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Bf¢e k¢c CE. ­L. (UK) ­a hph¡p L­le, Hhw p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll (­X¡­j¢øL i¡­u¡­m¾p) ¢nL¡l q­u b¡­Le, a¡q­m HC “cÉ¡ p¡li¡Ci¡lpÚ qÉ¡äh¤L” (“The Survivor’s Handbook”) Bfe¡l SeÉz

ph p¡ÇfËc¡¢uL ­N¡¢ùl J fVi¨¢jl ApwMÉ j¢qm¡ fË¢a¢ce h¡¢s­a AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢nL¡l qez k¢c Bf¢e AaÉ¡Q¡¢la qe, ­pV¡ Bfe¡l ­c¡o eu, Hhw Bfe¡l ¢e­S­L ­c¡o¡­l¡f Ll¡ E¢Qv euz

HC qÉ¡äh¤L¢V h¡Ù¹h pjpÉ¡u p¡q¡­kÉl SeÉ °al£ Ll¡ q­u­R, Hhw H­a ­R¡V ­R¡V Awn B­R, k¡ Bf¢e h¡ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl A¢dL¡wn a¡vr¢eL pjpÉ¡l pj¡d¡­e p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz Bfe¡l Hhw Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤lr¡l SeÉ k¡ k¡ Ll­a f¡­le, ­kM¡­e ­kM¡­e ­k­a f¡­le, Hhw ­kph pwÙÛ¡l p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­a f¡­le, a¡­cl ­k¡N¡­k¡­Nl ¢WL¡e¡ HM¡­e ­cJu¡ B­Rz

HC qÉ¡äh¤L¢V fËd¡Za j¢qm¡­cl E­ŸnÉ L­l ­mM¡l L¡lZ :

­hn£li¡N ­r­œ Nª­q Evf£sZ f¤l¦ol¡C L­l b¡­Le Hhw j¢qm¡l¡ i¥š²­i¡¢N qez EC­j¾p HCXÚp Cegl­jne HÉ¡ä p¡­f¡VÑ p¡¢iÑ­pp (Women’s Aid’s information and

support services )j¢qm¡ Hhw ¢nö­cl p¡q¡kÉ¡­bÑ °al£ q­u­Rz

a­h Bf¢e k¢c AaÉ¡Q¡¢la f¤l¦o qe, a¡q­m A¢dL¡wn abÉ Bfe¡l ­r­œJ fË­k¡SÉz

HC A¢a fË­u¡Se£u hÉhÙÛ¡l j§mde ­k¡N¡­e¡l SeÉ EC­j¾p HCXÚ h¢X-pf (Body Shop) ­L deÉh¡c S¡e¡­a Q¡uz

paLÑ£LlZ : Bf¢e k¢c iu f¡e ­LE ­S­e ­gm­h Bf¢e HC J­uh-p¡CV ­cM­Re, a¡ q­m ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ¢el¡fš¡ ¢houL abÉ …¢m fs¥ez

¢Li¡­h HLSe AaÉ¡Q¡l£ S¡e­a f¡­l Bf¢e C¾V¡l­e­V ¢L Ll­Re?

Ae¤NËq L­l HLV¥ pju ¢e­u ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma paLÑ£LlZ…¢m fs¥e Hhw HC J­uh-p¡CV ­cM¡l pju ¢L ¢L p¤¤lr¡ hÉhÙÛ¡ ­e­he a¡ S¡e¤ez

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¢euj¡e¤p¡­l, Bf¢e C¾V¡l­eV p¡gÑ Ll­m C¾V¡l­eV hË¡ES¡l a¡l pð­å ¢LR¥ ¢LR¥ abÉ S¢j­u l¡­Mz HC a­bÉl j­dÉ ­k J­uh-p¡CV ­cM­Re a¡l R¢h b¡­L, p¡QÑ C¢”­e ­cJu¡ abÉ b¡­L, Hhw HL¢V p¤¤œ (C¢aq¡p /¢qØV¢l) b¡­L, k¡ fËL¡n L­l Bf¢e ¢L ¢L J­uh-p¡CV ­c­M­Rez Ae¤NËq L­l ¢e­Q ­mM¡ fÜ¢a Ae¤plZ Ll¦e, k¡­a AeÉ ­LE S¡e­a e¡ f¡­le Bf¢e HC J­uh-p¡CV ­c­M­Rez

Bf¢e ¢L hË¡ES¡l hÉhq¡l Ll­Re S¡e­m ­pC pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ¢e­cÑn…¢m fs­a q­h e¡z ¢L hËES¡l hÉhq¡l Ll­Re e¡ S¡e­m, Bfe¡l hË¡ES¡­ll fcÑ¡l Ef­ll V¥mh¡­ll ­q­Òf ¢LÓL Ll¦ez HLV¡ ­je¤ M¤m­h k¡l phÑ­no He¢VÊ hm­h !HÉ¡h¡EV C¾V¡­eV H„­fÔ¡l¡l ’ (About Internet

Explorer), !HÉ¡h¡EV ­j¡¢Sm¡ g¡u¡lg„’ (About Mozilla Firefox) h¡ ­pC lLj ¢LR¥z HC ­mM¡¢V E­õM Ll­R Bf¢e ­L¡e dl­el hËES¡l hÉhq¡l Ll­Re - Bf¢e ­pV¡ S¡e¡l f­l ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ¢e­cÑn¡h¢ml fË¡p¢‰L Awn…¢m ­cM¤ez

C¾V¡­eV H„­fÔ¡l¡l (Internet Explorer) :

V¥mpÚ (Tools) ­je¤­a ¢LÓL Ll¦e Hhw C¾V¡l­eV Afn¾p (Internet Options) ¢ehÑ¡Qe Ll¦ez ­Se¡­lm (General) ­f­S, ­V­Çf¡l¡¢l C¾V¡l­eV g¡Cm­pl (Temporary Internet Files) j­dÉ fËb­j ¢X¢mV L¥¢L­S (Delete Cookies) ¢LÓL Ll¦e Hhw a¡lf­l J­L ­a (OK) ¢LÓL Ll¦ez Hh¡l ¢X¢mV g¡Cm­p (Delete Files) ¢LÓL Ll¦e Hhw a¡lfl ­k h„¢V­a ¢X¢mV AmÚ AgÚm¡Ce Le­V¾V (Delete all offline content) ­mM¡ a¡­a ¢VL ¢c­u, Bh¡l J­L ­a (OK) ¢LÓL Ll¦ez ¢qØV¢l­a (History) ¢N­u ¢LÓu¡l ¢qØV¢l­a (Clear History) ¢LÓL Ll¦e Hhw a¡lf­l Bh¡l J­L ­a (OK) ¢LÓL Ll¦ez Hh¡l fcÑ¡l Ef­ll ¢c­L Le­V¾V (Content) VÉ¡­h ¢LÓL L­l, fËb­j A­V¡ Lj¢fÔV (AutoComplete) ¢ehÑ¡Qe Ll¦e Hhw ph ­n­o ¢LÓu¡l gjÑ (Clear Forms) ¢ehÑ¡Qe Ll¦ez

g¡u¡lg„ / ­eV­úf (Firefox/Netscape) :

fËb­j ¢LÓL Ll¦e V¥m­p (Tools), a¡lf­l Afp­¾p (Options) Hhw a¡lf­l fË¡C­i¢p­a(Privacy)z HM¡­e LÉ¡­p (Cache) Hhw ­piX gjÑ CegÚl­jn¡e (Saved Form Information)Hl f¡­nl ¢LÓu¡l (Clear) h¡V­e ¢LÓL Ll¦ez

A­fl¡ (Opera) :

fËb­j ¢LÓL Ll¦e V¥m­p (Tools), a¡lf­l ­fËg¡­l­¾pp (Preferences) Hz Hh¡l ¢LÓL Ll¦e HÉXi¡¾pX (Advanced) VÉ¡­h Hhw a¡lf­l X¡e ¢c­Ll ¢qØV¢l (History) ­pLn­e z ­pM¡­e c¤­V¡ ¢LÓu¡l (Clear) h¡V­eC ¢LÓL Ll¦e, Hhw a¡lf­l HÇf¢V e¡J (Empty Now) h¡V­e ¢LÓL Ll¦ez

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Bfe¡l hË¡E¢Sw C¢aq¡p j¤­R ¢ce :

C¾V¡l­eV hË¡ES¡l…¢m Bf¢e ­k ­k J­uh-­fS ­cM­Re a¡l a¡¢mL¡ l¡­Mz H­L hm¡ qu !C¢aq¡p /¢qØV¢l’z C¾V¡l­eV H„­fÔ¡l¡l (Internet Explorer) Hhw g¡u¡lg„ / ­eV­ú­f (Firefox/Netscape) HC C¢aq¡p j¤­R ­cJu¡l SeÉ fËb­j Bfe¡l ¢L-­h¡­XÑ Ctrl ¢L-¢V ­Q­f dl¦e, a¡lf­l H ¢L-¢V Q¡f¤e (A­fl¡l (Opera) SeÉ Crtl, Alt Hhw H )z Hh¡l www.womensaid.org.uk ­L¡b¡J ­mM¡ B­R ¢Le¡ M¤yS¥ez b¡L­m j¡E­pl X¡e ­h¡a¡j¢V ¢V­f ¢X¢mV (Delete) ¢ehÑ¡Qe Ll¦ez

C - ­jm :

k¢c ­L¡e AaÉ¡Q¡l£ Bfe¡­L iufËcnÑL h¡ ¢hl¢š²Ll C-­jm f¡W¡u, ­p…¢m R¡¢f­u ¢e­u AaÉ¡Q¡­ll fËj¡Z ¢q­p­h l¡M¡ ­k­a f¡­lz Bfe¡l f§hÑ-­fË¢la C-­jm…¢m ­p¾V BC­Vj­p p¢’a b¡L­hzk¢c Bfe¡l ­L¡e C-­jm AdÑpj¡ç b¡­L, a¡ Bfe¡l XÊ¡gVÚ ­g¡ô¡­l b¡L­a f¡­lz k¢c Bf¢e ­L¡e C-­j­ml Ešl ­ce, Bpm C-­jm¢V Bfe¡l Ešl Hl j­dÉ ­b­L ­k­a f¡­lz Bf¢e k¢c Q¡e Bpm C-­jm¢V ­LE e¡ ­cM¤L, a¡ q­m ­pV¡ R¡¢f­u ¢e­u j¤­R ­gm¤ez

kMe Bf¢e ­L¡e C-­jm ­fË¡NË¡­j (BEVm¤L H„­fËp, BEVm¤L, b¡ä¡lh¡XÑ CaÉ¡¢c) ­L¡e ¢LR¥ j¤­R ­ce, ­fË¡NË¡j¢V ­pV¡ p¢aÉ L­l j¤­R ­cu e¡ , ­pV¡ p¢l­u ­cu ¢X¢m­VX BC­Vjp (Deleted Items) h­m HL¢V ­g¡ô¡­lz Bfe¡­L Bm¡c¡ L­l ¢X¢m­VX BC­Vj­pl C-­jm j¤R­a q­hz ¢X¢m­VX BC­Vj­pl ­L¡e C-­jm j¤R­a q­m, ­pC C-­j­ml Efl j¡EpV¡ ¢e­u ¢N­u j¡E­pl X¡e ¢c­Ll ­h¡a¡­j ¢LÓL Ll¦e, Hhw ¢X¢mV ¢p­mƒ Ll¦ez

p¡d¡lZ p¤¤lr¡ :

Bf¢e k¢c Bfe¡l L¢ÇfEV¡­l ­L¡e f¡p-Ju¡XÑ R¡s¡ mNÚ-AeÚ L­le, AeÉ ­k ­LE Bfe¡l C-­jm ­cM­a f¡­l, Hhw Bfe¡l C¾V¡l­eV hÉhq¡l pð­å S¡e­a f¡l­hz C¾V¡l­e­V ¢LR¥ ­cM¡l ph ­b­L p¤¤l¢ra l¡Ù¹¡ qm ÙÛ¡e£u m¡C­hËl£, ­L¡e hå¥l h¡s£ h¡ LjÑ­r­œ C¾V¡l­eV p¡gÑ Ll¡z

Ef­l¡š² pjÙ¹ p¡hd¡ea¡ Ahmðe L­lJ Bf¢e Bfe¡l C¾V¡l­eV p¡¢gÑw Hl Mhl m¤L¡­a prj e¡J q­a f¡­lez A­eL hË¡ES¡­l ¢LR¥ °h¢nø B­R ­k…¢m pÇfË¢a ­cM¡ C¾V¡l­eV p¡CV…¢m ­c¢M­u ­cuz C¾V¡l­e­V ¢LR¥ ­cM¡l ph ­b­L p¤¤l¢ra l¡Ù¹¡ qm ÙÛ¡e£u m¡C­hËl£, ­L¡e hå¥l h¡s£ h¡ LjÑ­r­œ C¾V¡l­eV p¡gÑ Ll¡z

p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l L¡­L h­m?

!p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll’ ¢h¢iæ pw‘¡ B­Rz EC­j¾p HCXÚ Hl j­a p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l qm n¡l£¢lL, j¡e¢pL, ­k±e h¡ AbÑ°e¢aL AaÉ¡Q¡l, k¡ ­L¡e A¿¹l‰ h¡ f¡¢lh¡¢lL pÇf­LÑl j­dÉ q­u b¡­L, Hhw a¡ h¡dÉL¡l£ Hhw cjeL¡l£ BL¡l d¡lZ L­l b¡­Lz ­S¡l L­l ¢h­u ­cJu¡ Hhw !pÇj¡e’ Hl e¡­j Afl¡d Ll¡J Hl j­dÉ f­s z

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p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll OVe¡ Q¡¢l¢c­L R¢s­u l­u­R : N­hoZ¡u ­cM¡ ¢N­u­R fË¢a Q¡lSe j¢qm¡l HLSe a¡­cl S£heL¡­m Hl ¢nL¡l q­u b¡­Lez fË¢a pç¡­q c¤Se j¢qm¡ a¡­cl f¡VÑe¡l h¡ fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡­ll q¡­a j¡l¡ k¡ez pjÙ¹ lL­jl p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll p§Qe¡ qu A¿¹l‰ f¡VÑe¡l, h¡ AeÉ¡eÉ f¡¢lh¡­ll pc­pÉl Efl AaÉ¡Q¡l£l cjeLl¡l rja¡ Hhw ¢eu­¿»­Zl CµR¡ ­b­Lz p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l h¡­l h¡­l OV­a f¡­l J S£he-e¡nL q­a f¡­l, Hhw pj­ul p¡­b B­l¡ M¡l¡­fl ¢c­L ­k­a b¡­Lz f¢lh¡­ll p¿¹¡e­cl Ef­lJ Hl ¢h­no fËi¡h f­sz

p¡d¡lZax p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l j¢qm¡­cl Efl q­u b¡­L Hhw HC AeÉ¡u-p¡de f¤l¦ol¡C L­l b¡­Lez ¢h­no L­l kMe AaÉ¡Q¡l h¡lwh¡l n¡l£¢lL Bœ²j­Zl BL¡l ­eu, Abh¡ kMe doÑZ h¡ ­k±e ¢eNËq O­V, Abh¡ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll f¢lZ¡­j …l¦al BO¡a h¡ jªaÉ¥ O­Vz HC SeÉ Bjl¡ p¡d¡lZi¡­h AaÉ¡Q¡l£­L !f¤l¦o’ Hhw AaÉ¡Q¡¢la­L !j¢qm¡’ h­m E­õM Ll­h¡z

S¡¢a, djÑ, pÇfËc¡u, ­nËe£, n¡l£¢lL ¢hLm¡‰a¡ h¡ S£he-k¡f­el dlZ ¢e¢hÑ­n­o, ­k ­L¡e j¢qm¡C p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢nL¡l q­a f¡­lez p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l pjL¡j£ Ù»£ h¡ f¤l¦o, Ei¢m‰ Hhw f¢lh¢aÑa ¢m­‰l pÇf­LÑl j­dÉJ OV­a f¡­l, Hhw HC AeÉ¡u-p¡de f¢lh¡­ll BeÉ¡eÉ pcpÉ­cl (¢hÙ¹«a f¢lh¡l h¡ ANËS p¿¹¡e) à¡l¡ q­a f¡­lz

p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l­L ¢Qe¤e - Awn¢V Ae¤NËq L­l ­cM¤ez

p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l ¢L Afl¡d?p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l ¢h¢iæ dl­el hÉhq¡l­L ­h¡T¡­a f¡­l, Hhw HL¢V ­L¡e ¢h­no Afl¡d­L !p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l’ hm¡ k¡u e¡z

¢h¢iæ dl­el p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l­L L­W¡l Afl¡d hm¡ k¡u, ­kje n¡l£¢lL Bœ²jZ, Bqa Ll¡, nÄ¡p­l¡d Ll¡, ­k±e ¢eNËq, doÑZ, jªaÉ¥iu ­cM¡­e¡, ¢hlš² Ll¡, Ae¤plZ Ll¡ Hhw j¡e¤o­L Evf£s­Zl i­u l¡M¡z

¢LR¥ ¢LR¥ B­hNS¢ea AaÉ¡Q¡l­L Afl¡d h­m NZÉ Ll¡ qu e¡ - k¢cJ H…¢m j¢qm¡ h¡ ¢nö­cl i¡­m¡ b¡L¡ Hhw ü¡d£ea¡­h¡­dl Efl …l¦al J c£OÑ­ju¡c£ fËi¡h ­gm­a f¡­lz

Evf£s­el SeÉ c¡u£ ­L?AaÉ¡Q¡l£ phpju Evf£s­el SeÉ c¡u£ Hhw a¡­LC ph pju a¡l L¡­Sl SeÉ c¡uhÜ Ll¡ E¢Qvz AaÉ¡Q¡l£l hÉhq¡­ll SeÉ ­L¡e AhÙÛ¡­aC AaÉ¡Q¡¢la­L c¡u£ Ll¡ E¢Qv euz

AaÉ¡Q¡l£l¡ A­eL pju ¢e­S­cl hÉhq¡­ll c¡¢uaÆ Hs¡­a AeÉ L¡E­L c¡u£ Ll¡l ­Qø¡ L­l, Abh¡ AaÉ¡Q¡¢lal p¡­b a¡l pÇfLÑ­L, a¡l °nnh­L, a¡l n¡l£¢lL AhÙÛ¡­L, h¡ a¡l jc h¡ j¡cL â­hÉl Bn¢š²­L c¡u£ Ll¡l ­Qø¡ L­lz k¢cJ HC ¢hou …¢m ¢LR¥ fËi¡h ­g­m b¡L­a f­l, ¢L¿¹ H…¢m LM­e¡C AaÉ¡Q¡­ll fËaÉr L¡lZ q­a f­l e¡z

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p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l­L ¢Qe¤e

fË­aÉ­Ll ¢e­Sl ja¡ja b¡­L Hhw ­pC ja LM­e¡ a¡l f¡VÑe¡l h¡ AeÉ f¡¢lh¡¢lL pc­pÉl p¡­b e¡ ¢jm­a f­lz Bjl¡ ph¡C LM­e¡ LM­e¡ Hje L¡S L¢l, k¡ Bj¡­cl k¡l¡ i¡­m¡h¡­p, a¡­cl c¤xM ­cu, Hhw Bjl¡ ­pC ph L¡S Ll¡l SeÉ f­l Ae¤aç qCz ¢L¿¹¥ HC lLj L¡S k¢c h¡lwh¡l Qm­a b¡L¡ d¡l¡l BL¡l ­eu, a¡ q­m H­L p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll mrZ h­m ­h¡T¡ E¢Qvz ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma fËnÀ…¢m Bfe¡­L ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a f¡­l :

Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l h¡ ­L¡e f¡¢lh¡¢lL pcpÉ ¢L Bfe¡­L hå¥ h¡ f¢lh¡­ll AeÉ pcpÉ­cl p¡­b ­cM¡ Ll­a h¡d¡ ¢c­µR?

­p ¢L Bfe¡l L¡­S k¡Ju¡, h¡ L­m­S k¡Ju¡u hy¡d¡ ¢c­µR? ­p ¢L ph pju Bfe¡­L ­Q¡­M ­Q¡­M l¡­M h¡ Ae¤plZ L­l? ­p ¢L A­k±¢š²Li¡­h Bfe¡­L A­eÉl p¡­b gÓ¡VÑ Ll¡ h¡ ­fË­jl pÇfLÑ l¡M¡l A¢i­k¡N

Ll­R? ­p ¢L phÑrZ Bfe¡­L a¥µRa¢µRmÉ L­l h¡ Ahj¡ee¡ L­l, Abh¡ Bfe¡l p¡j¡­m¡Qe¡ L­l

h¡ Bfe¡­L Afj¡e L­l? Bf¢e ¢L a¡­L iu f¡e? Bf¢e ¢L LM­e¡ a¡l fË¢a¢œ²u¡l i­u Bfe¡l hÉhq¡l f¢lhaÑe L­l­Re? ­p ¢L LM­e¡ CµR¡L«a i¡­h Bfe¡l ­L¡e ¢S¢eo eø L­l­R? ­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bfe¡­L h¡ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl BO¡a L­l­R h¡ iu ­c¢M­u­R? ­p ¢L ph pju Bfe¡­L V¡L¡l Ai¡­h l¡­M? ­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bf¢e Ll­a Q¡ee¡ Hje L¡S Ll¡l SeÉ Bfe¡­L ­S¡l L­l­R? Bfe¡l X¡š²¡l£ p¡q¡­kÉl clL¡l fs­m ­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bfe¡­L ­pC p¡q¡kÉ ¢e­a hy¡d¡

­ch¡l ­Qø¡ L­l­R? ­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bfe¡­L cje Ll¡l ­Qø¡ L­l­R HC h­m ­k Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne

(immigration status) AhÙÛ¡l SeÉ Bfe¡­L ¢ehÑ¡¢pa Ll¡ q­h? ­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bfe¡­L p¿¹¡e­cl ¢e­u ­eh¡l iu ­c¢M­u­R, h¡ h­m­R ­k a¡­L ­R­s ­N­m

Bf¢e Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl Bfe¡l p­‰ ¢e­u ­k­a f¡l­he e¡, Abh¡ Bl LM­e¡ a¡­cl ­cM­a f¡­he e¡?

­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bfe¡­L a¡l p¡­b, h¡ AeÉ L­l¡l p¡­b ­k±e pqh¡p Ll­a h¡dÉ L­l­R? ­p ¢L LM­e¡ Bfe¡l h¡¢s ­b­L ­h­l¡­e¡ hå Ll¡l ­Qø¡ L­l­R? ­p ¢L a¡l hÉhq¡­ll SeÉ a¡l jc¡n¢š² h¡ j¡cL â­hÉl Bn¢š²­L c¡u£ L­l­R? ­p ¢L Bfe¡l jc h¡ j¡cL â­hÉl ­phe ¢eu¿»Z L­l?

k¢c Ef­ll HL h¡ HL¡¢dL fË­nÀl Ešl Bfe¡l ­r­œ qÉ¡y qu, a¡ q­m pñhax Bf¢e p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l ­i¡N Ll­Rez

p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l L¡­L h­m - Awn¢V Ae¤NËq L­l ­cM¤ez

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B¢j p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l ­i¡N Ll¢R - HC ¢ho­u B¢j ¢L Ll­a f¡¢l?

­L¡e j¡e¤oC AaÉ¡Q¡¢la qJu¡ ASÑe L­l e¡ Hhw Bfe¡l a¡ pqÉ Ll¡l ­L¡e L¡lZ ­eCz Bf¢e Hl ¢hl¦­Ü A­eL ¢LR¥C Ll­a f­le - ¢L¿¹¥ a¡l ­L¡eV¡C pqS eu, Hhw ­L¡eV¡C pÇf¨ZÑi¡­h h¡ a¡vr¢eLi¡­h AaÉ¡Q¡l hå Ll­a f¡l­h e¡zAaÉ¡Q¡l ­b­L j¤¢š² f¡Ju¡ HL¢V c£OÑ ­ju¡c£ L¡S : A¢dL¡wn j¢qm¡C ¢h¢iæ Evp ­b­L p¡q¡kÉ ­ee, Hhw Ah­n­o pÇfLÑ-­Rc Ll¡l B­N, hýh¡l ­h¢l­u H­p Bh¡l ¢g­l k¡ez

BCeNa Ef¡uBf¢e Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l­L ­R­s Bp¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢ee h¡ e¡ ¢ee, BCeNa p¤¤lr¡­a Bfe¡l A¢dL¡l B­R Hhw Bfe¡l p¡j­e HL¡¢dL BCeNa Ef¡u ­M¡m¡ B­Rz

¢p¢im BC­el (civil law) hÉhÙÛ¡l j­dÉ B­R CeS¡wne (injunctions) (­L¡­VÑ AXÑ¡l), Hhw p¿¹¡e­cl p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N l¡M¡l h­¾c¡hÙ¹, ­pf¡­lne (separation) J ¢hh¡q ¢h­µRc (divorce)z

AaÉ¡Q¡l£ Bfe¡l Efl Afl¡dj¤mL AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll­m f¤¢mn h¡ œ²¡Ee fË¢p¢LEne p¡¢iÑp (Crown Prosecution Service) (CPS) a¡l ¢hl¦­Ü ¢œ²¢je¡m BC¢e fc­rf ¢e­a f¡­lz

HC ¢ho­u B­l¡ S¡e­a Bfe¡l BCeNa A¢dL¡l, CeS¡wne f¡Ju¡l Ef¡u , Hhw f¤¢mn J ¢œ²¢je¡m A¢i­k¡N Ll¡l fË¢œ²u¡ Awn…¢m ­cM¤ez

k¢c Bfe¡l a¡vr¢eL ¢hf­cl j­dÉ b¡­Le a¡ q­m ph pju f¤¢m­nl p¡q¡kÉ ¢e­a f¡­le Hhw ­k ­L¡e Sl¦l£ ¢hf­c 999 X¡­um Ll­a f¡­lez Bfe¡­L lr¡ Ll¡ Hhw p¡q¡kÉ Ll¡ a¡­cl LaÑhÉz

24 O¾V¡ ¢é-­g¡e eÉ¡­ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡um¡¾p ­qÒf m¡CeBfe¡l p¡j­e ¢L ¢L Ef¡u B­R a¡ B­m¡Qe¡ Ll­a Q¡C­m, eÉ¡­ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡u­m¾p ­qÒf-m¡C­e (National Domestic Violence Helpline) ­g¡e Ll­a f¡­le, 0808 2000 247 eð­lz HV¡ EC­j¾p HCXÚ Hhw ¢l¢gE­Sl (Refuge) j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ quz

HC ­qÒf-m¡Ce mÉ¡w…­uS-m¡C­el (Language Line) pcpÉ, Hhw ­c¡i¡o£l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll­a f¡­lz HC m¡Ce pwp¡­l AaÉ¡Q¡¢la j¢qm¡­cl, h¡ a¡­cl q­u p¡q¡kÉ fË¡bÑ£­cl, j¡e¢pL pq¡ua¡ Ll­a f¡­l J abÉfËc¡e Ll­a f¡­lz

p¢WLi¡­h ¢n¢ra pq¡uL J ­pµR¡­phLl¡ HC ­qÒf-m¡Ce 24 O¾V¡, p¡l¡ pç¡q L¡S L­le Hhw H­cl fË­aÉ­LC j¢qm¡z ph ­g¡­el Lb¡C ¢h­noi¡­h ­N¡fe l¡M¡ qu Hhw ­c­nl ­k ­L¡e Awn ­b­LC ¢he¡ MlQ¡u ­g¡e Ll¡ k¡uz ­qÒf-m¡C­el LjÑ£ Bfe¡l p¡­b Bfe¡l pñhÉ Ef¡u…¢m ¢e­u A­m¡Qe¡ Ll­h, Hhw Bfe¡­L ph ¢ho­u ­S­e ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz Bf¢e pÇf¨ZÑ i¡­h fËÙ¹¥a q¡Ju¡l B­N a¡l¡ Bfe¡­L ­L¡e ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a hm­h e¡, Abh¡ Hje ­L¡e ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a h¡dÉ Ll­h e¡, k¡ Bfe¡l j­elj­a¡ euz

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B­l¡ HL¢V eÉ¡n¡e¡m ­qÒf-m¡Ce B­R ¢h­noi¡­h pjL¡j£ Ù»£ h¡ f¤l¦o, Ei¢m‰ J ¢m‰ f¢lhaÑeL¡l£­cl p¡q¡kÉ Ll¡l SeÉ : ­hË¡­Le ­lCe­h¡ ­qÒf-m¡C­e (Broken Rainbow Helpline) ­g¡e Ll¦e pL¡m 9:00 ­b­L c¤f¤l 1:00 fkÑ¿¹, Hhw c¤f¤l 2:00 ­b­L 5:00 fkÑ¿¹, ­p¡jh¡l ­b­L öœ²h¡l HC eð­l : 0845 260 4460; ¢j¢eLj : 0207 231 3884

p¤¤lr¡l f¢lLÒfe¡

hÉ¢š²Na p¤¤lr¡l f¢lLÒfe¡ qm ¢e­S­L Hhw Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl lr¡ Ll¡l HL¢V fbz H¢V Bfe¡­L i¢hoÉ­al Evf£se J AaÉ¡Q¡l ­b­L h¡yQ­a BN¡j f¢lLÒfe¡ Ll­a p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz Bf¢e Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡­ll Evf£se J AaÉ¡Q¡l hå Ll­a f¡l­he e¡ : öd¤ a¡l¡ ¢e­Sl¡C a¡ hå Ll­a f¡­lez ¢L¿¹¥ Bfe¡l ¢e­Sl J p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤lr¡ hª¢Ü Ll­a Bf¢e ¢LR¥ hÉhÙÛ¡ ¢e­a f¡­lez

Bfe¡l p­‰ …l¦aÆf§ZÑ J Sl¦l£ V¡¢m­g¡e eðl …­m¡ l¡M¤e - ­kje Bfe¡l ÙÛ¡e£u EC­j¾p HCX ¢l¢gES JlN¡e¡C­Sne h¡ AeÉ ­L¡e p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢hl¦­Ü p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ f¢l­oh¡; f¤¢m­nl p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢hl¦­Ü p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ CE¢eV (police domestic violence unit); Bfe¡l ¢S. ¢f. (GP); Bfe¡l pj¡S­phL, k¢c ­aje ­LE b¡­Le; Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl ú¥m; Bfe¡l E¢Lm; Hhw EC­j¾p HCXÚ J ¢l¢gE­Sl j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡umÉ¡¾p ­qÒf m¡Ce : 0808 2000 247.

Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl ­nM¡e Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡u 999 H ­g¡e Ll­a qu ¢Li¡­h Hhw ¢L ¢L hm­a q­h : ­kje a¡­cl f¤­l¡ e¡j, ¢WL¡e¡ J ­V¢m­g¡e eðlz

Bfe¡l ­L¡e ¢eiÑl Ll¡l j­a¡ fË¢a­hn£ B­R ¢L k¡­cl L¡­R Bf¢e Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡u­k­a f¡­le? k¢c b¡­L, a¡q¡­m a¡­cl S¡e¡­he ¢L ¢L OV­R, Hhw hm­he ­L¡e ¢qwpË AaÉ¡Q¡­ll Bi¡p ­f­m a¡l¡ ­ke f¤¢mn X¡­Lez

f¡m¡­e¡l f¢lLÒfe¡l jqs¡ ¢ce, k¡­a Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡­a Bf¢e J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡­el¡ ¢el¡f­c f¡m¡­a f¡­lez

¢e­Sl J p¿¹¡e­cl SeÉ HL¢V Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡l hÉ¡N …¢R­u l¡M¤e, Hhw ­pV¡ ­L¡e p¤¤l¢ra S¡uN¡u m¤¢L­u l¡M¤e, ­kje Bfe¡l fË¢a­hn£l h¡ hå¥l h¡s£z

¢e­Sl p¡­b ph pju AÒf ¢LR¥ AbÑ l¡M¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦e - h¡p i¡s¡ J ­V¢m­g¡e Ll¡l SeÉ M¤Q­l¡ AbÑJ l¡M­hez

ph ­b­L ¢eLVhaÑ£ ­V¢m­g¡e ­L¡b¡u ­S­e l¡M¤e - Hhw Bfe¡l ­j¡h¡Cm ­g¡e b¡L­m, a¡ p­‰ l¡M¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦ez

Bfe¡l k¢c p­¾cq qu ­k Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l Bœ²jZ Ll­a f¡­l, a¡q­m ­Qø¡ Ll¦e h¡s£l ph ­b­L Lj ¢hf­cl pñ¡he¡ ­k S¡uN¡u, ­pM¡­e ­k­a - ­kje ­k S¡uN¡ ­b­L ­h¢l­u k¡Ju¡l h¡ ­V¢m­g¡e Llh¡l p¤¤­k¡N B­Rz

Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡u h¡s£ ­R­s Q­m k¡Ju¡l SeÉ fËÙ¹¥a b¡L¥ez

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­R­s k¡Ju¡l fËÙ¹¥¢ak¢c Bf¢e Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l­L ­R­s k¡Ju¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­u b¡­Le, a¡ q­m ­pC f¢lLÒfe¡ p¡hd¡­e Llh¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦ez LM­e¡ LM­e¡ AaÉ¡Q¡l£ k¢c p­¾cq L­l Bf¢e a¡­L ­R­s k¡Ju¡l f¢lLÒfe¡ Ll­Re, ­p a¡l AaÉ¡Q¡­ll j¡œ¡ h¡¢s­u ¢c­a f¡­l, a¡C ­pC pju ¢h­no i¡­h ¢hfc‹eL q­u EW­a f¡­lz

­R­s Bp¡l SeÉ Hje pju ¢WL Ll¦e, ­k pju Bf¢e S¡­ee Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l B­n-f¡­n b¡L­h e¡z Bfe¡l k¡ k¡ m¡N­a f¡­l pjÙ¹ ¢e­u k¡Ju¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦e - ­kje Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl pÇf¢LÑa pjÙ¹ Sl¦l£ L¡NSfœ - ­k­qa¥ Bf¢e flhaÑ£L¡­m ¢g­l Bp¡l p¤¤­k¡N e¡J ­f­a f¡­lez Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p­‰ ¢ee - e¡q­m i¢hoÉ­a a¡­cl Bfe¡l L¡­R l¡M¡ L¢We h¡ Apñh q­u EW­a f¡­lz k¢c a¡l¡ ú¥­m f­s, a¡q­m ¢e¢ÕQa Ll¦e ­k a¡­cl ¢nr­Ll¡ f¢l¢ÙÛ¢a pð­å S¡­ee, Hhw ­L i¢hoÉ­a ¢nö­cl h¡¢s ¢e­u k¡­h a¡J S¡­eez (¢e­Q ­cM¤e : ¢h¢µRæ qJu¡l f­l ¢Li¡­h ¢e­S­L lr¡ Ll­he )

­R­s k¡Ju¡l Lb¡ i¡h¡ ­b­L ­R­s k¡Ju¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ­eJu¡ - HL¢V c£OÑ fË¢œ²u¡ q­a f¡­lz f¢lLÒfe¡ Ll¡l AbÑ HC eu ­k M¤h n£OË ­pV¡­L L¡­S m¡N¡­a q­h - Abh¡ B­c± ­L¡e ¢ce L¡­S m¡N¡­a q­hz ¢L¿¹¥ HC ¢ho­u ­i­h l¡M¡, Hhw fË­u¡S­e Hl p¡­b k¤š² Ap¤¤¢hd¡…¢m­L L¡¢V­u EW­he ¢L i¡­h, a¡ ­S­e l¡M¡ Bfe¡­L p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a f¡­lz

k¢c pñh qu a¡q­m ¢LR¥ V¡L¡ fË¢a pç¡­q p¢l­u l¡M¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦e, h¡ HL¢V Bm¡c¡ hÉ¡ˆ HL¡E¾V M¤­m ­eJu¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦ez

Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l ­L ­R­s k¡Ju¡l f¢lLÒfe¡ Ll­m ¢L ¢L …¢R­u l¡M­heBcnÑi¡­h, NªqaÉ¡N Ll­m ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ¢S¢eo…¢m Bfe¡l p­‰ ­eJu¡ clL¡l :

Bfe¡l f¢lQufœz Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl S­eÈl fËj¡Zfœ h¡ h¡bÑ p¡¢VÑ¢g­LV (Birth certificates) z f¡p­f¡VÑ (Bfe¡l ph p¿¹¡e­cl f¡p­f¡VÑ öÜ¥), ¢ip¡ (visas) Hhw Ju¡LÑ f¡l¢jV (work

permits) z V¡L¡, hÉ¡­ˆl hC, ­QL hC, ­œ²¢XV J ­X¢hV L¡XÑz h¡s£, N¡s£ Hhw LjÑ­r­œl Q¡h£z Q¡Cô ­h¢e¢gV (Child Benefit) J AeÉ¡eÉ J­um­gu¡l ­h¢e¢g­Vl (welfare benefits)

L¡XÑz XÊ¡C¢iw m¡C­p¾p J N¡s£ ­l¢S­ØVÊn­el L¡NSfœz Jo¤dfœz Bfe¡l h¡s£l ­V¢eE­ll (tenure/­i¡NcM­ml c¢mm) L¡NSf­œl L¢fz ¢hj¡ h¡ C¾pÉ¥­l­¾pl L¡NSfœ, ­kje eÉ¡ne¡m C¾pÉ¥­l¾p e¡ð¡lz ¢WL¡e¡l hCz f¢lh¡­ll R¢h, X¡u¢l, Nue¡z

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Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl SeÉ S¡j¡L¡fs J fËp¡de p¡jNË£z Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl ph­Q­u ¢fËu ­L¡e ­R¡V ­Mme¡ z

AaÉ¡Q¡l pwœ²¡¿¹ pjÙ¹ L¡NSfœ Bfe¡l p­‰ ­eJu¡ E¢Qv - ­kje f¤¢mn ¢l­f¡VÑ, ­L¡VÑ AXÑ¡l, Hhw ­j¢XL¡m ¢l­f¡­VÑl L¢f, k¢c a¡ Bfe¡l p­‰ b¡­Lz

¢h¢µRæ qJu¡l f­l ¢Li¡­h ¢e­S­L lr¡ Ll­he Bfe¡­L ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a q­h Bf¢e p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢nL¡l - ­pLb¡ ­m¡LSe­L S¡e¡­he ¢Le¡; a­h Bf¢e ­h¢n p¤¤l¢ra q­a f¡­le, k¢c Bf¢e Bfe¡l hå¥, f¢lh¡l, Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl ú¥m, Hhw Bfe¡l L¡­Sl S¡uN¡u ¢e­u¡NLaÑ¡­cl k¡ q­µR a¡ S¡e¡e, k¡­a a¡l¡ e¡ ­S­e ­L¡e Sl¦l£ abÉ Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£­L e¡ ¢c­u ­g­me, Hhw Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡u Bfe¡­L ­hn£ L­l p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a f¡­lez

Bf¢e NªqaÉ¡N L­lJ k¢c HLC A’­m hph¡p L­le, a¡ q­m HC i¡­h ¢e­Sl p¤¤lr¡ hª¢Ü Ll­a f¡­le :

¢e­S­L Bm¡c¡ L­l l¡M­he e¡, h¡ ¢e­S­L ­L¡e ¢hfc‹eL AhÙÛ¡u ¢e­u k¡­he e¡z Bf¢e B­N ­k ph S¡uN¡u ­k­ae ­p…¢m H¢s­u Qm­a ­Qø¡ Ll¦ez Bfe¡l °ce¢¾ce L¡­Sl d¡l¡ k­a¡V¡ pñh f¢lhaÑe Ll¦ez Bfe¡l ­k ¢eu¢ja p¡r¡vL¡l…¢ml Mhl ¢ef£sZL¡l£ S¡­ee, ­p…¢m hc­m ­gm¡l ­Qø¡

Ll¦ez ­k ph S¡uN¡u k¡Ju¡ Bf¢e Hs¡­a f¡l­Re e¡, ­p ph S¡uN¡u k¡Ju¡l Bp¡l SeÉ AeÉ

p¤¤l¢ra l¡Ù¹¡ hÉhq¡l Ll¦ez Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl ú¥m, e¡pÑ¡l£ h¡ Q¡Cô j¡Cä¡­L ¢L q­µR S¡¢e­u l¡M¤e, Hhw h­m l¡M¤e

¢nö­cl ­L h¡s£ ¢e­u k¡­hz Bfe¡l LjÑ­r­œ ¢e­u¡NLaÑ¡­L ph S¡e¡­e¡l ¢Q¿¹¡ Ll¦e - ¢h­no L­l k¢c Bfe¡l

f¡VÑe¡­ll ­pM¡­e Bfe¡­L ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll¡l pñ¡he¡ b¡­Lz

k¢c Bf¢e Bfe¡l f§hÑ hph¡­pl S¡uN¡ ­R­s Q­m ¢N­u b¡­Le, Hhw Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£ Bfe¡l ea¥e ¢WL¡e¡ S¡e¡­a e¡ Q¡e, a¡q­m ­pC ph ¢LR¥­a Bfe¡­L ¢h­no paLÑa¡ Ahmðe Ll­a q­h, k¡ Bfe¡l ¢WL¡e¡ S¡¢e­u ¢c­a f¡­l, ­kje :

Bfe¡l ­j¡h¡Cm ­g¡e VÊÉ¡L Ll¡ ­k­a f¡­lz k¢c Bfe¡l j­e qu ­pV¡ Ll¡ pñh, a¡q­m Bf¢e ­g¡e LÇf¡e£l ­m¡LS­el p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll¦e, h¡ ­g¡e hcm L­l ­gm¤ez

Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£l p¡­b k¤š² ph ­œ²¢XV h¡ ­X¢hV L¡XÑ, Abh¡ S­u¾V HL¡E¾V hÉhq¡l e¡ Ll¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦e, L¡lZ ­p…¢ml ­ØVV­j­¾V Bf¢e ­L¡b¡u ¢L hÉhq¡l Ll­Re, a¡l ¢hhª¢a b¡L­hz

Bc¡m­al ­L¡e L¡N­S Bfe¡l ¢WL¡e¡ ­ke e¡ b¡­L a¡ ¢e¢ÕQa Ll¦ez

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k¢c Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£­L ­g¡e Ll¡l fË­u¡Se qu (h¡ Hje L¡E­L k¡l p¡­b ¢ef£sZL¡l£l ­k¡N¡­k¡N B­R) a¡q­m ­g¡e Ll¡l B­N 141 X¡u¡m L­l ¢e¢ÕQa Ll¦e Bfe¡l ­g¡e eðl Ae¤plZ Ll¡ pñh euz

Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl hm¤e Bfe¡l ¢WL¡e¡ J AhÙÛ¡e ­N¡fe l¡M­az

Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l h¡s£ ­R­s k¡Ju¡l f­l, Bf¢e ­L¡e AL¥­fne AXÑ¡l h¡ fË­VLne AXÑ¡l ¢e­u k¢c h¡s£­a b¡­Le, h¡ h¡s£­a ¢g­l H­p b¡­Le, a¡q­m ÙÛ¡e£u f¤¢mn HC ¢hou S¡­e ¢Le¡, Hhw Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡u â¥a fc­rf ­e­h ¢Le¡, a¡ ¢e¢ÕQa Ll¦e ( ¢Li¡­h CeS¡wne f¡­he - f­s ­cM¤e)z ¢LR¥ A’­m ¢h­no hÉhÙÛ¡ b¡­L - ­kje pÉ¡wQ¤u¡l£ ¢új (Sanctuary schemes) - k¡ f¤¢m­nl â¥a fc­rf ­eJu¡, Abh¡ Ef­cn ­cJu¡ Hhw Bfe¡l h¡¢s­L A¢a¢lš² p¤¤lr¡ hÉhÙÛ¡ ­cJu¡ ¢e¢ÕQa L­lz

Bf¢e ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ¢hou…¢m ¢h­hQe¡ Ll­a f¡­le : pjÙ¹ clS¡l a¡m¡ hcm¡­e¡; pjÙ¹ S¡em¡­a a¡m¡ m¡N¡­e¡; h¡¢sl fË­aÉL ­gÓ¡­l ­Øj¡L ¢XV¡LVl (smoke detectors) m¡N¡­e¡ Hhw g¡u¡l

H„¢Vw…Cn¡l (fire extinguishers) l¡M¡; h¡¢sl h¡C­l Hje B­m¡ m¡N¡­e¡ ­k…­m¡ ­LE h¡¢sl L¡R¡-L¡¢R H­m ¢e­Sl ­b­L SÆ­m

EW­h; Bfe¡l fË¢a­hn£­cl S¡¢e­u l¡M¡ ­k Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l Bl HC h¡¢s­a b¡­L e¡ Hhw

a¡­L h¡¢sl B­n f¡­n ­cM­a ­f­m ­ke Bfe¡­L S¡e¡e h¡ f¤¢mn­L ­g¡e L­le; ­V¢m­g¡e eðl hcm Ll¡ Hhw a¡ ¢X­lLVl£ ­b­L p¢l­u l¡M¡; ­V¢m­g¡e ­h­R dl¡l SeÉ Bep¡¢lw ­j¢ne (answering machine) hÉhq¡l Ll¡; pjÙ¹ ­L¡­VÑl AXÑ¡­ll L¢f l¡M¡;

k¢c Bfe¡l fË¡š²Z f¡VÑe¡l ¢hlš² Ll¡, ýj¢L ­cJu¡ Hhw AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll¡ Q¡¢m­u k¡u, ph OVe¡l ¢hÙ¹«a ¢hhlZ ­l­M ­c­hez ­kje fË¢a OVe¡l a¡¢lM J pju, ­p ¢WL ¢L h­m­R h¡ L­l­R, Hhw pñh q­m n¡l£¢lL BO¡­al h¡ pÇf¢šl rur¢al R¢h a¥­m l¡M¤ez k¢c Bf¢e Bqa q­u b¡­Le, a¡q­m X¡š²¡­ll L¡­R k¡e Hhw X¡š²¡l­L hm¤e Bfe¡l Bp¡l ¢m¢Ma fËj¡Z l¡M­az k¢c Bfe¡l L¡­R ­NËga¡­ll rja¡ öÜ¥ CeS¡wne b¡­L, h¡ ­L¡e ¢l­ØVÊ¢ew AXÑ¡l (restraining order) b¡­L, f¤¢mn­L hm¤e a¡ fË­u¡N Ll­a; Bl Bfe¡l fË¡š²Z f¡VÑe¡l k¢c ­L¡e ­L¡VÑ AXÑ¡l Aj¡eÉ L­l b¡­L, Bf¢e Bfe¡l E¢Lm­L a¡ S¡e¡­e¡ E¢Qaz BCeNa Ef¡u pð­å B­l¡ S¡e­a ¢Li¡­h CeS¡wne f¡­he Hhw f¤¢mn J fË¢p¢LEn­el fÜ¢a Awn…¢m f­s ­cM¤ez

­k ­L¡e Sl¦¢l AhÙÛ¡­a f¤¢mn­L 999 eð­l ­g¡e Ll¦ez

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EC­j¾p HCXÚ Bj¡l SeÉ ¢L Ll­a f¡­l?

EC­j¾p HCXÚ qm HL¢V S¡a£u QÉ¡¢l¢V (charity), k¡ p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢hl¦­Ü L¡S L­lz Hl¡ p¡l¡ CwmÉ¡ä S¥­s 370 Hl ­hn£ ÙÛ¡e£u pwÙÛ¡­L p¡q¡kÉ L­l, J a¡­cl j­dÉ pjeÄu OV¡uz ÙÛ¡e£u EC­j¾p HCXÚ ­k ph ¢ho­u p¡q¡kÉ L­l b¡­L ­p…¢m qm :

­l¢gES h¡pÙÛ¡e (Refuge accommodation) : ­l¢gES L¡­L h­m Hhw B¢j ¢L L­l ­pM¡­e b¡L­a f¡¢l? Awn¢V ­cM¤ez

BEV¢lQ p¡¢iÑp (Outreach services) : pwMÉ¡mO¤ pÇfËc¡­ul j¢qm¡­cl SeÉ A­eL A’­mC abÉ plhl¡­ql hÉhÙÛ¡ Hhw ¢h­no‘ BEV¢lQ p¡¢iÑp l­u­Rz

­gÓ¡¢Vw p¡­f¡VÑ (Floating support): ­k pjÙÛ j¢qm¡l¡ a¡­cl ¢e­Sl h¡¢s­a b¡L­a Q¡e, Abh¡ ­L¡e rZÙÛ¡u£ h¡ Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡u B­Re, a¡­cl SeÉ p¡q¡kÉ J BnË­ul hÉhÙÛ¡z

BgV¡l ­Lu¡l J ¢l-­p­Vm­j¾V (Aftercare and resettlement) : ­k ph j¢qm¡ J ¢nöl¡ pÇfË¢a ­l¢gES h¡pÙÛ¡e ­R­s H­p­Re a¡­cl SeÉ Qm­a b¡L¡ p¡q¡kÉz

p¡­f¡VÑ NË¥f (Support groups) ­pC j¢qm¡­cl SeÉ k¡l¡ p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢nL¡lq­u­Rez

¢nö­cl SeÉ p¢œ²ua¡ J pq¡uL hÉhÙÛ¡ z Ce¢X­fe­X¾V HX­i¡­L¢p p¡¢iÑp (Independent advocacy services) h¡ ¢el­fr

BCea p¡q¡kÉ, k¡l j¡dÉ­j Nª­q AaÉ¡Q¡l£a­cl abÉ plhl¡q Ll¡ qu Hhw a¡l¡ ­L¡­VÑ ­N­m a¡­cl p¡q¡kÉ Ll¡ quz

EC­j¾p HCXÚ J ¢l¢gE­Sl j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡umÉ¡¾p ­qÒf-m¡Ce : 0808 2000 247.

B¢j ­L¡b¡u ­k­a f¡¢l?

p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll SeÉ k¢c Bfe¡­L NªqaÉ¡N Ll­a qu, h¡ Bfe¡l fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡l k¢c Bfe¡­L ýj¢L ­cu J iu ­cM¡u, a¡q­m Bf¢e ­l¢gES h¡pÙÛ¡­e k¡Ju¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a f¡­lez (­l¢gES L¡­L h­m? Awn¢V ­cM¤e); Abh¡ Bf¢e üÒfL¡­ml SeÉ Bfe¡l f¢lh¡l h¡ h奭cl p¡­b b¡L­a f¡­le; Abh¡ ­L¡e Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡l h¡pÙÛ¡­e ­k­a f¡­lez

f¢lh¡l h¡ h奭cl p¡­b b¡L¡ Bfe¡l fËbj fR¾c q­a f¡­lz ¢L¿¹¥ Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£ ­p ­r­œ B¾c¡S Ll­a f¡­l Bf¢e ­L¡b¡u B­Re, Hhw ¢g­l Bp¡l SeÉ Bfe¡l Efl Q¡f pª¢ø Ll­a f¡­lz Efl¿¹¥ Bfe¡l f¢lh¡l h¡ hå¥l¡ Bfe¡­L ­hn£¢ce BnËu ¢c­a e¡J Q¡C­a f¡­l, h¡ f¤­l¡ OVe¡l SeÉ Bfe¡­L c¡uhÜ Ll­a f¡­l h¡ Bfe¡­L h¡¢s ¢g­l k¡Ju¡l SeÉ Evp¡q ¢c­a f¡­lz

Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡l h¡pÙÛ¡eBf¢e k¢c AaÉ¡Q¡­ll J Evf£s­el SeÉ h¡¢s ­R­s ­h¢l­u Bp­a h¡dÉ qe, a¡ q­m Bfe¡­L Nªqq£e h­m NZÉ Ll¡ q­hz k¢c Bf¢e HC lLj AaÉ¡Q¡­ll J Evf£s­el SeÉ Nªqq£e qe, a¡q­m Bfe¡l ÙÛ¡e£u fËn¡p­el (L¡E¢¾pm) Nªq cç­ll BCeNa c¡¢uaÆ Bfe¡­L b¡L¡l j­a¡

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S¡uN¡ My¥­S ­f­a Ef­cn ­cJu¡ - Hhw Bfe¡­L p¡j¢uL i¡­h b¡L¡l S¡uN¡ ­cJu¡z a¡l¡ Bfe¡­L f¡L¡f¡¢L i¡­h b¡L¡l S¡uN¡J ¢c­a f¡­le Ah­n­oz

Hlf­l ¢L Ll­he i¡h¡l pju Bf¢e Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡l h¡pÙÛ¡­el SeÉ B­hce Ll­a f¡­le; p¡j¢uLi¡­h NªqaÉ¡N Ll­m ­pC Nª­q Bfe¡l ­gla k¡Ju¡l Ad£L¡l ­L¡e i¡­hC r¥æ q­h e¡, Abh¡ Bfe¡l ­pC h¡¢sl i¡s¡­V ¢qp¡­h A¢dL¡l, h¡ h¡¢sl j¡¢mL ¢qp¡­h A¢dL¡l ­L¡e i¡­h fËi¡¢ha q­h e¡z Bf¢e Bfe¡­cl h¡¢s L¡E¢¾p­ml L¡R ­b­L, ­L¡e hÉ¢š²Na h¡¢sJu¡m¡l ­b­L, h¡ ­L¡e q¡E¢Sw H­p¡¢p­un­el ­b­L i¡s¡ ¢e­u b¡L¥e, h¡ Bfe¡l ¢e­Sl h¡¢s b¡L¥L, ph ­r­œC Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡l h¡pÙÛ¡­e S¡uN¡ f¡Ju¡u Bfe¡l pj¡e Ad£L¡l b¡L­hz

Bfe¡l p¡j­e ¢L ¢L l¡Ù¹¡ B­R a¡ M¢a­u ­cM­a, L¡E¢¾pm Bfe¡­L p¡r¡vL¡­ll SeÉ ¢ecÑø pju ¢c­a f¡­lz HC p¡r¡vL¡l ¢L¿¹¥ Nªqq¡l¡ ¢qp¡­h B­hcefœ c¡¢Mm Ll¡l p¡r¡vL¡­ll Efl¿¹¥, a¡l f¢lh­aÑ euz Bf¢e Bfe¡l Nª­q p¤¤l¢ra i¡­h hph¡p Ll¡l ¢ho­u ¢h¾c¥j¡œ ¢Q¢¿¹a b¡L­m, Bfe¡­L ­pC Nª­q b¡L­a ­LE Q¡f ¢c­a f¡­l e¡z Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡l h¡pÙÛ¡e p¡d¡lZa ­hXÚ Hä ­hËLg¡ØV (Bed and Breakfast) h¡pÙÛ¡e, h¡ ­L¡e ­q¡­ØVm h¡ ­l¢gES q­u b¡­Lz

Bj¡l B­hcefœ ¢L i¡­h ­cM¡ q­h?¢h¢iæ ÙÛ¡e£u A¢dLaÑ¡ HC ¢hou¢V ¢h¢iæ i¡­h ­cM­a f¡­lez pñhax ­L¡e ­q¡j­mp­ep A¢gp¡l (Homelessness Officer) Bfe¡l HLV¡ p¡r¡vL¡l ­e­hez Bf¢e a¡­cl k¡ k¡ hm­he a¡ pÇf¨ZÑ …ç l¡M¡ q­hz Bf¢e ­pC p¡r¡vL¡­ll pju p­‰ L¡E­L ¢e­u ­N­m p¤¤¢hd¡ ­h¡d Ll­a f¡­le - ­kje ­L¡e hå¥ h¡ EC­j¾p HCXÚ Hl ­L¡e fË¢a¢e¢dz

Bf¢e A¢gp¡l­L S¡e¡e p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll SeÉ Bf¢e Nªq ¢gl­a f¡l­Re e¡z Bfe¡­L hm¡ q­a f¡­l ­pC AaÉ¡Q¡­ll fËj¡Z ­cM¡­a ; k¢c fËj¡Z Bfe¡l L¡­R e¡J b¡­L a¡q­mJ L¡E¢¾pm Bfe¡­L h¡pÙÛ¡e ¢c­a h¡dÉ, ka¢ce a¡l¡ HC ¢ho­u ¢e­S­cl Ae¤på¡e Q¡m¡­hz a¡l¡ k¢c Bfe¡l ph Lb¡ ¢j¢m­u ­cM­a Q¡u, Bf¢e Hje L¡­l¡l L¡­R a¡­cl f¡W¡e k¡l¡ ph OVe¡l p¢WL ¢hhlZ ¢c­a f¡l­he - ­kje Bfe¡l E¢Lm, ­L¡e hå¥, h¡ Bfe¡l ü¡ÙÛÉ f¢lcnÑL (­qmbÚ ¢i¢SVl /health visitor), h¡ pj¡S­ph¡l LjÑ£z

Bfe¡­L HLV¡ CeS¡wne (­L¡VÑ AXÑ¡l) ¢e­a hm¡ q­a f¡­l k¡ Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£­L Bfe¡l ­b­L c§­l l¡M­h, h¡ a¡­L Bfe¡­cl h¡¢s ­b­L ¢ha¡¢sa Ll­h, k¡­a Bf¢e h¡¢s ¢g­l Bp­a f¡­lez ¢L¿¹¥ Bf¢e e¡ Q¡C­m HCph ¢LR¥ Bfe¡­L Ll­a q­h e¡, Hhw ka¢ce Bf¢e E¢L­ml L¡­R BCeNa Ef­cn ­e­he, a­a¡¢ce L¡E¢¾pm ­b­L Bfe¡­L p¡j¢uLi¡­h b¡L¡l S¡uN¡ ­c­hz (¢Li¡­h CeS¡wne f¡­he Awn¢V ­cM¤e)

Bf¢e HLh¡l Nªqq¡l¡ qJu¡l clM¡Ù¹ Sj¡ ¢c­m ÙÛ¡e£u fËn¡p­el BCeNa c¡¢uaÆ ka¢ce a¡l¡ Ae¤på¡e Q¡m¡­h a­a¡¢ce Bfe¡­L p¡j¢uLi¡­h b¡L¡l S¡uN¡ ­cJu¡z

k¢c ÙÛ¡e£u fËn¡pe Bj¡­L p¡q¡kÉ e¡ L­l a¡ q­m B¢j ¢L Ll­a f¡¢l?k¢c HLV¡ p¡j¢uL h¡pÙÛ¡e ­f­a Bfe¡l ­L¡e lLj Ap¤¤¢hd¡ qu, a¡ q­m Bf¢e é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡­ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡umÉ¡¾p ­qÒf-m¡Ce p¡¢iÑ­p ­g¡e Ll­a f¡­le, Bfe¡l ÙÛ¡e£u ­l¢gES pwÙÛ¡­L, q¡E¢Sw HXi¡Cp ­p¾V¡l­L (Housing Advice Centre), ¢p¢V­S¾p HÉXi¡Cp hÉ¥­l¡­L

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(Citizens Advice Bureau) m ­p¾V¡l (Law Centre), ­nÒV¡l­L (Shelter) h¡ ­L¡e E¢Lm­LJ ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­a f¡­lez

AeÉ¡eÉ Ef¡uk¢c ­L¡e CeS¡wne f¡e ­kje ­L¡e AL¥­fne AXÑ¡l ( k¡ Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡l­L h¡¢s ­b­L c§­l l¡M­h Bl Bfe¡­L Ad£L¡l ­c­h ­pM¡­e b¡L¡l) Hhw / Abh¡ HLV¡ eeÚ j­m­øne AXÑ¡l f¡e k¡ Bfe¡­L p¤¤l¢ra l¡M­h, a¡q­m Bf¢e ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a f¡­le Bfe¡l ­gl¡ p¤¤l¢raz ¢hÙ¹¡¢la S¡e¡l SeÉ ¢Li¡­h CeS¡wne f¡­he Awn¢V ­cM¤ez HV¡ Bfe¡l S¡e¡ Sl¦l£ ­k Bf¢e CeS¡wne f¡e Bl e¡C f¡e, Bf¢e p¤¤l¢ra ­h¡d e¡ Ll­m JC h¡¢s­a b¡L­a h¡dÉ ee z

­l¢gES L¡­L h­m Hhw B¢j ¢L ¢Li¡­h ­pM¡­e b¡L­a f¡­h¡?

­l¢gES L¡­L h­m? ­l¢gES qm HL¢V p¤¤l¢ra h¡¢s ­kM¡­e Nª­q Evf£¢sa j¢qm¡ J ¢nöl¡ AaÉ¡Q¡l j¤š² q­u b¡L­a f¡­lez Bfe¡­L Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl b¡L¡l SeÉ HL¢V Ol ­cJu¡ q­hz h¡¢sl AeÉ¡eÉ Awn B­l¡ hph¡pL¡l£­cl p¡­b i¡N¡i¡¢N L­l hÉhq¡l Ll­a q­hz ­l¢gES Hl ¢WL¡e¡ …ç l¡M¡ quz Bfe¡­L HL¢V m¡C­p¾p H¢NË­j­¾V (license agreement) pC Ll­a hm¡ q­h, ­kM¡­e Bfe¡l ­pC ­l¢gE­S b¡L¡l ph lLj naÑ ­mM¡ b¡L­h, ­kje Bf¢e La¢ce ­pM¡­e b¡L­a f¡­le, Hhw ­pC ph ¢euj, k¡ Bfe¡l J ­l¢gE­Sl AeÉ¡eÉ­cl p¤lr¡­bÑ ­j­e Qm­a q­hz

CwmÉ¡ä, úVmÉ¡ä, J­ump J ecÑ¡e Bu¡lmÉ¡­äl SeÉ 500 ¢Vl ­hn£ ­l¢gES Hhw p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ p¡¢iÑp B­Rz ¢LR¥ ¢LR¥ ­l¢gES ­L¡e ¢h­no pÇfËc¡­ul h¡ p¡wú«¢aL f¢l­h­nl j¢qm¡­cl SeÉ °al£ q­u­R - ­kje L«o·hZÑ, H¢nu¡e, h¡ c¢rZ B­j¢lL¡l j¢qm¡­cl SeÉ - Hhw hý ­l¢gE­S ¢hLm¡‰­cl fË­hnfb / ¢X­phô HL­pp l­u­R, Hhw ­pM¡­e ¢h­no dl­el p¡q¡kÉ fË­u¡Se, Hje j¢qm¡ h¡ ¢nö­cl p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a LjÑQ¡l£ J ­pµR¡­phLl¡ b¡­Lez

B¢j ¢L i¡­h ­l¢gES h¡pÙÛ¡­e b¡L¡l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll­a f¡¢l?EC­j¾p HCXÚ J ¢l¢gE­Sl j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡umÉ¡¾p ­qÒf m¡Ce Bfe¡­L HL¢V ­l¢gES h¡pÙÛ¡e My¥­S ¢c­a f¡­lz A­eL ­l¢gES pwÙÛ¡ Sep¡d¡l­Zl ­k¡N¡­k¡­Nl SeÉ ­V¢m­g¡e eðlJ b¡­L, ­k ­V¢m­g¡e eð­ll hC ­b­L f¡Ju¡ ­k­a f¡­lz Bf¢e f¤¢mn, cÉ¡ p¡j¡¢lV¡epÚ (Samaritans), ­p¡p¡m p¡¢iÑ­pp (Social Services), h¡ cÉ¡ ¢p¢V­Sep HXi¡Cp hÉ¥­l¡l (The Citizens Advice Bureau) j¡dÉ­jJ ­l¢gES pwÙÛ¡l p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­a f¡­lez

Bf¢e ­k ¢ce ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­he ­p ¢ceC Bfe¡l ­L¡e ­l¢gE­S S¡uN¡ f¡Ju¡ E¢Qaz p¡d¡lZax B­N ­b­L h¡pÙÛ¡e h¤L L­l l¡M¡ k¡u e¡, Abh¡ ph pju fR­¾cl A’­m ­l¢gE­Sl S¡uN¡J f¡Ju¡ k¡u e¡z

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Bf¢e k¢c ¢på¡¿¹ ­ee ­qÒf-m¡Ce Bfe¡l q­u ­l¢gE­Sl S¡uN¡ ¢WL L­l ­c­h, a¡q­m a¡l¡ Bfe¡­L Bfe¡l fËbj e¡j J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl hup ¢S‘¡p¡ Ll­hz Bfe¡­L HL¢V ­V¢m­g¡e eðl J ¢c­a q­h, ­kM¡­e ­L¡e h¡pÙÛ¡e ¢WL q­m Bfe¡­L p¤¤l¢ra i¡­h ­k¡N­k¡N Ll¡ k¡­hz

­l¢gES h¡pÙÛ¡e f¡Ju¡ ­N­m, Bfe¡­L JC pwÙÛ¡ ­b­L ­LE ­g¡e L­l S¡e¡­h ¢Li¡­h ­pM¡­e ­k­a q­hz a¡l¡ k¢c Bfe¡­L ­l¢gE­Sl ¢WL¡e¡ J AhÙÛ¡e S¡e¡e, a¡q­m ­pC abÉ Bfe¡l ¢e­Sl L¡­RC l¡M¡ M¤hC Ll¦l£z

­l¢gE­S Bj¡l p¡­b ¢L ¢L ¢e­u ­k­a f¡¢l?

k¢c pñh qu Bfe¡l a¡vr¢eL fË­u¡S­el pjÙ¹ ¢S¢eofœ Bfe¡l p­‰ ­e­he : ¢e­cÑn a¡¢mL¡l SeÉ p¤¤lr¡ f¢lLÒfe¡ Awn¢V ­cM¤ez

­l¢gE­S Bj¡l p¡­b ¢L ¢L e¡ ­eJu¡ E¢Qa ?A¢dL¡wn ­l¢gE­S ­L¡e hs ¢S¢eo l¡M¡l S¡uN¡ b¡­L e¡, a¡C Bf¢e Bfe¡l p¡­b Bph¡hf­œl j­a¡ ­L¡e hs ¢S¢eo ¢e­u ­k­a f¡l­he e¡, h¡ p¡d¡lZax ­f¡o¡ fö-f¡¢MJ ¢e­u ­k­a f¡l­he e¡z

B¢j L­a¡ ¢ce ­l¢gE­S b¡L­a f¡¢l?p¡d¡lZax, Bfe¡l k­a¡ ¢ce fË­u¡Se Bf¢e ­l¢gE­S b¡L­a f¡­le - ­pV¡ L­uL ¢ce ­b­L L­uL j¡p fkÑ¿¹ q­a f¡­l - k¢cJ ¢LR¥ ¢LR¥ ­l¢gE­S b¡L¡l c£OÑaj pju ¢e¢cÑø Ll¡ b¡­Lz A­eL j¢qm¡l¡C ­l¢gE­S b¡­Le AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ­b­L p¡j¢uL ¢e×L«¢a ­f­a, Hhw ¢hf­cl ­b­L c§­l h­p i¢hoÉv ¢e­u i¡h­a z A­eL pjuC j¢qm¡l¡ a¡­cl f¡VÑe¡­ll L¡­R ¢g­l k¡Ju¡l ¢på¡¿¹ ¢e­u b¡­LezA¡f¢e k­a¡¢ceC b¡L¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢ee e¡ ­Le, ­pM¡­e ¢e­Sl CµR¡ j­a¡ p¡j¡¢SL ­jm¡­jn¡ Ll­a f¡l­he, h¡ Q¥fQ¡f ¢e­Sl j­a¡ b¡L­a f¡l­hez Hhw ph pju Bf¢e Q¡C­mC p¡q¡kÉ J Ef­cn f¡­hez

Bf¢e ­l¢gE­S b¡L¥e h¡ e¡ b¡L¥e, ­l¢gES pwÙÛ¡­L ph pju abÉ, hå¥aÆ, J p¡q¡­kÉl SeÉ hÉhq¡l Ll­a f¡l­hez A­l¡ ¢hÙ¹¡¢la S¡e­a EC­j¾p HCXÚ Bj¡l SeÉ ¢L Ll­a f¡­l? Hhw B¢j ­L¡b¡u ­k­a f¡¢l? Awn …¢m ­cM¤ez

B­l¡ abÉ p¡jNË£Af¢e EC­j¾p HCXÚ ­eVJu¡LÑ Hhw H-V¥-­SX. JgÚ ­l¢gE­Sp (A-Z of Refuges) ­cM­a f¡­le HM¡­e : http://www.womensaid.org.uk/network/index.htm

Abh¡ EC­j¾p HCXÚ J ¢l¢gE­Sl j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡umÉ¡¾p ­qÒf m¡C­e ­g¡e Ll¦e HC eð­l : 0808 2000 247

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p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l J p¿¹¡e p¿¹¢a

Bj¡l p¿¹¡­el¡ ¢L i¡­h HC Evf£s­el à¡l¡ fËi¡¢ha q­a f¡­l?Bfe¡l k¢c p¿¹¡e b¡­L, Bf¢e pñhax a¡­cl kaV¡ pñh Nªq Evf£s­el ­b­L c¤­l l¡M¡l ­Qø¡ L­l­Rez Bf¢e qu­a¡ Bn¡ Ll­Re a¡l¡ HC hÉf¡­l ¢LR¥C S¡e­h e¡z a­h A¢dL¡wn f¢lh¡­l ­cM¡ ¢N­u­R, ­kM¡­e Nªq Evf£se q­µR, p¿¹¡­el¡ ­p ¢ho­u S¡­ez LM­e¡ HLC AaÉ¡Q¡l£ p¿¹¡e­cl Ef­lJ AaÉ¡Q¡l Q¡m¡uz ¢e­Q HC Awn¢V f­s ­cM¤e ¢nö p¿¹¡el¡ kMe AaÉ¡Q¡wla q­µR z

p¿¹¡­el¡ A­eL i¡­hC Nªq Evf£s­el p¡r£ q­u b¡L­a f¡­lz a¡l¡ Evf£s­el pju HLC O­l, h¡ f¡­nl O­l b¡L­a f¡­l; a¡l¡ Evf£s­el në ö­e b¡L­a f¡­l, h¡ Evf£s­el f­l BO¡a…¢m ­c­M b¡L­a f¡­l; Abh¡ AaÉ¡Q¡l£ a¡­cl ­S¡l L­l ­j±¢ML Evf£s­e p¡¢jm L­l b¡L­a f¡­lz ¢nöl¡ a¡­cl B­nf¡­nl fË¡çhuú­cl Efl pÇf¨ZÑ i¡­h ¢eiÑln£m qu, Hhw a¡l¡ ¢e­Sl h¡¢s­a p¤¤l¢ra ­h¡d e¡ Ll­m, ­pV¡ a¡­cl M¤h M¡l¡f i¡­h fËi¡¢ha Ll­a f¡­lz Nªq Evf£s­el p¡r£ pjÙ¹ ¢nöl¡ j¡e¢pL i¡­h AaÉQ¡l£a q­µR, Hhw HMe HV¡­L !a¡vfkÑf§ZÑ r¢a’h¡ !¢pN¢e¢g­L¾V q¡jÑ ’ (“significant harm”) BrÉ¡ ­cJu¡ q­µRz

h¡¢s­a HLSe ENË l¡N£ j¡e¤­ol p¡­b hs q­m, ¢nöl¡ ¢h¢iæ i¡­h fË¢a¢œ²u¡ ­cM¡uz hup, pÇfËc¡u, ¢m‰, pwú«¢a, ­h­s JW¡l hup, Hhw hÉ¢š²Na hÉ¢š²aÆ ­pC fË¢a¢œ²u¡­L fËi¡¢ha L­lz a­h h¡C­l fËL¡n e¡ Ll­mJ, ­h¢nli¡N ¢nöC ­L¡e e¡ ­L¡e i¡­h fËi¡¢ha quz

¢nöl¡ œ²¥Ü, ­c¡o£, ¢el¡fš¡q£Z, HLm¡, i£a, Arj h¡ ¢hqÄm ­h¡d Ll­a f¡­lz a¡l¡ Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£ - c¤S­el fË¢a flØfl ¢h­l¡d£ Ae¤i¨¢a Ae¤ih Ll­a f¡­lz a¡­cl p¡j¡¢SL pÇfLÑ…¢m Hhw a¡­cl ú¥­ml fs¡­n¡e¡ ¢h¢OÀa q­a f¡­lz ¢nöl¡ HC i¡­hJ fË¢a¢œ²u¡ ­cM¡­a f¡­l :

¢Q¢¿¹a h¡ qa¡n q­a f¡­lz ¢eâ¡ pjpÉ¡ ­cM¡ ¢c­a f¡­lz c¤xüfÀ ­cM­a f¡­l h¡ f¤­l¡­e¡ OVe¡l cªnÉ j­e fs­a f¡­lz n¡l£¢lL Ap¤¤¢hd¡l Lb¡ hm­a f¡­l, ­kje ­f­V hÉb¡ qJu¡z l¡­a ¢hR¡e¡ ¢i¢S­u ­cJu¡ öl¦ Ll­a f¡­lz hc ­jS¡S£ q­u EW­a f¡­lz ¢e­Sl hu­pl a¥me¡u ­R¡V­cl j­a¡ hÉhq¡l Ll­a f¡­lz L¡­S gy¡¢L ­cJu¡ öl¦ Ll­a f¡­lz Bœ²jZ¡aÈL q­u EW­a f¡­lz ¢e­S­L ph¡l ­b­L c§­l p¢l­u ¢e­a f¡­lz BaÈ¢hnÄ­pl Ai¡h ­h¡d Ll­a f¡­lz jc h¡ j¡cLâhÉ ­phe öl¦ Ll­a f¡­lz

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AaÉ¡¢dL j¡œ¡u Jo¤d ­M­u h¡ ¢e­S­L Bqa L­l, ¢e­Sl r¢a Ll¡l ­Qø¡ Ll­a f¡­lz M¡Ju¡ c¡Ju¡l hÉf¡­l ¢hnª´Mma¡ ­cM¡ ¢c­a f¡­lz Afl¡d£ ­h¡d Ll­a f¡­l h¡ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll SeÉ ¢e­S­cl c¡u£ Ll­a f¡­lz

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Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl ¢L i¡­h p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a f¡­le¢LR¥ j¡ J p¿¹¡­el¡ AaÉ¡Q¡l q­µR Aü£L¡l L­l a¡l ­j¡L¡¢hm¡ Ll¡l ­Qø¡ L­lez a­h A¢dL¡wn ¢nö AaÉ¡Q¡l q­u­R S¡e¡­a f¡l­m J a¡­cl Ae¤i¨¢al Lb¡ hm­a f¡l­m ¢e¢ÕQ¿¹ ­h¡d L­lz k¢cJ ¢LR¥ ­r­œ a¡l¡ Evf£s­el f¢l­hn ­R­s ­h¢l­u, Bh¡l p¤¤l¢ra ­h¡d Ll¡l A­fr¡ L­lz

Bfe¡l p¿¹¡el¡ pi¡hax Bfe¡­L ¢hnÄ¡p Ll­h, a¡C a¡­cl iu e¡ ­c¢M­u k­a¡V¡ pñh p¢WL AhÙÛ¡V¡ a¡­cl ­h¡T¡ez h¤¢T­u hm¤e ­k Evf£se M¡l¡f hÉf¡l, Hhw Hl j¡dÉ­j ­L¡e pjpÉ¡l pj¡d¡e q­h e¡z a¡­cl Evp¡q ¢ce k¡ q­µR, h¡ a¡l¡ k¡ Ae¤ih Ll­R, a¡ ¢e­u ¢mM­a h¡ R¢h ByL­az

Bf¢e p¿¹¡e­cl hm­a f¡­le EC­j¾p HCXÚ J­uh-p¡C­Vl ¢nö J AÒf hup£­cl AwnV¡ ­cM­a , cÉ¡ q¡CX BEV (The Hideout) www.thehideout.org.uk z HM¡­e Nªq Evf£s­el j­dÉ h­s¡ qJu¡ ¢nö­cl SeÉ A­eL abÉ, ¢œ²u¡Lm¡f, L¥CS Hhw NÒf B­Rz

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­k ph f¤l¦o j¢qm¡­cl Efl AaÉ¡Q¡l L­le, a¡l¡ ­k ph pju ¢nö­cl Ef­lJ AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll­he Hje eu - ¢L¿¹¥ ¢LR¥ f¤l¦o L­l b¡­Lez HC ¢ho­u ¢L i¡­h H­N¡­he, a¡ ¢e­u Ef­cn Q¡C­a f¡­le EC­j¾p HCXÚ h¡ AeÉ¡eÉ Nªq Evf£s­e p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ pwÙÛ¡l L¡­R, Abh¡ ­p¡n¡m p¡¢iÑ­pp h¡ AeÉ pwÙÛ¡l L¡­R, k¡l¡ ¢h­no i¡­h ¢nö­cl p¡q¡kÉ J p¤¤l¢ra L­lz ­p¡n¡m Ju¡LÑ¡ll¡ k¢c Bfe¡l p¡­b L¡S L­l ¢nö­cl p¤¤lr¡ ¢e¢ÕQa Ll­a f¡­l, a¡q­m a¡l¡ p¿¹¡e­cl Bfe¡l ­b­L c¤­l p¢l­u ­e­h e¡z

Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e k¢c Bfe¡­L h­m a¡­L AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll¡ q­µR, ­p ¢ho­u Bfe¡l fË¢a¢œ²u¡ M¤hC …l¦aÆf§ZÑ :

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j­e¡­k¡N ¢c­u öe¤e ¢L q­u­R, Hhw ¢nö­L a¡l j­a¡ pju ¢e­u hm­a ¢ce z a¡­L ¢e¢ÕQa Ll¦e ­k H ¢ho­u ­p ­L¡e i¡­h c¡u£ eu z a¡­cl hm¤e Bfe¡­L S¡¢e­u a¡l¡ M¤hC p¡q­pl f¢lQu ¢c­u­R z a¡­cl pð­å Bfe¡l E­àN i¡­m¡ L­l fËL¡n Ll¦e z ¢e­S n¡¿¹ b¡L¡l ­Qø¡ Ll¦e, Hhw Bf¢e L­a¡V¡ BO¡a ­f­u­Re ­pV¡ a¡­cl L¡­R fËL¡n

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k¢c Bfe¡l p¿¹¡­el Bh¡l AaÉ¡Q¡¢la qJu¡l pñ¡he¡ b¡­L - ­kje Bfe¡l¡ k¢c aM­e¡ AaÉ¡Q¡l£l p¡­b hph¡p L­le, h¡ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡­el AaÉ¡Q¡l£l p¡­b ¢eu¢ja ­k¡N¡­k¡N qu - a¡q­m p¿¹¡e­L B­l¡ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ­b­L h¡yQ¡­a Bfe¡­L AhnÉC fc­rf ¢e­a q­hz Bf¢e Bfe¡l ÙÛ¡e£u EC­j¾p HCXÚ pwÙÛ¡l p¡­b Lb¡ hm­a Q¡C­a f¡­lez Bf¢e a¡­cl ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll¡l eðl EC­j¾p HCXÚ J­uh-p¡C­V ­f­a f¡­le : http://www.womensaid.org.uk/network/index.htm h¡ Bf¢e é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡um¡¾p ­qÒf m¡C­e ­g¡e Ll­a f¡­le (EC­j¾p HCXÚ J ¢l¢gE­Sl j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ qu) : 0808 2000 247

Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¡­b ¢l¢gE­S k¡Ju¡p¤¤lr¡l L¡l­Z Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl B­N ­b­L ¢l¢gE­S k¡Ju¡l Lb¡ hm¡ pñh e¡J q­a f¡­lz k¡C ­q¡L, p¤¤l¢ra i¡­h k­a¡ a¡s¡a¡¢s pñh a¡­cl ¢L OV­R h¤¢T­u hm¤ez Bf¢e k¡Ju¡l OVe¡V¡ Lj Bnˆ¡SeL Ll­a, a¡­cl hm­a f¡­le Bfe¡l¡ AÒf ¢LR¥ ¢c­el SeÉ j¡ J ¢nö­cl SeÉ °al£, HLV¡ ¢h­no S¡uN¡u k¡­µRez p¿¹¡e­cl h¤¢T­u hm¤e k¡Ju¡l j¡­e HC eu ­k a¡l¡ Bl a¡­cl h¡¢L f¢lh¡l­L, h奭cl, h¡ ­f¡o¡ fö-f¡¢M­cl Bl ­L¡e¢ce ­cM­a f¡­h e¡z

A­eL ¢l¢gE­S ¢nö­cl p¡q¡kÉ Llh¡l SeÉ ¢Qm­XÊep p¡­f¡VÑ Ju¡LÑ¡l (Children’s Support Workers) b¡­L, k¡l¡ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤l¢ra ­h¡d Ll­a, J ¢l¢gES­L ¢e­Sl S¡uN¡ j­e Ll­a p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz pñhax ­pM¡­e AeÉ ¢nöl¡J b¡L­hz ­pM¡­e ¢nö­cl ­Mm¡l Ol b¡L­h Hhw ¢Qm­Xʾp Ju¡LÑ¡ll¡ ¢nö­cl SeÉ e¡e¡e ¢œ²u¡Lm¡­fl hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll­hz

¢nöl¡ ¢l¢gES S£h­el HLV¡ …l¦aÆf§ZÑ Awn, Hhw ¢l¢gE­S b¡L¡V¡ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡­el S£h­e HLV¡ i¡­m¡ A¢i‘a¡ q­a f¡­lz ¢l¢gE­Sl LjÑ£ J ­pµR¡­phLl¡ ¢L OV­R a¡ ¢nö­cl h¤T­a p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz ¢nöl¡ ¢e­S­cl j­a¡ f¢l¢ÙÛ¢a­a B­R Hje B­l¡ ¢nö­cl ­cM­a f¡­h, J Lb¡ hm¡l p¤¤­k¡N f¡­h, Hhw h¤T­h HC lLj BhÙÛ¡­a a¡l¡ HL¡ euz

B­l¡ Mhl¡Mhl ­f­a Hhw Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl SeÉ p¡q¡kÉ ­f­aBf¢e J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡­el¡ ¢l¢gE­S b¡L­a k¡e h¡ e¡ k¡e, Bf¢e NSPCC eÉ¡n¡e¡m Q¡Cô fË­VLn¡e ­qÒfm¡C­e (National Child Protection Helpline) ­g¡e Ll­a f¡­le HC eð­l : 0808 800 5000 z NSPCC ¢h¢iæ H¢nu i¡o¡u Bm¡c¡ Bm¡c¡ ­qÒf-m¡Ce ­l­M­R :h¡wm¡ 0800 096 7714 ; …Sl¡¢V 0800 096 7715 ; ¢q¢¾c 0800 096 7716 ; f¡”¡¢h 0800 096 7717 ; FcѨ 0800 096 7718 z

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Bf¢e j­e Ll­m Bfe¡l ­qmbÚ ¢i¢SV¡l h¡ AeÉ ü¡ÙÛÉ LjÑ£l p¡­b Lb¡ hm­a f¡l­hez Af¢e k¢c A¿¹xüšÄ¡ qe, Bf¢e Bfe¡l ¢jX-Ju¡CgÚ Hl p¡­bJ Lb¡ hm­a Q¡C­a f¡­lez

Bf¢e p¿¹¡e­cl hm­a f¡­le Q¡Cô-m¡C­e (Childline) ­g¡e Ll­a 0800 1111, h¡ EC­j¾p HCXÚ J­uh-p¡C­Vl ¢nö J AÒf hup£­cl AwnV¡ ­cM­a , cÉ¡ q¡CX BEV (The Hideout) www.thehideout.org.uk

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p¿¹¡e Hhw fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡­ll j­dÉ Qm­a b¡L¡ ­k¡N¡­k¡N ¢e­u iu f¡Ju¡l eÉ¡kÉ L¡lZ A­eL j¡­u­clC b¡­L, ¢L¿¹¥ gÉ¡­j¢m ­L¡­VÑl ­fn¡c¡l ­m¡LSe HC iu­L M¤hC mO¤ i¡­h ­cM­a f¡­l, h¡ pÇf¨ZÑ E­fr¡ Ll­a f¡­lz kMe ­L¡e ¢fa¡ h¡ j¡a¡ p¿¹¡e­cl p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡­Nl B­hce L­le, aMe fË¡u ph ­r­œC a¡ j”¥l Ll¡ q­u b¡­Lz HC BC­el HL¢V ­j±¢mL ašÄ qm p¿¹¡e­cl i¡­m¡ b¡L¡ ph ­b­L Sl¦l£ - Hhw A¢dL¡wn ­r­œ ¢fa¡ j¡a¡ Ei­ul p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N l¡M­a f¡l­mC p¿¹¡el¡ i¡­m¡ b¡­Lz

kMe ­L¡VÑ ­L¡e AaÉ¡Q¡l£ ¢fa¡l p¡­b p¿¹¡e­cl ­k¡N¡­k¡­Nl AXÑ¡l ­cu, aMe p¿¹¡e­cl ¢fa¡l à¡l¡ Bh¡l AaÉ¡Q¡¢la qJu¡l pñ¡he¡ b¡­Lz ¢LR¥ ­r­œ p¿¹¡e­cl ­j­l ­gm¡J q­a f¡­lz HC ­cM¡ Ll¡l p¤¤­k¡N­L AaÉ¡Q¡l£ hÉhq¡l Ll­a f¡­l j¡ ­L¡b¡u B­R S¡e¡l SeÉ, Abh¡ j¡­L Bœ²jZ Ll¡l SeÉz

k¢c S¡e­a f¡­le Bfe¡l fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¡­b ­cM¡ Llh¡l SeÉ B­hce S¡e¡­µR, a¡q­m Bfe¡l Nªq Evf£s­el j¡jm¡ pð­å A¢i‘a¡pÇfæ E¢L­ml p¡q¡kÉ f¡Ju¡ M¤hC Sl¦l£ q­u c¡ys¡uz a¡­cl Bfe¡l SeÉ HLSe ­c¡i¡o£l hÉhÙÛ¡ L­l ­cJu¡ E¢Qaz Bfe¡l ÙÛ¡e£u EC­j¾p HCXÚ pwÙÛ¡ ­L¡e E¢Lm­L p¤¤f¡¢ln Ll­a f¡­l, h¡ Bf¢e l¡CVpÚ AgÚ EC­j­e (Rights of Women) ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­a f¡­le, k¡­cl HLV¡ BCeNa Ef­cn ­cJu¡l Bm¡c¡ ­qÒf-m¡Ce B­R : 0207 251 6577 ; www.rightsofwomen.org.uk z

kMe Bf¢e ­L¡VÑ ­b­L Bfe¡l fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡­ll B­hcefœ pwœ²¡¿¹ gjÑ f¡­he, aMe AhnÉC Nª­q AaÉ¡Q¡l ¢houL fËnÀ­a ¢VL ¢Qq² ¢c­u C­up (“yes”) hm­hez Bfe¡l Efl qJu¡ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢hÙ¹¡¢la hZÑe¡ ¢c­a AeÉ L¡­l¡l p¡q¡kÉ ¢ee, Hhw k¢c ­k¡N¡­k¡­Nl hÉhÙÛ¡ qu, a¡q­m Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤lr¡ ¢e­u Bfe¡l i­ul Lb¡ ­S¡l ¢c­u ¢mM­hez Bf¢e

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k¢c ¢fa¡l p¡­b ­cM¡ Ll¡l pju Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl Bh¡l AaÉ¡Q¡¢la qJu¡l h¡ Afq©a qJu¡l j­a¡ …l¦al T¥y¢L b¡­L, Bfe¡l ­pC ­k¡N¡­k¡N Bm¡c¡ i¡­h fkÑ­h¢ra qJu¡l SeÉ B­hce Ll¡ E¢Qaz Ty¥¢L Lj b¡L­m ­cM¡­n¡e¡ ­L¡e ­k¡N¡­k¡N ­L­¾cÊ Ll¡ ­k­a f¡­lz

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h¡pÙÛ¡ep¿¹¡­el¡ ­L¡b¡u J L¡l p¡­b b¡L­h, a¡ ¢e¢cÑø L­l gÉ¡¢j¢m ­L¡VÑ ­L¡e AXÑ¡l ¢c­a f¡­lz k¢c Bf¢e HC ­i­h c¤¢ÕQ¿¹¡u b¡­Le ­k Bfe¡l fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¡­b ­cM¡ Ll¡l R­m a¡­cl AfqlZ Ll­a f¡­l, h¡ a¡­cl ¢e­Sl L¡­R ­l­M ¢c­a f¡­l, a¡q­m Bfe¡l f­r k¡Ju¡ HLV¡ ­l¢p­X¾p AXÑ¡l (residence order) Bfe¡l ¢e­Sl L¡­R l¡M¡ E¢Qaz

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Afql­Zl ýj¢Lk¢c Bfe¡l iu b¡­L ­k Bfe¡l fËš²e f¡VÑe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl Bfe¡l L¡R ­b­L p¢l­u ­gm­a f¡­l, a¡q­m Bfe¡l E¢L­ml ­b­L Sl¦l£ Ef­cn ­eJu¡ E¢Qa - Hhw Afql­Zl Ty¥¢L M¤h ­hn£ q­m f¤¢m­n Mhl ­cJu¡ E¢Qaz Bfe¡l fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡l, Bfe¡l Ae¤j¢a R¡s¡ p¿¹¡e­cl ¢e­u ­N­m, h¡ ­k¡N¡­k¡­Nl f­l p¿¹¡e­cl a¡l L¡­R ­l­M ¢c­m, Bfe¡l ­L¡­VÑ B­hce Ll­a q­a f¡­l, a¡­cl ­gla ­cJu¡l AXÑ¡l S¡l£ Ll¡l SeÉz p¿¹¡e­cl Bh¡l Bfe¡l ­b­L c§­l p¢l­u ­cJu¡ hå Ll­a, ­L¡VÑ HL¢V !fË¢q¢h­VX ­ØVÃp’ (“prohibited steps” ) AXÑ¡lJ S¡l£ Ll­a f¡­lz

Bf¢e k¢c iu f¡e Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl CE. ­L. (UK) ­b­L h¡C­l ¢e­u k¡Ju¡ q­a f¡­l, a¡q­m Bfe¡l HC ¢ho­u ¢h­no­‘l Ef­cn fË­u¡Sez k¢c ­L¡e A¢ii¡hL ¢nö­L AeÉ ­L¡e ­c­n AfqlZ L­l ¢e­u k¡e, ­k ­cn AeÉ BCeNa A¢dL¡­ll Hm¡L¡u h¡ S¥¢lp¢XLn­e (jurisdiction) f­s, a¡ ¢œ²¢je¡m A­g¾p h¡ ­g±Sc¡l£ Afl¡dz HC ­r­œ !cÉ¡ ­qN LeÚ­ieneÚ ’(The Hague Convention ) hÉhq¡l L­l ¢nö­L CE. ­L. (UK) ­a ­gla Be¡ ­k­a f¡­lz

¢lCEe¡CV (Reunite) pwÙÛ¡ B¿¹SÑ¡¢aL ¢nö Afql­Zl ¢ho­u Ef­cn ­cJu¡l SeÉ p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ m¡Ce ­l­M­R 0116 2556 234 www.reunite.orgz

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Bfe¡l BCeNa A¢dL¡l

Bfe¡l haÑj¡e h¡ fË¡š²e f¡VÑe¡l Bfe¡­L Ba¢ˆa L­l b¡L­m, ­c­nl BCe Ae¤k¡u£ BCeNa p¤¤lr¡ Bfe¡l fË¡fÉz Nª­q Evf£s­el OVe¡ ­g±Sc¡l£ (criminal ) Hhw ­cJu¡e£ (civil ) c¤C dl­el BC­el j¡dÉ­jC ¢hQ¡l quz HC c¤C dl­el BCe pÇf¨ZÑ Bm¡c¡ Hhw Bm¡c¡ ­L¡­VÑ c¤C lL­jl j¡jm¡l ¢hQ¡l q­u b¡­L :

Bfe¡l ­g±Sc¡l£ BC­e (criminal law) A¢dL¡l B­Rz Bfe¡l f¢l¢Qa ­LE, h¡ Bf¢e k¡l p¡­b b¡­Le Hje ­LE Bfe¡­L BO¡a Ll­m, ­pV¡ Bfe¡­L ­L¡e Bf¢l¢Qa hÉ¢š² BO¡a Ll¡l j­a¡C …l¦al Afl¡d, Hhw A­eL ­r­œ B­l¡ ­hn£ ¢hfc‹eLz HC lLj ­r­œ f¤¢mn œ²¡Ee fË¢p¢LEne p¡¢iÑp (Crown Prosecution Service) (CPS) Hl p¡­b HL ­k¡N q­u, Efk¤š² hÉhÙÛ¡l fË¢œ²u¡ Blñ Ll­hz

A¢i­k¡­Nl …l¦aÆ Ae¤k¡u£ jÉ¡¢S­ØVÊVp ­L¡VÑ (magistrates’ court ) h¡ œ²¡Ee ­L¡­VÑ (Crown Court) ­g±Sc¡l£ j¡jm¡l öe¡e£ q­u b¡­Lz ­g±Sc¡l£ BC­el fË¡b¢jL mrÉ Afl¡d£­L k­b¡fk¤š² n¡¢Ù¹ ­cJu¡z f¤¢mn Hhw ­g±Sc¡l£ j¡jm¡l fÜ¢a (criminal prosecution process) ­cM¤ez

­cJu¡e£ BC­el (civil law ) fË¡b¢jL mrÉ p¤¤lr¡l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll¡ (Abh¡ r¢af§l­Zl hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll¡)z j¡jm¡ Q­m gÉ¡¢j¢m fË¢p¢Xwp ­L¡­VÑ (family proceedings court) h¡ L¡E¢¾V ­L¡­VÑ (county court)z

- Bf¢e ­cJu¡e£ ­L¡VÑ AXÑ¡l Be­a f¡­le, k¡ Bfe¡l Evf£seL¡l£­L hm­h Bfe¡­L Evf£se h¡ BO¡a e¡ Ll­a, Abh¡ hm­h Bfe¡l h¡¢sl ­b­L c¤­l b¡L­az H Ef¡­ul Efl B­l¡ abÉ ­f­a CeS¡wne f¡Ju¡l fÜ¢a f­s ­cM¤ez

- BC­el p¡q¡­kÉ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤l¢ra Ll¡J pñhz Hl SeÉ ¢h­µR­cl f­l p¿¹¡e­cl hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll¡ Awn¢V ­cM¤ez

Bf¢e Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡ h¡ AÙÛ¡u£ AhÙÛ¡l h¡pÙÛ¡­el SeÉJ p¡q¡kÉ ­f­a f¡­lez Hl SeÉ B¢j ­L¡b¡u ­k­a f¡¢l Awn¢V ­cM¤ez

f¤¢mn Hhw ­g±Sc¡l£ j¡jm¡l fÜ¢a

­hn£li¡N p¡wp¡¢lL Evf£seC Afl¡d, Hhw Bf¢e (h¡ Bfe¡l q­u AeÉ ­LE) p¡q¡­kÉl SeÉ f¤¢m­nl p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­a f¡­le z Bfe¡l f¢l¢Qa ­LE, h¡ Bf¢e k¡l p¡­b b¡­Le Hje ­LE Bfe¡­L BO¡a Ll­m, ­k±e AaÉ¡Q¡l Q¡m¡­m, iu ­c­M­m h¡ Evf£se Ll­m, ­pV¡

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Bfe¡­L ­L¡e Bf¢l¢Qa hÉ¢š²l Evf£se Ll¡l j­a¡C …l¦al Afl¡d, Hhw A­eL ­r­œ B­l¡ ­hn£ ¢hfc‹eLz

A¢dL¡wn j¢qm¡C f¤¢mn X¡L¡l ¢ho­u ­c¡V¡e¡u ­i¡­Ne, Hhw f¤¢mn X¡­Le H­Lh¡­l ­no fkÑ¡u H­p : a¡l¡ iu f¡e a¡­cl Lb¡ ¢hnÄ¡p Ll¡ q­h e¡, h¡ a¡­cl A¢i­k¡N …l¦aÆ ¢c­u ­cM¡ q­h e¡, h¡ a¡­cl­L ¢hnÄ¡pO¡aL j­e Ll¡ q­hz L«o·hZÑ j¢qm¡l¡ a¡­cl J a¡­cl f¡VÑe¡­ll ¢hl¦­Ü hZÑ°ho­jÉl iu f¡e, Hhw ­k ph j¢qm¡­cl C¢j­NËne ØVÉ¡V¡p (immigration status) A¢e¢ÕQa, a¡l¡ f¤¢mn X¡L­aC iu f¡e z pjL¡j£ h¡ Ei¢m­‰l j¢qm¡l¡ i¡h­a f¡­le a¡­cl pjL¡j£a¡­L M¡l¡f ­Q¡­M ­cM¡ q­hz HR¡s¡ ­k ph j¢qm¡l¡ j¡cLâhÉ hÉhq¡l L­le, h¡ N¢ZL¡hª¢š L­le, a¡l¡ f¤¢mn­L ¢hnÄ¡p L­le e¡z ¢L¿¹¥ ph ­r­œC, Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡­a f¤¢mnC Bfe¡l fËbj p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ qJu¡ E¢Qaz

ÙÛ¡e£u f¤¢m­nl ­V¢m­g¡e eðl ­g¡­el hC­a b¡L­h - ¢L¿¹¥ ­L¡e lLj Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡­a Bfe¡l ph pju 999 H ­g¡e Ll¡ E¢Qaz

f¤¢mn ¢L Ll­a f¡­lf¤¢m­nl phÑfËd¡Z L¡S Bfe¡l J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤lr¡ J LmÉ¡Zz a¡­cl L¡S ph¡C­L Bqa qJu¡, h¡ B­l¡ r¢a qJu¡ ­b­L lr¡ Ll¡, Hhw ­L¡e A¢i­k¡N EW­m a¡l ac¿¹ Ll¡z a¡C a¡­cl ­L¡e lLj jdÉÙÛa¡ Ll¡, h¡ L¡E­L ­c¡o¡­l¡f Ll¡, h¡ AfË¡p¢‰L fËnÀ Ll¡l Lb¡ euz

Bf¢e k¢c p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll SeÉ f¤¢mn ­X­L b¡­Le, a¡­cl Bfe¡­L Bm¡c¡ L­l, Bfe¡l Evf£s­Ll ­b­L c§­l ¢e­u, Lb¡ hm¡ E¢Qaz Bfe¡l ­c¡i¡o£l fË­u¡Se q­m, a¡­cl ­p hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll¡l Lb¡, Hhw p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll OVe¡­a a¡l¡ LM­e¡C Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl h¡ f¢lh¡­ll AeÉ ­L¡e pcpÉ­L ­c¡i¡o£l L¡S Ll­a hm­a f¡­l e¡z Bf¢e j¢qm¡ f¤¢mn LjÑ£l (WPC) p¡­b Lb¡ hm­a Q¡C­a f¡­lez

f¤¢m­nl Bfe¡l Ahmðe qJu¡ E¢Qa J Bfe¡­L p¡q¡kÉ Ll¡ E¢Qa HC i¡­h :

Bfe¡­L J Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl p¤¤l¢ra L­l ; i¢hoÉ­al Nªq ¢ekÑ¡a­el pñ¡he¡ hå L­l - BcnÑ i¡­h ¢ekÑ¡aeL¡l£­L ­NËç¡l L­l ; fË¡b¢jL J AeÉ¡eÉ ¢Q¢Lvp¡l hÉhÙÛ¡ L­l ; ¢WL ¢L O­V­R a¡ ac¿¹ L­l ; Bfe¡l Ahmðe q­u, Bfe¡l j­e ilp¡ S¡¢N­u ; AeÉ¡eÉ pwÙÛ¡l p¡­b Bfe¡l ­k¡N¡­k¡N O¢V­u (­kje EC­j¾p HCXÚ ) ; Bf¢e Q¡C­m Bfe¡­L ­L¡e p¤¤l¢ra S¡uN¡u ¢e­u k¡Ju¡l k¡eh¡q­el hÉhÙÛ¡ L­l ;

k¢c ­NËç¡­ll eÉ¡kÉ L¡lZ b¡­L, Bfe¡l !Ae¤j¢al’ A­fr¡ e¡ L­l h¡ Bfe¡l hu¡e ­eJu¡l A­fr¡ e¡ L­l f¤¢m­nl ­NËç¡l Ll¡ E¢Qa , - k¢cJ Bfe¡l hu¡e f­l a¡­cl m¡N­hz Hl ­b­L Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£ Bh¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll¡l B­N ¢Q¿¹¡ Ll­h, Hhw S¡e­h f¤¢mn p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll OVe¡­L M¤hC …l¦aÆ ¢c­u ­c­Mz AaÉ¡Q¡l£l ¢hl¦­Ü BCeNa A¢i­k¡N Be¡l B­N, f¤¢mn a¡­L 24 O¾V¡ fkÑ¿¹ BV­L l¡M­a f¡­l (EC­L­ä 36 O¾V¡ )z AaÉ¡Q¡l£ k¢c f¤¢mn H­p ­f±R¡­e¡l B­N f¡¢m­u k¡u, f¤¢m­nl a¡­L M¤y­S h¡l Ll­a ph lLj ­Qø¡ Ll¡ E¢Qaz

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f¤¢mn Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£l ¢hl¦­Ü ­L¡e lLj L¡S Ll­m, a¡­cl L¡R ­b­L œ²¡Cj ­lg¡­l¾p e¡ð¡lV¡ (crime reference number) ­S­e ¢eez k¢c Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ hÉf¡l A¢e¢ÕQa b¡­L, p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll SeÉ f¤¢mn X¡L¡l OVe¡l ­lLXÑ Bfe¡l CE. ­L. (UK) ­a b¡L­a Q¡Ch¡l B­hc­e p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a f¡­lz C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢hou ­cM¤e ¢hÙ¹¢la S¡e­az

Hl f­l ¢L q­h?k¢c f¤¢mn Bfe¡l ¢ef£sZL¡l£­L ­NËç¡l L­l Hhw a¡l ¢hl¦Ü A¢i­k¡N B­e, a¡l¡ a¡­L q¡S­a l¡M­a f¡­l, h¡ S¡¢j­e R¡s­a f¡­l, ¢LR¥ naÑp¡­fr i¡­h, ­k naÑ Bfe¡l J AeÉ­cl a¡l AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ­b­L lr¡ Ll­hz

­NËç¡l Ll¡ j¡­eC ¢L¿¹¥ Bc¡m­a A¢i­k¡N c¡­ul Ll¡ euz f¤¢mn A¢i­k¡N Be¡l B­N œ²¡Ee fË¢p¢LEne fË­p­pl (Crown Prosecution Process) (CPS) p¡­b j¿»Z¡ Ll­hz ­Lhm A¢i­k¡N Be¡ ¢L¿¹¥ Bfe¡l p¤¤lr¡ h¡ ¢el¡fš¡ ¢e¢ÕQa Ll­h e¡ Hhw Hl SeÉ Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£ Bfe¡l fË¢a fË¢a¢qwp¡fl¡uZ q­u EW­a f¡­lz

­g±Sc¡l£ j¡jm¡l fÜ¢aAfl¡d£­L ­NËç¡l Ll¡l f­l f¤¢mn CPS Hl p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­h, k¡l¡ f¤¢mn­L p¢WL A¢i­k¡N Be¡l ¢ho­u Ef­cn ­c­h Hhw h­m ­c­h ¢L fËj¡Z fË­u¡Sez a¡l¡ Bfe¡l J AeÉ¡eÉ k¡l¡ S¢sa, a¡­cl p¤¤lr¡l Lb¡ j¡b¡u l¡M­h, Hhw Bfe¡l ja¡ja­L ¢h­hQe¡ Ll­hz Bf¢e k¢c j¡jm¡ ­b­L Bfe¡l p¡q¡kÉ fËaÉ¡q¡l L­l ­ee, Bfe¡­L HLSe f¤¢m­nl ­X¡­j¢ØVL i¡u­m¾p A¢gp¡l (Domestic Violence Officer) p¡r¡vL¡l ­e­he HC ­cM­a ­k Bf¢e AaÉ¡Q¡l£l Q¡­f f­s p¡q¡kÉ fËaÉ¡q¡l L­l­Re ¢Le¡z

A¡f¢e k¢c Afl¡d£l ¢hl¦­Ü Bfe¡l A¢i­k¡N fËaÉ¡q¡l L­le, CPS Hhw f¤¢mn Seü¡­bÑ HC j¡jm¡ Q¡¢m­u k¡Ju¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a f¡­lz ­L¡e ­L¡e ­r­œ, - ­kje Bfe¡­L k¢c iu ­cM¡­e¡ q­u b¡­L - Bfe¡­L ­L¡­VÑ e¡ ­X­L Bfe¡l A¢i­k¡N fËj¡Z ¢q­p­h hÉhq¡l Ll¡ q­a f¡­lz

j¡jm¡ Q¡¢m­u ­N­m, Afl¡d£­L fËb­j jÉ¡¢S­ØVÊp ­L¡­VÑ ­fn Ll¡ q­h, a¡lf­l - Afl¡­dl …l¦aÆ h¤­T - a¡­L q¡S­a l¡M¡ q­h, h¡ S¡¢j­e R¡s¡ q­hz ­L¡VÑ S¡¢je naÑp¡­fr Ll­a f¡­lz

f¤­l¡ j¡jm¡l öe¡e£ q­a ­hn ¢LR¥ j¡p pju ­m­N ­k­a f¡­lz ­pC pj­ul j­dÉ f¤¢mn Bh¡l Bfe¡­L ­k¡N¡­k¡N Ll­a f¡­l, Hhw Bf¢e Bh¡l p¤¤­k¡N f¡­he, HC AaÉ¡Q¡l Bfe¡­L ¢Li¡­h fËi¡¢ha L­l­R hm¡l, Bfe¡­L iu ­cM¡­e¡ q­u b¡L­m a¡ S¡e¡­e¡l, Hhw Bf¢e ­L¡e r¢af§lZ c¡¢h Ll­a Q¡e ¢Le¡ a¡ S¡e¡­e¡lz Bf¢e A¢i­k¡­Nl ¢ho­u f¤¢mn­L A¢a¢lš² ­L¡e fËj¡Z ¢c­a f¡l­m, a¡ M¤hC pq¡uL q­h, ­kje :

­L¡e AO¡a h¡ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll Bl ­L¡e fËi¡­hl X¡š²¡¢l ¢l­f¡VÑ ; fË¢a­hn£­cl hu¡e ; pwÙÛ¡…¢ml e¡j k¡­cl L¡­R Bf¢e AaÉ¡Q¡­ll Lb¡ S¡¢e­u­Re ;

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Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl Efl ¢L fËi¡h f­s­R ­p ¢ho­u a¡­cl ú¥­ml ¢l­f¡VÑ ; CeS¡wn­el B­hce L­l b¡L­m a¡l Mhl ; ­L¡e ¢h­no iu h¡ ýjL£ ;

j¡jm¡¢Vl öe¡e£ jÉ¡¢S­ØVÊVp ­L¡VÑ (Magistrates’ Court ) h¡ œ²¡Ee ­L¡­VÑ (Crown Court) q­h (A¢i­k¡­Nl …l¦aÆ Ae¤k¡u£ )z Bfe¡­L öd¤ aM¢e p¡rÉ ¢c­a X¡L¡ q­h k¢c AaÉ¡Q¡l£ Afl¡d Aü£L¡l L­lz AaÉ¡Q¡l£ k¢c Afl¡d ü£L¡l L­l, h¡ fËj¡Z ­cM¡l f­l ­L¡VÑ a¡­L ­c¡o£ p¡hÉÙ¹ L­l, a¡q­m A¢dL¡wn pju, l¡u ­n¡e¡­e¡l B­N fË­hn¡e p¡¢iÑp (Probation Service) Hl ¢l­f¡­VÑl SeÉ ­L¡VÑ aMeL¡l j­a¡ j¤ma¥h£ q­u k¡uz

­L¡­VÑl l¡u ¢eiÑl L­l Afl¡­dl …l¦­aÆl Efl, Hhw Afl¡d£l ­L¡e fËš²e Afl¡­dl C¢aq¡p B­R ¢Le¡, a¡l Eflz ­L¡­VÑl n¡¢Ù¹ naÑ¡d£e j¤¢š² ­b­L L¡l¡h¡p fkÑ¿¹ q­a f¡­lz ea¥e BCe Ae¤k¡u£ ­L¡e ­g±Sc¡l£ j¡jm¡ q­m, Hhw ­L¡VÑ k¢c j­e L­l Bfe¡l p¤¤lr¡ ¢e¢ÕQa eu, a¡q­m Afl¡d£l Afl¡d fËj¡Z e¡ q­mJ a¡l ¢hl¦­Ü HLV¡ ¢l­ØVÊ¢ew AXÑ¡l (restraining order) f¡Ju¡ ­k­a f¡­lz Bf¢e ­cJu¡e£ BCe Ae¤k¡u£ HLV¡ CeS¡wn¡­el SeÉ B­hc­el ¢Q¿¹¡J Ll­a f¡­le : ¢Li¡­h CeS¡wne f¡­he f­s ­cM¤ez

A¢a¢lš² Mhl¡MhlBfe¡­L BCeNa ¢ho­u p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a Bfe¡l Hm¡L¡­a EC­j¾p HCXÚ pwÙÛ¡ h¡ Nªq Evf£s­el ¢ho­u ¢h­no‘ ­L¡e pwÙÛ¡ b¡L­a f¡­lz Sep¡d¡l­Zl SeÉ a¡­cl ­g¡e eðl ÙÛ¡e£u ­g¡e hC­a Hhw EC­j¾p HCXÚ Hl J­uh-p¡C­Vl A-Z Ag ¢l¢gES p¡¢iÑ­pp (A-Z of refuge services)H f¡Ju¡ k¡­h : http://www.womensaid.org.uk/network/index.htm

¢Li¡­h CeS¡wne f¡­he

­cJu¡e£ (Civil) ­L¡VÑ ­b­L S¡l£ Ll¡ CeS¡wp¡e Bfe¡­L AaÉ¡Q¡l£l q¡a ­b­L lr¡ ­f­a ¢LR¥V¡ p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz 1996 Hl gÉ¡¢j¢m BC­el f¡VÑ IV (Part IV of the Family Law Act 1996) Ae¤k¡u£ fËd¡Zax c¤C dl­el CeS¡wne f¡Ju¡ ­k­a f¡­l :

eeÚ j­m­ØVne AXÑ¡l (non-molestation order) AL¥­fn¡e AXÑ¡l (occupation order)

eeÚ j­m­ØVne AXÑ¡l Hl mrÉ Bfe¡l h¡ Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­L L­l¡l AaÉ¡Q¡­ll h¡ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ýjL£ ­b­L lr¡ Ll¡z Hl j¡dÉ­j Bfe¡­L iu ­cM¡­e¡ h¡ phÑrZ ¢hlš² Ll¡ hå L­l, Bfe¡l p¤¤ÙÛ b¡L¡, p¤¤l¢ra b¡L¡ Hhw i¡­m¡ b¡L¡ ¢e¢ÕQa Ll¡ k¡­hz ea¥e BCe Ae¤k¡u£, eeÚ j­m­ØVne AXÑ¡l Aj¡eÉ Ll­m a¡­L ­g±Sc¡l£ Afl¡d (criminal offence) h­m NZÉ Ll¡ q­hz

AL¥­fn¡e AXÑ¡l ¢edÑ¡lZ Ll­h ­L f¡¢lh¡¢lL h¡¢s­a b¡L­h, Hhw HV¡ Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£­L h¡¢sl B­nf¡­n Bp¡ ­b­LJ ¢hla Ll­a f¡­lz Bf¢e k¢c AaÉ¡Q¡l£l p¡­b HL h¡¢s­a b¡L­a iu f¡e, h¡ a¡l AaÉ¡Q¡­l h¡¢s ­R­s b¡­Le, ¢L¿¹¥ h¡¢s ¢g­l Bp­a Q¡e, a¡q­m Bf¢e AL¥­fn¡e AXÑ¡­ll SeÉ B­hce Ll¡l ¢pÜ¡¿¹ ¢e­a f¡­lez

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­L¡VÑ j­e Ll­m AL¥­fn¡e AXÑ¡­ll p¡­b HL¢V Bm¡c¡ !f¡Ju¡l Ag HÉ­lØV’ (“power of arrest”) S¥­s ¢c­a f¡­lz Hl j¡­e ­L¡e ¢h­no Afl¡d e¡ Ll­mJ, HC AXÑ¡l i‰ Ll­m f¤¢mn avre¡v ­NËç¡l Ll­a f¡­lz

CeS¡wn­el SeÉ B­hce Ll­a L¡l¡ Efk¤š² ?CeS¡wn­el SeÉ B­hce Ll­a q­m Bfe¡­L HLSe !H­p¡¢p­u­VXÚ f¡pÑe’ ("associated person") q­a q­hz Hl j¡­e, Bfe¡­L Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£l p¡­b ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ­L¡e HL¢V i¡­h pÇf¢LÑa q­a q­h :

Bfe¡l¡ haÑj¡­e h¡ f§­hÑ H­L Af­ll p¡­b ¢hh¡¢qa ¢R­me ; Bfe¡l¡ haÑj¡­e h¡ f§­hÑ H­L Af­ll p¡­b pqh¡p L­l­Re ; Bfe¡l¡ haÑj¡­e h¡ f§­hÑ H­L Af­ll h¡¢s­a ­b­L­Re ; Bfe¡­cl j­dÉ BaÈ£ua¡l pÇfLÑ B­R ; Bfe¡l¡ ¢h¢dja i¡­h H­L Afl­L ¢hh¡q Ll­a pÇja q­u­Re ; Bfe¡­cl c¤S­el HLp¡­b ­L¡e p¿¹¡e B­R ; Bfe¡l¡ HL p¡­b b¡­Le¢e, ¢L¿¹¥ Bfe¡­cl HLV¡ !Ce¢V­jV f¡­pÑ¡e¡m ¢l­mp¡e’

(“intimate personal relationship”) h¡ hÉ¢š²Na A¿¹l‰ pÇfLÑ B­R ; Bfe¡l¡ c¤S­eC HLC f¢lh¡­ll j¡jm¡u k¤š² B­Re ;

Bf¢e k¢c gÉ¡¢j¢m BC­el d¡l¡ Ae¤k¡u£ AX¡Ñ­ll SeÉ B­hce Ll­a Efk¤š² e¡ qe, h¡ ­L¡e pÇfLÑ ­no qJu¡l f­l Bfe¡­L pj¡­e ¢hlš² Ll¡, iu ­cM¡­e¡ h¡ Ae¤plZ Ll¡ qu, Bf¢e ­fË¡­VLn¡e éj qÉ¡l¡p­j¾V BCe 1997 (Protection from Harassment Act 1997) Ae¤k¡u£ ­cJu¡e£ CeS¡wn­el SeÉ B­hce Ll­a f­lez ea¥e BCe Ae¤k¡u£, ­L¡e ­g±Sc¡l£ j¡jm¡ (criminal proceeding) Q­m b¡L­m - k¢c ­L¡e Afl¡d fËj¡¢Za e¡J q­u b¡­L - ­L¡VÑ k¢c j­e L­l Bfe¡l ¢hf­cl Bnˆ¡ B­R, Hl p¡­b HLV¡ ¢l­ØVÊ¢ew AXÑ¡l (restraining order) S¥­s ­cJu¡ k¡uz ¢l­ØVÊ¢ew AXÑ¡l eeÚ j­m­ØVne AXÑ¡­ll (non-molestation order) j­a¡C p¤¤lr¡ ¢c­a f¡­lz

CeS¡wne p¡d¡lZax HL¢V ¢ecÑø pj­ul SeÉ S¡l£ Ll¡ qu, ¢L¿¹¥ a¡ eh¡ue Ll¡ k¡u; Abh¡ a¡ "Be¢Vm g¡lc¡l AXÑ¡l’ (“until further order”) h¡ flhaÑ£ ýL¥j fkÑ¿¹ °hd l¡M¡ k¡uz

BCeNa Ef­cn f¡Ju¡ k¡u ¢L i¡­hBfe¡l ÙÛ¡e£u EC­j¾p HCXÚ pwÙÛ¡ Bfe¡­L ­L¡e E¢L­ml L¡­R p¤¤f¡¢ln L­l f¡W¡­a f¡­l, k¡l p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll j¡jm¡­a A¢i‘a¡ B­Rz m-­p¡p¡C¢V (Law Society) h¡ ­m¡L¡m ¢p¢V­SepÚ HÉXi¡Cp hÉ¥­l¡ (local Citizens' Advice Bureau) Bfe¡­L ÙÛ¡e£u Hm¡L¡l gÉ¡¢j¢m p¢m¢pVl­cl e¡­jl a¡¢mL¡ ¢c­a f¡l­hz

Bfe¡l j¡jm¡l MlQ¡ Q¡m¡­e¡l SeÉ Bf¢e f¡h¢mL g¡¢äw (L¢jE¢e¢V ¢mN¡m p¡¢iÑ­pp g¡¢äw h¡ ¢mN¡m HCXÚ ) (Community Legal Services funding, or legal aid) ­b­L V¡L¡ ­f­a f¡­le - k¢c Bf¢e J­um­gu¡l ­h¢e¢g­V (welfare benefits) b¡­Le, h¡ Bfe¡l ­l¡SN¡l Lj qu (h¡ ­l¡SN¡l e¡ b¡­L), Hhw Bfe¡l M¤h Lj h¡ ­L¡e Sj¡­e¡ V¡L¡ e¡ b¡­Lz HV¡ Bfe¡l ­c¡i¡o£l

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MlQ¡J ­c­hz k¢c Bf¢e Bfe¡l ü¡j£l ¢hl¦­ÜC BCeNa hÉhÙÛ¡ ¢e­u b¡­Le, a¡l ­l¡SN¡l dl¡ q­h e¡z

Bf¢e k¢c f¡h¢mL g¡¢äw f¡h¡l SeÉ Efk¤š² e¡ qe, Hhw Bfe¡l k¢c E¢L­ml MlQ¡ ­cJu¡l rja¡ e¡ b¡­L, Bf¢e ¢he¡ MlQ¡u m-­p¾V¡l (Law Centre) h¡ ¢p¢V­S¾p HÉXi¡Cp hÉ¥­l¡ (Citizens’ Advice Bureau) ­b­L Ef­cn ­f­a f¡­lez l¡CVpÚ Ag EC­je (Rights of Women) HL¢V CeS¡wne qÉ¡äh¤L (Injunction Handbook) h¡l L­l, k¡ FcѨ, …Sl¡¢V, h¡wm¡, ¢q¢¾c Bl Cw­lS£­a f¡Ju¡ k¡uz ­V¢m­g¡e eðl : 0207 251 6577; www.rightsofwomen.org.uk

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Bf¢e k¢c j­e L­le Bf¢e ­L¡­VÑ A­fr¡ Ll¡l pju Bfe¡l Evf£sL Bh¡l Bfe¡­L SÆ¡m¡ae Ll­a f¡­l, a¡q­m Bfe¡l E¢Lm­L ­p Lb¡ S¡e¡­m, ¢a¢e ­L¡­VÑl A¢gp¡l­cl h­m Evf£sL­L Bfe¡l ­b­L c§­l l¡M¡l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll­hez a¡R¡s¡ a¡l¡ A­fr¡ Ll¡l SeÉ Bm¡c¡ Bm¡c¡ S¡uN¡l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll­a f¡­lz

Bf¢e Bfe¡l ¢WL¡e¡ ­N¡fe l¡M¡l Ae¤­l¡d Ll­a f¡­le, k¡­a Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£ Bf¢e ­L¡b¡u B­Re S¡e­a e¡ f¡­lez

CeS¡wne ­f­a L­a¡ pju m¡­N?Bf¢e k¢c ­L¡e Bpæ ¢hf­cl j­dÉ b¡­Le, Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£l Ae¤f¢ÙÛ¢a­aJ, HL ¢c­el j­dÉC ­L¡­VÑ B­hce Ll¡ k¡­hz H­L “ECc¡EV ­e¡¢Vp” (“without notice” ) B­hce hm¡ quz ­L¡VÑ ¢h­hQe¡ Ll­h Bf¢e …l¦al ¢hf­cl j­dÉ B­Re ¢Le¡, A­fr¡ Ll­m Bfe¡­L B­hce Ll­a h¡d¡ ­cJu¡ q­h ¢Le¡, Hhw Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£ ­L¡­VÑ Bp¡l nje CµR¡ L­l e¡ ­eJu¡l ­Qø¡ Ll­R ¢Le¡z k¢c ­L¡VÑ Bfe¡­L “ECc¡EV ­e¡¢Vp” B­hce Ll­a ­cu, Bfe¡­L f­l Bh¡l ­L¡­VÑ Bp­a q­h pÇf¨ZÑ öe¡e£l SeÉz

k¢c AeÉ ­L¡e f¡¢lh¡¢lL j¡jm¡ ­pC pju ­L¡­VÑ Q¡m¤ b¡­L (­kje ¢nö­cl p¡­b ­k¡N¡­k¡N ¢houL), a¡q­m ­L¡VÑ pÇf̈ZÑ j¡jm¡¢V HLp¡­b öe­a Q¡C­a f¡­l - ¢L¿¹¥ a¡J ka¢ce Bf¢e pÇf¨ZÑ öe¡e£l SeÉ A­fr¡ Ll­Re, HLV¡ Cj¡­SÑ¢¾p AXÑ¡l S¡l£ Ll¡ ­k­a f¡­l Bfe¡l f­rz

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¢L ¢L fËj¡Z fË­u¡Se q­a f¡­l?­L¡­VÑ Bfe¡­L nfb ¢e­u hm­a q­h Bf¢e ¢L ¢L n¡l£¢lL J j¡e¢pL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll pÇj¥M£e q­u­Rez Bfe¡­L k­a¡V¡ pñh pw­r­f, ¢eiѨmi¡­h AaÉ¡Q¡­ll Lb¡, ­L¡b¡u AaÉ¡Q¡l q­u­R, Hhw Bfe¡l p¿¹¡e­cl Efl a¡l fË¢a¢œ²u¡ ¢L q­u­R, hm­a q­hz f¤¢m­nl ¢l­f¡VÑ h¡ X¡š²¡l£ ¢l­f¡­VÑl j­a¡ ­L¡e ¢el­fr fËj¡Z M¤h pq¡uL q­a f¡­lz

HLh¡l AXÑ¡l S¡l£ q­u ­N­m Bfe¡l L¡­R a¡l HLV¡ L¢f b¡L­h, Hhw Bfe¡l E¢Lm AaÉ¡Q¡l£l L¡­R q¡­a q¡­a ­f±R¡­e¡l SeÉ HLV¡ L¢f f¡W¡­hez AaÉ¡Q¡l£l ­L¡­VÑl AXÑ¡l q¡­a f¡Ju¡l ­L¡e fËj¡Z e¡ b¡L­m CeS¡wne S¡l£ q­h e¡z

AaÉ¡Q¡l£ AXÑ¡l i¡P­m ¢L q­h?k¢c AaÉ¡Q¡l£ CeS¡wn­el naÑ i¡­P, Bfe¡l p­‰ p­‰ f¤¢m­n Mhl ­cJu¡ E¢Qa, k¡­a f¤¢mn a¡­L ­NËç¡l L­l ­L¡­VÑ ­fn Ll­a f¡­lz Bfe¡l E¢Lm­LJ H hÉf¡­l S¡e¡­e¡ E¢Qa : AaÉ¡Q¡l£ ­L¡­VÑl ýL¥j e¡ ­j­e Bc¡m­al Ahj¡ee¡ (L­¾VÇfV AgÚ ­L¡VÑ /contempt of court) L­l­Rz

L«o·hZÑ Hhw pwMÉ¡mO¤ pÇfËc¡­ul j¢qm¡l¡

p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢nL¡l ph lLj p¡ÇfËc¡¢uL ­N¡¢ùl j¢qm¡l¡ q­a f¡­le, Hhw Hje ­L¡e fËj¡Z ­eC, k¡ ­b­L hm¡ k¡u ­L¡e ¢h­no p¡ÇfËc¡¢uL h¡ p¡wú«¢aL ­N¡¢ùl j¢qm¡­cl Nª­q Evf£s­el Ty¥¢L ­hn£z ¢L¿¹¥ AaÉ¡Q¡­ll dle ¢h¢iæ ­r­œ ¢h¢iæ q­a f¡­l ; ­kje ­L¡e ­L¡e pÇfËc¡­ul j­dÉ p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l ¢hÙ¹£ZÑ f¢lh¡­ll pcpÉl¡ L­l b¡­Le, Abh¡ Evf£s­el j­dÉ ­S¡l L­l ¢hh¡q ­cJu¡, h¡ Ù»£ - ­k±e¡‰ ¢hL«a Ll¡J fl­a f¡­lz L«o·hZÑ h¡ pwMÉ¡mO¤ pÇfËc¡­ul j¢qm¡l¡ pj¡S ­b­L ­hn£ ¢h¢µRæ q­a f¡­le, h¡ a¡­cl d¡jÑ£L h¡ p¡wú«¢aL Q¡f pqÉ Ll­a q­a f¡­l ; a¡­cl "f¢lh¡­ll pÇj¡e’ eø Ll­Re HC iuJ b¡L­a f¡­lz

Bf¢e k¢c L«o·hZÑ h¡ pwMÉ¡mO¤ pÇfËc¡­ul j¢qm¡ q­u p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡l ­b­L j¤¢š² ­f­a Q¡e, ­p­r­œ Bfe¡l hZÑ¢h­ào Bfe¡l A¢i‘a¡­L B­l¡ S¢Vm L­l a¥m­a f¡­lz Bf¢e hZÑ¢h­à­ol ¢nL¡l qJu¡l i­u ¢h¢dhÜ pwÙÛ¡ …¢ml L¡­R p¡q¡kÉ Q¡C­a e¡J l¡S£ q­a f¡­le - ­kje f¤¢mn, ­p¡n¡m p¡¢iÑ­pp, h¡ q¡E¢Sw Ab¢l¢Vz Bf¢e HJ ­c­M b¡L­a f¡­le ­k p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ pwÙÛ¡…¢m a¡­cl fË¢a¢œ²u¡ ­cM¡­µR ab¡L¢ba p¡wú«¢aL, p¡ÇfËc¡¢uL, h¡ djÑ£u f¢lQ­ul Efl ¢i¢š L­l ; Abh¡ hZÑ¢h­ào£ hm¡ q­h ­i­h hÉf¡l¢V­a S¢s­u fs­a Q¡C­R e¡z Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£ k¢c L«o·hZÑ qe, Bf¢e hZÑ¢h­à­ol f§hÑ A¢i‘a¡l SeÉ a¡­L f¤¢m­nl q¡­a ­b­L h¡yQ¡­a Q¡C­a f¡­lez

Bf¢e qu­a¡ p¡q¡kÉ Q¡C­m Bfe¡l ¢e­Sl pÇfËc¡­ul j¡e¤­ol ­b­L fËaÉ¡MÉ¡a qJu¡l iu f¡­µRez Bfe¡l hªqšl f¢lh¡­ll pcpÉl¡ Bfe¡l Efl Q¡f pª¢ø Ll­a f¡­l Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡­ll p¡­b b¡L¡l SeÉ, Abh¡ Bfe¡­L ­S¡l L­l a¡­L ¢hh¡q Ll­a h¡dÉ Ll¡ q­u­R - HjeJ q­u b¡L­a f¡­lz Afe¡l ¢hh¡q ­i­P ­N­m ­pV¡ Bfe¡l ­c¡o ¢q­p­h ­cM¡ q­a f¡­l; Bfe¡­L Bfe¡l f¢lh¡­ll pÇj¡e eø Ll¡l SeÉ ­c¡o ­cJu¡ q­a f¡­l, h¡ ¢e­Sl pÇfËc¡­ul j­dÉ Bfe¡­L HLO­l L­l l¡M¡ q­a f¡­lz

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p¡q¡kÉ f¡Ju¡l Ef¡uBf¢e k¢c HC ­c­n p­hj¡œ H­p b¡­Le, h¡ Bfe¡l j¡a«i¡o¡ k¢c Cw­lS£ e¡ q­u b¡­L, a¡q­m p¡q¡­kÉl p¢WL S¡uN¡ M¤y­S f¡Ju¡ Bfe¡l f­r ­hn£ L¢We q­hz p¡­f¡VÑ p¡¢iÑp pð­å Bf¢e e¡ S¡e­a f¡­le Hhw ­L¡b¡u ­k­a q­h e¡ S¡e­a f¡­lez Bf¢e EC­j¾p HCXÚ J ¢l¢gE­Sl j­dÉ f¡VÑe¡l¢n­f Q¡m¡­e¡ é£-­g¡e 24 O¾V¡ eÉ¡ne¡m ­X¡­j¢øL i¡umÉ¡¾p ­qÒf m¡C­e ­g¡e Ll­a f¡­le : 0808 2000 247z HC ­qÒf-m¡Ce m¡Éw…­uS-m¡C­el pcpÉ Hhw a¡C ­c¡i¡o£l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll¡­a f¡­l J ÙÛ¡e£u A’­m p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ pwÙÛ¡l Mhl Bfe¡­L ¢c­a f¡­lz

Bf¢e k¢c Cw­lS£ i¡­m¡ i¡­h hm­a e¡ f¡­le, Hhw ­L¡e pwÙÛ¡­L ­k¡N¡­k¡N L­l b¡­Le p¡q¡­kÉl SeÉ, a¡­cl Bfe¡l SeÉ HLSe ¢el­fr ­c¡i¡o£l hÉhÙÛ¡ Ll¡ E¢Qa z k¢c Bfe¡­L ­p hÉhÙÛ¡ e¡ L­l ­cJu¡ qu, Bf¢e ­pV¡ hm­a f¡­lez Bf¢e k¢c ­c¡i¡o£l L¡­S M¤¢n e¡ qe, h¡ Bnˆ¡ L­le ­p Bfe¡l ¢hnÄ¡p i¡P­a f¡­l, h¡ Bfe¡l Efl ­L¡e lL­jl Q¡f pª¢ø Ll­a f¡­l, Bf¢e a¡q­m AeÉ ­c¡i¡o£l SeÉ Ae¤­l¡d Ll­a f¡­lez Bf¢e ­L¡e hå¥ h¡ BaÈ£u­L ­c¡i¡o£l L¡S Ll­a öd¤ ­L¡e Sl¦l£ AhÙÛ¡­aC X¡L­he, kMe Bl ­L¡e hÉhÙÛ¡ aMeC Ll¡ pñh eu z

k¢c Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne AhÙÛ¡ A¢e¢ÕQa qu h¡ a¡ Bfe¡l ü¡j£l p¡­b b¡L¡l Efl ¢eiÑl L­l, ­p­r­œ Bfe¡l j­e q­a f¡­l Bf¢e g¡y­c f­s­Re, Hhw Bfe¡l ¢LR¥C Ll¡l ­eCz Bf¢e L¡­l¡l L¡­R p¡q¡kÉ Q¡C­a iu ­f­a f¡­le HC ­i­h ­k Bfe¡­L HC ­cn ­b­L ¢ehÑ¡¢pa Ll¡ q­hz (Bfe¡l k¢c HC AhÙÛ¡ qu, a¡q­m ¢hÙ¹¡¢la S¡e­a C¢j­NËne Awn¢V ­cM¤e z)

Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne AhÙÛ¡ k¡C ­q¡L, Bfe¡l ü¡ÙÛÉ hÉhÙÛ¡­a J f¤¢m­nl L¡R ­b­L p¤¤lr¡l A¢dL¡l phpju B­Rz ­L¡­VÑl L¡­R Bfe¡l Evf£s­Ll L¡R ­b­L p¤¤lr¡l SeÉ CeS¡wn­el B­hce Llh¡l A¢dL¡lJ B­Rz

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AeÉ¢c­L Bf¢e i¡h­a f¡­le ÙÛ¡e£u p¡¢iÑ­p k¢c ­LE Bfe¡l ¢e­Sl p¡wú«¢aL ­N¡¢ù ­b­L B­p, ­p Bfe¡l f¢lh¡l­L S¡e­a f¡­l Hhw Hl ­b­L Bfe¡l ü¡j£l h¡ ¢hÙ¹£ZÑ f¢lh¡­ll pcpÉ­cl Bfe¡­L My¥­S h¡l Ll¡ pqS q­u ­k­a f¡­lz Bf¢e ¢e­S ¢WL Ll­a f¡­le Bf¢e p¡d¡lZ p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ pwÙÛ¡l p¡q¡kÉ ­e­he, e¡¢L L«o·hZÑ, Hn£u h¡ AeÉ pwMÉ¡mO¤ pÇfËc¡­ul SeÉ °al£ ¢h­no‘ p¡q¡kÉL¡l£ pwÙÛ¡l p¡q¡kÉ ­e­hez

k¢c C¢j­NËn¡e AhÙÛ¡l SeÉ Bfe¡l CE. ­L. (UK) ­a ¢Ql¢ce b¡L¡l h¡ J­um­gu¡l ­h¢e¢gV (welfare benefits) ­eJu¡l ­k¡NÉa¡ e¡ b¡­L, (H­L hm¡ qu "­e¡ ¢l­L¡pÑ V¥ f¡h¢mL g¡ä" / "no recourse to public funds"), a¡J ­L¡e ­L¡e ¢l¢gES pwÙÛ¡ Bfe¡­L hph¡­pl S¡uN¡ ­c­h J p¡q¡kÉ Ll­hz ¢hÙ¹¡¢la S¡e­a C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢hou Awn¢V ­cM¤ez

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­S¡l L­l ¢hh¡qk¢c Bf¢e Bnˆ¡ L­le Bfe¡­L h¡ Bfe¡l ­Qe¡ L¡E­L ­S¡l L­l ¢h­c­n ¢h­u ­cJu¡ q­µR, a¡q­m ­g¡pÑX jÉ¡­lS CE¢eV (Forced Marriage Unit) Bfe¡­L p¡q¡kÉ Ll­a f¡l­hz HC eð­l ­g¡e Ll¦e : 020 7008 0230, 020 7008 0135 h¡ 020 7008 8706 h¡ HM¡­e C-­jm Ll¦e : fmu@fco.gov.uk z ph ­g¡eC ­N¡fe£u l¡M¡ qu, Hhw ­g¡­el Ešl ­ce p¤¤¢n¢ra LjÑ£l¡, k¡l¡ HC dl­el AaÉ¡Q¡­ll pwú«¢aL, p¡j¡¢SL J j¡e¢pL fËi¡h…¢ml pð­å Ju¡¢Lhq¡mz ¢hÙ¹¡¢la S¡e­a ­cM¤e : http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/comrace/race/forcedmarriage/

C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢hou

HC ¢hi¡­Nl Mhl Bfe¡l L¡­S m¡N­h k¢c Bf¢e p¡wp¡¢lL ¢ef£s­Zl ¢nL¡l q­u b¡­Le Hhw Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢hou (immigration status) A¢e¢ÕQa q­u b¡­Lz

Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢hou A¢e¢ÕQa b¡L­mJ AeÉ ph¡l j­a¡ Bfe¡lJ p¡wp¡¢lL ¢ef£s­Zl ­b­L p¤¤lr¡ f¡Ju¡l A¢dL¡l B­Rz Bfe¡­L ¢k¢e AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll­Re, ¢a¢eJ AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll¡l SeÉ ph lLj Ae¤­j¡ce h¡ n¡¢Ù¹ ­f­a h¡dÉ, ay¡l C¢j­NËne AhÙÛ¡ k¡C ­q¡L e¡ ­Lez

Bf¢e ¢L CE. ­L. (UK) H­p¢R­me Bfe¡l ü¡j£l p¡­b b¡L­a, h¡ ay¡­L ¢h­u Ll­a?Bf¢e k¢c Bfe¡l CE. ­L. (UK) ­a ÙÛ¡u£ i¡­h hph¡pL¡l£ ü¡j£l p¡­b b¡L­a, h¡ ay¡­L ¢h­u Ll­a CE. ­L. (UK) H­p b¡­Le, a¡ q­m HMeL¡l C¢j­NËne ¢euj Ae¤k¡u£, Bfe¡­L c¤C hR­ll fl£r¡j§mL pju Bfe¡l ü¡j£l p¡­b b¡L­a q­h, k¡l f­l Bf¢e CE. ­L. (UK) ­a A¢e¢cÑø L¡m b¡L¡l B­hce Ll­a f¡­lez

Bf¢e k¢c p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡­ll ¢nL¡l qe, Bfe¡l AaÉ¡Q¡l£ ( Hhw / Abh¡ a¡l f¢lh¡l ) Bfe¡l A¢e¢ÕQa C¢j­NËne AhÙÛ¡l p¤¤­k¡N ¢e­u Bfe¡­L B­l¡ AaÉ¡Q¡l Ll­a f¡­lz Bfe¡l ¢ef£seL¡l£ Bfe¡l f¡p­f¡VÑ Hhw AeÉ¡eÉ L¡NSfœ p¢l­u ¢e­u b¡L­a f¡­l, Bfe¡l A¢dL¡l pð­å Bfe¡­L e¡ S¡¢e­u b¡L­a f¡­l, Hhw Bfe¡­L h¡C­ll SN­al ­m¡LS­el ­b­L ¢h¢µRæ L­l l¡M­a f¡­lz Bf¢e c¤C hR­ll fl£r¡ j§mL pju L¡¢V­u EW­mJ Bfe¡l C¢j­NËne pwœ²¡¿¹ ¢hou¢V qu­a¡ pÇf¨ZÑ Ll¡ qu¢e, ­k­qa¥ Bf¢e BCeNa fÜ¢a pð­å AåL¡­l B­Rez Efl¿¹¥, Bf¢e AaÉ¡Q¡­ll Lb¡ L¡E­L hm­a iu ­f­a f¡­le, h¡ h¡¢s ­R­s Bp­a iu ­f­a f¡­le, HC ­i­h ­k Bfe¡­L qu­a¡ HC ­cn ­b­L ¢ehÑ¡¢pa Ll¡ q­a f¡­lz

Bf¢e k¢c C¢j­NËne L­¾VÊ¡­ml (immigration control) BJa¡u b¡­Le, Bfe¡l a¡ q­m "­e¡ ¢l­L¡pÑ V¥ f¡h¢mL g¡ä" ("no recourse to public funds") q­h - j¡­e, Bf¢e A¢dL¡wn plL¡¢l p¡q¡­kÉl ­f­a f¡l­he e¡z HC p¡q¡­kÉl j­dÉ l­u­R CeL¡j p¡­f¡VÑ (Income Support), ShÚ ¢pL¡lpÚ Hm¡J­u¾p (Jobseeker’s Allowance), q¡E¢pw ­h¢e¢gV ( Housing Benefit), ­q¡j­mp­ep HÉ¡¢pp­V¾V (homelessness assistance), Q¡Cä ­h¢e¢gV (Child Benefit), ¢X­p¢h¢m¢V Hm¡J­u¾p h¡ Ju¡¢LÑw gÉ¡¢j¢m VÉ¡„ ­œ²¢XV (disability allowances or Working

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Families Tax Credit)z p¤¤al¡w Bfe¡l ü¡j£, f¡VÑe¡l h¡ gÉ¡¢j¢ml Efl AbÑ°e¢aL i¡­h ¢eiÑln£m q­he, Hhw a¡­cl Efl B­l¡ ­hn£ ¢eiÑl Ll­hez ¢hÙ¹¡¢la S¡e­a ¢e­Q Bfe¡l "­e¡ ¢l­L¡pÑ V¥ f¡h¢mL g¡ä" b¡L­m ¢L Ll­he ­cM¤ez

p¡wp¡¢lL ¢ef£sZ J C¢j­NËn­el ¢euj C¢j­NËne BCe 2002 Ae¤k¡u£ Bf¢e c¤C hR­ll fl£r¡j§mL pj­ul A¿¹NÑa q­mJ, k¢c Bf¢e p¡wp¡¢lL ¢ef£s­Zl ¢nL¡l qe, Bf¢e CE. ­L. (UK) ­a A¢e¢cÑø L¡m b¡L¡l B­hce Ll­a f¡­lez Hl SeÉ Efk¤š² q­a Bfe¡­L ¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ¢S¢eo…¢m ­cM¡­a q­h :

Bfe¡­L CE. ­L. (UK) ­a hph¡pL¡l£ L¡­l¡l Ù»£ h¡ f¡VÑe¡l ¢q­p­h CE. ­L. (UK) ­a Bp¡l J ¢e¢cÑø pju b¡Lh¡l Ae¤j¢a ­cJu¡ q­u­R ;

Bf¢e HM­e¡ c¤C hR­ll fl£r¡ j§mL pj­ul A¿¹NÑa B­Re ; p¡wp¡¢lL ¢ef£sZ HC pj­ul ¢ia­l q­u­R ; Bf¢e HMe Bl Bfe¡l f¡VÑe¡­ll (j¡­e Bfe¡l ØfeÚp¡l) p¡­b b¡­Le e¡ ; a¡­L ­R­s Bp¡l L¡lZ p¡wp¡¢lL AaÉ¡Q¡lz

¢ejÀ¢m¢Ma ­L¡e HL¢V "fËj¡Z’ Bfe¡l clL¡l k¡l j¡dÉ­j NªqEvf£se fËj¡¢Za q­h :

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