how to talk to your lkg or ukg teacher

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How To Talk to Your LKG or UKG Teacher

For Parents

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What should you do if a problem arises? Whether it's something the school teacher said that made your child upset, or something that's just not working for them, here are some practical ways for talking with the LKG or UKG teacher, in a way that won't harm your relationship:


Without any doubt, the reading skills taught in LKG or UKG today look more like the skills taught in first grade a ten or twenty years ago. But please do not worry because these high reading skills mastery expectations for young children are built on by very strategic teaching methods, and a step by step process that build on each other. Your child can meet the reading goals set by their school, especially if they are on track when they first enters LKG or UKG. So, are they on track ?

There are many reading skills that children have to master before they enter LKG or UKG ideally or even during LKG or UKG.


1. Assume you're on the same team. Approach any parent teacher conference with a positive mindset-- you're there to talk to a partner and figure out how you can work together to help your child. Do not get defensive. As a rule, most LKG or UKG teachers go become teachers because they love little children and they want them to become awesome. Kindergarten teachers are not criminal lawyers or investment bankers; they're trained educators with kind hearts. Think of teachers as your friends in understanding what happened with your child and how to work on it, and assume that they, too, want this conversation to go well. And remember, they're probably just as scared as you are!

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Don't act confrontational or aggressive.Even if you're very angry or upset, start with a warm Hi and a smile on you face. When a child's had a bad experience, or comes home in tears your own emotions too run high. However, when you talk to the teacher, first talk about the positive things – reading in the classroom or colouring. Then, and only then, discuss your worries. Your child’s teacher will appreciate this approach.

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Make sure you hear the school teacher's side. You can expect your child to tell you everything they have experienced and seen. But usually, a teacher has seen the bigger picture and knows the real deal. Allow her to add her experiences, without interrupting. Try to hear out the teacher with an open mind without interrupting with your own views.

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Choose your words thoughtfully. When you talk with the teacher, watch out for words like "my child," or "your job." Do not be accusatory. Even though you may mean the best for your child, this may indicate a competitive nature of your child. If you push too hard, you may find that your child is being kicked out of the school – a situation you do not want.

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Make sure you end with an action plan. Here you are, having stepped up for a difficult meeting. Plan, plan, plan. You are getting a great chance to work with your child’s teacher to come up with a simple yet effective plan to make your child awesome. Make sure you come with all the areas that need improvement and the areas that could be improved for perfection.Your child, of course, knows that you're talking with the school teacher, and will be very curious. This is a great time to reassure the child that their teacher loves and make them feel comfortable. You do not need to share everything with them, but tell them all the good news.

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And when everything settles, make sure to congratulate yourself. Cheering for your child is one of the hardest thing you will ever do, but it is something that they will be grateful for ever!

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