his_brain_revrd.ppt
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HIS BRAIN/ HER BRAIN
Why It Took Moses Forty Years
To Find His Way Out Of The
Desert
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THE BRAIN
Reptilian
Mammalian
Homo Sapien
Corpus Collosum
Wired For Survival
Unchanged 50,000 Yrs
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DEVELOPMENT
Basic Template Female
Affected By Chromosomes
XX Girl XY Boy Hormonal Wash 6-8 Week Brain
Genitals
Brain Orientation
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HIS
Hunter
Long Range Directional Skills
Spatial Sense Single Task (Charles Emerson Winchester)
Procreation
Things Pain And Empathy
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HERS
Nest Protector
Communal
More Finely Tuned Sensory Skills Multi-Tasker
Non-Verbal Communicator
People Can Process Input Faster, Integrate
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BRAIN 2
MEN Resting Brain 30%
Active
Logic
Left Brain Dominant
(Except Spatial Area)
When Speak, OnlyOne Site Active
WOMEN Resting 90%
Active
Emotive
Multi-Hemisphere,
Corpus Collossum
Speech AndHearing Centers
Active
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SPEECH
MEN Left Brain Frontal
8000 Signals
Direct, Literal
More Stutterers
Use To Compete
Emotionless Listening
Dont Feel Need To ExpressPleasure In Words
WOMEN Multiple Sites, Bilat
20,000 Signals
Indirect Language,Negotiating, Emotive
More Facile, Integrated
Use As Reward, As Bond
6 Listening Postures
Talks And Talks
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SPEECH 2
60-80% Non-Verbal Signals
20-30% Voice Sounds
7-10% Words Men Only Hear The Words
Women Hear And Use 6 Tones
Men Hear And Use 4 Tones Silence Is Not Punishment
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LYING
Women Lie To Make Others Feel Better
Men Lie To Make Selves Look Good
Men Dont Lie More, They Just KeepGetting Caught
Most Common Lie Self-Deception
The Closer A Person Is In Relationship,Harder To Lie
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SOCIAL
MEN Goal Oriented
Lone Hunter
Problem Solver
Talks Achievement
Defines Self By
Achievements
WOMEN Community Builder
Communal
Problem Sharer
Talks Relationships
Defines Self By
Relationships
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PROBLEM SOLVING
MEN Linear
Compartmentalize
Emotion Divorced
Solitary
Gives Space
Wants Answers Help Means He
Failed
WOMEN Cluster
Churns Til Solved
Emotion Involved
Communal
Wants A Hug
Wants Support Wants To Help
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SIGHT
MEN Tunnel Vision,
Great Distances
Can See ZebrasOn The Horizon
Better SpatialVision
Color Cones X-attached (WhatThe Hell IsMauve?)
WOMEN Greater Peripheral-
up To 180
Can Find The ButterIn The Fridge
Better Night Vision
Rarely Get CaughtOgling Men
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OTHER SENSES SMELL
Women Can Smell Whether A Man Has HealthyImmune System Within 3 Sec.
Most Sensitive At Ovulation
HEARING
Womens Hearing On At All Times Men Find Sound Direction Better
TOUCH Women 10X As Sensitive
Touch Releases Oxytocin Cuddle Hormone
Men Grope, Women Caress
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ATTRACTION
MAN Athletic Body
Sensitive Mouth
Full Breast
70% Waist-Hip Ratio
Round Butt
Attractive Eyes
Flat Belly Blonde
12-14 Yr Old
Meat On The Bone
WOMEN Athletic Shape Broad Shoulders, Chest
Full Hair
Sensual Mouth Kind Eyes
Strong Nose And Chin
Narrow Hips
Credit Cards
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SEX
MEN Larger Hypothalamus
Orgasm 2 Minutes
Need To Spread Seed
Relieve Tension
Really Can MeanNothing
Visual Stimulation
(Lights On)(PlayboyHandy)
Talk Dirty Before Sex
WOMEN Larger Amygdala
Orgasm 13-30 Minutes
Need Monogamy
Build Tension
Needs Emotional
Bond
Touch, Sound, (LightsOff)
Talk, Listen, Smell,
Touch
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LOVE and SCIENCE
Each Stage Has Chemical Release,
Specific Brain Activity
LUST - Physical, Non-Verbal Attraction
INFATUATION - Attempt To Form Bond WithPotential Partner: Associated With Elation
ATTACHMENT -Build Cooperative Bond ToRaise Child
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REFERENCE
WHY MEN DONT LISTEN AND WOMENCANT READ MAPS
Barbara and Allan Pease
ISBN# 0-7679-0763-9
WHY MEN DONT HAVE A CLUE AND
WOMEN ALWAYS NEED MORE SHOES Barbara and Allan Pease
#ISBN 0-7679-1610-7
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QUESTIONS?