internet and facebook safety
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Ballwin Baptist Church's Parents Forum TopicTRANSCRIPT
Internet andFacebook Safety
My BackgroundExperienced computer user for 20+ yearsBachelors: Management Information SystemsComputer Systems Engineer for 14 yearsVolunteer youth worker for 10+ yearsLong time Christian
Safety Steps
CommunicateLear
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Be Involved
Learn
The good outweighs the bad
Sites to HelpOnguardOnline.gov
WiredSafety.org
Commonsense.com
Ncmec.org
TRUSTe.org
ConnectSafely.org
NetSmartz.org
WebWiseKids.org
IM ConcernsIf teens aren’t careful during the sign-up
process, they can reveal more than they should.
Easily accessible profiles can allow others to easily contact them.
Some IM programs offer users the option of joining in chats with strangers
The reach of IM can encourage gossiping and bullying
The 411…no need 2 LOLhttp://netling.comhttp://noslang.comhttp://acronymfinder.com
Computer Monitor SoftwareDifferent age level settingsFiltering and Blocking (incoming & outgoing)Time RestrictionsActivity Logging
http://monitoring-software-review.toptenreviews.com/
CommunicateInstall a sense of caution, not a sense of fearAsk questions, offer thoughtsAsk about their definition of privacyUnderstand their needsAgree on ground rules; set reasonable
expectationsListen more!
Age StandardsUnder 8: No need for IM or Facebook. In fact,
limit computer time.8-10: Pre-approved friends for IM only. No
Facebook11-12: Give a little more privacy but still IM
only with pre-approved13-15: Allow IM and Facebook but maintain
periodic checks16: You are done: Have they earned trust,
give more freedom. If not, lock it down. All bets are off.
Be InvolvedAll computer should be used out in the openParents need to be proficient You can’t teach or monitor what you don’t
understandWatch your child’s behavior towards others
as wellWatch out for “hidden” accountsDo periodic reviews
DemoFacebook
Account SafetyMake sure Profiles don’t have too much
personal informationYou should know ALL account names and
passwordsScreen names or other names should not
reveal ageTeach how to set strong passwords
Questions?