goals suck
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Goals Suck
They dont do what people tell you.
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4 reasons why goals are rubbish
A goal doesnt deliver success, you do!
Despite what many in the coaching and personal development industry claim. Having a goal, even clearly written and full of personal meaning (and most aren't), will not deliver your success
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4 reasons why goals are rubbish
The Harvard study is a myth
Youve heard that 3% of people were more successful than the other 97% combined? There was no such survey.
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4 reasons why goals are rubbish
A goal shared, is not a shared goal
To be told that youve got a goal to do xyx is very unlikely to motivate, inspire or change your behaviour. At least if you create you own goal it might.
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4 reasons why goals are rubbish
Goals dont magically manifest stuff from the universe.
The idea that a goal will mean the universe delivers it for you.really? If you said I was more likely to recognise opportunities because of my goal, Id buy it.
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The scrapheap of wasted intentions
If you dont deal with these three things, your resolutions will simply gather dust, then decay on the scrapheap.
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How to achieve the benefit from your goals.6
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3 things you need to deal with
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You are the same as all the otherstrange creatures inhabiting this watery planet..
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How to achieve the benefit from your goals.7
Really want to change?
3 things you need to deal with
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You are a creature of habit (so is everybody else).
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How to achieve the benefit from your goals.8
Really want to change?
3 things you need to deal with
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You are the same as all the otherstrange creatures inhabiting this watery planet.
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Original Blog:- Click hereCreating regular habits.
Habit Stacking.
Do your new habit at the same time as one youve already got.
My ski exercises, get done while I clean my teeth!
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How to achieve the benefit from your goals.10
Original Blog:- Click hereCreating regular habits.
Checklists.
Checklists may be boring, but they do drive new habits.
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Accountability:Have a discussion with somebody each day/ week where you own up. Other ways of doing this involve your systems, instead of trying to remember to follow up with prospects, set up calendar reminders.11
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Accountability.
An accountability system. Have somebody support you and check your progress each week.
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Other ways of doing this involve your systems, instead of trying to remember to follow up with prospects, set up calendar reminders12
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Systems.
Use systems: Instead of trying to remember to follow up with prospects, set up calendar reminders.
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Eating elephants.
A systematic approach. Get one bit done habitually, then add another. How do you eat an elephant? One piece at a time..
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Fallen off the wagon? It happens!
Learn to be kinder to yourself.
Developing the habits to succeed at your goal is essential; but you will struggle from time to time.How can you be kinder to yourself and pick yourself up more readily? Falling isn't failing.
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