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Issue 7 of the Young In Prison South Africa magazine, Inside Out.

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Young in Prison059 - 080 - NPO

41 Salt River Road, Community House, Salt River

email: [email protected] phone : 021 448 5275

www.younginprison.org

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Editorial.........................................................................................................2

Director’s.Letter.................................................................................3

Trust....................................................................................................................4

Stories.............................................................................................................6

Bigger.than.my.Circumstances....................................8

Anger.Management...................................................................12

Life.Map......................................................................................................13

Invincible.Goals...............................................................................14

Poetry .......................................................................................................................... 20

Creative Writing ....................................................................................... 22

Pen Pal Letters ............................................................................................. 24

Positive Word Search ....................................................................... 26

Story Board ....................................................................................................... 28

Tarisai.Mchuchu-RatshidiDirector

Rozerie.BosmaGeneral.Manager

Melinda.BechusPost-Release.Coordinator

Kholofelo.MashegoAdvocacy.and.Communications.Coordinator

Nkosinathi.BuyanaLife.Skills.Facilitator.and.Trainer

Vuyokazi.MagobiyaneLife.Skills.Facilitator

Owen.ButlerLife.Skills.Facilitator

Tlhabanelo.DiholoLife.Skills.Facilitator

Zamani.NdlovuProject.Coordinator.Johannesburg

Joseph.MofokengLife.Skills.Facilitator

Tebogo.ButieLife.Skills.Facilitator

Co-facilitatorsShupai.MchuchuSisanda.MguzulwaJohn.JamesMargaret.van.der.MolenKatherine.PonsColby.EisenMegan.BrophyKirti.SomaAna-Sofia.Romero.VillanuevaCarin.Lennesjo.

Magazine.designConor.RalphsMeghan.Judge

Young.in.Prison059.–.080.–.NPO41.Community.HouseSalt.River.RoadSalt.River,.Cape.Town.

Tel:.021.448.5275Fax:.021.448.3024

[email protected]

If you would like to contribute to Young in Prison and its initiatives in ‘promoting the right to positive development’, please donate to:

Young.in.Prison.Bank:.NedbankCurrent.Account,.Account.Number:.1021284556Salt.River.Branch

This.project.is.funded.byThe.European.Union

contents

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Editorial�Edit

Naturally�this�time�of�the�year.many.people.seem.

to.be.winding.down.and.getting.ready.to.celebrate,.all. in.

light.of.the.upcoming.festive.and.holiday.season..For.many.

it’s.that.time.of.the.year.to.spend.with.family,.friends.and.

loved.ones..While. for. those. incarcerated. it. is.usually. the.

most.challenging.time.of.the.year,.with.memories.and.hope.

of.being.able.to.see.familiar.warm.faces.some.day.being.

the.only.source.of.comfort..However.we also hope that this magazine shall be a reminder of their fruitful progress in becoming positive contributing citizens.. This. edition.

of.Inside.Out.captures.a.continuous.reflection.of.hope.and.

strength.for.many.of.those.who.contributed.to.this.edition.

During. a. workshop. on. anger. management. participants.

understood.the.need.to.develop.positive.traits.and.habits.

even. in. those.times.when.anger.seems.to.be.the.easiest.

manner.to.react.to.a.situation..This.workshop.highlighted.

that.in.each.one.of.us.irrespective.of.the.choices.we.make.

we are able to tap into positive traits. that. are.

within.us.and.develop.those.in.order.to.be.better.people.

Through.tracking.their.own.life’s.participants.were.further.

able.to.map.out.distinct.periods.in.their.life.that.they.believe.

had. the. greatest. impact. to. their. personal. development..

Participants.reflected.upon.the.happiest.times.in.their.life’s.

with.most.pointing.out.to.a.death.of.the.loved.one.or.going.

to.prison.as.the.lowest.period.in.their.lives.

Putting the pieces of one’s life back together.is.

not.always.easy.but.it.is.nevertheless.important.to.realise.

that. even. when. our. lives. seem. disjointed. the. pieces. will.

fit.together.when.we.see.ourselves.as.whole.people..This.

understanding. is. reflected. in. a. puzzle. of. life. and. values.

created.by.Young.in.Prison.female.participants..

A life of freedom even behind bars is possible.and.

no. one. understands. this. better. than. our. participants..

During.one.of.the.workshops.participants.were.able.to.see.that.

irrespective.of.the.circumstances.that.they.come.from.they.are.

bigger.than.those.circumstances..This.notion.was.represented.

in. the. form. of. an. animal. that. participants. believed. best.

represents. them.. Furthermore. when. individuals. understand.

that their past does not need to determine their future.

one. is. able. to. set. achievable. goals. for. themselves.. A. goal.

setting.activity.was.done.that.assisted.participants.to.analyse.

their. life’s. and. relook. at. the. positive. things. they. want. to.

achieve.

Young.in.Prison.participants.are.aware.that.often.through.their.

actions.they.have.wronged.their.loved.ones.and.communities,.

thus. understand. that. they need to rebuild trust. ties.

within.and.among.those.they.have.wronged..In.this.edition.we.

added. a. more. distinct. voice. from. the. participants. by. adding.

letters.of.change.and.even.some.poetry..In.addition.for.some.

fun.and.brain.teasing.we.have.added.a.positive.word.search.

that.once.again.highlights.that.change.within.is.a.process.

A.big.thank.you.to.all.the.interns,.volunteers,.facilitators.and.

especially.Young.in.Prison.participants.who.make.each.issue.

of. Inside. Out. a. worthwhile. read.. It. is. with. this. in. mind. that.

we. applaud. the. change. and. progress. that. has. taken. place.

within. Young. in. Prison. participants.. And. remind. them. that.

this.festive.season.and.even.in.the.year.2013.their.voices.shall.

be.heard.and.remembered.as we reflect and celebrate

their steps towards success..Join.us.in.being.part.of.the.

solution.and.recognising.those.young.people.who.chose.to.be.

a.positive.difference.even.while.incarcerated..

Kholofelo.Mashego.

Young.in.Prison

Advocacy.and.Communications.Manager

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Another� year� is� passing� us. again. and. it is time to take stock of our successes.and.

challenges.in.preparation.for.the.next.year..Young.

in.Prison.has.had.more.successes.than.failures. in.

2012. thanks. to. the. ‘youth. empowerment. through.

arts.and.culture.action’. from.the.European.Union..

This.fund.has.allowed.the.organisation.to.spread its reach. across. the.Western.Cape.region.and.

in. Gauteng.. We. are. now. offering. creative. life-

skills. workshops. to. six. institutions. as. opposed.

to. two. institutions. in. 2011;. we have reached 600 participants and 500 workshops conducted.. .What. we. are. most. proud. of. is. that.

the. Inside. Out. issue. continue. to. be. delivered. to.

other. youth. at. risk. in. schools,. we. are. proud. that.

its. contents. continue to change lives of others.for.the.better..

My.message.for.this.issue.is.for.us.to.look.beyond.

the. challenges. we. face. and focus on the success no matter how small.. My. favourite.

topic. in. this. issue.was.on.trust.and.relationships..

The. workshops. assessed. the. basic. contents. of.

relationships. such. as. love. and. trust.. Trust. is. not.

only. about. our. trust. in. girlfriends. and. boyfriends.

but.who.we.can.have.hope.in.when.things.are.not.

going.our.way,.who.will.lift.us.up.when.we.are.down..

I.believe.that.the.solution does not lie within individuals but in masses of people like

our communities..It.is.also.not.about.us.trusting.the.

community.but.the.community.trusting.us..How.can.we.

achieve.this?.I.believe.that.we.can.achieve.this.by.taking.

seriously. the. notion. that. each. individual. contributes.

positively.or.negatively.to.his/her.own.community.by.the.

way.they.conduct.their.own.lives..It.is.at.this.time.of.the.

year.when.we.are.preparing.the.new.year’s.resolutions.

that.we.can.truly.evaluate. if.we are worthy of our community’s trust. and. if. not,. what. are. we. going.

to.to.earn..I.encourage.all.the.youth.of.South.Africa.to.

take a stand and make a positive mark.

in. the. development. of. the. country.. Do. not. encourage.

drug.dealers.and.gangsters.to.have.power.over.you.and.

your.community..Encourage.yourself.and.friends.in.your.

community.or.start.with.your.own.street.where.you.live.

in,.and.clean.it.us.from.the.clutches.of.drugs..

I. hope. that. this. issue. will. inspire. us. all.. I. would. like.

to. also. thank. everyone. who. has. worked. tirelessly.

throughout.the.year.to.contribute.to.safer.South.Africa.

and.being part of the solution.to.youth.

participation.in.crime..I.trust.you.will.be.safe.this.festive.

season.and.in.the.new.year.of.2013

Tarisai.Mchuchu-Ratshidi

Director,.

Young.in.Prison.(South.Africa)

Director’s�Letter

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TRUST

Trust

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Angelina�Swartz�–�Who�am�I

My.name.is.Angeline.Swartz.I.am.20.years.old.

I.was.born.in.1992..I.have.1.child,.a.girl,.and.I.

love.her.very.much..The.reason.why.I.am.here.

is. because. of. my. bad. behaviour. and. for. not.

listening. to. my. mother.. I. want. to. change. my.

life.when.I.go.out..I.want.to.ask.for.forgiveness.

to.all.the.people.out.there.who.I.done.all.the.

wrong. things. to. and. be. a. better. mom. to. my.

kid.so.one.day.she.will.not.end.up.at.the.same.

place. that. I. end. up.. So. that. she. can. look. up.

to. me. as. her. mother,. not. as. her. friend,. and.

respect. me. so. that. I. can. respect. her. as. my.

child.

Amanda�Mphongoshe�-�Who�am�I

At.first,.didn’t.know.who.I.am..I.just.wanted.to.be.

this. cool. girl.. But. when. I. realised. it’s. not. doing.

anything. for. me.. I. am. not. gaining. anything. by.

being.a.person.I.wasn’t.born.to.be..I.knew.I.had.

to.do.something.because.I.wasn’t.happy.enough..

So.what.I.did.is.I.just.put.my.foot.down.and.told.

myself:.though.I’ve.made.such.mistake,.I.can.still.

pick.myself.and.pull.my.head.up.and.be.strong..So.

U.strike.a.women.u.strike.a.rock!!!!

Lulama�-�My�life�story

My. name. is. Lulama.. I. was. born. in. 1994-04-02.. I.

was.born.in.Eastern.Cape..I.was.growing.up.with.

a. single. parent.. My. father. divorced. my. mother.

before.I.was.born..We.are.four.children,.two.sisters.

and. one. brother,. living. with. my. mother.. I. love.

my.family.coz.they. love.me.to.. In.2000. I.started.

school.here.in.Cape.Town.until.grade.10..I.dropped.

at.school.this.year.coz.I.started.to.smoking.drugs.

and.drinking.alcohol..On.2007.it.was.a.year.that.

I.dint.wanted.to.listen.to.my.single.parent..Now.I.

end.up.in.jail.and.my.friends.are.not.here..Now.I.

am.alone..Now.I.got.the.punishment..I.will.never.

follow.my.friends.anymore..It.is.the.truth.life.goes.

on.. In. primary. school. it’s. was. nice. and. good.. In.

grade.7.I.started.to.date.men.because.I.saw.all.of.

my.friends.are.dating.man..So. I. told.myself. that.

is.a.good.life.to.have.boyfriend.at.the.age.of.20.

yrs.. In. High. school. I. was. getting. bad. influence.

to. my. friends. and. I. dropped. out. of. school. coz.

of. influence..But.now.I.miss.my.mother’s.words:.

they. say. listen. to. your. parent. coz. u. gonna. miss.

your.mothers.word.one.day..Enjoy.your.life.but.be.

careful.coz.it.will.enjoy.you!!

Stories

Amorè�Stevens�–�My�life�story

As.I.grew.up.I.had.a.wonderful.life.I.had.a.good.

education. and. a. wonderful. family.. But. at. the.

age. of. 12. Yrs. old. I. got. raped. by. a. Gang.. But.

I’m. still. alive..Today. I’m. 21. yrs. old.. Since. that.

young. age. I’ve. never. been. with. my. family.. I.

don’t.even.know.if.I.still.have.some.family.left..

Many.things.have.happen.in.my.life..This.paper.

won’t.be.enough..But.yet. I.was.Born.to.Rise!!.

I.get. love. from.people. I.don’t.even.know..But.

that. is. just. the.way.god.works. in.my. life..And.

I.thank.him.for.that..So.today.I.21.yrs.old.and.I.

won’t.give.in.now.give.up.co’z.I’ve.come.too.far.

to.leave.everything.now..

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Courtney�-�My�life�story

My. Name. is. Courtney. Abrahams. and. Iive. in.

Steenberg.. I. live. with. my. mother,. father,. 2.

sisters.and. their.2.kids..One.sister.grown.up.

with.me,.the.other.one.had.luxury.life..It’s.quite.

hard. to. live. with. her,. because. she. doesn’t.

know. the. hard. side. of. life.. Me. and. my. other.

sister.we’re.doing.a.few.crazy.things.in.life.that.

we.regret..That’s.why.we.ended.up.where.we.

are.right.now..On.the.other.side.we.are.trying.

to. put. people. out. of. our. life. that’s. trying. to.

bring. us. down,. especially. my. one. sister.. It’s.

kind.of.hard,.difficult,.and.painful.for.us.doing.

that.. It. is. not. that. we. want. to. do. that.. It’s.

because.we.really.love.and.want.to.teach.her.

what.we. learned..As. I’m.writing.my.tears.are.

rolling.down.my.cheek.just.to.think.that’s.our.

blood.that’s.like.that..Not.with.us.but.against.

us..I.hope.maybe.one.day.she’ll.open.her.eyes.

and.realize. that.we.only.wanted.to.show.her.

the.better.way.of.life.

Fluorescent.light.bulbs.

Ease.of.their.circuits

Just.seconds.before.ten…damn

A.hallow.wind.echoes

Between.the.corridors

Sneaking.and.creeping

Beneath.steel.doors

And.burglar.bars

Shrugged.in.rags

I.curve.my.legs

And.curb.my.thoughts.to.infinity

With.my.hand

I.slowly.reconnect.the.solar.system

Of.the.Milky.Way

With.each.day

And.each.hand.I.shake

I.quietly.sit.in.my.room

And.write.a.poem.using.my

Pen.as.the.broom

To.sweep-off.the.pain

And.confusion

In.the.hearts.of.little.man

To.let.them.know.what

They.too.can

If.they.could.lose

Just.one.illusion

That.prison.is.not

Build.in.stone

But.it’s.a.live

Through.blood,.flesh.and.bone

With.my.smile

I.silently.free.your.mind

And.like.photosynthesis

I.slowly.become.

The.sun

Redistributing.my.rays

Like.a.machine.gun

So.that.I.could.make

Everyday.a.brighter.day

For.you.and.I

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Life�Map

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Invincible�Goals

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Masakhe�Mdluli

Oo!!.My.Africans

I.raised.my.voice.high

where.is.the.trust.we.have.acquired.from.our.parents

we.are.all.human.being.with.trust.and.love

why.it.is.difficult.to.trust.and.love.each.other

To.be.honest.we.don’t.live.without.trust.and.love

with.trust.and.love.we.can.do.more

with.trust.and.love.we.can.upgrade.and.live.a.prosperity.and.successful.life.

With.trust.and.love.we.can.produce.a.miraculous.light.upon.us

enjoy.the.joy,.health,.peace,.prosperity,.progress,.success.and.victory.were.made.

available,.because.of.trust.and.love.we.have.

To.contain.trust.your.heart.you.can.be.reconcile.with.other.around.you..Trust.and.love.

can.build.a.united.nation!!

Trust.and.love.load.us.create.passion.there.for.our.dreams

Remain.and.passed.through.the.next.generation

Trust.and.love.completes.me.to.give.more.than.I.s.required.of.me.

Hatred.mistrusts.wil.send.us.nowhere

Never.forget.our.morals.we.won’t.know.the.meaning.

of.trust.and.love

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what�I�do�best

Time.I.know.that.you.lost.your.way

you.need.to.find.someone.where.you.belong

you’ll.be.running.form.yesterday

you’ll.tumble.and.you.will.fall.sometimes

you’re.love.come.swimming.through

and.let.me.do.the.rest.loving.you.is.what.I.do.best

I.will.give.enough.time.to.spend

and.if.you.let.me.I.can.turn.your..world.around

Im.a.mat.there’s.more.to.see

we.can.climb.the.highest.mountain

forever..can.began..so.open..you.heart.and.let.me.in

to.keep.me..crazy.before.I’ve.disappear

but.if.they..come.again..one.night

and.if.the.darkness.hight.the.light

and.if.you.have.to.stand.and.fight

you.know.I’ll.be.there

cause.what.I.do.best

is.love.you.like.a.woman.who.loves.a.man

I.can.love.you.more.than.another.woman.can

so.take.this.heart..so.strong.and.true

and.let.me.do.the.rest.“loving.you.“loving.you”

“loving.you”.loving.you.is.what.I.do.best

My�lewe

My.lewe.is.a.groot.gemors

Dear.n.dom.besluit.het.dit.my.is.jaar.gekkos

Nou.sit.ek.in.die.tronk

En.die.nomer.stoot.my.rond

Dis.oor.my.dogter.wat.ek.treur

Dit.maak.my.hart.baie.seer

Hartseer,.woede,.pyn.het.sy.ontwang

Dear.al.daardie.dinge.is.sy.nog.steeds.bang

kan.ek.haar.ooit.vergeet

Dit.is.n’.gevoel.van.twyfel.wat.ek.moet.saam.leef

Almal.verdien.tweede.kanse.maar.is.ons.albei.bereid

Dit.is.die.vraag.van.die.groot.stryd

So.daardeur.vees.verstig.oor.wat.jy.doen.en.met.wie

Want.dinge.altyd.soos.wat.dit.wil.he.nie.

writer:.K.M..Bailey

My�life�in�poetry:

Click,.clack,.clack,.is.the.noise.I.hear

every.day.when.all.cells.are.being.locked

and.in.times.like.this.it.feels.if.I’m.all

by.myself.just.looking.in.four.Gray

days.that.I.use.to.share.with.

my.friends.and.family.

Writer:.Darryl

Believe�in�yourself….

in.the.power.you.have

to.control.your.own.life…

day.by.day

Believe.in.the.strength….

that.you.have

Deep.inside.and.your.faith…..

Will.help.show.you.the.way

Believe.in.tomorrow.and.what.it.will.bring…

.let.a.hopeful.heart.carry.you

through.for.things..will.work…

.out.if.you.trust

And.believe.that.there’s.no…

..limit.to.what.you.can.do!!!

..........................

writer:.anonymous.

Creative�Writing

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Believe�in�yourself….

in.the.power.you.have

to.control.your.own.life…

day.by.day

Believe.in.the.strength….

that.you.have

Deep.inside.and.your.faith…..

Will.help.show.you.the.way

Believe.in.tomorrow.and.what.it.will.bring…

.let.a.hopeful.heart.carry.you

through.for.things..will.work…

.out.if.you.trust

And.believe.that.there’s.no…

..limit.to.what.you.can.do!!!

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writer:.anonymous.

My�life�story�in�poetry

At.an.early.teenager.I.started.doing.things.that.big.

people.did.and.I.was.10.years.old.and.young,.fun,.

playing.with.guns,.women.and.their.bums..I.was.

smoking.mandrax;.daggah;.cigarettes.at.the.age.of.

thirteen.years.old,.breaking.in.houses..for.money..and.

gold..Entertained..my.friends.,.girls..except.my..family.

always.rebelled.against..the.people.who.cared..the.most.

and.when.I.was.in.trouble..they.holded.me.very.close

I.started.to.leave.the.bad.habits..for.3.,.4.years..till.I.

finished.matric.then.i.started.doing.drugs.again,..and.

change.my.lifestyle..bad.and..made.me.totally.sick.,went.

in.and.out.of.jail.time..and.time.now.again..,but.now.I.

would.like.to.change.my.life..and.make.new..and.better.

friends.

writer:.D.CARELSE

I’m�still�in�good�health.and.alive

Learning.the.hard.way.how.to.survive

Now.I’m.in.here.far.away.and.alone

I.do.miss.what.I.had

But.this.is.what.I.get.for.being.bad

I.feel.so.sad.to.realize.I.was.dumb

Now.I.think.of.you.all.the.time.mum?

You.were.always.there

and.you.still.show.me.how.much.you.care

writer:.M..Adams

Find�meaning�in�my�life

I.want.to.be.strong.so.that

Nothing.can.disturb.my.peace.of.mind,

Forget.mistake.of.the.past.&.press.on

to.the.Greater.achievement.of.the

Future

I.want.to.think.the.best,.work.for.the.best

and.expect.the.best

But.first.I.must.be.Enthusiastic.about

Others.success

As.I.can.about.my.own.

But.just.let.go.of.the.Bad

in.order.to.move

on.and.give.myself.permission

to.be.happy.to.Feel.Empathy.for.other

Person.and.to.wish.them.well.and.Best

that’s.when.you.feel.the.meaning.of.life.

Take.a.hold.and.let.

take.a.hold.and.let.the.message.grow

inside.of.you

Writer:.J.Peterson..

Life

Oh!.life.is.not.a.bed.of.roses

a.single.mistake.I.made.landed.me.in.prison

now.I.have.lost.everything.friends;.family.;.loved.ones

and.the.sweetness.of.life..and.a.reason.of.living

how.could.I.have.made.a.stupid.mistake.without.

thinking.now..I.have.to.spend.two.years.

and.a.half.of.my.life.prison.but.I.will.be.strong.and

stronger.for.my.family.

Know.I.well.face.hard.and.tough.times

but.I.will.overcome.and.prove.to.myself

and.family.that.I.can.change..and.will.change.

for.the.best.and.become.a.good.citizen.of.South.Africa

So.my.country.my.continent.and.the.world

will.be.proud.of.me.,.myself.…..

Writer:.S..Cornelius

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Hey.Walter,

I’m.Bati.but.my.full.name.is.Bathandwa..I.would.

prefer.if.you.would.call.me.“Bati”..I.reside.in.South.

Africa.if.you.didn’t.know.surely.you.do.because.

YiP.SA.is.based.in.SA..I’m.an.easy.going.kind.of.

a.person.who.likes.writing.and.reading..I’m.very.

good.when.I.have.to.express.my.in.writing.but.

that.doesn’t.mean.I.can’t.express.my.self.verbally..

I.was.born.in.Cape.Town.in.June.1989.and.I’ve.

been.to.prison.for.almost.three.times.but.I’m.on.

my.way.to.recovery.as.live.gone.back.to.adult.

based.education.school.at.night..I.do.more.of.the.

times.have.a.lot.of.fun..I.would.like.to.know.about.

you.more.and.I’m.trying.to.face.my.fears.and.my.

weaknesses.but.I’m.not.there.yet.but.I.will.get.there.

with.the.right.mindset.and.positive.attitude..I.have.

a.dream.that.by.next.year.I.should.atleast.have.

my.Matric.certificate.which.is.one.of.the.things.or.

one.of.my.goals.for.the.present.moment..I.can.be.

boring.at.times.if.you.would.be.where.I.am.now.and.

how.I.come.across.at.times..One.day.I.wish.to.have.

a.house.of.my.own.and.a.child.atleast..A.young.

girl.would.fullfill.my.dreams..I.look.forward.to.hear.

from.you.

Hey.Bati,

It.was.great.hearing.from.you..I.am.happy.to.finally.

meet.you..Chinwe.has.told.me.much.about.you..

I.was.in.prison.as.well,.as.I.am.sure.you.already.

know..I.only.went.to.prison.once,.and.I.was.there.

for.two.years..Now,.I.am.in.college,.pursing.a.

degree.in.exercise.physiology..Life.for.me.is.good..

In.the.USA,.it.is.hard.to.come.back.to.society.after.

you.have.been.to.prison.because.people.judge.you.

and.think.that.you.will.be.a.bad.person.forever..

That.is.something.I.have.to.live.with.everyday..

Through.school,.however,.I.am.able.to.prove.them.

wrong..At.one.time.in.my.life,.I.did.make.bad.

choices,.but.people.can.change.and.people.can.still.

do.well.when.they.have.done.bad.in.the.past..I.try.

my.best.prove.this.everyday..My.goal.is.to.graduate.

school.to.earn.a.PhD..Once.I.am.able.to.do.that,.I.

will.work.with.groups.that.advocate.for.the.welfare.

of.prisoners.and.education..Well,.thats.all.for.now..

It.was.great.to.hear.from.you..I’ll.talk.to.you.soon.

Best,

Walter

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Hi.Lamar!

It’s.good.to.hear.from.you!.Arlene.is.half.Chinese.and.half.

white..Aqsa.is.Pakistani..You.sound.like.you.enjoy.a.lot.of.

sports!.We.love.to.watch.soccer.and.tennis..We.both.find.

soccer.to.be.very.exciting!.We.have.a.friend.who.loves.to.play.

rugby,.even.though.she.is.very.small..Rugby.and.soccer.are.

not.as.popular.in.America.as.American.football..Arlene.also.

really.likes.watching.American.football.:-).

We.are.so.sorry.for.the.loss.of.your.good.friend.:-(

It.must.be.difficult.not.to.have.him.there.for.you..It’s.very.nice.

that.you.want.to.look.after.his.son!.Hopefully.one.day.you.will.

have.a.chance.to.tell.him.about.his.father.

We.both.have.older.sisters..They.are.both.22.years.old..Aqsa.

also.has.a.younger.sister..She.is.17.years.old..We.both.have.

very.good.relationships.with.our.sisters..Are.you.close.with.

your.sister?.We.also.miss.our.families,.but.they.visit.us.when.

they.have.time..We.especially.both.miss.our.moms..Does.your.

mom.and.your.sister.visit.you.often?.We’re.sorry.you.don’t.

have.a.relationships.with.your.father..Have.you.seen.him.since.

you.were.little?.Now.that.you.are.older,.maybe.you.will.be.able.

to.get.to.know.him.

Smoking.marijuana.is.illegal.in.America,.but.many.people.

smoke.it.anyways..In.America,.people.work.a.lot!.Many.

people.are.always.busy,.especially.in.Washington,.DC..We.

like.to.go.into.the.city,.and.we.like.to.study.outside..Arlene’s.

grandmother.also.makes.really.good.food,.like.homemade.

biscuits!.Both.of.us.like.to.eat.pizza.and.pasta..Arlene’s.

favorite.food.is.soup.and.mashed.potatoes..Aqsa.loves.to.eat.

Asian.curry!

What.is.your.favorite.food?.What.do.you.do.in.your.free.time?.

Have.you.always.lived.in.Cape.Town?.Do.you.have.any.favorite.

places.to.go?.Are.there.any.places.that.you.would.like.to.visit.

someday?.Maybe.one.day.you.will.get.to.visit.America!

We.hope.to.hear.from.you.soon!

-.Arlene.ans.Aqsa

Dear.Aqsa.and.Arlene,

Hi,.my.name.is.Lamar..I.am.from.Cape.

Town.and.I.am.20.years.old..I.don’t.work..I.

am.brown..I.like.to.shoot.pool,.play.soccer,.

play.rugby.and.I.like.to.swim..My.parents.

introduced.me.to.soccer..It.is.fun.and.it.

keeps.my.mind.on.good.stuff.not.bad.

stuff..I.like.that.rugby.is.a.rough.sport..My.

mother.taught.people.to.swim,.so.it.is.in.

my.family.

I.have.a.13-year-old.sister..She.is.going.

to.school..She.likes.going.and.I.miss.her.

a.lot..I.also.miss.my.mom.a.lot..She.likes.

working..I.don’t.have.a.relationship.with.

my.dad..I.was.1.when.he.went.to.prison..I.

would.like.to.build.a.relationship.with.him.

I.had.a.good.friend.who.was.like.a.father.

to.me,.he.was.shot.2.weeks.ago..I.miss.

him..I.would.like.to.look.after.his.son.one.

day.and.I.hope.he.rests.in.peace..I.also.

miss.my.grandmother.a.lot..I.miss.going.

to.church.with.her.and.I.miss.her.food,.

especially.the.muffins!.I.like.to.smoke.

marijuana..I.also.miss.my.girlfriend,.she.

is.19.years.old..She.turns.20.this.month!.I.

would.like.to.hear.back.from.you..How’s.it.

in.America..What.do.you.like.to.do?.What’s.

your.favorite.sport?.What.do.you.like.to.

eat?.You.should.come.to.South.Africa.one.

day!.Lamar

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Each.word.on.the.list.is.hidden.amongst.the.letters..

The.word.could.run.in.any.direction.even.backwards..

When.you.find.the.word.draw.a.line.across.the.word.

Mama. .Free. .Creativity. .Community..Dream. .Pure

Change.Ideal.LoveVictory.HappyTrust..

TeachFamily.CoachPower.Liberty.

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