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When you are content to be simplyyourself and don't compare orcompete, everybody will respect
you. Lao Tzu
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You meet people who forget you.
You forget people you meet. Butsometimes you meet those peopleyou can't forget. Those are yourfriends.
Martin Luther King Jr.
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Never Seek Approval From Others
Happy people dont care what others
think of them. They follow their own
hearts without letting naysayers
discourage them. They know that it is
impossible to please everyone.
Nobody knows you better than you.
It is impossible for others to fully
understand why you are chasing certain
dreams or why you choose to follow
your personal set of beliefs. And thatsokay. You will never understand their
motivations either.
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Most people will give you advice
based on their beliefs, not yours. They
will give you answers that worked for
them but might end up being completely
wrong for you.
It is important to listen to what
people have to say, but never seek
anyones approval but your own.
A truly strong person does not
need the approval of others anymore than a lion needs the approvalof sheep.
Vernon Howard
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Meditation is the life of the soul:Action, the soul of meditation. andhonor the reward of action.
Francis Quarles
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Leave time each day for exerciseand recreation, which are asnecessary as reading. I will rathersay more necessary because healthis worth more than learning.
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Truly, honesty is the cornerstoneof all success, without whichconfidence and ability to performshall cease to exist.
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