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By: Pastor Ivan Feliciano

1. Dress Sharp

1. Dress Sharp 2. Walk Faster

1. Dress Sharp 2. Walk Faster 3. Good Posture

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1. Dress Sharp 2. Walk Faster 3. Good Posture 4. Personal Commercial

1. Dress Sharp 2. Walk Faster 3. Good Posture 4. Personal Commercial 5. Gratitude

6. Compliment Other People

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6. Compliment Other People 7. Sit In The Front Row

6. Compliment Other People 7. Sit In The Front Row 8. Speak Up

6. Compliment Other People 7. Sit In The Front Row 8. Speak Up 9. Work Out

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6. Compliment Other People 7. Sit In The Front Row 8. Speak Up 9. Work Out 10. Focus On Contribution

Remember This…

Remember This… 1. People can make or break you… So, choose to be

with those who can “make” you.

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with those who can “make” you. * Surround yourself with people who care about your feelings


with those who can “make” you. * Surround yourself with people who care about your feelings * Don’t pay attention to people who think that they are better than you.


with those who can “make” you. * Surround yourself with people who care about your feelings * Don’t pay attention to people who think that they are better than you. * Don’t let people who don’t know you tell you how to feel or what to

strive for.


with those who can “make” you. 2. The decisions that you take, make you the person

that you are… Standing by them is what builds your character.




* Not all decisions will turn out to be the right ones. But right or wrong you stood by them. Nobody ever made great life changes making “safe” decisions.

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* Not all decisions will turn out to be the right ones. But right or wrong you stood by them. Nobody ever made great life changes making “safe” decisions.

* Your inner strength will enable you to reach your goals in life. If you fall down, pick yourself up and try again.




3. You are who you are. Nobody and nothing can make you less than what you already are.





* Don’t ever feel that you are not good enough





* Don’t ever feel that you are not good enough * If people bully you. Ignore them





* Don’t ever feel that you are not good enough * If people bully you. Ignore them * You have admirable qualities. Dig deep inside you, and amplify it

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4. The world is your space, not your mold. So just move in it and not conform to it.






* Don’t let media and magazines quash your self-confidence






* Don’t let media and magazines quash your self-confidence * Be yourself and don’t try to copy others.

Remember This… 5. Relax… The world is not out to get you.

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Remember This… 5. Relax… The world is not out to get you. * The opposite feeling of self-esteem is anxiety.

Remember This… 5. Relax… The world is not out to get you. * The opposite feeling of self-esteem is anxiety. * When you get anxious about the future, it is better not to think about

the future or your feelings of anxiety.

Remember This… 5. Relax… The world is not out to get you. 6. Do not aim for people’s affection… Not

everybody’s going to like you anyway.


everybody’s going to like you anyway. * Don’t concentrate on impressing others.


everybody’s going to like you anyway. * Don’t concentrate on impressing others. * Visualize yourself being patted on the back, or your hand being

shaken. Visualization is a very powerful tool.

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everybody’s going to like you anyway. * Don’t concentrate on impressing others. * Visualize yourself being patted on the back, or your hand being

shaken. Visualization is a very powerful tool. * Smile at yourself in the mirror every day and try to smile at others.


everybody’s going to like you anyway. 7. Your self-esteem is not tied to what you have… It’s

all about how you feel and what you think.



all about how you feel and what you think. * Appearances are not everything.



all about how you feel and what you think. * Appearances are not everything. * Tell yourself you are confident and outgoing even if you don’t feel that

way.



all about how you feel and what you think. * Appearances are not everything. * Tell yourself you are confident and outgoing even if you don’t feel that

way. * The most important thing of all is that you have to believe in yourself.

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all about how you feel and what you think. 8. Tell yourself, “I am special… God says so!”



all about how you feel and what you think. 8. Tell yourself, “I am special… God says so!” * Use biblical wisdom to realize that you will be taken care of.



all about how you feel and what you think. 8. Tell yourself, “I am special… God says so!” * Use biblical wisdom to realize that you will be taken care of. * Remind yourself always “I AM FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY

MADE!” Psalm 139:14

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