families in transition: ethnic case studies
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Families in Transition: Ethnic Case Studies. Dr. Jane Granskog. California State University, Bakersfield. Self, Family and Community: Positive Dependency. sociological interdependence - self defined in relationship to family, community, ancestors, spirits - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
Families in Transition: Ethnic Case Studies
Dr. Jane Granskog
California State University, Bakersfield
Self, Family and Community: Positive Dependency
sociological interdependence - self defined in relationship to family, community, ancestors, spirits
cyclical continuous flow between each essential for health and harmony
Self oriented toward personal interaction
Positive Dependency Flows
Follow own wishes but within a context limiting boundaries of Self
Control limiting boundaries of Self instilled by space & sound - respect & obedience toward elders
Dependency within the Family
Families are viewed as interlocking life units in which the well-being of one is inherent in well-being of others
Roles modify as persons move from one stage to another but not outside group
Bonding with trust is based on demands of custom v.s. a measure of the individual performance of given individual
Dependency within the Family Lateral extended kin - horizontal basis
that carries brunt of dependency flowTension diluted by stretching discipline
linesImportance of respect mechanismEmphasis on mutuality, reciprocity -
setting things right in family disputes through face-to-face encounters (Hawaiian, 'ohana' practice)
Dependency within the Community
emphasis on sharing, support between all groups/subunits within community - reciprocity
emphasis on exchange of services (time & energy)
importance of “doing” for others - involvement, commitment
Types of IndependenceOpposing dependency - supremacy of
self outside of flow, emphasis on self first and foremost (sociological independence - Independence Complex)
Positive dependency - freedom to make choices within a cooperative framework (caring about others)
Factors Influencing the Nature of Dependency Flow
Length of time (history) that you've had with someone - continuity, commonality
Nature of the "kinship" bond (biological vs non-biological and significance of the difference)
Nature of the interaction and intensity of the bond (e.g., life & death situation - wartime buddies)
Factors Influencing the Nature of Dependency Flow
Location - distance limits the type & frequency of interaction (being able to call upon them), limits involvement
Common interests - ties are with people with whom you share important parts of your life - work, school, leisure activities, etc.
Factors Influencing the Nature of Dependency Flow
Personal background/history - personality traits, coming from a disengaged vs enmeshed family; significance of "poisonous pedagogy" - disfunctional traits carried from childhood
Gender and Ethnic Background - differences in socialization patterns of females v.s. males and how they are expressed within the socio-cultural context
Positive Dependency FeaturesCommitment (“amae”) - presume
on each other’s convenience, call on in time of need
Involvement - engaged in daily activities
Bonding - established history, being a part of one’s life
Obligation - there to help each other out
Positive Dependency Features
Reciprocity - doing for one another
Trust - being able to count on one another, a known quantity
Continuity - sense of community/”family” that extends over time
Kinship ExerciseFrequency of interaction -- how often do
you communicate with them, what is the nature of the communication?
What areas of life do you share with different members? economic - support each othersocial - get together at family
reunions, spend week-end in shared activities, etc.
religious - go to church together, etc.
Kinship ExerciseRole obligations and/or responsibilities
-- what have you done for them recently & what have they done for you?, when you get into trouble, who are you most likely to call upon?
Note any patterns in the nature of your interaction with kin -- do you interact with some more than others and if so why? Is it because they live close by, share common interests and values, and/or because they are relatives?
Changing Family Dynamics
Changing Family Dynamics
1950’s“ traditional family” (focus on structure as economic unit of production & consumption - breadwinner/homemaker) no longer dominant by 1990’s - greater acceptance of plurality of forms
Significance of “second shift” - changing role of males & females within home, impact of “downsizing”, conflicting demands work/home (40% of labor force, nonstandard work schedules), increased economic stress on middle class families
1950’s“ traditional family” (focus on structure as economic unit of production & consumption - breadwinner/homemaker) no longer dominant by 1990’s - greater acceptance of plurality of forms
Significance of “second shift” - changing role of males & females within home, impact of “downsizing”, conflicting demands work/home (40% of labor force, nonstandard work schedules), increased economic stress on middle class families
Ethnic Families in AmericaEthnic Families in America
Significance of “primordial attachments’- belonging to a given ethnic group with a unique cultural heritage
Changing perspective of “Americanization”, assimilation -renewed ethnic consciousness
Focus of identity and solidarity lies in family’s ability to socialize members into ethnic culture
Significance of “primordial attachments’- belonging to a given ethnic group with a unique cultural heritage
Changing perspective of “Americanization”, assimilation -renewed ethnic consciousness
Focus of identity and solidarity lies in family’s ability to socialize members into ethnic culture
Features of Ethnic FamiliesEmphasis on family activities - eating
"ethnic" foodsStructure of the family - traditionally
typically large extended families, patriarchal ideal, father-headed, mother-centered; strong family orientation; trend to smaller more nuclear families, increasing impact of socialization by outside institutions
Features of Ethnic Families -2Ideology - emphasis on trust within
group/family loyalty to kin first; emphasis on honor of the family
Cohesion/integration - traditional unity as the primary social & economic unit, emphasis on supportive family rituals; presently less likely to operate as such
Limited Geographic mobility -- place oriented to a considerable degree
Focus of Articles in Ethnic Families
Historical background of immigration patterns
Demographic characteristics (rates of marriage, divorce, intermarriage)
Structure of the family (distribution of status, authority, responsibility within nuclear family) & extended kin networks
Focus of Articles in Ethnic Families
Cultural values - achievement, style of life, educational & occupational aspirations; reflected in socialization patterns
Characteristics at different stages of the family life cycle - form of acculturation/assimilation taking place
Overview of Immigrant Family in U.S.
Overview of Immigrant Family in U.S.18th cen. Mercantilism, great
transformation to large scale capitalist enterprises w/ rise of proletariats in 19th cen. (push factors); opportunities in U.S. (pull factors)
Immigration waves: 1) 1832-82 (old); 2) 1882-1930 (new - Irish, Germans); 3)”great lull” 1925-’65; 4) 1965 on - Asians, Indians, Pacific Islders., circular & transmodern migration patterns
18th cen. Mercantilism, great transformation to large scale capitalist enterprises w/ rise of proletariats in 19th cen. (push factors); opportunities in U.S. (pull factors)
Immigration waves: 1) 1832-82 (old); 2) 1882-1930 (new - Irish, Germans); 3)”great lull” 1925-’65; 4) 1965 on - Asians, Indians, Pacific Islders., circular & transmodern migration patterns
Black American FamilyBlack American Family
Importance of a holistic approach to studying African American families in context
Four cultural traits distinguishing Black Americans from other immigrants:Are from countries with very different norms &
valuesAre from many different tribes & culturesFirst came without womenCame in bondage
Importance of a holistic approach to studying African American families in context
Four cultural traits distinguishing Black Americans from other immigrants:Are from countries with very different norms &
valuesAre from many different tribes & culturesFirst came without womenCame in bondage
Black American FamilyMajor problems with most studies of
black family life in past, focus on low income groups, presumed to fit various stereotypes by social scientists (few studies until 1970’s) - two major perspectives:
Pathological, disorganization perspective
Strength-resiliency perspective
Black American Family PerspectivesPathological view goes back to slavery
period - supported by both pro- & anti-slavery groups (either not capable of stable family life or such was not possible under conditions of slavery), views family as deviant/maladaptive
ignores variability in family types & existence of free black families
Black American Family PerspectivesFrazier - 1930’s - concerned with
assimilation of blacks in America - viewed “moral disorganization” of black families as impediment to assimilation, failure to keep sexual urges under control;
1965 Moynihan, re-affirmed, view of matrifocal families as disfunctional, associated w/ culture of poverty.
Black American Family Perspectives
Strength resiliency perspective emerges in 1968 w/ Billingsley; focus on adaptive mechanisms of family to meet conflicting demands placed on it; strong role of women
Major strengths - strong kinship bonds, strong work orientation, adaptability of family roles, high achievement & religious orientation
Black American Family
Stack - focus on strategies used in black networks to survive in poor urban environments; domestic networks; focuses on reciprocal exchange & mutual aid among kin & non-kin (not always as effective as stated)
Staples: majority of Black families have nuclear model (1972 - 2/3 w/ husband & wife);
significant variables: education, work, income
Modern Black American Family 1960-’70-’80 decline in fertility rate (birth
rate of college-educated black women lower than white counterparts); increase in out of wedlock births, co-habiting couples;
Distinction of family vs non family households - diversity in composition (nuclear, extended & augmented family households
130% increase in female headed households (discrimination, urban living, poverty); 45% unemployment rate of black men
Modern Black American FamilyBlack kinship network more extensive &
cohesive than among Anglos, take in relatives more readily, rely on kin more
Role relations - egalitarian, husbands involved in decision making; high value of children
Economic problems major factor in marital conflict, imbalanced sex ratio, increase in interracial dating & marriage
Native AmericansSignificant variation among diverse
cultures ranging from hunter gatherers to agricultural states; described primarily by anthropologists in terms of 10-12 cultural areas
Major impact of contact - disease (1/2+ of Indian languages extinct), policy of extermination (vs incorporation characterized by Spanish territories)
Native Americans vs EuropeansNative Americans vs EuropeansContrastsContrasts
Indian marriages public, customary, contract between kin groups VS European marriages - private legal contract between individuals
Indians tolerant of & expressed diversity of marriage forms (polygamy, monogamy etc) & descent systems VS Europeans - monogamy, nuclear family, bilateral inheritance only
Native Americans vs Europeans - Contrasts
Indians - significant variation in level of social organization & kin terminology systems VS Europeans - not significant
Attitudes re: kinship: European failure to understand different kin structures especially of matrilineal groups lead to breakdown of kin systems
Acculturation of Native Americans
forced acculturation to Anglo-European practices via missionary efforts (e.g., “proper” marriage); education (B.I.A., boarding schools);
racist federal policies - force individual land holding (loss of land), economic conditions on reservations, inducements to relocate to urban areas; intermarriages - Indian women marrying non-status whites, lost traditional rights
Modern Native American Families
are approximately 300 federally recognized tribes + another 100 non-recognized tribes (east, California)
despite forced acculturation + influence of American popular culture on N. American youth, & 500 years of ethnocide, significant differences in family practices & values remain
Modern Native American Families
key values - cooperation, balance , harmony, kinship, respect -interrelation of all life, P.D.N.
up to early ‘60’s, dominant view based on early anthro studies - extended family seen as norm; families classified by degree of acculturation
do not have definitive, current research to document changes in Native American family life
Modern Native American Families
problems with classification of “extended family networks”, what constitutes extended - Red Horse’s typology; Native American families are more firmly based on interdependence (e.g., child rearing, ego identity)
types based on degree of assimilation - reflected in degree of intermarriage (white father, grandfather, husband, +school teachers, clergy)
Modern Native American Families
Miller’s typology based on degree to which have Indian/White values & behaviors - traditional (Indian values); transitional (adapts to white means & ends); bicultural (Indian values + adapt to whites); marginal (anomic in both worlds)
bicultural considered to be most well-adjusted
greater availability & proximity of kin, effect on support networks
Modern Native American Families
ways in which researchers define & measure family extension critical
measures - household composition, residential propinquity
best measure - effective or functioning support network based on interaction & proximity of residence
Native American Socio-demographics
fastest growing, youngest population (1.4 million + 6.7 million partial descent); median age lower than general population
more women of childbearing age, more are also adolescents
23% all Native Am. families, female headed; over 1/4th live in povery; high rates of unemployment
Native American Sociodemographicsintermariage increased 20% ‘70 to ‘80;
50%, married to another racesocialization - less acculturated, higher self
esteem, acculturation--destructive effectgender differences: women, concern w/
kinfolk, family, marriage, sex; men, employment, money, success, material matters; men’s roles more changed than women
Gay and Lesbian FamiliesGay and Lesbian Families Major shift from 1960s-’70s to late 1980s -
significant upsurge in # of children w/ 1 or 2 gay/lesbian parent; 1989 Denmark legalized gay marriage, 2001 Netherlands gave full legal rights to same-sex marriages; on-going controversy in U.S.
Impact of sexual revolution, alternative reproductive technologies, continued discrimination & backlash re: “The Family” (DOMA-1996); redefining family in social vs. biological terms;
Legitimizing same-sex marriages significant impact recognizing plurality of diverse vibrant family forms (2001 Gallup poll--opposition dropped to 52%)
Major shift from 1960s-’70s to late 1980s - significant upsurge in # of children w/ 1 or 2 gay/lesbian parent; 1989 Denmark legalized gay marriage, 2001 Netherlands gave full legal rights to same-sex marriages; on-going controversy in U.S.
Impact of sexual revolution, alternative reproductive technologies, continued discrimination & backlash re: “The Family” (DOMA-1996); redefining family in social vs. biological terms;
Legitimizing same-sex marriages significant impact recognizing plurality of diverse vibrant family forms (2001 Gallup poll--opposition dropped to 52%)
Diversity Among Latino Diversity Among Latino FamiliesFamilies
Diversity Among Latino Diversity Among Latino FamiliesFamilies
Historical view - biased perspectives, focus on one family form vs. diverse forms present, tendency to see as “traditional”, disorganized and dysfunctiona;
Impact of economic restructuring & immigration on global basis; 4 factors - new technologies (computer chip), global interdependence, flight of capital, & dominance of info. & service sectors; new demands for immigrant labor
Historical view - biased perspectives, focus on one family form vs. diverse forms present, tendency to see as “traditional”, disorganized and dysfunctiona;
Impact of economic restructuring & immigration on global basis; 4 factors - new technologies (computer chip), global interdependence, flight of capital, & dominance of info. & service sectors; new demands for immigrant labor
Mexican-American Family
Significance of impact of history of colonization by Spain & conflict with U.S. on demographics of Mexican Americans
Key events: Mexican-American War (1846-’48); 1880-1930 & Bracero Program (1942-’64) -- significant increase due to need for labor
Mexican-American Family pop. of Mexican origin tripled from
4.5million in ‘70 to 13.5 million in 1990; presently 60%+ of total Hispanic population (2/3 native born);
majority (86%) in Arizona, California, Colorado, New Mexico, & Texas
Highly heterogeneous population with variable family structures depending on region, education, time of migration, social class, etc.; marked by low family income, high labor force participation -- largest average household size of all Latino groups
Mexican-American Familytraits of Mexican Americans thought to
affect/reflect family patterns - person oriented vs goal oriented (emphasis on interpersonal relations); less materialistic & competitive than Anglos, material goods, a means to an end
stereotypes of traditional family involve positive/negative interpretations of structural features
Traditional Mexican-American Family Features
Familism (la familia) - key role of family to all members, major support in attaining all goals; warm, nurturing, stable structure
Male dominance - machismo - stereotypes--aggression, sexual prowess; real machismo - emphasis on honor of family, courage, generosity, respect for others including role of wife & children; marianismo (matrifocality)
Traditional Mexican-American Family
Sex & age grading - females submissive to males, young to elders - stereotypes overlook functions of each within extended peasant family; respect for elders, role of eldest son, authority over sisters & younger children
Features of traditional family were a response to needs for survival; importance of familism remains strong despite other changes
Modern Mexican-American Family
Primarily located in cities (85%) in SWYoung median age, slightly more males
than females; among hispanics, lowest median income except for Puerto Rican families; blue collar jobs predominant
significantly larger than other ethnic families; lowest level of education (median school years); disproportionate number low S.E.S
Cuban American Family - Immigration
Long term immigration patterns between Cuba & Florida; key turning point 1/1/59 with advent of Castro
By 1986, U.S. Cuban population = 1 million
Six stages of immigration between 1959-80 - commercial flights, airlifts, fewer by small boats & rafts
Cuban American FamilyBecause of key economic role of women,
traditional patriarchal structure of family disrupted; now more egalitarian in role relations
Key feature - Biculturalism & bilingualism - Cubans, significant impact on host culture - 3 stages: acculturation, retention of original Cuban culture, syncretism (all within family unit); also a source of tension between parents & children
Puerto Rican American Family Immigration of working class linked to political-
economic relation between two countries with major immigration after WWII, especially in 1950’s with industrialization efforts in P.R.
Source of cheap labor in services agriculture & garment industry; most between ages 15-39.
Majority in urban areas, New York; migration marked by ebb & flow, marked return migration
Puerto Rican American Family modified extended family predominant with
emphasis on family interdependence, needing others for support (P.D.N.)
emphasis on compadrazgo, hijos de crianza machismo & marianismo (mother role key) respeto - generalized deference to superiors;
emphasis on personalismo - face to face, informal, personal relations
Puerto Rican American FamilyHigh number of poor, female headed
households, blue collar, service jobs; out-group marriage patterns (‘49-’69) indicate rapid assimilation
Four types of familial household structures: modified extended family; nuclear family; blended nuclear (Fa/Mo/So/Da/Step children); single parent families - typology overlooks blending of forms
Puerto Rican American FamilyModified extended family primary
support system, 1st & 2nd generationsEmphasis on familism, interdependence,
family unity (obligation for assistance)Respeto related to age/sex hierarchy -
status increases with age (elder parents)Strict dichotomy between genders
(ideology of male dominance prevails)
Zapotec Peasantsagricultural village in Oaxaca, Mexico; pop.
~1,250 in late ‘60’s; patrilocal, ext. family, ideal
3 central values representing good: humility (we are all equally poor, attend
to others, obedience to authority); trust (character, taking people at word); respect (manipulating social hierarchy to
benefit one, granting favors)
Zapotec Peasants evil - institutionalized envy - opposite of that
which is good - always making invidious comparisons; mark of disharmony, witchcraft
categories of kin - “insiders” (close to me) vs “outsiders” (people who mean nothing, or may be something to me); is an endogamous village, thus a matter of manipulating kin ties
deviant person is one with defective kin ties;
Zapotec Peasant Ideology
community ideology re: sexual behavior - only between married individuals, are punished for extramarital affairs; incest, abhorrent to community, punished by authorities.
reality - only person without extramarital affairs is the deviant; no clear notion of adultery; gossip about sexual affairs constant, but one who informs is viewed as most deviant; incest occurs often; no real punishment for adultery
Zapotec Peasantsmajor ritual & religious symbols of
society built upon association with “insiders”
compadrazgo ties extend to 4 generations; everyone related thru blood & marriage
strategy to follow - keep number of insider ties to minimum needed to maximize security
The Korean-American Family - Historypioneer immigration to Hawaii 1903-05
(uneducated, unskilled laborers); Korean war brides, 1950's -
intermarriage with servicemen, higher divorce rates
main immigration after 1965 Immigration Act (3rd largest after Mexicans & Filipinos, key emphasis on family unity - increased numbers of kin brought over), educated professionals & technicians
The Korean-American Familytraditional family - patriarchal, strong
influence of Confucianism (respect for & obedience to parents & elders, filial piety/ancestor worship);
married women did not work, subordinate to husband’s authority
education viewed as the main avenue for social mobility
New Korean Immigrantsprimarily West Coast (30% in California)
- in large urban areas - Los Angeles, New York, Chicago
larger families (live with parents until marriage), lower divorce rate than Americans (higher than in Korea)
high female labor-force participation rate - mostly in small businesses --grocery stores, green groceries, fast food services (unable to find jobs to match status in Korea);
New Korean Immigrants
double day for women; continued traditional socialization for boys & girls
strengthened conjugal ties, focus on family (positive dependency); strong extended kin ties
primary area of inter-group conflict - white suppliers, black ghetto residents
The Chinese-American Family
In the U.S., significant numbers for 130+ years; largest Asian group in U.S.
little research on Chinese-American family, no typical family
major features - stable family unit (low divorce & illegitimacy); close ties between generations; economic self-sufficiency
The Chinese-American Family
traditional family - patriarchal, patrilocal, patrilineal - father & eldest son primary authority; ancestor worship, filial piety (significance of tzu); concept of "face"
Acculturation - lessening of above, also reflected in the increase in interracial marriages among young
Chinese Immigration Patterns
"Mutilated"/"split" family (1850-1920) -primarily men (Chinese Exclusion Act, 1882, 1888 Scott Act)
Small producer family (1920-43) - second generation Chinese population (discrimination of 1924 Immigration Act - citizens with chinese ancestry not allowed to send for wives & families)
Chinese Immigration PatternsNormalization of Chinese family (1943-
65) - 1945 War Brides Act, 1948 Displaced Persons Act
Ghetto & professional Chinese family (1965-present) - ghetto - dual worker family, new immigrants in Chinatown (segregation work & family life); professional - middle-class, white-collar, suburbs, more modern & cosmopolitan - "semiextended" family points to continued importance of kin ties
Male Dominance in Peasant Families Four Features of
Peasant SocietyClearcut ideology of male dominance -
does not necessarily reflect the reality of the peasant situation particularly with respect to the role women play.
A preference toward males in inheritance rules and residence patterns.
Male Dominance in Peasant Families
Predominance of males in prestigious productive activities, namely agriculture, which does NOT necessarily indicate who controls or makes the most decisions regarding the allocation of products
Social segregation of the sexes with an emphasis on male authority within the household
Presence of Complementary Roles in the Peasant Family
Women are primarily associated with the domestic domain, which is of central importance in peasant society (source of female power)
Peasants are relatively powerless in their relationship to the larger society of which they are a part, and face-to-face interaction is significant within the community.
Presence of Complementary Roles in the Peasant Family
Ergo, informal relationships and forms of power are as significant as formal authorized relations and forms of power (this serves as a second basis of female power)
Males have greater access to jural and other formal rights and are occupied with activities overtly considered to be important. (This is the basis of the ideology of male dominance.)
Peasant Family StructureMen and women are equally dependent on
each other in important ways. (Source of the balance of power between the sexes.).
In summary, the first two components above, provide the basis for feminine power; the third insures the presence of an ideology of male dominance; and the fourth, maintenance of a balance of power between the sexes (complementarity) which is achieved by acting out the "myth" of male dominance.
Vietnamese American FamilyApproximately 600,000 currently in U.S.,
more than 1 million have fled to the WestTraditional society/culture - 4 classes:
scholars (most respected); peasant farmers; craftsmen; businessmen
village next in importance after family as a positive dependency network
patriarchal family, center of individual’s life
History of Immigration - Four Waves
Educated - end of the war, April ‘75, more educated, successful adaptation
Boat people - ‘78-’79 - ethnic chinese vietnamese business people
Escapees - via Thailand, Malaysia, walked across Laos etc.
Orderly departees emigrated in “79 after Viet. govt. allowed them to join relatives abroad
Traditional Vietnamese Extended Family - Ho
Truong Toc - head of family, oldest male, responsible for care of ancestors
Mother - no power, privileges, obey father, husband, eldest son; only area of equality, property & debts; had rights only as a mother, obeyed & respected by children
Piety for parents, most significant moral obligation
Traditional Socialization & Marriage
sex segregation in socialization, fa-son; mo-da; mother blamed for child’s misconduct
siblings, age-hierarchy significant; share all within family
boys, formal schooling, not for girlsboys - may marry at 16 (usually later),
girls, 13; arranged by family; emphasis on children; patrilocal residence; taboo to marry foreigners
Vietnamese Family in AmericaU.S. - Texas & especially California
(highest number of SE Asian refugees)significant values - care for family
members, family first before individual, self-sufficiency based on family;
compared with other Asian Americans, have highest percentage of extended families (55%)
Vietnamese Family in America
four family patterns - nuclear family; incomplete extended family; broken family (father or mother, some children, rest in Vietnam or dead); one person family
young population; only Asian group with high percentage of female-headed households
Vietnamese Family in AmericaChanges - more freedom/independence by
young; father less absolute control;women, significantly higher fertility than
other Asian Americans (fewer kids w/ more education);
Conflicts: Vietnamese vs American identity (“marginal man”), parents & children; role conflict between husband/wife; less respect for aged
Japanese American Family
Difficulties attached to stereotypes persist because are localized to California & Hawaii, & because little research done until recently
Significant immigration after 1890 - young male agricultural workers (discrimination similar to Chinese)
Japanese AmericansIssei - immigrants (1st generation,
restrictive rules); Nisei (2nd generation - American born, 1910-45); Sansei (3rd generation)
Issei - membership by situation - identity w/ group for social support, loyalty; society seen as a large family; group control of behavior
Japanese Americans - Isseiimportance of ie, traditional household -
residence important, arranged marriages, patriarchal, emphasis on eldest son
rank & status determined by age, sex, and period of service (seniority) - significance of enryo (restraint/reserve)
Japanese American Family
influence of Japanese culture decreases w/ each generation, 1/3rd Jap. women & increasing number of males marry out (5% Issei,15% Nisei, 50%+ Sansei);
relatively slow acculturation due to descrimination
Japanese American Family Values
emphasis on duties & responsibilities - filial piety (family unity);
socialization via dependence on group, avoid direct confrontation, “losing face”;
enryo - showing restraint, awareness of hierarchial status
amae - need to be loved/cherished, depend on & presume another’s benevolence