gabrielle k. gabrielli, ph.d.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/gabrielle--frpa-generations.pdfplan...

88
+ Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.

Upload: others

Post on 01-Aug-2020

0 views

Category:

Documents


0 download

TRANSCRIPT

Page 1: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.

Page 2: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Agenda

1310-1340 Overview of the Generations

1340-1410 Communicating to the Generations

1410-1440 Marketing to the Generations

1440-1455 Break

1455-1525 Case Studies

1525-1555 Role Play

1555- 1625 Conclusions and Action Plan

Page 3: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Learning Objectives

By the end of this session, participants willbe able to:

Explain what shapes and motivates each of thegenerations

Describe how generational differences affectconsumer and workplace behavior

Promote skills for effective intergenerationalmarketing and communication

Expand the ability to communicate withdifferent generations

Page 4: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Intergenerational Harmony

Traditionalists (1900-1945)

Baby Boomers (1946-1964)

Gen X (1965-1980)

Gen Y aka Millenials (1981-2000)

Gen Z (2001- 2010)*

“Cuspers”

Page 5: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Some Divide the Generations

Traditionalists (1900-1945) Divided:

Pre-Depression Era 1900-1911

Depression Era 1912-1921

World War II 1922-1927

Post-War Cohort 1928-1945

Baby Boomers (1946-1964) Divided:

Generation Jones 1954-1965*

Page 6: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Traditionalists1900-1945

Page 7: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Traditionalists

75 million- American values

Proud, wise, accomplished generation

Many heroes

Value law and order

50% are veterans

Hold of financial assets

Page 8: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Traditionalists

Assets- stable, detail oriented, thorough, loyal,hard working

Liabilities- struggle with ambiguity and change,may be offended by profanity, don’t want to feelembarrassed

Most valued psychological need- respect*

They look for opportunities to contribute

Show your appreciation with hand written notes

* Randstad, 2001

Page 9: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Baby Boomers1946-1964

Page 10: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Baby Boomers

80 million people

Work = self fulfillment

They live to work

They were shaped by civil rights,birth control, peace corps, spaceprogram

Memorabilia became a big partof their culture

Page 11: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Baby Boomers

Assets- optimism, personal gratification andgrowth. As consumers, they spend a lot.

They want to please. They are very good atrelationships.

Value public recognition*

Liabilities- uncomfortable with conflict, generallydon’t handle budgets well

“We need you” motivates them.

* Randstad, 2001

Page 12: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Baby Boomers

They want credit for their accomplishments andto feel like they make a difference.

Focus them on solving problems andopportunities to learn.

Help them find they “why” in an organization.

Ask permission.

When recruiting, tell them they have anopportunity to make positive change.

Page 13: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Generation Xers1965-1980

Page 14: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Generation Xers

46 million people

Grew up feeling neglected and fiercelyindependent- survivors

No heroes except their parents.

Everyone decided that they would not be therescuers of the world.

They aren’t slackers, but they don’t like goinginto the workplace and not making decisions.

Page 15: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Generation Xers

Assets- pragmatic, realistic, adaptable,independent, not intimidated by authority

Liabilities- skeptical, distrustful, impatient

“We are not very corporate” is a motivator

Technology savvy, value balance

You have to be what you say you are with them.They have a strong sense of doing things betterthan their parents did it.

Page 16: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Generation Yers1981-2000

Page 17: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Generation Yers

78 million people.

Expect to start at the top, think they deserve the positionwhether experienced or not.

Have had immediate gratification their whole lives.

Very tech savvy, had Internet their whole lives.

Texting works better than email.

Grew up with the ability to be their own heroes.

Value civic duty, very optimistic; they don’t like to be put incubicles; want to socialize.

Like to use technology during work hours, even if it is notappropriate.

Page 18: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Generation Yers

Assets- great collaborators, love working in groups,optimistic, risk takers.

Liabilities- would never think to pick up the phone whenan email gets out of hand, don’t respect traditionalhierarchies and they often bypass authority, will cry atwork, have a totally different sense about what isappropriate.

“You can be a hero here” is a motivator.

Need supervision and structure.

Page 19: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Page 20: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Activity

Think of a situation you encounteredwhere generations played a role.

What happened?

Which generations were involved?

Is there anything that could have been donedifferently to improve the situation?

Write your thoughts down on a sheet of paper.

Page 21: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Break

Please return promptly in 15 minutes.

Page 22: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Marketing to the Generations

Page 23: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Consumer Trends

Technology-focused

Web 2.0

Social networking

Search-engine driven

Information-driven, changing frequently

Green

Throwback

People want a voice, not a hard sell.

Consumers are tired of technology barriers.

Page 24: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Creative Marketing

Businesses

Price products lower

Gain from new needs

Build sense of relationship

Non-profit organizations

Hold fundraising events, silent auctions

Recognize volunteers

Hold media events

Create lower price points for sponsors

Build sense of community

A

d

d

V

a

l

u

e

Page 25: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Creative Marketing

Associations

Adapt to new needs

Provide membership incentives

Increase retention efforts

Develop creative ideas for new revenue

Plan strategically for the future

Build sense of relationship

Create sense of community

A

d

d

V

a

l

u

e

Page 26: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

7 Online Marketing Trends - 2010

1. Improved lifecycle marketing providescustomers with appropriate information.

2. Segmentation is essential to deliveringrelevant communications.

3. Social media marketing strategiesmature.

4. Content is more shareable.

* ClickZ, 2010

Page 27: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

7 Online Marketing Trends - 2010

5. Search marketing continues to evolve andexpand.

6. Metrics continue to become moresophisticated.

7. Offline marketing continues to expand itsreach online.

* ClickZ, 2010

Page 28: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Web 2.0 Technology

Increases:

Collaboration

Creativity

Secure information sharing

Community

Capability

Reciprocal communication

Page 29: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Examples of 2.0

Social networking http://facebook.com

Video sharing http://youtube.com

Wikis http://wikipedia.com

Blogs http://blogger.com

Folksonomy http://flickr.com

Page 30: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ SEO

Search Engine Optimization

Page 31: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Pagerank

Numeric value that represents howimportant a page is on the web

Cross-linking is important

PR(A) = (1-d) + d(PR(t1)/C(t1) + ... + PR(tn)/C(tn))

PageRank = 0.15 + 0.85 * (a "share" of the PageRank of

every page that links to it)

Page 32: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ What To Do about Negative Ratings

Monitor message boards, customerreviews.

Address customer concerns.

Resolve legitimate concerns.

Report concerns that are efforts tosabotage.

Offset negatives with positives.

Page 33: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Cross Promote

Blogs

Keep them current

YouTube

Get votes on videos

LinkedIn

Twitter

Facebook

Don’t update status too much

Page 34: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Page 35: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Value of Facebook Fans

Vitrue calculated value at $3.60

Based on impressions from news feed

1 million fans equals at least $3.6 million inequivalent media over a year

Range .44 - 3.6 impressions

Engagement increases value

AdWeek, 14 April 2010

Page 36: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Value of Facebook Communities

Starbucks - $20.7 million, 7 million likes

Coke - $4.6 million, 5.5 million likes

Vitrue’s Social Page Evaluator- calculatespotential worth based on their best practices

http://evaluator.vitrue.com

Page 37: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Marketing Your Website

Check out your competition

View source

Ensure metadata (keywords, description,title, ALT tags, etc.) are effective

Take advantage of free marketing options

Consider industry publications and otherpaid marketing options

Page 38: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Website Rules of Thumb

If your website is more than 3 years old,consider a redesign.

If you still have a “splash” page, remove it.

Don’t have more than 2 moving items on aweb page at any given time.

Try to reduce volume of text to preventscrolling on homepage.

Cross-promote, cross-link, reinforce brand,market yourself with innovation!

Page 39: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Free Website Promotion

Exchange links with other organizationsand businesses.

Take advantage of free websitesubmission tools like http://addme.com.

Page 40: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Metadata

Page Title

Description

Keywords

ALT Tags

Page 41: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ View Source

Page 42: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Metadata Description

Character Limit- Typically 200-250

When limit is exceeded, some searchengines may bump you

Page 43: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Metadata Title

Character Limits- Google 160, Yahoo 165,MSN 200

When limit is exceeded, some searchengines may bump you

Default page name in some software is“Home” - be sure to change it

Unique title is needed for each page

Page 44: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Metadata Keywords

Character Limits- No real limits on mostsearch engines but figure first 20 words asmost important

No real consequence when limit isexceeded

Doesn’t carry as much weight as it oncedid with SEO, but still important

Page 45: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Keywords

Don’t use capitalization.

Don’t use plurals.

Put most important search terms at the topof the list.

For local organizations, regionalize searchterms.

Add unique descriptors.

Page 46: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ ALT Tags

Help drive traffic to website and ensureSection 508 accessibility

alt=”wakulla springs state park"

Page 47: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ The Value of Great Content

...when a video goes viral on YouTube

Connect with audience

Know who you want to reach

Create a relationship with them

Actively build audience base

Add meaningful metadata

Page 48: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Distribution in U.S. on Facebook

Source: checkfacebook.com retrieved 2 Sept 2010

Page 49: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

Facebook vs. Twitter vs. LinkedIn

Facebook Twitter LinkedIn

Founded 2004 2006 2003

Users 513 million 105 million*** 60 million

Employees 700 141 480

Asks What’s on your

mind?

What’s happening? Share an idea,

article, question

or update

Connections Friends Followers Connections

Features Wall posts,

photos, video,

links, groups,

events, causes,

fan pages,

direct

messages,

applications

Tweets, retweets,

direct messages

Professional

networking,

industry groups,

recommendation

s, job classifieds,

direct messages,

premier paid

subscription

Page 50: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Page 51: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Page 52: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Page 53: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Page 54: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Content of Tweets

Pear Analytics, 2010

Page 55: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Twitter Followers

RJMetrics, 2010

Page 56: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Things Change Every Day....

Page 57: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ If I only had three choices....

1. Facebook

• http://facebook.com

2. LinkedIn

• http://linkedin.com

3. YouTube

• http://youtube.com

Page 58: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Costs of Turnover

80 percent of turnover is due to hiringmistakes.

HR experts say that supervisors typicallyspend 80% of their time with 20% of theiremployees.

Turnover is estimated to cost 50-100% of ayear’s salary of the position.

Page 59: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

People join companies

and leave managers.

Page 60: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Hiring and Retaining Excellent Employees

People are any organization’s mostvaluable asset.

Turnover is a problem that can often beresolved.

The most important aspect of employeeretention is the relationship with his or herimmediate supervisor.

Page 61: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Set Expectations

Provide frequent feedback

Give positive feedback

Give appropriate corrective feedback

Page 62: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Positive Feedback

Four components of praise:

1. Specific

2. Immediate

3. Earned

4. Individualized

Page 63: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Corrective Feedback

Four components of correctivefeedback:

1. Behavior

2. Effect

3. Expectation

4. Result/ Consequence

Page 64: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ One View of Conflict

Conflict is inevitable, but combat is

optional.

~Max Lucado, theologian

Page 65: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Common Conflict Responses

Avoidance Maybe the problem will just go away.

Poor meComplain to anyone within earshot, except theperson you have the problem with.

AngerEmotional outbursts that make everyoneuncomfortable and solve nothing.

Revenge

Find ways to disturb the person who hasdisturbed you by “getting even” or evensabotaging their performance or reputation.

Page 66: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ The CALM Model

Clarify the issue

Address the problem

Listen to the other person

Manage your way to a resolution

Page 67: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ C: Clarify the IssueConflict Clarification Questions - Primary Questions

1. What am I upset about? In specific behavioralterms, what actually happened? Who else isinvolved? What did they do?

2. What emotions am I feeling: anger, hurt,frustration? Why am I feeling that way?

3. Have I contributed to the problem?

4. Am I just overreacting? If so, why?

5. In terms of actions and relationships, what aremy desires for an outcome to this conflict? Whatwill successful resolution look like?

6. If I was the other person involved in thissituation, how would I want to be approachedand dealt with?

Page 68: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ C: Clarify the Issue

Conflict Clarification Questions - Secondary Questions

7. Where was the other person coming from?Could they in fact have been motivated by goodintentions?

8. Has this happened before, or is this a first timeoccurrence?

9. How is this situation affecting you and yourwork? Are others impacted? If so, how?

10. When dealing with this issue, what can you doto increase your chances of getting the resultsyou want? What counter-productive behaviorsdo you want to avoid?

Page 69: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ A: Address the Problem

The Opening

The Issue Description

Exactly what happened

How it made you feel

The negative impacts the situation hascaused

Page 70: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ A: Address the Problem

Other things to remember:

1. Have a walk-in strategy; you may want topractice what you plan to say.

2. Don’t repeat what co-workers have said; thisis between the two of you.

3. Keep the end in mind; the goal is not to winan argument. The goal is to reach arespectful, collaborative result.

Page 71: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ L: Listen to the Other Side

Give the other person your TOTALATTENTION.

NEVER interrupt.

Ask questions for clarification.

Paraphrase what you’ve heard.

SHOW that you’re listening.

Use positive body language.

Page 72: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+M: Manage Your Way to Resolution

Gain agreement that a problem exists.

Identify each other’s concerns and needs.

Explore win-win solutions.

Agree on a course of action.

Determine how to handle missteps, shouldthey happen.

Close on a positive note.

Page 73: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ No Time to Plan!

Stop, breathe, and think.

Acknowledge the conflict.

Buy some time (and then do CALM).

Take it somewhere else.

Keep it respectful.

Page 74: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Empowerment

You can buy someone’s time, you can buysomeone’s physical presence at a given place;you can even buy a measured number ofskilled muscular motions per hour or day. Butyou cannot buy enthusiasm; you cannot buyinitiative, you cannot buy loyalty; you cannotbuy devotion of hearts, minds, and souls. Youhave to earn these things.

-Clarence Francis

Page 75: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Maintaining Optimism

It is difficult to stay positive in times ofadversity including budget cuts and otherchanges, but it is important to keepingmorale high.

Shield your employees from politics andother irrelevant information

Share pertinent information with them

Page 76: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Differences in Leadership Styles

Traditionalists- Directive

Baby boomers- Collegial

Gen X- Entrepreneurial

Gen Y- Collaborative

Page 77: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Which 2 Generations ValueWork-Life Balance the Most?

Generation X and Generation Y!

Page 78: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Differences with Money

Traditionalists- pay cash

Baby boomers- buy now, pay later

Gen X- save, save, save

Gen Y- earn to spend

Page 79: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Which 2 generations have the mostdifficult time working together?

Generation X and Generation Y!

Page 80: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Which Generation might say“I’m in debt up to my eyeballs!” ?

Generation Y!

Page 81: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Getting What You Want

Begin on a positive or personal note. How are you?

State your purpose.I am writing to follow up about....

Include action items.

Please provide the following by Wednesday, August 20:

Avoid extra words.

End on a positive note.

Page 82: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Generations- Learning, Communicating, Working

Page 83: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Tips for Working Together

Traditionalists and Baby Boomers cancommunicate best with Gen Xers by cutting tothe chase and avoiding unnecessary meetings.

If you have meetings, make them efficient.

Provide open workspace for Gen Yers tocollaborate and give Gen Xers privacy.

Send hand-written notes to Traditionalists.

Provide public recognition to Boomers and GenYers.

Page 84: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

Which Generation would likelyappreciate this car the most?

Baby Boomers

Page 85: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ Success

Coming together is a beginning,keeping together is progress, andworking together is success.

-Henry Ford

Page 86: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+ What is Next? Web 3.0

The next iteration of the Internet

More like a personal assistant

Vastly expanded search functions

Learned capabilities

Requires you to keep your finger on the

pulse of search engine strategies and

market with innovation

Page 87: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+

If you had to guess, how do you thinkGeneration Zers will be?

Page 88: Gabrielle K. Gabrielli, Ph.D.gabrielleconsulting.com/docs/Gabrielle--FRPA-Generations.pdfPlan strategically for the future Build sense of relationship Create sense of community A d

+Questions?

http://gabrielleconsulting.com/fpra (note:

this will be up by tomorrow)

[email protected]