how to get what you really want
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Lots of people will tell you how to get what you really want. Not many people have a comprehensive framework to help you make it happen. Get what you REALLY want by sailing the 7CS. Sail7Cs is an integrated suit of principles and practices you can use to get what you really want.TRANSCRIPT
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Why are you on the planet?
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“Life is a daring adventure …or nothing”
Helen Keller
What is the gift in you that you
bring to your life?
Sail the 7C’s and Get What you REALLY
Want!
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What does it take to decide? How do we get off the dock… and respond to our call for greatness… what ever that might be for each of us?”
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1. Captaincy
6. Curiosity
3. Courage
4. Capacity
7. Compassion
5. Companionship2. Course
The 7Cs are Values and
Practices, a mastery framework:
Universal
Developmental
Applied concurrently
The 7Cs framework of UNcommon Sense
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Planning is essential
… a plan is useless” Sun Tzu, “The Art of War”
The Uncommon Sense of COURSE
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Course Tip # 1: Hold an Audacious Vision
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Common Sense:
Course Tip #2: Ready – FIRE – Aim
Set Project
Goals
UNcommon Sense:
Ready…..Aim…... FIRE!
Plan and
Implement
Set Sail,
LearnVision
Ready….FIRE!…... Aim
Complete
Complete
Course Tip # 3: Steer by your Values
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Course Tip # 3: Steer by your Values
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Doldrums
Isle de Marquesas
NE Tradewinds
SE Tradewinds
3128 Nautical Miles – 29 DaysCalifornia
Course Tip # 4: Sail One Day at a time
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Common Sense: Scarcity
Scarcity of opportunityLearn before you goLeave when readySteer straight to goal no wasteBig choices most important
Set Project
Goals
UNcommon Sense: Abundance
Hold an audacious vision
Leave before you feel ready
Allow course to be a trajectory
Steer by your values, purpose
Learn and grow as you go
Ready…..Aim…... FIRE!
Plan and
Implement
Set Sail,
LearnVision
Ready….FIRE!…... Aim
Complete
Complete
The Uncommon Sense of COURSE
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Course Tip #1: Hold an Audacious Vision
Course Tip #3: Steer by your Values
Course Tip #4: Sail one day at a time
Course Tip #2: Ready – FIRE – Aim
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The Uncommon Sense of CAPTAINCY
September 2007
Slide 15www.coachingworksintl.com
Cresswell Walker
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Ladder of Choice: How to become your own Captain
Actions
Choices
Feelings
Thoughts
Perceptions
Act with Courage
DECIDE – Align with your Course
Manage Emotional Reaction
Observe yourself
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Environment
Assumptions
Conclusions
Judgments
Values
F
A
S
T
RESPONSE
– ABILITY
Pay ATTENTION
To what you pay attention to
Captaincy Tip:
Be a ‘Response-Ability’ Warrior
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Common Sense: Do the ‘right thing’ Do what you canAct Outside In – Fulfill responsibilities, expectations
The UNcommon Sense of Captaincy
UNcommon Sense:
Act with intention for success
Stand beyond your capability
Act Inside out – Be respond-able with/for everything
Responsible Response Able
Aware
Acknowledge
Accept
Act!
Appreciate
Time
Effo
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What we know we know
What we DON’T know we DON’T know
What we know we DON”T know
The Uncommon Sense of CURIOSITY
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The UNcommon Sense of COURAGE
What is Courage?What is Courage?
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Courage is: Reaching through your fear for what you value.
The UNcommon Sense of Courage
FearWHERE YOU ARENOW
WHAT YOU VALUE
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Common Sense: Vicious cycle of more fearFear means weaknessRisk is bad, foolish,reckless, irresponsibleBe afraid of fear, avoid risk, ‘play safe’= Get weaker, less success
The UNcommon Sense of Courage
Avoid Risk
Not get what we
value
Not develop courage
Embrace Risk
Get what we
value
Develop courage
UNcommon Sense: virtuous cycle of more courage
Fear is courage opportunity
Fear is normal, natural
Need not be afraid of fear
Take Risks, adventure
= Get stronger, more success
Less Courage, Weaker
More Courage, Stronger
Fear
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What? Courage is doing what we
know needs to be done, even when we are afraid
Courage is building our capacity and reputation for a leadership
How? Embrace fear Practice right risk. Build courage by
stretching our fear envelope a little every day in the choices we make as Project Managers
Courage Value: Embrace risk, accept fear as normal, healthy, and essential in our work to grow as Project Managers.
The UNcommon Sense of Courage
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the Hero’s Journey
What Innocence
The Call
Initiation
Allies
Breakthrough
Celebration
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1. Captaincy
6. Curiosity
3. Courage
4. Capacity
7. Compassion
5. Companionship2. Course
The 7Cs are Values and
Practices, a mastery framework:
Universal
Developmental
Applied concurrently
The 7Cs framework of UNcommon Sense
September 2007
Slide 26
www.coachingworksintl.com
Cresswell Walker
“Making a Little Bit of Difference”
Thank You!
What? Seeing ‘responsibility’ as
‘response’ and ‘ability’ Choosing in accord with
what is important to our project, and to our team and to us.
own it all – Act from the inside out not outside in.
How? Pay attention to what has our
attention –practice attention territoriality.
Stance: “I am in charge of how I respond, always!”
Be.Do.Have - Dare to stand where we are going but are not yet –Be a response-ability warrior
Captaincy Practice: exercising “response-ability” for everything
The Uncommon Sense of CAPTAINCY