke to everybody, trying to identify their weak-
nesses. I could have spent more time and I probably should
have spent more time, to be honest. I probably would have
avoided some mistakes. It wasn’t a very well-run business,
so I didn’t want to shape my business based on that busi-
ness. I just wanted to learn from their mistakes and under-
stand the market.
I had a timeframe in my head that I wanted to get this done
within a year from leaving the university. It was just before
Christmas that I left the company and allowed myself a
couple of months to raise cash, get an office and hire peo-
ple. It was a bit hurried but I feel when you have momen-
tum you need to push on with it.
Monica: What makes your eco-friendly car different from
other eco-friendly cars?
Nicko: There are other companies doing a similar thing in
London. We were one of the first, but now other compa-
nies have realized it’s a sensible move to use the Toyota
Prius technology.
The differentiating factor with us is that we offer a really
great service with lots of extras and added value beyond
what other companies offer. We offer more of a corporate
car service than a normal taxi service at a very competitive
price. So it’s not just the eco-friendly side. It’s the little
things such as when you get picked up from the airport,
there’s a cold bottle of water waiting for you and a driver
meeting you in a suit that looks smart and will help you
with your bags. It comes down to great service. It’s the
core of our business.
Monica: Your goal is to combine ecology, economy and
innovation to provide the most comfortable service.
Nicko: That was one of our initial goals. We’re now
working on new innovations. I’ve hired a new operations
director this year who has mostly taken on the day-to-day
operations which has freed up a lot of my time to allow me
to focus on strategy. So what I’m doing now is looking at
the next stage of the business, which is going to be running
a fleet of totally electric cars and also combing that with
range extending hybrids. We’re going to be using the U.K.
version of the Chevy Volt and Renault bringing out a range
of electric vehicles as early as next year. By this time next
year we’ll have a much better range of vehicles and a wider
range of services, again with lower emissions while striving
to be the greenest car or taxi company around.
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Monica: Who are your customers or clients?
Nicko: Corporate clients mainly. Ninety percent of our
revenue comes from business customers and they range
from one very large U.S. Investment bank, to Unilever,
radio stations, ad agencies and others. We have a very
diverse client base. My goal has been to spread our cli-
ents as widely as possible and not have too many clients
taking up too much of our turnover. Our largest clients
are no more than 15 to 20% turnover. That gives us sta-
bility so that if we were to lose a client, we won't go bust.
Monica: Your service is becoming a luxury taxi service?
Nicko: I wouldn’t use the word luxury because I don’t
want people to be put off by price. We are very cost-
sensitive and we offer services at a good value price. It’s
no more expensive than any of our competitors. It’s actu-
ally often cheaper than the black cab over about two
miles. We offer high quality
and good value car service.
We have a lot of cash and
credit card customers, so if
you’re ever in London and
you want to book one of our
cars, you can ring us up 24
hours a day or book online.
Anybody can book our cars.
Monica: The average per-
son can use your service?
Nicko: Yes, they can call
anytime, 24 hours a day, 265
days a year.
Monica: Your vision is to
provide first class service. Your customer service has
several components. I'll outline a few of them for you to
expand on:
The first one is reliability – how do you provide reliabil-
ity to your customers?
Nicko: We use a lot of technology. We’ve invested very
heavily in very good software and hardware so that we
have vehicle tracking. All of our vehicles are dispatched
through our computer system which means that the jobs
the drivers get are sent through PDA, and we can see ex-
actly where the driver is. If the customer is running late,
we can quickly change things around. We are able to
monitor every part of the process, which means we are able
to provide reliable service.
Monica: What value do you bring to your customers?
Nicko: We give great service at the right price and at the
lowest possible emissions you can get for this type of ser-
vice. We’re not providing limo service but a very comfort-
able service that’s going to show up on time to get you to
your destination on time.
Monica: What about comfort?
Nicko: Again, we offer things like leather seats, mineral
water, nice clean cars, drivers who will turn the air condi-
tioning to whatever temperature you want, generally good
quality service. It’s all about comfort and service. People
who decide to use us will use us often because of our green
credentials.
Monica: How have Climatecars impacted the economy in
London? Have you been able to measure the success that
the car is having on London’s economy?
Nicko: Not particularly in relation to the economy as a
whole. We’ve grown tremendously. I would say it’s the
whole product or service that we’re providing. We’ve been
going for four years and last year for example, we did £2.2
million of turnover. It’s been growing really nicely and
we’re planning on doing over £3 million next year. Assum-
ing things continue to go well, I think it’s having a very
positive affect on the economy in London.
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Nicko: A lot of hard work and pretty good marketing. It’s
a solid idea and decent product. We’ve gone into an exist-
ing market and tweaked the product so that it works better
and is different and interesting. I think that’s where the
success comes from. We’re not trying to invent something
new and revolutionary; we’re tweaking an existing product
and it allows us to enter a market and receive decent market
share fairly quickly because people need this service.
We’re very proud of our brand.
Monica: From a business standpoint what are some impor-
tant lessons you’ve learned since starting the company?
Nicko: Oh, lots of things, just being willing to try things.
The first is cash flow. It’s obviously a very cash-intensive
business. We’ve been profitable for quite a while now but
to begin with, it was very tough to run the business when
you’re not making money and lots of companies are delay-
ing payment terms, and things like that. One of the key
things I’ve learn is managing cash. I think you have to
keep innovating. I think you have to make sure you have a
good story that’s well marketed, and a good sales team. I
started off doing all the sales myself but we now have two
people who also do sales and marketing for us. That’s very
important.
Also, along the cash flow line, make sure you have a very
good numbers person. We’re lucky to have a finance direc-
tor who is very helpful and it means we’re very much on
top of the key metrics of the business. It’s extremely im-
portant that if you’re going to run anything operational that
Monica: Absolutely. You’re putting people to work.
Nicko: Yes. We have over 60 drivers as well as an of-
fice staff. It’s becoming a big business but we’re scaling
it up. We’re not going to continue to do the same thing.
We’re going to keep innovating ,and there will be other
services that are complimentary to this one.
Monica: Your aim is to be the first zero emissions car
service. How far are you from reaching that goal?
Nicko: We’re getting quite close. We’ve got the electric
vehicles coming early next year and these cars will gener-
ally be zero emissions. There’s always the part of where
we get the electricity from. There’s a lack of renewable
electricity in the U.K., which is a bit of a problem. But
we will be providing cars that do not emit any CO2 at all
when they’re driving around town. They’ll be purely
electric.
We’re within a year for part of our fleet to get to that
point, but we’re quite a ways off for the whole fleet be-
cause we need to do some longer distance trips as well.
The issue you have with electric vehicles is range. The
ones we’re using are going to have about a 100 mile
range to them, so we’re only going to be able to have a
portion of our fleet solely electric. The remainder will be
range-extending hybrids and other new technology.
Monica: What do you attribute to the success of your
company?
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difficult to say how we would have done it, looking back.
The right people are generally attracted to some form of
success, but when you’re starting a business from scratch,
you have no success or track record, and it's quite difficult
to get the right people involved in the business. I think that
would be the key thing. We’ve made many mistakes and
have learned from all of them. It’s part of the learning
process. It’s managing while learning. If you’ve got the
determination to make it succeed, it’s possible.
Monica: I want to congratulate you on your success. You
have achieved a lot in such a very short period of time.
Nicko: Thank you.
Monica: When you first started with your idea, what did
your parents think?
Nicko: They thought I was nuts, quite honestly. I remem-
ber going out to dinner with my dad and he asked, “You’re
really serious about this business?" He listed all the rea-
sons why I shouldn’t do it, and I paid no attention to him.
I said I was going to do it and we changed the subject.
After a while he saw how determined I was to get it done,
then I got a tremendous amount of support. So he began to
introduce me to a lot of people that he thought could be
potential investors. Both of my parents became incredibly
supportive. I‘m lucky enough to come from a family that's
pretty liberal. They weren’t focused on my becoming a
lawyer, a doctor or some other profession. They encour-
aged me to do what makes me happy. They saw that I had
the grit and determination to do it. I’ve always been a de-
termined person.
I’ve taken a different route and I have complete control
over my life, whereas a lot of my friends who are working
in the corporate world are working very long hours for oth-
ers and not necessarily enjoying it.
For me, I’ve had to work tremendously hard, but I’ve actu-
ally gotten somewhere, some place where I have control.
I think it's an incredible place to be.
Monica: What do you think about the economy today and
the impact that entrepreneurs will have?
Nicko: I really think entrepreneurs are going to rebuild the
world economy, and I believe with a little determination,
hard work and building good teams, anything is possible. ♦
you absolutely need to know every little number that’s
going on within the business and driving different areas
of the business.
Monica: Obviously one of the main keys to operating a
successful business is a solid marketing plan and team.
Nicko: Absolutely. We are not of a size where we use
advertising but we use public relations to generate press.
Our cars are branded quite subtlety, we do e-campaigns
and cold calling as well. We’re not re-inventing the
wheel. We’re doing a lot of search engine optimization
and other related things.
Monica: Within a short period of time your company
has grown tremendously.
Nicko: Yes, thankfully. We've got to keep it going now.
Monica: What advice can you give other young entre-
preneurs about starting a business?
Nicko: I would say one of the key things is assembling a
good team. Whether it’s a team of people to work with
or a team of people to advise and support you. I was very
lucky with my London Business School associates and a
few other people I involved in the business. Although I
was running it myself, I was able to pick up the phone
and get advice and help from them. Without it the busi-
ness wouldn’t be where it is today.
I would say don’t get put off but make sure that any new
business you think of going into is well-researched. I
think people dive into things without really understanding
the market and the players and competitors. I did a lot of
competitive analysis before I started, so I knew exactly
what I was up against, what other companies were charg-
ing. I researched everything about the car and taxi mar-
ket in London. I think those are the key things to do.
Make sure the planning process is well done. If you miss
something, the business can be completely and funda-
mentally flawed.
Monica: Looking back on everything that you’ve done
so far, is there anything that you would do differently?
Nicko: It’s very easy to say in hindsight. I think proba-
bly staffing. We had a lot of difficulties with early mem-
bers of the staff. I think I would probably have spent
more money on recruitment rather than advertising. It
took a while to assemble the right team, but it’s really
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As a parent, you want your child to
grow up happy and
healthy. Susan Ellis was
no different, but what was
different about her son
Ryan was that before he
turned three years of age,
she noticed that he was
developmentally delayed.
By three and a half years
of age, Ryan was officially
diagnosed with autism.
Ellis knew she had an up-
hill battle, but she was
willing to endure. She
made a commitment to
herself and to Ryan that
she would help him live
the best life possible.
From challenges often
come victories, and from
her life’s challenges, Ellis
has developed a series of
products that are improv-
ing her son’s life, as well
as the lives of many other
children.
She and Ryan’s therapist,
Marnie Danielson, devel-
oped a series of programs
called "The TV Teacher"
aimed at helping kids with
special needs learn to
write. The programs have
become so effective that
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made tremendous breakthroughs with
him. He began talking within weeks.
With a child who really had no clue
about the world around him, after we
began removing milk and gluten and
wheat from his diet, you could just
see the haze beginning to lift.
It was interesting. So we've been
very fortunate that a lot of the inter-
ventions that we've done with Ryan
have been very successful. That's
been a saving grace for us. And
through that we started to learn. We
did ADA therapy, which is very in-
tense one-on-one therapy.
That helped me to understand how to
teach him. He's very visual, and so
through the next couple years, I
worked very intensely with Ryan,
bringing him up to grade level. So
this is basically how the TV Teacher
was born -- through all of these
breakthroughs that Ryan was having.
He got through all those therapies up
to grade level. He was about to enter
kindergarten, but he still could not
write. He couldn't write his name.
He wouldn't write a shape or a letter.
But the interesting thing was that he
could actually read and spell. So he
understood letters and he knew how
to use them, but he just couldn't mo-
tor-plan them.
He had been in therapy for almost
two years, inside and outside the
school system, working on this one
skill. I had purchased every program
I possibly could imagine that I
thought would help him, motivate
him, and nothing was working. And I
watched him one morning watching
TV. He was imitating a dance step
that he saw on TV, and the light bulb
went on in my head. I said, "Wow.
If he could imitate that, why couldn't
he imitate writing? If I put writing on
TV, would that be enough to motivate
him?"
I called his therapist, Marnie and I
said, "I think I know what he needs.
Would you just give me a few min-
utes of your time," and graciously she
did. We went to my basement with
my camcorder camera, and we started
on the letter C. She would say rhyth-
mic chants that she had always said in
the clinic, but he had been so dis-
tracted that he never really caught on.
His therapist looked at me, and she
said, "Sue, I don't get this. I do this
all the time. What are you trying to
accomplish here?" I said, "I just
know how his brain works. I know
how he thinks. I really think he needs
the visual aspect of it." "This is bor-
ing though. Let's make it jazzy. Let
me throw in some props, make it
more exciting." And we did, C is for
cat; C is for candle and so forth. I
said, "Just be as goofy as you can."
And I videotaped her, and then we
moved it to the chalkboard. We put it
down on paper, and it ended up being
about a three-minute video. Later that
afternoon I showed it to him and he
sat there completely glued and
watched it and said, "Do it again." I
played it for him again. I put a
marker in his hand, and I said, "Are
you ready, little buddy?" And instead
of taking that marker and throwing it
across the room, as he had been doing
for two years, he actually held it. We
started saying the chant, "Up and
around, letter C, up and around, letter
C." And he just got it. We made this
multi-sensory approach. That was
the miracle that finally made that con-
nection that he needed. Now I'm
hearing that from children, therapists
and teachers all over the country.
I called her up immediately and said,
"Okay. We've got one letter down.
We've got 25 more to go. When are
you coming back?" So we worked
really diligently all summer long. She
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one of them is being considered for
use with normal kindergarten children
as well.
Ellis, a dedicated and determined
mother has turned her challenge and
her son’s challenge into an amazing
success story.
Monica: Talk a little bit about your
experience with Ryan and how that
inspired you to start the TV Teacher
program. How has it helped parents
with kids who are suffering from
autism?
Susan: We saw differences, and he
was always delayed, I guess I should
say. And he was never really quite
reaching some of the milestones even
at, 12 months and 16 months. But at
about 18 months he was definitely
delayed and had very bad temper tan-
trums and he wasn't responding to his
name or becoming engaged or listen-
ing. And we started going through
speech therapy and occupational ther-
apy. This was probably about the
time -- a few years before Autism
Speaks and Jenny McCarthy and oth-
ers brought a little more media atten-
tion to autism. It wasn't that prevalent
in discussions with people what au-
tism was about. A number of teachers
who knew and therapists who knew
wouldn't tell me. I really had no idea
why my child was behaving this way,
but I knew something was wrong.
We finally had the official diagnosis
when Ryan was about three and a half
years old. At that point we were able
to research different things that we
could do to help him such as a gluten-
free, casein-free diet, which made a
huge impact on him. He ended up
being allergic to a lot of the foods we
were giving him, typical foods that
children eat. Trying some other bio-
medical interventions like B-12 and
different supplements and vitamins
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was gracious enough to do-
nate free therapy time, trying
to create this tool for him.
And you don't find that many
individuals who can give up
their time on the weekends to
do this.
And as we started going
through a couple letters, she
started giving it to some of
her other clients, and they had
tremendous success as well.
Ryan’s therapist said, "I think
we've got something here.
These people are finding suc-
cess. Ryan is finding suc-
cess." And I even tried this
with some of my friend's chil-
dren. They were having incredi-
ble breakthroughs too. Within
minutes they were correcting
their letters. So I said, "We're
going to go professional." So we
made a professional DVD, The
Uppercase Alphabet Beats. And
we didn't even know at the time
whether we would sell 50 of
them. But we had such an amaz-
ing response, and teachers and
parents and therapists just loved
it and asked us to do more. So
we came out with the lower case
a year later. And I mean these
productions are really two-hour
long productions, so they're quite
intense and they take quite some
time to produce.
And then we came up with a pre-
writing program called Strokes,
Shapes and Scenes that works on
just making a simplified line
down or a mid-line cross to mak-
ing shapes and making pictures
from shapes. And this is really
working on creativity that so
many children with autism and
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Down syndrome and ADD -- many of
them lack that ability to think ab-
stractly.
Just video-modeling that on the TV
and allowing them to say that this is
okay and this is what we mean by
changing some designs has really
made great breakthroughs, as well in
allowing them to be a little bit more
palatable in their thinking. We re-
cently came up with Number Beats,
which teaches children to count,
skip-counting and writing numbers.
Monica: What are some of the usual
signs that a child may have autism?
Susan: Most likely you're going to
get a lack of language processing in
speaking. A lot of times you'll see
that when you call their name, they
won't respond. They may be in a
room or even in a preschool environ-
ment in a class, but they're playing
alone. They're not necessarily engag-
ing and wanting to engage with other
children.
Many children with autism have sen-
sory integration. Sight-wise, hearing,
touching, feeling are many times ei-
ther very high or very low for them.
A lot of children with autism may
have problems with loud sounds.
What you and I may not consider to
be loud, like flushing the toilet -- that
sound would drive my son to the
ground.
So those are certainly key things to
consider, that there might be a bunch
of little things on this spectrum.
Those are some key points that may
be a "red flag," to watch for.
Monica: When you began TV
Teacher, how did you bring people
together, the teachers and the special-
ists to help you create this amazing
program?
Susan: Great question. It has been
primarily, Ryan’s therapist, Marnie
and me. We have a great collabora-
tion because she has over 15 years
experience with occupational therapy
inside the school system and in her
private clinic, working with children
with various diagnoses. I, of course,
had been living 24/7 with autism with
language delay. I have another son
with Auditory Processing Disorder.
So it's been really us putting this to-
gether and working from the magic
that we first created in that basement
video. It's the same type of design,
only now more professional.
We created workbooks. We sat down
with a group of kindergarten teachers
who had already been using our pro-
gram and asked, "What do you want
in a workbook," and just gaining
ideas from them. We certainly like to
ask questions and we always try to
incorporate the feedback that we get
from various therapists and teachers
and parents.
Monica: Where do you see the TV
Teacher program in the future?
Susan: I think our next program will
be focused on cursive writing.
Marnie is such a capable and quali-
fied occupational Therapist (OT) and
has a presence that kids just love.
And I think we're going to come up
with stories, for example, going to the
dentist, how to play with friends or
not to bully, and just different things
from a social aspect.
Monica: That would certainly open
up many more doors for you.
Susan: Around the country school
systems are beginning to learn about
our program. They will purchase our
programs and put it in special needs
pre-K and kindergarten classrooms,
as well as regular kindergarten pro-
grams. We are in various retail stores
so that people who home school can
go into a school-based retail store and
purchase our product. We are avail-
able online. We've made the program
cost very reasonable. We didn't want
it to be out of reach for any person or
to ruin the budget of a school system
by any means. It’s very affordable for
teachers and parents of children with
special needs. There are so many
things that we spend money on that
insurance doesn't cover. We wanted
it to be very easy and a no-brainer
price for parents to use.
Monica: You have found your pur-
pose in life, and it's wonderful that
you're not only helping your child, but
you are helping thousands of other
children as well. So what do you find
most rewarding about your life’s pas-
sion?
Susan: Exactly that, I'm helping chil-
dren that I've never met. When I get
an email from a parent in Montana or
a city where I've never been, just the
fact that what we have developed has
touched a family so much and has
reduced frustration for a child -- I
mean that just makes our day. It
never gets old, and we share with our
team whenever we receive emails.
We say, "We helped another one." To
have a child go from being so frus-
trated while performing a simple task
to understanding how to motor-plan
and providing a feeling of accom-
plishment, it's amazing.
I have learned to have patience more
than I ever thought I would. I look at
a lot of things differently now. I have
become much more accepting of dif-
ferences, a lot more relaxed about
differences than I ever have been, es-
pecially when I was in the corporate
world. ♦
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Spring had come to the
northeast, and with
the weather mild
and sunny, my hus-
band and I decided to take our children to visit the zoo.
We, along with scores of other people with smiles on
their faces, went through the entrance gate and canvassed
exhibit after exhibit, peering in awe at the amazing crea-
tures.
Enjoying nature’s splendor, we walked up a tree-lined short
path, and stopped to marvel at the natural beauty of the
towering 17-foot giraffes and their offspring basking in the
zoo’s open woodland. One little giraffe, was sitting on the
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ground next to the mother, but in an instant, the baby got
up and was on her feet. Then, the calf seemed to wobble
and fall down. Yet effortlessly, the calf stood back up
again.
My oldest daughter’s hair fluttered about her face in the
breeze and her blue-green eyes were wide open with curi-
osity, as she said to me, “Mom, with their long legs, I am
surprised how quickly the calves are able to stand up.”
I agreed. And at that moment, I recalled a book that I had
read years ago about calves that taught me a valuable life
lesson. “Well, honey,” I answered my daughter, as we
stood still, arm in arm, “The calves have to get up quickly
if they tumble, because if they’re in the wild, they can fall
prey to other animals.”
Continuing, I told my daughter that when a mother gi-
raffe gives birth, she does so standing, and the calf then
drops to the ground from about six feet up, and typically
head first. Quickly, I assured, “The fall does not hurt the
calf. However, almost immediately after birth, the mother
teaches the calf, by actually knocking the baby down, to
stand up on its own legs. She knocks the calf down re-
peatedly, for the mother giraffe wants to strengthen her
little one in an effort to try to keep the calf safe for the
challenges ahead.”
“Mom, the calf learns to ‘get up’ by being ‘knocked
down?’” My daughter asked.
“Precisely,” I uttered. And as if reading my mind, I knew
she sensed what I was saying.
When we arrived home, I went into the office to skim my
shelf for the book, ‘A View from the Zoo,’ by Gary
Richman. I found the copy and sat down on my wingback
chair and began to read once more how the author de-
scribed the birth of a baby giraffe:
“The mother giraffe lowers her head long enough to take
a quick look. Then she positions herself directly over her
calf. She waits for about a minute, and then she does the
most unreasonable thing. She swings her long, pendulous
leg outward and kicks her baby, so that it is sent sprawl-
ing head over heels.
“When it doesn’t get up, the violent process is repeated
over and over again. The struggle to rise is momentous.
As the baby calf grows tired, the mother kicks it again to
stimulate its efforts. Finally, the calf stands for the first
time on its wobbly legs. Then the mother giraffe does some-
thing remarkable. She kicks it off its feet again. Why? She
wants it to remember how it got up…
“I’ve thought about the birth of the giraffe many times. I
can see its parallel in my own life. There have been many
times when it seemed that I had just stood up after a trial,
only to be knocked down by the next. It was God helping me
to remember how it was that I got up, urging me always to
walk with Him, in His shadow, under His care.”
Perhaps, you have been knocked down time and again.
Maybe, you experienced an emotional ‘kick.’ Or have suf-
fered through various trials.
But let’s keep in mind that the events in our lives, even the
most difficult, have meaning and value. All of our experi-
ences, good or bad, haven’t been wasted. It is those experi-
ences, molded together, that allow you to help others, to
understand their pain, and shape you into the person you
are destined to be. And similar to the baby calves, our chal-
lenges, obstacles and ‘kicks’ are a call to strengthen us, not
to defeat us.
God created you with a vast inner determination and resil-
ience. You have special gifts and abilities. Therefore, de-
spite how many setbacks you have had, press on, daring to
reach forth for your heart’s desires. Stop looking at where
you’ve been and begin to focus on where you can be today
and tomorrow! Expand your range of possibilities. Go fur-
ther. Don’t wait. And if you stumble along the way or if
someone trips you, get back up and start to move forward
again. God is with you, so rest in His care, timing and sov-
ereign purpose. It is just a matter of time before you accom-
plish your dreams. So boldly look with hope and confi-
dence to the future. Victories are forthcoming, with more
joys, more blessings and more rewards, in store for you.
I still wonder sometimes why the knocks and kicks in my
own life are so many. But then I receive a letter from a
reader who says, “I feel like you are writing these words for
me,” “I want you to know how you have changed my life,”
and “Thank you for being there...”
And instantly, with startling clarity…I know. �
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By Bonnie Atwood
No bling required.
When
Stacy
Hawkins
Adams looks at you, she radiates all by herself. There’s
no other word. She actually radiates. Her attention is so
focused on the listener, it appears that rays of light are
coming from her eyes, her smile, and even her dimples.
Dressed in her characteristic basic black suit, pink shirt,
black boots and understated jewelry, Adams greeted at-
tendees at the Women Who Mean Business Summit spon-
sored by the Metropolitan Business League in Richmond,
Virginia., in January 2011.
As part of the trade show, Adams had a booth set up to
feature her six nationally published novels of inspiration.
She was also one of a panel of authors who presented their
personal stories and fielded questions from an enthusiastic
audience of entrepreneurs.
Adams seems born for this role, and, indeed, she told the
audience that her interest in writing dates back to early
childhood in Pine Bluff, Ark. She loved to read poems. At
the tender age of 10, she wrote a letter to the police depart-
ment. She wrote some pieces which her sister, Barbara, sta-
pled together for her.
“Now you have a book!” said her sister. That did it. Adams
knew what she would do in life.
Adams covered the real world of social issues before she
developed her craft as a fiction writer. She was a full-time
newspaper reporter and columnist for 14 years, primarily at
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the Richmond Times-Dispatch, where she also wrote an
inspirational column. She still writes a weekly parenting
column called “Life Notes.” Her most recent column is
typical of the important messages that she imparts. It re-
views an important documentary film for parents: “Race
to Nowhere.” She keeps up with all things of interest to
parents and families. On these matters, she has a front-
row seat. She’s the parent of a child in elementary school
and one in middle school.
Adams’ work is filled with food for thought. She tells
stories of faith, social issues, and personal growth. The
characters in her novels are creations (“I’m not Serena,”
she says), but they are representative of you and me—
real people with real and modern problems, hopes, and
dreams. Adams encourages readers to “tune in to hear
God’s whispers.” She reveals her deepest thoughts, and
even doubts, about a God that “I couldn’t see or touch.”
She comes through her journeys with a clearer, deeper
understanding of God’s role in her life. This is the mes-
sage that she so successfully shares with her devoted
readers.
Adams’ fourth novel really skyrocketed her career. That
book was The Someday List, which maintained a steady
presence on the Essence bestseller’s list, and then went
on to the Kindle bestseller list. Adams says that her char-
acters are all made up, but they are based on the concerns
that real people send to her. After every book publication,
readers pour their hearts out to her in emails. Some of the
topics are those that are important, but tough to talk
about, like domestic violence and infertility. She handles
these topics carefully, but, she says, “not in a soap-opera-
ish way.”
The latest of Adams’ acclaimed novels is Dreams That
Won’t Let Go, published a year ago. In May she had a
book of nonfiction released: Who Speaks to Your Heart?
Busy women from all walks of life can relate to these
books of devotion.
Adams empowers women. Her goal is to “ignite hope and
faith to fuel your dreams.” She calls her first three novels
the Jubilant Soul Series, in which “faith, family and
drama co-exist.” Her books are the kind that people read
when they need a lift, and write notes in the margin.
They’re the kind of reading that makes you want to talk
to your friends and re-commit to something greater than
yourself. They’re the kind of books that make you want
to, well, contact the author herself and tell her how you
feel.
This reporter first met Adams at a Richmond Toastmaster
meeting—the best place where nervous, amateur speakers
can come to learn to be polished orators. Adams was a
natural. She has developed her speaking career right along
with her writing. She is a member of the Advanced Writers
and Speakers Association, and can keep an audience en-
tranced and uplifted.
Adams has now added personal coaching to her resume.
She launched her own coaching service called “Author in
You.” If you have book trapped inside you, yearning to get
out, she’s your coach. She helps fiction writers and non-
fiction writers to complete those manuscripts in progress.
Many writers were quick to give her credit for her coach-
ing, and she’s taking it up a notch with a new teleseminar
coaching service.
Adams uses her considerable talents to give back to the
community, too. She does child advocacy as an active
board member and as a marketing consultant for such is-
sues as children’s advocacy, prevention of child abuse, and
promotion of literacy.
Adams’ eighth and latest book is due out in early 2012. Her
publisher is Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group.
The Metropolitan Business League (MBL), which spon-
sored this summit that featured Adams among it speakers,
is composed of small business owners in the Richmond,
Virginia, region. The MBL has been serving entrepreneurs
of all kinds for 40 years. This summit brought together
some of the best and most successful businesswomen in the
nation, including the keynote speaker, personal financial
advice guru Suze Orman. �
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One of my favorite Workshops that
I conduct is "The Joy Workshop" One of the ideas that I talk about in
the Workshop is how challenging
people or events around us can be
opportunities to practice staying in
our own emotional state. So many of
us let situations and others around us
determine how we feel moment by
moment.
Instead we all need to determine
how we want to feel throughout the
day and stick with it--NO MAT-TER WHAT. To put it simply - do
you want to be a Thermometer
(mirroring the temperature of those
around you) - or a Thermostat
(putting your setting where you want
it to be)?
Now more than ever this is some-thing you can be practicing. Decide
what perspective you would like to
take based on what is happening in
the economy - a fear perspective or a
faith perspective.
One of the opportunities of this
current transformation is that we
can start to understand more
deeply that we are spiritual beings having a human experience. Money
and material items do not create
safety and security for us.
What do you do in the face of chal-
lenge and uncertainty? Do you get
stuck in fear or are you able to see
it as an opportunity for growth?
What do you do in the face of chal-
lenge and uncertainty? Do you get
immobilized by fear and sink into
negativity? Or do you look at chal-
lenges as a springboard to opportunity
and growth?
Our mindset in the face of challenge
will dictate our experience of the challenge. It always amazes me that
in just a brief moment we can shift
our perspective of a situation and
completely transform the experi-
ence. How amazing is that! Such
power we have moment by moment to
shape our experiences in life. No one
has this control to create this shift but
you.
If we look at your reaction to the
economic changes--what perspec-
tive are you choosing? Is it fear
based - "The world is falling apart and
it is just going to get worse - I am un-
safe" or "We are going through a
huge transformation and I know won-
derful things are going to come from
it - I am excited to see what good will
come from this."
Our security is in the truth that we
are eternal spiritual beings who are
always safe each and every mo-ment. Harm can come to us on the
physical level - but we cannot be
harmed or destroyed on the spiritual
level - this part of us lives on.
So, what if what we are going
through is a transformation - a
spiritual awakening - an opportu-
nity to connect more deeply with who we truly are? Those that open
up to this will have an amazing ex-
perience and those that resist the op-
portunity will continue to strug-
gle. We are all called right now to
step out of our stuck patterns of trying
to create safety with the patterns of
our wounded self - and asked to move
more into the light and love of who
we are.
I remember attending a Workshop
were the presenter gave this quote "Most people think they are drowning
in an ocean of water - when in reality
they are just in a wading pool."
So don't buy into the current belief
that right now we are all drowning in an ocean of crisis - instead remind
yourself and others that we are in a
wading pool - and we are capable of
navigating this calmly and success-
fully! ♦
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By Shelley Riutta MSE, LPC
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Ice water and sugary sweet lemonade
alone no longer cool me, it takes mas-
sive lowering of the air conditioner,
ceiling fans on high and sitting qui-
etly until the sweat stops.
So knowing all of this, I’ve decided
to take time for pampering me this
summer. I invite you to join me in
treating yourself well; to consciously
engage in self-care. Does taking care
of yourself first sound selfish to you?
It did to me too, then I learned that
the better I take care of myself, the
better I can take care of love ones.
When was the last time you pampered
yourself? You could treat yourself to
a long, lazy, luxurious bath. Use your
most expensive bubble bath; listen to
your favorite sensuous, soothing mu-
sic.
Just as the sun begins to set, take a
short walk in the park. Deeply inhale
the smells of summer as you notice
the colors of the deep green shade of
the leaves and azure sky. Allow your
body to relax as you are walk swing-
ing your arms to a rhythm only you
hear.
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Can you believe that it is the middle
of the year! Summer is upon us and it
is hot, hot, hot! I remember the sum-
mers of my youth in North Carolina,
with no air conditioning, with fans in
the ceiling and window. Staying in-
side wasn’t an option so I spent many
days outside on the porch or running
up and down the street.
Looking back on it, summer didn’t
seem as hot then. We’d have ice water
and sometimes lemonade to keep us
cool. The living was easy!
Is it because I’m a woman of a certain
age that it seems hotter? Could it be
that my frequent personal summers
contribute to the overall feeling of
being hot? You know what I’m talk-
ing about, suddenly, out of nowhere
my body heats up from the inside out.
Sweat rolls from places that I can’t
mention in mixed company!
Light your favorite scented candle
and sit quietly in your bedroom read-
ing a delicious book. Enjoy the aroma
from scented candles floating as a
backdrop around you. Of course, you
can think of many other ways to pam-
per yourself.
Caring is a natural feeling. Today
with the emphasis on ‘going green’,
how are you caring about the planet?
Realizing that we are all connected is
the first step to caring for our world.
However, the first step in taking care
of the planet is to take care of you.
Take it one day at a time. Just for to-
day, pay special attention to the little
things you do that pampers you. Then
think about the one little thing you
can do to care for the planet. Make a
conscious choice to participate in car-
ing for you first! Stay cool!
Yes, we are experiencing record
breaking heat! This is the perfect
time to slow down, indulge in safe
care and enjoy the long days of sum-
mer. ♦
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By Inez Bracy
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That’s it!! I can’t
take it anymore. I’ve
waited long enough.
I’ve got to have it.
Are you kiddin’?
He can’t take it?
My nerves are
shot.
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by Angie Brennan
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“I need a bottle!” If you find yourself saying this often,
you are most likely: a) an infant, b) a drunk, or c) one of
the thousands of Americans reaching for their bottle of
mountain spring distilled water.
Remember the good old days when hydration was
simple? Pick up a glass, fill ‘er up with tap water, and
you’re good to go. Pretty much the only decision you
had to make was whether to add ice. These days,
choosing your water has become almost as compli-
cated as choosing a car---and in some cases, nearly as
expensive. Just visit the bottled water aisle at the gro-
cery store and take a look: do you want distilled wa-
ter? Carbonated water with a subtle fruit flavor? Min-
eral water? Or pure mountain spring water, carefully
collected by alpine hikers? (Or not)
Then, of course, there’s the question of size. You
could buy a crate or batch of those cute 8 oz. bottles
that fit so nicely into a purse or pocket. There’s also
the hefty 40 oz. mega-bottles, handy to have along in
your car if you happen to become trapped inside and
are forced to live for days solely on Tic-Tacs, cold
fries harvested from under the drivers’ seat, and a gi-
gantic bottle of water.
Many assume that a pricey bottled beverage must be
healthier for you than the tap water you use to rinse
the dishes or water the houseplants. Perhaps. All I
know is that my begonias have never gotten the flu or
needed a root canal, so maybe there’s something to be
said for plain ol’ tap water.
But what about taste? Surely something called “Glacier
Spring Icy Dew from Heaven” would be a pleasure to
drink, right? A popular news show once ran an informal
taste test between variously-priced bottled waters and
ordinary tap. Tap water made a pretty good showing;
surprisingly, the worst taste was awarded to the most
expensive bottled water. “It tasted like toilet water,”
claimed one participant, who didn’t offer an explanation
as to how, exactly, he knew that.
Speaking of toilet water…your canine friends need no
longer resort to lapping up water from such an undigni-
fied source. One online business offers bottled water for
especially for dogs. A word of warning if you’re
tempted to sneak a sip while taking Fido out on a walk:
the water comes in four flavors: beef, chicken, lamb, or
liver. Still, if you enjoy a good liver-flavored water, go
for it.
So if bottled water is more expensive, isn’t necessarily
better for you, and doesn’t always taste better, why buy
it? Well, lots of reasons! For example:
∗ You need to put something in the bottle holder on
your new backpack
∗ You enjoy making loud, plastic-popping sounds
∗ You often become trapped in your vehicle
So go ahead and stock up on those water bottles. And
you might want to pick up a few extra packs of Tic Tacs
while you’re at it. Just in case. �
The Lighter Side: Actual headlines seen in newspapers:
1. Police begin campaign to run down jaywalkers
2. Safety experts say school bus passengers should be belted
3. Drunk gets nine months in violin case
4. British left waffles on Falkland Islands
5. Squad helps dog bite victim
6. Miners refuse to work after death
7. Juvenile court to try shooting defendant
8. Children make delicious snacks
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Pessimist's axioms
∗ On the keyboard of life, always keep one finger on the escape key. ∗ Life isn't like a box of chocolates; it's more like a jar of jalapenos. ∗ Tell me what you need, and I'll tell you how to get along without it. ∗ Ring bell for maid service. If no answer, do it yourself. ∗ I don't have an attitude problem, you have a perception problem. ∗ My reality check bounced. ∗ You can go anywhere if you don't look serious and carry a clipboard.
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A husband and wife came for coun-
seling after 25 years of marriage. When asked what the problem was, the wife spoke of neglect, loneliness,
and feeling unloved.
As she spoke, the therapist stood up, embraced her, and kissed her pas-sionately. Then he turned to the hus-
band and said, "This is what your wife needs seven times a week. Can
you do this?" The husband thought for a moment
and replied, "Well, Doc, I can drop her off here on Mondays and Wednes-
days, but on the other days I play golf."
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Shrimp TrioShrimp TrioShrimp TrioShrimp Trio
Cocktail sauce (cold) 5 tablespoons horseradish 3 tablespoons ketchup 1 teaspoon Louisiana hot sauce 1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/2 teaspoon pepper Combine and chill.
Remoulade sauce (cold) 1 cup mayonnaise 2 tablespoons Creole mustard 1 tablespoon ketchup 1/2 cup finely chopped green onion stems 2 tablespoons finely chopped parsley 1 tablespoon finely chopped celery 1 1/2 tablespoons minced garlic 1 teaspoon sweet paprika 1 teaspoon Louisiana hot sauce Two dashes each of salt and pepper Place in a bowl, stir thoroughly and chill.
Shrimp scampi (hot) Place six shrimp in each of two small baking dishes and add: 1 tablespoon white wine 2 tablespoons butter 1/2 teaspoon fresh minced garlic 1 dash of salt. Bake in a pre-heated oven at 400 degrees or prepare under the broiler until liquid turns a crusty brown around the out-side edge. Place the remainder of the ice-chilled shrimp on the table with the two chilled sauces. The Scampi can be served along with or after consumption of the chilled shrimp. Add a plate of fresh vegetables with dipping sauce and your favorite rice dish to complete this healthy meal.
These recipes require one bag of large, frozen, pre-cooked shrimp with tails on, along with three sauces … two to serve cold with sauces and one to be served piping hot. The recipes serve two. Thaw the shrimp at room tem-perature, then place on a bed of ice to maintain their solid texture. For convenience, prepare the two cold dipping sauces ahead.
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Profile Resources
Part One Dr. Julianne Malveaux, Pg. 4, http://www.bennett.edu/ http://www.lastwordprod.com/ Winston E. Scott, Pg. 10, Excellence -- Above and Beyond http://coa.fit.edu/ Michelle Hollaender, Pg. 18, Helping Hands for Central American Communities http://www.helpsintl.org/ Dana Humphrey, Pg. 26, World Traveler and Public Relations Expert http://whitegatepr.com/ Derrick Miles, Pg. 32, Using His Spiritual Gift to Change Lives http://milestonemotivation.com/ David Riklan , Pg. 38, Self-Improvement Guru Shares Resources with Millions http://www.selfgrowth.com Photo Credits Dana Humphrey—Pg. 26, MYKO Photography, Inc., http://www.mykophoto.com/ Pg. 27, Tony Gale Photography http://www.tonygale.com/,
Part Two Nicko Williamson, Pg. 56, London’s Green Entrepreneur Achieves Success with Climatecars http://www.climatecars.com Susan Ellis, Pg. 63, From Challenge Comes Knowledge and Triumph http://www.tvteachervideos.com/ Stacy Hawkins Adams, Pg. 70, Stacy Hawkins In Profile www.AuthorInYou.com, www.StacyHawkinsAdams.com, www.TheMBL.org, Author: Freelance Writer Bonnie Atwood: http://www.tallpoppiesfreelance.com/ Cover Photo Credits
Nicko Williamson, Pg. 56 (all photos)—Grey Hutton, [email protected], http://www.greyhutton.com Monica Davis, Pg. 2 and back cover, Ever After Visuals—http://everaftervisuals.com Additional Credits Graphics: Jeff Hayes, http://www.plasmafiregraphics.com
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Catherine Galasso-Vigorito
Catherine Galasso-Vigorito’s nationally syndicated
weekly column, “A New
You,” has endeared her to
readers worldwide for over 15
years.
Known for her ability to uplift
and encourage, Catherine has
become America’s most be-
loved inspirational voice.
Catherine is the founder and
CEO of her own company, A New You Worldwide, de-
veloping and designing inspirational products. Her mis-
sion is to instill hope in the hearts of people everywhere,
inspiring them to live a better life. She makes her home
on the East Coast with her husband and three daughters.
Visit her website at www.anewyouworldwide.com
Searching for inspirational gifts - visit
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Annemarie Cross
Annemarie Cross is a Career Management & Personal
Branding Strategist, Speaker, Con-
sultant, Radio Broadcaster, and Au-
thor of ’10 Key Steps to Ace that
Interview!’ She is also the founder/
principal of Advanced Employment
Concepts – Career Management and
Corporate Career Development Spe-
cialists offering powerful programs
for people striving for career success
and fulfillment, as well as savvy
companies committed to building and retaining their most
important asset – their staff.
Widely considered a personal change agent and success
catalyst, Annemarie has distinguished herself as being
people-focused, caring, inspirational and life-changing in
her approach. Annemarie can be contacted at
www.a-e-c.com.au email: [email protected].
William R. Patterson
Ranked as the #1 Business Motivational Speaker by
Ranking.com, William R. Patter-
son is a three-time award-winning
lecturer and international best-
selling author who uses his trade-
mark approach, THE BARON SO-
LUTION™, to coach, train, and
motivate business leaders, sales
professionals, entrepreneurs, and
investors. His breakthrough book,
The Baron Son, has been translated
around the world and featured in the Forbes Book Club
and Black Enterprise. William is an internationally rec-
ognized wealth and business coach who has been a fea-
tured guest on over 500 television and radio programs.
William's website, BaronSeries.com, is winner of four
2009 Web Awards including: Best Speaker; Best Male
Author; Best Business Advice Site; and Best Wealth-
Building Site. For more information, visit
http://www.baronseries.com
Writers and Contributors
James Adonis
James Adonis is a people-management thinker and the
author of three books including his
latest, ‘Corporate Punishment:
Smashing the Management
Clichés for Leaders in a New World’. Thought-provoking and
entertaining, James's keynote pres-
entations and workshops show com-
panies how to solve staff turnover,
engage all generations, and win the
war for talent. He has presented to
audiences across Australia, Europe,
Asia, and the Middle East, with an impressive list of cli-
ents including McDonald's, American Express, Coca-
Cola, Qantas, and Gucci. www.jamesadonis.com.
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Greg Williams
Greg Williams, The Master Negotiator, is an internation-
ally sought after speaker/trainer. He
provides negotiation expertise to cor-
porate and individual clients that
seek to maximize their negotiation
efforts, at the negotiation table. You
can sign up for Greg’s free negotia-
tion tips at
www.TheMasterNegotiator.com –
You can also view his Negotiation
Tip videos at http://
www.youtube.com/user/
TheMasterNegotiator - Greg’s motto is, “Remember,
you’re always negotiating”.
Dean G. Campbell
Mr. Campbell advises clients throughout the country and
is licensed in securities and in-
surances in many states.
Dean G. Campbell is President
of Campbell Retirement Plan-
ning Centers, Inc. He gradu-
ated Magna Cum Laude from
Oakland University in Roches-
ter, Michigan with degrees in
Finance and Economics. While
attending college, he also taught business applica-
tions. Simultaneously he began attaining licenses to trans-
act business in Securities and Insurances.
Upon graduation, he worked for an independent brokerage
firm then moved on to IDS Financial Services, now
Ameriprise. After becoming a top producer at Ameriprise,
Dean worked as a Financial Planner for Empire of Amer-
ica Bank in Buffalo, New York. He later became a Finan-
cial Planner for First of America Bank where he also for a
period worked as the financial consultant for the bank’s
customers at fourteen branches.
Thirteen years ago Dean started Campbell Retirement
Planning Centers, Inc. To date he has personally helped
over 2,500 people with planning there financial fu-
tures. He serves on the Board of Directors of the Eastern
Michigan Better Business Bureau and was recently ap-
pointed for his fourth term.
Through the business and personally, Dean donates to sev-
eral charities, helping those who are less fortunate.
Visit his website at
http://www.campbellretirement.com.
Securities offered through Sigma Financial Corp.
Member FINRA/SIPC
Dorothy Rosby
Dorothy Rosby is an entertaining speaker and syndicated
humor columnist whose work ap-
pears regularly in 30-plus newspa-
pers in eleven Western and Mid-
western states. She is also Commu-
nity Relations Director for an or-
ganization which supports people
with disabilities. She lives in Rapid
City, South Dakota with her hus-
band, son, mother, and hamster.
Contact her at
[email protected] or see her website at
www.dorothyrosby.com.
Angie Brennan
Angie Brennan is a humor writer and illustrator from
Maryland. Visit her website at
www.angiebrennan.com for cartoons,
spoof advice, and more.
Writers and Contributors
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Writers and Contributors
Rosalind Sedacca
Recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce,
Rosalind Sedacca is a Certified
Corporate Trainer and founder of
the Child-Centered Divorce Net-
work for parents facing, moving
through or transitioning beyond
divorce. She is the author of How
Do I Tell the Kids about the Di-
vorce? A Create-a-Storybook™
Guide to Preparing Your Chil-
dren – with Love! which offers a
unique approach to breaking di-
vorce news to your children
based on her own personal experience. She is also the
2008 National First Place Winner of the Victorious
Woman Award.
As a Certified Corporate Trainer and Business Communi-
cation Strategist she provides consulting, speaking, train-
ing and Executive Coaching services to organizations na-
tion-wide on marketing, public relations and business
communication issues. She specializes in gender-related
dynamics, marketing to women and employee-
management collaboration in the workplace.
To learn more about her book, free ezine, programs and
other valuable resources on creating a positive Child-
Centered Divorce, visit www.childcentereddivorce.com
and www.howdoitellthekids.com.
For more information about her customized programs,
audio and videotapes, and other services, contact Rosalind
at 561-742-3537 or [email protected].
Margaret Paul
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is a noted public speaker, best-
selling author, workshop leader,
relationship expert, and Inner
Bonding® facilitator. She has
counseled individuals and couples,
and led groups, classes, and work-
shops since 1968. She is the au-
thor and co-author of eight books,
including the internationally best-
selling Do I Have To Give Up Me
To Be Loved By You?, Healing
Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding, and Do I Have To Give
Up Me To Be Loved By God?
She is the co-creator, along with Dr. Erika Chopich, of the
Inner Bonding® healing process, recommended by actress
Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette, and fea-
tured on Oprah, and of the unique and popular website
www.innerbonding.com. Their transformational self-
healing/conflict resolution software program, SelfQuest®,
at www.selfquest.com, is being donated to prisons and
schools and sold to the general public.
Sue Urda
Sue Urda is an Author, Speaker, Inspirer and Co-Founder
of Powerful You! Women’s Net-
work, She was named twice on Inc.
Magazines list of the 500 Fastest-
Growing Private Companies. Sue’s
vision is to contribute to a global
consciousness of women helping
women succeed in business and in
life and to open them to truth of
who they are.
www.sueurda.com.
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Dawn McCoy
Dawn McCoy is author of "Leadership Building Blocks:
An Insider's Guide to Success"
http://flourishleadership.com/store/
index.html She is also is president
and CEO of Flourish Leadership,
LLC which provides coaching ex-
ecutives, public servants, and youth
leaders. For author and speaker de-
tails, visit http://
www.flourishleadership.com.
Sharon Dahlonega Raiford Bush
Sharon Dahlonega Raiford Bush is CEO of News Ar-
chives International. This multi-
award-winning journalist writes
and publishes news articles about
productive individuals committed
to making positive changes in their
lives and in the world around
them. She also writes and directs
live performances for young, ex-
ceptional artists throughout the
Los Angeles region. Sharon shares
her life with her husband, veteran
actor Grand L. Bush.
To learn more about Sharon, visit http://en.wikipedia.org/
wiki/Sharon_Dahlonega_Raiford_Bush
and http://www.linkedin.com/in/sharonraifordbush. She
can be contacted at https://www.facebook.com/TVwxGirl.
Shelley Ruitta
Shelley Riutta MSE, LPC is a Holistic Psychotherapist
and Inner Bonding Facilita-
tor in private practice specializ-
ing in Transformational indi-
vidual counseling, presenta-
tions, groups and Work-
shops. To get her free work-
book "What Do You REALLY
Want: Finding Purpose and
Passion in Your Life" or for
information about the free tele-
classes she does every month visit her web-site
www.RadiantLifeCounseling.com or call her at
877-346-1167.
Writers and Contributors
Inez Bracy
Inez Bracy is the host of her own radio talk show; Living
Smart and Well and is a columnist for
Senior Stuff a local ezine, the Orlando
Examiner, a former columnist for the
Island Voice magazine and the author
of Rejuvenate Your Life in 21 Days.
Bracy’s radio show, Living Smart and
Well shares tips on creating your best
life and is heard globally on
www.livingsmartandwell.com. Bracy
is an author, a masterful coach, power-
ful trainer, and a dynamic speaker. With more than 20
years of experience working for educational institutions
and non-profits, Bracy uses her knowledge to help people
create extraordinary lives.
http://overfiftyfineandfancy.com Dawn Abraham
Dawn Abraham is a Certified Life/Business Coach, and is
an “Official Guide for Small
Business Marketing at Self-
growth.com. She also partners
with professionals and entrepre-
neurs to help them create bal-
anced lives while earning more
money. Law of Attraction, Self
Esteem, Abundance, Meditation,
Motivation, Reiki, Private & Group Coaching, Free Life
Changing Mp3's and Teleclasses are offered.
http://www.qualified-lifecoach.com
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