i quit! stop pretending everything is fine and change your life by geri scazzero with peter scazzero

8/2/2019 I Quit! Stop Pretending Everything Is Fine and Change Your Life by Geri Scazzero with Peter Scazzero

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Ohèrsoaohts

B hooò` tnbs leei. B wms ruhhbhk eh oapty trybhk te

aoot etnors oxpoftmtbehs eg ao. Korb nocpo` ao bmkheso

ay sbtumtbeh mh` kmvo ao prmftbfmc, mppcbfmlco, lblcbfmc

wmys te m``ross bt. Pnmhi yeu, Korb. Pnbs bs m aust-rom`.Bt bs groobhk!

\utn Krmnma, mutner

B rom` Korb Vfmzzores leei eh m `my tnmt nm` looh

pmrtbfucmrcy fnmccohkbhkeho eg tneso B fmht nmh`comhetnor tnbhk! ibh` eg `mys. B wms mlco te cbstoh te nor

wbsèa wbtneut mcc tno ògohsbvo lmrrbors B abknt her-

amccy oroft wnoh B èht wmht te lo gmfo` wbtn uhfea-

gertmlco trutn. Korbs wer`s ohfeurmko` aomh` ovoh

pusno` aote oxmabho ay pmttorhs eg rocmtbhk te Ke`

mh` te tneso fcesost te ao. Nor oxmapco eg cbvbhk bh tnogrooèa tnmt feaos grea lobhk fehgbòht eg Ke`s cevo

bhspbros ao te è seao bhtohtbehmc seuc weri. Pnmhi yeu,

Korb.

Imy [mrroh, oxofutbvo `brofter,NBW/MB@V Bhbtbmtbvo, Vm``colmfiFnurfn


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Vtep Zrotoh`bhk Ovorytnbhk Bs Gbho

mh` Fnmhko Reur Cbgo

Korb Vfmzzore Zotor VfmzzorewbtnFromters eg Oaetbehmccy Nomctny Vpbrbtumcbty


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TEH@O\WMH

B ]ubt!

Fepyrbknt -:-6=:-6


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Pe Amrbm, Fnrbsty, Gmbtn, mh` Ovm,

tnmt yeu abknt ihew, bh yeur bhaest lobhk,

tno cevo eg Fnrbst tnmt bs lottor tnmh cbgo


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Fehtohts

Mfihewco`kaohts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .2Gerower`4Zoto Vfmzzore. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . =6

Bhtre`uftbeh4[noh Reu Fmht Pmio Bt Mhyaero. . . . . . .=?

= ]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi . . . . . . . .


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Mfihewco`kaohts

Pnbs leei weuc` het nmvo looh wrbttoh wbtneut ay nus-

lmh`, Zoto. B ma m pehòror. No bs m wrbtor. Mctneukn B

ma tno eho wne bòhtbgbo`, hmao`, mh` mrtbfucmto` tno

siocoteh eg tno B ]ubts, no bs tno eho wne bhsbsto`, Reu

nmvo m wneco leei bh yeu. B ]ubt!rogcofts eur toma oggert

grea tno lokbhhbhk te tno oh`. Bt rogcofts wnmt wo letn

comrho` eh tnbs abssbhk mspoft eg spbrbtumc geramtbeh evor

m geurtooh-yomr porbe`.

Zoto bs m uhbquocy wehòrguc porseh wnea B wms se

cufiy te amrry. Eho eg Zotos aest mttrmftbvo qumcbtbos bs

nbs nuabcbty mh` epohhoss te comrh, krew, mh` fnmhko. Nonms mcwmys looh rospehsbvo te ay B ]ubts mh` omkorcy

mppcbo` tnoa te nbs ewh cbgo. [o mcse ihew new vory,

vory lcosso` wo mro te ohdey tno ehkebhk oxporbohfo eg

krewbhk tekotnor bh tnbs wehòrguc deurhoy wo hew cmloc

oaetbehmccy nomctny spbrbtumcbty. B fnorbsn tnbs wehòr-

guc kbgt tnmt wo roambh eh m sbabcmr comrhbhk furvo mgtortwohty-sbx yomrs eg amrrbmko.

B locehk te twe sbkhbgbfmht feaauhbtbos tnmt nmvo


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=: B ]_BP!

bapmfto` ay cbgo loyeh` aomsuro. Pno gbrst bs ay

oxtohò` gmabcy eg pmrohts, sblcbhks, bh-cmws, hbofos, mh`

hopnows, wnbfn nms mcwmys looh m pcmfo eg fehhoftbeh,locehkbhk, mh` cevo. Reu ioop ao reeto` bh tno hehho-

ketbmlco vmcuo mh` suppert eg gmabcy. Reu nmvo kbvoh ao

m troaohèus cokmfy ger wnbfn B ma otorhmccy krmtoguc. B

weuc` het nmvo nm` tno kee`s te qubt bg bt woro het ger

wnmt yeu òpesbto` bhte ao.

B wmht mcse te tnmhi ay etnor feaauhbty How Cbgo

Goccewsnbp Fnurfn. B ma m trmhsgerao` porseh eut eg

eur amhy yomrs tekotnor. Reu nmvo mccewo` us te pbehoor

how pmtnwmys eg spbrbtumc geramtbeh. [o nmvo trusto`

mh` cevo` omfn etnor ger m qumrtor eg m fohtury. Pnmhi

yeu ger lobhk tno ibh` eg fnurfn tnmt oalrmfos tno trutns

oxprosso` bh B ]ubt!.

B wmht te mcse tnmhi Vmh`y Wmhòr Tbfnt mh` Tehòr-vmh, ospofbmccy ger tnobr pmtbohfo bh wmbtbhk eh ay he

prossuro sfnoùco te wrbto tno leei mh` ger tno eutstmh`-

bhk o`btbhk eh Vmh`ys pmrt. Pnmhi yeu, Imtny Nocaors,

ger roprosohtbhk tnbs aossmko eh ay lonmcg.

Pnmhi yeu, Lmrlmrm mh` Fnrbs Kbmaehhm, ger yeur

grboh`snbp mh` goo`lmfi, mcehk wbtn yeur cevo ger tnofnurfn eg Dosus Fnrbst.

Pnmhi yeu, @euk Vcmylmukn, ger yeur vbsbeh mh` com`-

orsnbp ger tnbs aossmko mh` yeur tbaocy ohtrmhfo bhte eur

cbvos m gow yomrs mke.

Gbhmccy, B wmht te tnmhi ay mhkocs grea tno Ab`wost,

wne nmhò` ao mh exykoh amsi wnoh B wms suggefmtbhk.

Reur kohoreus nespbtmcbty mh` prevbsbeh eg eur hoo`s mtfrbtbfmc duhfturos bh eur abhbstry noro bh How Reri Fbty

ohmlco` ao te kot exykoh te ay seuc mh` porsovoro ùrbhk


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Mfihewco`kaohts ==

tneso gbrst toh `bggbfuct yomrs. Ke` lreuknt amhy kbgts eg

sustohmhfo tnreukn yeu. B ma het suro B weuc` stbcc lo bh

How Reri wbtneut yeur ibh`hossos.


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Gerower`

Pno aest cevbhk tnbhk Korb ovor `b` ger ao wms te qubt

tno fnurfn B pmster. Ros, m pmrt eg ao wmhto` te ibcc nor

ger tno nuabcbmtbeh B goct. Lut Ke` uso` nor feurmkoeus

òfbsbeh te fnmhko ay cbgo bh pregeuh` wmys.B ]ubt!bs lmso` eh Korbs stery, lut B locbovo bt bs m stery

wo mcc snmro9 mt seao pebht, qubttbhk bs seaotnbhk omfn eg

us aust è. Ovory porseh wne geccews Dosus hoo`s te `bs-

fevor mh` mppcy tnoso trutns tnmt nmvo lofeao se `bsfeh-

hofto` grea eur spbrbtumc geramtbeh bh Fnrbst.

_htbc hew, B nmvo looh tno fnbog lohogbfbmry eg tnbs

aossmko, comrhbhk up fceso grea Korb omfn eg tno B ]ubts

òsfrblo` bh tnbs leei. Evor tno cmst gbgtooh yomrs B nmvo

comrho` new tequbt ms m pmroht, m nuslmh`, mh` m pmster/

comòr. [nbco bhbtbmccy `bggbfuct, tnbs deurhoy nms co` te m

covoc eg grooèa mh` dey bh tno Fnrbstbmh cbgo tnmt B hovor

bamkbho` wms pessblco.

Bh gmft, tno prbhfbpcos eg B ]ubt!mro geuh`mtbehmc teeur spbrbtumc geramtbeh abhbstrbos mh` comòrsnbp vmcuos

mt How Cbgo Goccewsnbp Fnurfn bh ]uoohs, How Reri.


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=0 B ]_BP!

[btneut feurmkoeus aoh mh` weaoh wne wbcc tmio up

tno fnmccohko eg tnbs leei, B roambh `eultguc mleut eur

mlbcbty te rmbso up nomctny, lblcbfmc feaauhbtbos tnmtoggoftbvocy ohkmko tno werc` wbtn tno kespoc mh` `oopcy

trmhsgera cbvos. Ger tnbs romseh B ma se oxfbto` tnmt tno

rbfnhoss mh` lromtn eg B ]ubt!bs hew mvmbcmlco te m cmrkor

mu`bohfo tnreukn tnbs leei.

B cevo Korb. Mh` sno bs gmr grea porgoft. Hehotnocoss,

mgtor twohty-sbx yomrs eg amrrbmko, B fmh kcm`cy mggbra tnmt

sno bs ay hualor-eho nore. Nor cbgo bs nor kromtost kbgt.

ZOPO\VFMTTO\E

Vohber Zmster, How Cbgo

Goccewsnbp Fnurfn

]uoohs, How Reri Fbty


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[noh Reu FmhtPmio Bt Mhyaero

Pnbs bs m leei mleut geccewbhk Dosus mh` suaaehbhk tno

feurmko te qubt mhytnbhk tnmt èos het locehk te nbs ibhk-

èa er gmcc uhòr nbs ruco.Prm`btbehmccy, tno Fnrbstbmh feaauhbty nmsht pcmfo`

aufn vmcuo eh qubttbhk. Bh gmft, dust tno eppesbto bs

truo9 bt bs ohùrmhfo mh` porsovormhfo wo aest ostooa.

Ger amhy eg us, tno hetbeh eg qubttbhk bs

feapcotocy gerobkh. [noh B wms krewbhk

up, qubttors woro fehsbòro` womi, lm`sperts, mh` lmlbos. B hovor qubt mhy eg tno

kreups er tomas B wms pmrt eg. B è roaoa-

lor lrbogcy qubttbhk tno Kbrc Vfeuts, lut B

seeh rodebho`. ]ubttbhk bs het m qumcbty wo

màbro bh eursocvos er bh etnors.

Pno ibh` eg qubttbhk Ba tmcibhk mleut bsht mleut

womihoss er kbvbhk up bh òspmbr. Bt bs mleut strohktn mh`fneesbhk te cbvo bh tno trutn. Pnbs roqubros tno òmtn eg

bccusbehs. Bt aomhs fomsbhk te protoh` tnmt ovorytnbhk bs

Pno ibh` egqubttbhk Ba

tmcibhk mleutbsht mleut

womihoss erkbvbhk up bh

òspmbr.


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=7 B ]_BP!

gbho wnoh bt bs het. Zorpotumtbhk bccusbehs bs m uhbvorsmc

prelcoa bh amrrbmkos, gmabcbos, grboh`snbps, mh` weri

pcmfos. Prmkbfmccy, protoh`bhk ovorytnbhk bs gbho wnoh btshet mcse nmppohs mt fnurfn, tno vory pcmfo wnoro trutn

mh` cevo mro aomht te snbho aest lrbkntcy.

Lblcbfmc qubttbhkkeos nmh` bh nmh` wbtn fneesbhk. [noh

wo qubt tneso tnbhks tnmt mro `mamkbhk te eur seucs er tno

seucs eg etnors, wo mro groo` up te fneeso etnor wmys eg

lobhk mh` rocmtbhk tnmt mro reeto` bh cevo mh` com` te cbgo.

Ger oxmapco . . .

[noh wo qubt gomr eg wnmt etnors tnbhi, wo fneeso

groo`ea.

[noh wo qubtcbos, wofneesotrutn.

[noh wo qubtlcmabhk, wofneesote tmio rospehsblbcbty.

[noh woqubtgmucty tnbhibhk, wofneesote cbvo bh romcbty.

]ubttbhk bs m wmy eg puttbhk egg wnmt Vfrbpturo fmccsgmcsonee` mh` tno ec` socg. Ms tno mpestco Zmuc wrbtos, Zut

egg yeur ec` socg . . . mh` te put eh tno how socg, fromto` te

lo cbio Ke` bh truo rbkntoeushoss mh` necbhoss. Pnorogero

omfn eg yeu aust put egg gmcsonee` (Opnosbmhs 04


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[noh Reu Fmht Pmio Bt Mhyaero =;

Futtbhk tno \epo

Bh =2>?, Vbaeh Rmtos mh` nbs fcbalbhk pmrthor, Deo Vbap-

seh, nm` dust romfno` tno tep eg m


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=> B ]_BP!

fmap ehcy neurs logero Rmtos nm` pcmhho` te comvo. Bh

òsfrblbhk nbs òfbsbeh te fut tno repo, Rmtos mrtbfucmtos

tno fero bhhor strukkco ger omfn eg us bh èbhk B ]ubt!.

B nm` hovor goct se wrotfno`cy mceho . . . Bg B nm`ht

fut tno repo, B weuc` fortmbhcy nmvo `bo`. He eho

futs tno repo! Bt feuc` hovor nmvo looh tnmt lm`! [ny

`b`ht yeu è tnbs er try tnmt5 B feuc` nomr tno quos-

tbehs, mh` soo tno èults bh tno oyos eg tneso wne

mffopto` ay stery. Bt wms lbzmrro mh` bt wms fruoc . . .Newovor amhy tbaos B porsumò` aysocg tnmt B nm` he

fnebfo lut te fut tno repo, m hmkkbhk tneuknt smb` etn-

orwbso. Bt sooao` cbio m lcmspnoay te nmvo èho sufn

m tnbhk. Bt woht mkmbhst ovory bhstbhft4 ovoh mkmbhst

socg-prosorvmtbeh. B feuc` cbstoh te he rmtbehmc mrku-

aohts mkmbhst tno goocbhks eg kubct mh` fewmr`bfo . . . B

rosbkho` aysocg te puhbsnaoht. Bt sooao` rbknt te lo

puhbsno`9 te mteho ger comvbhk nba òm` ms bg sbapcy

survbvbhk nm` looh m frbao bh btsocg.=

]ubttbhk fmh gooc cbio wo mro sovorbhk m cbgocbho, tnmt

seaoeho, pessblcy ovoh eursocvos, bs kebhk te `bo. Ger tnbs

romseh qubttbhk bs uhtnbhimlco te amhy, ospofbmccy bh tno

fnurfn. Bt mppomrs lbzmrro mh` fruoc. [ne wmhts te

lo uhpepucmr mh` refi tno lemt er `bsrupt tnbhks5 B suro

`b`ht.

Lut tnoro feaos m pebht wnoh wo fress m tnrosnec`

mh` wo fmht tmio bt mhyaero. Cbio Rmtos, wo ihew wo

wbcc `bo spbrbtumccy, oaetbehmccy, er etnorwbso uhcoss wo

qubt mh` fneeso te è seaotnbhk `bggorohtcy. [o gbhmccystop evor eur gomrs bhte tno kromt uhihewh torrbtery tnmt

cbos logero us.


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[noh Reu Fmht Pmio Bt Mhyaero =2

Rmtos wms frbtbfbzo` ly seao bh tno aeuhtmbh-fcbalbhk

feaauhbty ger vbecmtbhk m smfro` ruco eg hovor mlmhèh-

bhk ehos pmrthor ovoh bg letn `bo` bh tno prefoss. DeoVbapseh nbasocg pmssbehmtocy ògohò` Rmtos fnebfo.

_ctbamtocy, Rmtoss òfbsbeh te fut tno repo smvo` letn

tnobr cbvos.

Pno _hgroo Fnrbstbmh

[noh B gocc bh cevo wbtn Fnrbst, B gocc nmr`. Ms m hbhotooh-

yomr-ec` feccoko stuòht, tno oherabty eg Ke`s cevo evor-

wnocao` ao. B baao`bmtocy lokmh m pmssbehmto quost te

ihew tnbs cbvbhk Dosus, mh` B wms wbccbhk te è wnmtovor bt

teei te pcomso nba.

B omkorcy strufturo` ay cbgo mreuh` ioy spbrbtumc `bsfb-

pcbhos sufn ms rom`bhk mh` aoaerbzbhk Vfrbpturo, prmyor,goccewsnbp, wersnbp, gmstbhk, kbvbhk gbhmhfbmccy, sorvbhk,

sbcohfo mh` secbtuò, mh` snmrbhk ay gmbtn wbtn etnors.

Bh ay pursubt eg Fnrbstcbiohoss, B mlserlo` leeis mleut

tno bapertmhfo eg spbrbtumc `bsfbpcbhos ly sufn mutners ms

\bfnmr` Gestor, D. B. Zmfior, mh` Denh Vtett. Pnoy woro

nocpguc bh lremòhbhk ay uhòrstmh`bhk eg Fnrbstbmhbtymh` bhspbrbhk ao te ioop Fnrbst mt tno fohtor eg ay cbgo.

Newovor, B gmbco` te krmsp tno trutn tnmt m nomctny spbrb-

tumc cbgo bhfcuòs m fmroguc lmcmhfo lotwooh sorvbhk etnor

poepcos hoo`s mh` òsbros mh` vmcubhk ay ewh hoo`s mh`

òsbros. Bhstom`, B put aest eg ay oggerts bhte fmrbhk ger

etnors mt tno oxpohso eg ay ewh seuc.

Pno mffuaucmto` pmbh mh` rosohtaoht eg tnbs balmc-mhfo co` te ay gbrst lbk qubt mt mko tnbrty-sovoh. Mgtor

sovohtooh yomrs eg lobhk m feaabtto` Fnrbstbmh, B fmao


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[noh Reu Fmht Pmio Bt Mhyaero 46?). Mh`

tnmt wms wnmt nmppoho` wnoh B qubt B

ket ay cbgo lmfi. Mh` wnmt geccewo` woro

ovoh aero trmhsgeramtbehs tnmt het ehcy fnmhko` ao lut

mcse lreuknt how cbgo te Zoto, eur amrrbmko, eur fnbc`roh,eur fnurfn, mh` te feuhtcoss etnors.

]ubttbhk nms purbgbo` ay nomrt. Bt nms òamhò` B

]ubttbhk nmsòamhò`

B màbt trutnsmleut aysocg

tnmt B progorro`te lury mh`

mveb`.


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[noh Reu Fmht Pmio Bt Mhyaero


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi


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B ]_BP!

How Reri Fbty. B tneuknt no sneuc` gooc ay `bstross mt

tno `bggbfuctbos bh eur cbvos cehk neurs, cbttco aehoy, he

lromis, `bggbfuct poepco.[o woro mcse debho` mt tno nbp bh goocbhk rospehsblco

ger omfn etnors sm`hoss, mhkor, mh` mhxboty. Ms m rosuct,

wo cbvo` bh romftbeh te eho mhetnor abhbabzbhk, lcma-

bhk, ohybhk, mh` ogoh`bhk eursocvos mkmbhst omfn etnors

oaetbehs. \m`bfmc surkory wms roqubro` te sopmrmto eur

oaetbehmc werc`s. [o woroht sopmrmto oheukn ms bh`b-

vbùmcs te ohdey kohubho fehhoftbeh mh` tekotnorhoss. B

gomro` tno hokmtbvo fehsoquohfos bg B fnmhko` eur oae-

tbehmc `mhfo. [nbco Zoto wms het mh ekro ly mhy aomhs,

B stbcc gomro` nbs `bsmpprevmc lofmuso bt woht rbknt te tno

fero eg ay bòhtbty4 bg Zoto wms am` mt ao, tnoh B goct B

aust lo lm`. Pno vory tneuknt eg Zoto, er mhyeho ger tnmt

amttor, tnbhibhk peercy eg ao goct werso tnmh òmtn.Lut eho tnbhk wms fcomr4 B wms mcrom`y ybhk. B feuc`ht

lromtno.

Ger tno gbrst hbho yomrs eg eur amrrbmko, B fehgerao`

mh` mffeaae`mto` aysocg te Zotos òsbros. B qubficy `bs-

absso` ay òsbro te ke lmfi te sfneec lofmuso bt fcmsno`

wbtn Zotos mcrom`y evorcemò` sfnoùco. B mvebò` netlutteh tepbfs B suspofto` abknt mreuso tohsbeh bh eur

amrrbmko. B wms uhmlco te tecormto tno bsfeagert mh` pmbh

eg Zotos peutbhk er, werso yot, nbs mhkor tewmr` ao. [nmt

wms B te è5 [euc`ht no lo absormlco bg B stmrto` te lo

ay ewh porseh5

Rot, B seeh romcbzo` tnbs bssuo woht aufn òopor mh`

wbòr tnmh ay rocmtbehsnbp wbtn Zoto. _hnomctny pmt-torhs eg socg-smfrbgbfo mh` mffeaae`mtbeh evorgcewo` bhte


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi


27/41

6: B ]_BP!

trutn eg Fnrbsts cevo ger ao. Ay mbcy romcbty wms tnmt ay

cevmlbcbty fmao het grea Fnrbst lut grea new etnors por-

fobvo` ao. B hooò` poepco te tnbhi B wms m kromt Fnrbs-tbmh mh` m kee` porseh. Ms m rosuct, B egtoh geuh` aysocg

smybhk yos wnoh B wmhto` te smy he ovoh

wnoh B wms absormlco.

B rocmto te tno mpestco Zotor bh nbs

strukkco te lofeao groo grea wnmt etn-

ors tnbhi. Mgtor Dosus mrrost, tno twocvo

`bsfbpcos òsort nba mh` gcoo. Zotor, new-

ovor, geccews nba bhte mh eutsbò feurt-

ymr` ùrbhk Dosus trbmc mh` bs rofekhbzo`

ly vmrbeus poepco ms nbs grboh`. Rot no òhbos ihewbhk

nba tnroo tbaos. Nbs gomr eg bsmpprevmc evorrbòs wnmt no

ihews mh` locbovos bhtoccoftumccy te lo truo. Zotor provb-

euscy fehgosso` Dosus ms tno Aossbmn, yot tnbs fehvbftbehbs het oop oheukn bh nba te stmh` up te poepcos pessblco

rodoftbeh mh` `bsmpprevmc (Amttnow


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi 6=

Lblcbfmc Noreos [mhòrbhk Egg Prmfi

Reu mh` B mro het mceho bh tnbs mpprevmc m``bftbeh. Vfrbp-

turo bs gbcco` wbtn oxmapcos eg poepco wne ket sbòtrmfio`

ly ceeibhk te etnors te tocc tnoa tnoy woro eimy.

Mlrmnma, ger oxmapco, cbo` eut eg gomr ger nbs ewh

smgoty m gomr eg wnmt tno Okyptbmh ibhk abknt è bg no

geuh` eut Vmrmn wms Mlrmnmas wbgo (Kohosbs =


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi 66

amhy bh nor fnurfn. Deyfo trbos eut m how nmbr stycbst rof-

eaaohò` ly m kee` grboh`. Newovor, ms sno sbts bh tno

fnmbr, sno krews uhomsy mleut wnmt sno bs soobhk bh tnoabrrer.

Bhsbò, sno bs tnbhibhk, En, he! B èht cbio tnbs nmbr-

fut mt mcc! Pnbs bs m `bsmstor. @ospbto nor krewbhk mcmra,

sno smys hetnbhk te tno stycbst. Vno fehtbhuos te sabco eh

tno eutsbò mh` amio samcc tmci, mcc tno wnbco prmybhk

tno terturo wbcc oh` seeh mh` tnmt tno `mamko wbcc lo

amhmkomlco.

[noh tno lomutbfbmh gbhmccy gbhbsnos, Deyfo fmh

sfmrfocy fehtmbh nor mhkor. Hovortnocoss, sno tnmhis tno

stycbst pregusocy bh greht eg tno etnor fusteaors. Bh gmft,

sno goocs se kubcty mleut nor mhkor tewmr` tno weamh tnmt

sno tbps nor èulco!

Veaotbaos eur hoo` ger etnors te tocc us wo mro eimy bsse sultco mh` porvmsbvo bt fmh lo letn `bggbfuct mh` grbknt-

ohbhk te rofekhbzo bt bh eursocvos. Cots fehsbòr m gow

aero sfohmrbes.

Reu mro nurt ly m grboh`s feaaoht, lut yeu smy

hetnbhk lofmuso yeu èht wmht te lo tneuknt eg ms

teufny er brrbtmlco. Reur aofnmhbf kbvos yeu m lbcc mcaest èulco wnmt

no erbkbhmccy queto` te ropmbr yeur fmr, lut no bs lusy

wbtn etnor fusteaors, mh` yeu èht wmht te amio m

sfoho ly msibhk ger mh oxpcmhmtbeh.

Reu mro eut wbtn m kreup eg grboh`s wne wmht te

soo m aevbo. Ovoryeho oxfopt yeu wmhts te ke soo m

pmrtbfucmr aevbo, lut yeu èht wmht te lo sooh ms`bggbfuct er `bsmkroomlco, se yeu ke mcehk mh` èht smy

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Reur gmabcy wmhts yeu te mttoh` yeur muhts

rotbroaoht pmrty sbxty abcos mwmy. Reu è het wmht

te mttoh`, lut yeu ke mhywmy rmtnor tnmh gmfo yeurgmabcys `bsmpprevmc.

Reu roambh bh mh uhnomctny `mtbhk rocmtbehsnbp wbtn

seaoeho lofmuso yeu èht ihew new te oh` bt.

Reuro mgrmb` eg tno roporfussbehs wbtn autumc grboh`s

mh` wehòr bg poepco wbcc tnbhi, [nmt bs wrehk wbtn

nba5 Mhetnor gmbco` rocmtbehsnbp5 @eos no wmht te lo

sbhkco gerovor5 Reu mro vbsbtbhk wbtn hobknlers lut èht `bsfbpcbho

yeur geur-yomr-ec` fnbc`s abslonmvber lofmuso yeu

gomr no er sno abknt oalmrrmss yeu wbtn mhetnor

toapor tmhtrua.

Reu nmvo mh oapceyoo wne bs uhòrporgerabhk mh`

lobhk m `rmk eh tno rost eg tno toma. Reu ioop nbhtbhk

mleut tno hoo` ger fnmhko, lut no bs het kottbhk tno

aossmko. Reu mro tno suporvbser lut fmhhet lomr tno

tneuknt eg fmusbhk nba te ceso nbs del. \mtnor tnmh

gbro nba, yeu nbro mhetnor porseh te fevor ger nba.

Reur rosohtaoht krews.

Reur less usos bhmppreprbmto cmhkumko mreuh` yeu,

seao eg wnbfn bs soxumc bh hmturo. Reu smy hetnbhkcost no tnbhi yeu mro m stufi-up pruò.

Reu nmvoht fnmhko` yeur nmbrstyco ger aero tnmh toh

yomrs lofmuso yeur speuso bs se mkmbhst bt. Rot yeu

rosoht new aufn tbao yeu spoh` te tmio fmro eg bt

mh` cehk ger m fnmhko.

Reu weuc` cbio te spomi te yeur speuso mleut yeur

sox cbgo lut mro mgrmb` te smy mhytnbhk. Reu mro hetsuro new no er sno abknt romft.

Zmy mttohtbeh te yeursocg evor tno hoxt gow `mys.


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi 6?

Elsorvo yeur bhtormftbehs wbtn etnors. @otorabho tno

hualor eg tbaos yeur wer`s mh` mftbehs fnmhko bh eròr

te kmbh tno mpprevmc, er mveb` tno `bsmpprevmc, eg etnors.Pno snbgts wo amio bh eur lonmvber mro egtoh sultco mh`

lohomtn tno covoc eg eur fehsfbeushoss. Ve lo mcort!

Cevbhk Reursocg ger Ke`s Vmio

Ger amhy Fnrbstbmhs te`my, tno cevo eg Ke` bh Fnrbst

roambhs mh bhtoccoftumc locbog wo mggbra rmtnor tnmh mh

oxporbohtbmc romcbty tnmt trmhsgeras eur tneuknts mh` gooc-

bhks mleut eursocvos. Ms m rosuct, wo fehtbhuo te ceei ger

cevo grea etnor poepco bh òstruftbvo wmys. Lorhmr` eg

Fcmbrvmux, tno kromt Fnrbstbmh comòr bh tno twocgtn foh-

tury, speio eg new tno cevo eg Ke` com`s te nomctny cevo

eg socg. No fmcco` tnbs tno geur òkroos eg cevo.=

=. Cevbhk eursocvos ger eur ewh smio.[o wmht te mveb`

nocc mh` ke te nomvoh, se wo è tno rbknt tnbhks

sufn ms mttoh` fnurfn, prmy, mh` tbtno. [noh tno

tnromt eg nocc bs roaevo`, eur spbrbtumc cbgo qubficy

`bssbpmtos.


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0. Cevbhk eursocvos ger tno smio eg Ke`. Mt tnbs geurtn

mh` nbknost covoc, tno wb`tn, cohktn, nobknt, mh`

òptn eg Fnrbsts cevo m cevo tnmt surpmssos nuamhihewco`ko nms hew pohotrmto` tno òptn eg eur

lobhk, sottbhk us groo grea eur hoo` te lerrew tnmt

cevo grea etnors.

Pno kespoc groos us te uhòrstmh` wne wo mro bh tno

cbknt eg Ke`s cevo ger us bh Fnrbst Dosus. [o nmvo vmcuo

mh` sbkhbgbfmhfo lut het ger wnmt wo è er wnmt etnorsabknt smy. [o mro cevo wertny lofmuso Ke` cevos us.

Ke`s porgoft cevo `rbvos eut mhy gomrs eg wnmt etnors

tnbhi. [o `bsfevor tnmt nbs cevo, ms tno psmcabst wrbtos, bs

lottor tnmh cbgo (Zsmca 7646).

Geur \omsehs te Vtep Cbvbhkger tno Mpprevmc eg Etnors

Bg wo èht lromi tnreukn eur hoo` ger tno mpprevmc eg

etnors, eur krewtn bs sorbeuscy stuhto`. [o fmhhet amturo

bhte spbrbtumc mùctnee`. M wmcc bs orofto` tnmt stmh`s

lotwooh us mh` tno lomutbguc guturo Ke` nms ger us. [o

sottco ger tno psouè-feagert eg lobhk eimy wbtn eursocvoslmso` eh etnors lobhk eimy wbtn us.

Gow eg us ohdey refibhk tno lemt. [o progor pcmybhk

bt smgo. Fnmhkbhk eur sbtumtbehs fmh lo grbkntohbhk mh` tno

elstmfcos amy mppomr bhsuraeuhtmlco. Pnoso gomrs rmhko

grea gomr eg cesbhk eur speusos, eur dels, mh` eur grboh`-

snbps te gomrs eg cesbhk tno rospoft eg poepco wnea wo

cevo.

[noh fnmhko sooas se evorwnocabhk, Ke` groquohtcy


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi 6;

usos pmbh te epoh us te nbs suporhmturmc pewor. [noh tno

rbfn yeuhk rucor wmcis mwmy grea tno rm`bfmc cbgo fnmhko

Dosus nms eggoro` te nba, tno `bsfbpcos, grbkntoho` tnmtfnmhko bs bapessblco, msi, [ne tnoh fmh lo smvo`5 Dosus

ropcbos, [btn nuamh lobhks tnbs bs bapes-

sblco, lut wbtn Ke` mcc tnbhks mro pessblco

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pornmps yeur pmrohts wmht yeu te pursuo m fortmbh fmroor.

Pnoy smfrbgbfo` tnobr `romas se yeu feuc` mttoh` m pmr-

tbfucmr sfneec. Reu` progor te e seaotnbhk ocso lut fmhtbamkbho smybhk he te tnoa ospofbmccy bh cbknt eg mcc tnoy

nmvo smfrbgbfo` ger yeu. Reu gbhmccy romcbzo tnmt seaotnbhk

bhsbò eg yeu bs `ybhk mh` tnmt yeu hoo` te rospoftguccy

spomi wbtn tnoa mleut yeur pmssbehs mh` òsbros.

[o elsorvo tnbs smao yhmabf bh eho eg tno aest `rm-

amtbf opbseòs eg tno How Postmaoht. [noh tno mpestco

Zotor gbrst mrrbvo` bh Mhtbefn grea Dorusmcoa, no woc-

feao` mh` mto wbtn uhfbrfuafbso` Kohtbco Fnrbstbmhs.

Cmtor m kreup eg pregossbhk Dowbsn Fnrbstbmhs mrrbvo`

grea Dorusmcoa, fehvbhfbhk Zotor te wbtn`rmw mh` sopm-

rmto grea tnoso Kohtbcos. Pnoy mrkuo` tnmt bt wms mkmbhst

Ke`s wbcc te omt wbtn Kohtbcos lofmuso tnoy woro feh-

sbòro` uhfcomh. [noh tno mpestco Zmuc elsorvo` tnbs,no pulcbfcy fehgrehto` Zotor ger nbs nypefrbsy (Kmcmtbmhs


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]ubt Lobhk Mgrmb` eg [nmt Etnors Pnbhi 0=

0. Pno Gomr Pnmt Pnbhks [bcc Vtmy tno Vmao Bs

Kromtor Pnmh tno Gomr Pnmt Pnbhks [bcc Fnmhko

Pno hetbeh eg fnmhkbhk eur sbtumtbeh fmh omsbcy evorwnoca

us. Pnoro feaos m pebht, newovor, wnoh tno tneuknt eg

roambhbhk bh fortmbh fbrfuastmhfos mhetnor eho, gbvo, toh,

er tnbrty yomrs bs aero torrbgybhk tnmh rbsibhk fnmhko. Mt

tbaos, tnbs sorvos ms m fcomr aossmko grea Ke` te kot egg

tno rem` yeu mro eh. Fnmhko lofeaos coss sfmry tnmh tno

prespoft eg roambhbhk wnoro yeu mro.Reu mro m nbkn sfneec Ohkcbsn tomfnor. Reu cevo Ohk-

cbsn, lut tomfnbhk toohmkors bs m tuk-eg-wmr tnmt yeu cemtno.

Vobzo` ly gomr mt tno tneuknt eg ebhk tnbs tno rost eg yeur

cbgo, yeu comvo tno sofurbty eg m pmyfnofi mh` tno fmroor

ger wnbfn yeu propmro`. Reu pursuo etnor pessblbcbtbos

mh` oxporbohfos te gbh` m lottor amtfn ger yeur kbgts mh`pmssbehs.

Reu mro sbhkco mh` bh m cehk-tora rocmtbehsnbp tnmt bs

stufi mh` kebhk hewnoro. Ms yeu bamkbho yeur cbgo toh

yomrs grea hew, tno rbsi eg lobhk mceho lofeaos coss grbknt-

ohbhk tnmh roambhbhk trmppo` bh tno smao pcmfo wbtn tnbs

porseh. Pno romcbty snefis yeu bhte gbhmccy oh`bhk tno

rocmtbehsnbp.

Reu nmvo sbxty tneusmh` èccmrs bh fro`bt fmr` òlt

mh` gomr lmhiruptfy. Reur guturo fnebfos mro cbabto` mh`

lcomi. Pno gomr tnmt tnbs òlt bs kebhk te rubh yeu gbhmccy

lofeaos kromtor tnmh tno gomr eg `rmamtbfmccy fnmhkbhk

yeur cbgostyco. Reu lokbh mh bh-òptn lu`kotbhk feurso

mh` rm`bfmccy m`dust yeur spoh`bhk nmlbts.Pnbs gomr wms m fehtrblutbhk gmfter tnmt gbhmccy pre-

pocco` ao bhte fnmhkbhk ay sbtumtbeh. Pno gomr tnmt tnbhks


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wbtn wnmt etnors tnbhi eg nor. Fnrbsts cevo mh` gerkbvo-

hoss pohotrmto nor bhaest lobhk. Pnbs pregeuh` oxporb-

ohfo het ehcy rocomsos nor grea mhy sohso eg snmao9 btbccuabhos tno trutn mleut nor ewh wertn mh` vmcuo. Nor

nomrt lrbas evor wbtn tnmhiguchoss te Dosus ger nbs cevo,

aorfy, mh` evorwnocabhk smgoty.

Amry uhòrstmh`s nor ewh sbkhbgbfmhfo bh rocmtbeh te

Dosus rmtnor tnmh bh tno epbhbehs eg etnors. Nor mftbehs

mro het `bftmto` ly wnmt bs rbknt bh tno oyos eg tno werc`

lut ly wnmt bs rbknt bh tno oyos eg Fnrbst. Pnbs kbvos nor

fehgbòhfo te lo norsocg, rokmr`coss eg wnmt etnors abknt

tnbhi mleut nor.

Cbio Amry, yeu mro bhvbto` te kreuh` yeur bòhtbty

bh mh ehkebhk oxporbohfo eg tno cevo eg Ke` bh Fnrbst.

Pnoh, mh` ehcy tnoh, wbcc yeu lo mlco te cbvo nehostcy mh`

mutnohtbfmccy.

\ogcoft eh tno Aevoaohts eg Reur Nomrtmh` eh tno Cevo eg Ke`

[noh bt feaos te qubttbhk tno mpprevmc eg etnors, prekross

bs lost amò wbtn twe `mbcy prmftbfos4 rogcoftbhk eh tnoaevoaohts eg yeur nomrt mh` rogcoftbhk eh tno cevo eg

Ke`. Ger oxmapco, te rogcoft eh tno aevoaohts eg yeur

nomrt, tnbhi lmfi eh yeur rofoht bhtormftbehs wbtn poepco.

[nmt b` yeu smy te pesbtbeh yeursocg se tnmt etnors weuc`

tnbhi wocc eg yeu5 [nmt abknt yeu nmvo eho bggorohtcy5

Msi Ke` te nocp yeu lo mwmro eg tno toaptmtbeh te m`dust

yeur lonmvber er wer`s ger seaoehos mpprevmc.Pno sofeh` mbcy prmftbfo bs te fehtoapcmto tno cevo eg

Ke`. B spoh` tbao rokucmrcy bh Vfrbpturo, bh sbcohfo mh`


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secbtu`o, rofobvbhk tno cevo eg Ke`, mccewbhk bt te porao-

mto mh` fnmhko ovory focc bh ay le`y. Pnbs nms prevoh

geuh`mtbehmc te scewcy `bssbpmto tno gomr eg wnmt etnorstnbhi. Pno prbhfbpco bs sbapco4 tno aero yeu kreuh` yeur

b`ohtbty bh tno cevo eg Ke`, tno coss yeu hoo` tno mpprevmc

eg poepco ger yeur sohso eg cevmlbcbty.

[noh yeu mro wbccbhk te qubt fmrbhk wnmt etnors tnbhi,

yeu tmio m kbmht stop bhte tno hoxt B ]ubt qubt cybhk. Bh

tno hoxt fnmptor, wo wbcc oxpcero wnmt bt aomhs te cbvo bh

tno trutn mh` lo sot groo grea cybhk te eursocvos, te Ke`,

mh` te etnors.

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