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Eye-Gazing Bonding Technique

by Lawrence Lanoff

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We have already talked about eye-gazing during orgasm. It feels fucking

amazing. And it's an incredibly powerful technique for connection

building.

However, if you really want to go deep, I recommend you try my 4-

Minute Eye-Gazing Technique.

Eye-gazing is a Tantric practice that is said to help us go beyond a

persons physical self and our preconceived ideas about who the other

person is. Eye-gazing truly gives us an opportunity to see into anothers

depth of being.

People have reported being flooded with feelings of empathy, compassion,

bonding, love, oneness, euphoria, openness, well-being, vulnerability,

truly perceived, deeply understood, etc. when eye-gazing.

Quite a powerful cocktail for developing a deeper bond! (See my segment

on oxytocin.)

When I was a novice and just starting to figure all this out, I tried this

technique with a girl that I had just begun dating. We both felt closer and

more connected afterwards, but she fell in loveHARD. So be careful

who you try this with!

You are going to give them an experience that is unlike any experience

they have ever had before, and they will develop a strong association with

you being the source of the wonderfully intense feelings with which they

will be flooded.

Step 1: Get Her On Board

Ask her if she would like to try this thing you read about called The 4-

Minute Eye-Gaze,which is supposed deepen the connection between two

people.


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Or, perhaps, you guys have already tried it with orgasming, in which case,

you could just say something like, You know how we make eye contact

when we orgasm and it feels so good? Why dont we try sitting across

from one another for 4 minutes and eye-gaze? I read that 4 minutes is the

magic number for creating a deeper feeling of connection. What do you

think?

Step 2: Get Comfortable

Its really important thatthe two of you be comfortable when using this

technique. You can sit in chairs across from each other, but I prefer sitting

cross-legged on the floor or bed. That way you can also be in contact by

touching each others knees or holding hands. If sitting cross-legged isuncomfortable for you, stack some blankets or pillows underneath you.

That usually helps, especially if you have tight hamstrings.

You'll probably notice that you are both feeling a mixture of nerves and

excitement by doing this exercise. Perhaps even a bit uncertainty about

what is going to happen but looking forward to connecting with each

other.

Take a minute to let all that settle down a bit.

Have a timer set and ready nearby so that when youre ready to begin,

you can quickly reach for it and hit start.

Step 3: Breathe

Now that you are both comfortably situated, close your eyes and take a

few deep breaths together. Use my 3-step-trance technique to put you both

in a light trance.

Once you've done this, open your eyes again.


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Step 4: Eye Gaze

Grab your timer and hit startand begin gazing into one anotherseyes.

You will probably find that your eyes want to dart back and forth from one

eye to another.

Thats OK and normal.

But you may want to settle down and choose one eye to focus on for a

while, and then maybe switch to the other. Keep your gaze soft and

relaxed. This is not a staring contest.

Notice what is happening in your body without judgment and allow

whatever sensations or feelings that are coming up to flow like the waves

of an ocean; they will come and they will go.

You may notice various shapes or colors changing when it comes to your

vision of the other person.

Her face may begin to melt and change as if you both took a hit of LSD.

This is all normal and you should just let it be and dont get overly

focused on it.

Step 5: Share your insights

Afterward, discuss your experience with her. How did it feel to be seen?

How was it to look deeply into one anothers souls? What feelings came

up? Did your faces change? Are your hearts more open? Do you feel

closer and more connected?

Feel free to do this with each other as often or as little as you like. Ive

found, however, that making it a regular practice can really help keep the

relationship on track and help both people maintain a feeling of relaxationand safety.

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