1Four Steps of Communication and Strategies for Thinking Socially

2Today’s Objective

To identify the four steps of communication, to develop common social vocabulary, and to provide effective steps that can be used within the classroom setting.

1. What are the stages of

social interaction?

2. What are the 4 steps of

communication?

3. What are some effective social skills strategies that I can use with my student(s)?

3Overview of the Day

Ice breaker activity

Define social skills and levels of play/interaction

What is the hidden curriculum?

Outline the four steps of communication

Introduce some social thinking vocabulary

Quiz Time

Assess need and identify deficit

Strategies for implementing social skill development

Your homework assignment

4ICE BREAKER ACTIVITY

WEB GAME

Form a circle in the middle of the room

5Defining Social Skills

In small groups, what words would you use to describe an individual with strong social skills

How do you think they learned these skills?

Can “good” social skills be taught?

6Social Skills are… components of behavior that help an individual understand and adapt

across a variety of social settings (Steedly et al., 2011)

…the abilities necessary to get along with others and to create and maintain satisfying relationships (Kennedy-Moore, 2011)

…about being able to flexibly adjust our behavior to fit a particular situation and our personal needs and desires

…also defined as recognizing and managing our emotions, developing caring and concern for others, establishing positive relationships, making responsible decisions, and handling challenging situations constructively and ethically (as cited in Steedly et al. 2011)

7Social Interactions: 6 levels of play As children develop, they move from individual to group play

Type of play varies day to day and situation to situation depending on how the child is feeling that day or what their preferences are that day.

Six Levels of Play

1. Unoccupied play: the child is relatively stationary and appears to be performing random movements with no apparent purpose. A relatively infrequent style of play.

2. Solitary play: the child is completely engrossed in playing and does not seem to notice other children.

8Social Interactions: 6 levels of play3. Onlooker play: child takes an interest in other children’s play but does not join

in. May ask questions or just talk to other children, but the main activity is simply to watch.

4. (2-3 years) Parallel play: the child mimics other children’s play but doesn’t actively engage with them. For example they may use the same toy.

5. Associative play: more interested in each other than the toys they are using. Develop friendships and preferences for playing with some and not others.

6. Cooperative play: some organization enters children’s play, for example the playing has some goal and/or rules and children often adopt roles and act as a group.

(Research by Mildred Parten in 1920s, Institute of Child Development, Minnesota)

9The Hidden Curriculum

A term used to describe a set of rules or guidelines that are assumed by the general population and not directly taught

They are social or subtle cues that we acquire through observation over time.

It enables us to read body language, understand idioms, slang words, humour etc.

It differs across genders, age groups, and cultures

(Smith-Myles & Simpson, 2001)

10Individuals with social communication challenges

Might lack the ability to intuitively interpret what others are thinking, saying, or intending

Aren’t able to regulate their own behaviour to other people’s thoughts or expectations. (example: Blurting out, volume/tone, staying on topic, laughing out of turn, being out of sync with the rest of the group)

Following the unwritten or hidden rules of the environment , even outside of active social interactions (example: stepping aside when someone gets on the elevator, sitting quietly in class while teacher talks even when you want to say something)

114 Steps of Communication:

1. Using your BRAIN to think about others

12How well did Garfield do in this first exercise of using his brain to think of others?

In groups, brainstorm ways he could begin to demonstrate that he is

actually thinking about Jon.

13Questions Garfield Should Ask Himself

1. Do I know what interests them?

2. Do I know what they are feeling with what I’m saying?

3. When they are talking, what am I doing to show them I’m interested?

144 Steps of Communication:

2. Using your EYES to make connections

Focus for a minute on her eyes.What is she thinking?

Feeling? Seeing?

15WHY IS EYE CONTACT SO IMPORTANT?

A. The direction of where our eyes and other peoples eyes are looking, shows us what everyone might be thinking about.

Example: Looking down at video game and saying, “I went cherry picking!” (Minecraft lingo)

B. It helps us figure out what people are feeling, thinking, and what they might be interested in.

Example: Someone keeps looking at the clock (Bored? Late? Waiting for something?)

164 Steps of Communication:

3. Using your BODY to make connectionsWhat does your body tell others?

A. Your body position shows us who you want to talk to or not talk to

B. Your movements tell us what you might do next (even unintentionally)

C. Your body language, gestures, and facial expression tell us how you might feel about a topic or people around you

17Describe Dilbert’s DilemmaIn terms of his body language, how did he

react to the situation?

18Class Activity

In pairs, create a skit without using words. Consider the direction of your body position,

body movements/gestures, and facial expressions. A few will be performed in front of

the class. The class will use clues to understand what the skit is about.

194 Steps of Communication:

4. Using your WORDS to make connectionsHow do we do this?

A. By talking about other people’s interests

B. By asking questions to find out their interests and make comments to show interest

C. By adding our own experience to other people’s experiences

D. By adjusting our language to fit with the conversation

20A Question for the Class

If we are to successfully connect with others through language what personal

qualities should we possess?

Write down your answers in your worksheet and share as a class.

21Ideas for Social Thinking Vocabulary

Expected Behaviour Unexpected Behaviour

Whole Body Listening

Is your body in the group?

Hidden rules that we must learn. Rules of

what is expected changes based on

where we are and who we are with

When we behave in a way that gives people

weird or uncomfortable thoughts about us

Using your BODY to show you are

connecting with the group

22Ideas for Social Thinking Vocabulary

Flexible Brain Whopping Topic Change

Thinking with your Eyes

Opposite of rigid brain where we follow the rules ALL the time instead of interpreting subtle different meanings in language or expression eg.

Humour or being ok with different points of view

When I interject in a conversation with a topic I

am interested in but one that isn’t being discussed

Am I using my eyes to figure out my environment and

what others might be thinking? I can use this information to adapt my

thinking, words, and behavior.

23Ideas for Social Thinking Vocabulary

Smart Guess

vs.

Wacky Guess

People Files Social Fake

When I guess what others are saying, is it

on topic or is it a random guess that does

not consider what we know or see?

How we relate to others based on what we know

of them

Showing interest in what other people are saying even when you are not

interested

24Quiz TimeWatch the following clip

What social thinking vocabulary words might you consider using with Sheldon to help him become

a better social thinker?

URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1meNHRlGEeM

25Steps in Supporting Social Skill DevelopmentStep 1: Assess

Checklist resources from:Scott Bellini- Building Social RelationshipsKathleen Ann Quill-Do-Watch-Listen-Say

Observe in natural settingAssess across settings (home, classroom, playground) and

times of dayIf possible, collect data from a variety of individuals (teachers,

support staff, parents)

26Step 2: Identify the Nature of their Deficit

Acquisition- lacks the knowledge • E.g.. Blurts out the answer in class because they do not know the rule is to raise your hand and wait for

the teacher to acknowledge you.• Use DIRECT instruction (model behavior, role-play, provide direct and positive feedback)

Performance- knows how but fails to do it consistently• E.g.. understands that they must raise hand to speak but sometimes blurts out in class. • Use VISUALS/PROMPTS and reinforcement to increase their performance

Motivational- knows how, but is not motivated• Correct student BEFORE they make an error and use contingency management

Discrimination - skill learned but has not figured out when to use it. • Needs to know WHEN and HOW to use the skill• Encourage rehearsing, practicing, and varying your reward

27Step 3: Implement

Skill Development: 4 Steps

1. Model and Rehearse

2. Coach and Practice

3. Reflect and Analyze

4. Maintain and Generalize

281. Model and Rehearse Through: Direct Instruction

Writing up scripts or social stories for the students to read Role modeling and using “real life situations” Videotaping appropriate models and discussing 4 areas of

communication afterwards Use social thinking vocabulary to discuss the rules of the

hidden curriculum Using IPad apps and playing with different facial expressions

292. Coach and Practice Practice every day in a variety of settings for short periods of

time Consider play groups or 1:1 structured play opportunities Always work towards fading adult prompt (i.e. hand under

hand, verbal, gestural, visual, in the room but maybe supporting another student)

Provide lots of praise and rewards Break and choice activity afterwards as it can be exhausting for

them Consider peer models or mentors

303. Reflect and Analyze

Review situations where learner misread a cueUse mind maps, behavior maps, or comic strips to

break down and make sense of the situationCreate a script for problem solvingReinforcements for hard work and solving a problemDo not overanalyze. The aim is to get them to think

about it and continue to motivate them to keep wanting to learn. Consider focusing on ONE aspect.

314. Maintain and Generalize

Communicate learner’s progress with parents, staff so that the skill may be generalized across situations

• Include:

a) Strategies used

b) Social thinking vocabulary learned

c) Hidden rules understood or working on

d) Always provide rewards for being able to problem solve effectively across situations

32Think of a Student or Try for Next Time

1. Think of a student

2. What social skill might you want them to work on? (4 steps of communication)

3. Consider their personality and interests, how might you introduce the social skill to be learned? (Model and Rehearse)

4. What social thinking vocabulary might be used to help the learner understand the hidden rules?

33References

Slide 4

Knox, G. Retrieved October 10 th, 2014, from http://insight.typepad.co.uk/40_icebreakers_for_small_groups.pdf

Slide 6

Steedly, K.M., Schwartz, A., Levin, M.,& Luke, S.D. (2008). Social skills and academic achievement. Evidence for Education 3(2). Retrieved October1st , 2014, from

http://www.parentcenterhub.org/repository/social-skills/

Kennedy-Moore, E. (2011). Growing friendships: All about children’s social and emotional development. Psychology Today. Retrieved September 27th 2014, from

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/growing-friendships/201108/what-are-social-skills

Slide 7-8:

Dean, J. (2008). 6 types of play: how we learn to work together. Retrieved October 1 st, 2014 from

http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/07/6-types-of-play-how-we-learn-to-work.php

Child Development Institute: Forms of play. Retrieved, September 15 th, 2014, from http://childdevelopmentinfo.com/child-development/play-work-of-children/pl3 /

Slides 9-10:

Smyth-Miles, B. (2004). The Hidden Curriculum. Kansas: Autism Asperger Publishing Company. Retrieved September 15 th, 2014, from

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Slides 11-23:

Garcia Winner, M. (2011). Social thinking worksheets for tweens and teens: Learning to read in between the social lines. Thinking Social Publishing: San Jose, California.

Slide 25:

Bellini, S. (2006). Building Social Relationships: A systematic approach to teaching social interaction skills to children and adolescents with autism spectrum disorders and other social difficulties. Autism Asperger Publishing:

KS, USA.

Slides 28-31:

Adapted from Leslie Burgess Social Skills Instruction for students with ASD (June 2008). POPARD Workshop.