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Page 1: Instant Stress-Bustersdhhr.wv.gov/bhhf/Documents/2013 IBHC Presentations... · Attitudes of a Stress-Buster •I know what I can and cannot control. •I focus on what I can control

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Instant Stress-Busters

Aila Accad, RN, MSN

AilaSpeaks.com

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What Stresses You?

T N OP

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Stress

ONE Cause

for

ALL Stress

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CONTROL

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One Principle

CONTROL Outside YOU

Inside YOU Total

Control

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© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Everything is Energy

• Albert Einstein

1920

• E = mc2

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© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Stress is Energy

Dis-Stress

Deteriorates

Eu-Stress

Energizes

CLUE

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Prevent Burnout

Change 1 Belief

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Perfect ___________

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Breaking the Perfection Myth

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Perfect ___________ 10

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

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Perfect ___________ 10

Should/Shouldn’t”

Parents, teachers, coaches

religious leaders, media….

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

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Perfect ___________ 10

Time

& Energy

Should/Shouldn’t”

Parents, teachers, coaches

religious leaders, media….

Zone of Failure ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

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Perfect ___________ 10

Time

& Energy

Should/Shouldn’t”

Parents, teachers, coaches

religious leaders, media….

Zone of Failure ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

AilaSpeaks.com

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Perfect ___________ 10

Time

& Energy

Should/Shouldn’t”

Parents, teachers, coaches

religious leaders, media….

Zone of Failure ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Scumbag (belief) © Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

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Perfect ___________ 10

Zone of Failure ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Scumbag (belief)

Marvelous

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Breaking the Perfection Myth

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Perfect _____________ 10

Zone of Failure

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Marvelous Talents, Gifts, Abilities, Affinities ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

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3 Clues to YOUniqueness

Story

Energy

Feedback

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Breaking the Perfection Myth

Perfect ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Experience

Skills (learn)

Marvelous Talents, Gifts, Abilities, Affinities ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

10

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Perfect _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Excellent ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Zone of Success (inside & out) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Time

& Energy Experience

Skills (learn)

Marvelous Talents, Gifts, Abilities, Affinities ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

10

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

AilaSpeaks.com

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Perfect _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

High Dis-Stress/Low Energy

Excellent ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Zone of Success (inside & out) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

High Eu-Stress/High Energy

Time

& Energy Experience

Skills (learn)

Marvelous Talents, Gifts, Abilities, Affinities _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

80%

20%

20%

80%

10

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

AilaSpeaks.com

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Perfect _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Excellent _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Zone of Success (inside & out) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

High Eu-Stress/High Energy Time

& Energy Experience

Skills (learn)

Marvelous Talents, Gifts, Abilities, Affinities ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

80%

20%

10

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Breaking the Perfection Myth

AilaSpeaks.com

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Body Tip #1 ~ Breathe

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

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Mind Tip #11 ~ Observe Your Mind

• Principle

What You Focus on Expands

• Action

Focus on what you Want

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• Principle

What You Resist Persists

• Action

Let Go Of Resistance

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

Mind Tip #11 ~ Observe Your Mind

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Emotions Tip #21 ~ Tap On It!

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Spirit Tip #28 ~ Connect with Your Vibes

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Attitudes of a Stress-Buster

• I know what I can and cannot control.

• I focus on what I can control.

• I let go of perfection.

• I take responsibility for excellence.

• I influence life by valuing myself.

• I have the power to care for my body.

• I have the power to focus my mind.

• I have the power to soothe my emotions.

• I have the power to connect my spirit.

• I am a powerful Stress-Buster!

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

AilaSpeaks.com

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Stop “Shoulding” on Yourself (Tip # 12)

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My Deepest Wish for YOU

Live

Stress Free!

© Aila Accad, RN, MSN

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