finding your voice meshing their 21 st century style with your 20 th century experience
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What’s the new perspective? What did you know about your opponent before you played? What do our players know about their opponent before they play?TRANSCRIPT
Finding Your Voice
Meshing THEIR 21st Century Style with YOUR 20th Century Experience
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vbexpert: AVCA Presentation by Beth Launiere at Spring Conference
*Member is Man… Beth really bombed this
presentation!!!way off line
What’s the new perspective?
What did you know about your opponent before you played?
What do our players know about their opponent before they play?
Their Chaotic World News, message
boards, blogs, social networking, wars, swine flu, economic crisis, terrorisms…….
High information
Sensationalized
Flood of Negative
Our Stable Program Trusting and Safe
Environment
In It Together
Help them to find a focus and rudder
Focus on what they can control
Goal Setting, Expectations, Intrinsic Value
“What is DELAYED is not DENIED”
delayed gratification
Order and Discipline - Cauldron
Their Practice World Game Like Training
Less Control
Choices (they are now making decisions)
Growth
Leadership
Hovering Parents 9 out of 10 College Freshman like hovering
parents!
Now what do we do? Replace, wean and facilitate GROWTH Safe environment allows this PROCESS Allows the goal of PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY Relationships with Freshman and Seniors Prepared citizens to go out into the community
From Weaning to Winning Winning is our Job
Allow this process to happen
Let go of control - treat them like adults!
Allow input and challenge
Champions are created through this process!
Finding Your VoiceBe Authentic
Be Who You Are Need to know self You can’t fake it if you are
going to allow challenge
Be Adaptive to Change
Coaching is an ART not a SCIENCE
Let Them See You
Who do you trust? Someone you don’t know or someone you do know?