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From
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From
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… To
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From
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… To
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From
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… To
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When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years. - Mark Twain
"Mothers of
teenagers know
why animals eat
their young“
"Raising
teenagers is
like nailin
g Jell-
O to a tre
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"A teenager is always too tired to hold a dishcloth,
but never too tired to hold a phone."
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The teen years are a period of intense growth,
not only physically but emotionally, socially and
intellectually. It's understandable that it is a time of confusion and
upheaval for many families
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The goal of parenting
teens is to successfully launch them
into adulthood
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Typical
Characteristics
Of
Teenagers*
•Emotional
•Physical
•Social
•Intellectual* Compiled by Bob Stahn.
www.wellspringcounselingllc.com
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• Awkward• Experimenting • Energetic • Hormone Driven• Out of control• Mobile / free• Rarely likes own appearance • Gawky (as is anything in its adolescence)• In transition from child to adult• Growing (out of clothes)
• Often hungry or eating• Adult body but not maturity
* Compiled by Bob Stahn. www.wellspringcounselingllc.com
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•Near sighted•Invincible, risk taker•Self conscious•Doesn’t know self•Defensive often•Curious•Moody, chaotic internally•Awkward•In transition from child to adult•Confused/confusing•New and wonderful experiences•Sensitive about self•Insensitive about others
•Volatile•Know-it-all•Disconnected with others•Experimenting•Enmeshed with peers•Unstable•Dependent•Independent (second toddlerhood)•Narrow minded•Does not know self•Inadequate•Insecure
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• Peer oriented/pressure• Self conscious • In transition • Unskilled/Awkward • Manipulative• Without a niche • Liberated from “kid” status • “Pairing up” interests• Acceptance-focused behavior • Individual identity• Being seen/recognized (on stage)
• Mobility• Freedom• Experimental• Insensitive about others• Sensitive about self• Clothes status• Manipulative• Alone/misfit• Want distance from parents
* Compiled by Bob Stahn. www.wellspringcounselingllc.com
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• Black and white thinking• Abstract thinking• Idealistic thinking• Here-and-now thinking only (no future)• Pseudo-stupidity (due to little experience)• Experimentation with boundaries• Experimentation with values• Question “Who am I?”• Question “Am I normal?”• Question “Who and what should I believe”
* Compiled by Bob Stahn. www.wellspringcounselingllc.com
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The Influence of
Society on Teens
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The world revolves around you!
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You
Need
Stuff!
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You Must Be Constantly Entertained!
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The Virtual World is a Great Place to Live!
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You Must Stay Connected
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Online Usage: 12 – 17 yo• 95% regularly use the internet• 69% have own their computer• 37% have smart phones • 24% use game console to get online (Pew Research 2012)
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Social Media Sites• 73% of teens have a
social media profile
• Avg. teen has 201 FB friends
• 18% of teens create private email or social network profile
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Cell Phones• 78% of teens have a
cell phone
• The avg. teen sends 60 texts/day
• 40% of teens plan to buy an iphone in the next 6 months
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The typical teen logs more than seven
hours a day and more than 50 hours a week
in front of a TV, computer, or cell
phone screen(Kaiser Family Foundation
2012)
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Today’s teens are the most
connected generation in
history.
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That connectedn
ess will influence
their developme
nt.
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Make Your Voice Heard !
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The goal of parenting teens is to successfully launch them into adulthood
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Be a
Tugboat
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Tugboats are:• tenacious
• powerful
• influential
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The function of the
tugboat is to
guide ships
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• Assist ships leaving & entering the harbor
• Move ships to a desired direction
• Tow ships who cannot move under their own power
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Top 5 Tug Boat Tips
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Set clear boundaries
and discuss
consequences
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Learn to let
go
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Expect the best
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Listen more….
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Be observant and
involved
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“If we treat people as who they can become, they will be inspired to rise to the level of our
expectations.”
~ John Maxwell