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What are we going to learn today?

Part 1 “WHAT”• What kids are doing online• Where technology is going• What to look for

Part 2 “HOW”• Practical filters• Monitoring applications• Common sence rules to put into place at

home

Q & A

Current Statistics• Teens spend about 5 hours a day online

• 15% have met up in person somebody they met online

• 17% have hacked into a friends social media account or email

• 25% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone

• 32% have accessed pornography online (purposely)

• Only 50% of kids have parental controls on their computers

• 70% of teens hide their online behavior from parents

• Parents MUST stay in the know. We can not give up!

4 Biblical Principles of Technology

1) Technology was created by God

4 Biblical Principles of Technology

1) Technology was created by God

2) Technology is not inherently evil

4 Biblical Principles of Technology

1) Technology was created by God

2) Technology is not inherently evil

3) Technology has many good uses

4 Biblical Principles of Technology

1) Technology was created by God

2) Technology is not inherently evil

3) Technology has many good uses

4) Technology can be abused by

sinners!

3 typical responses to technology

1) Accept ALL technology

2) Block ALL technology

3) Develop the Discipline of Discernment

Proverbs 22:6

“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it”

Part 1What in the world are my kids doing

online?

Social Networking

Social Networking

3 Rules for Social Networking

• Know the platform• Follow your child• Know their password

Social Networking

Instagram

• Turn off public sharing• Turn off GPS tagging• Talk about what they are posting• Follow their Instagram feed

Social Networking

Facebook and Twitter

Social Networking

Vine

• 6 seconds of looping video• Owned by Twitter• Easy to post & find porn on Vine

Social Networking

Social Media Clean up!•Talk to your child

•Google their name•Review all their profiles

•Help them remove unused profiles•Don’t forget the blogs…

Pornography

• 1 in 9 websites online are pornographic

• Put a filter program on ANY computer that your child will use.

Pornography

• Family Computer• Laptop• Cell phone• iPad / Tablet• Game console• Friends house

• Put a filter program on ANY device that your child will use, especially when they are young.

Pornography

• The average child accidentally stumbles onto pornographic website by age 12

• The time for the “new” pornography talk is BEFORE this happens, not after..

Anonymity

Secret

Whisper

Yik Yak

• 4 months old (March 2014)• Mostly east coast & Southern CA• 400,000 users• Cross / Twitter and SnapChat• Designed for college students• Completely anonymous• Share with 100 up to 10,000• a VIRTUAL bathroom wall

Online Predators

Secrecy is the predators greatest weapon

Communication is a parentsgreatest defense.

Online Predators

2 questions predators always ask

1) Where is your computer?2) Are you alone?

Online Predators

Catfishingsomeone who pretends to be someone they're not using Facebook or

other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances.

SextortionWhen a person uses guilt, power, or knowledge of certain secrecy, to

force another person into having sex or performing sexual favors. 

Cyber Bullying

Cyber Bullying

Rebecca Ann Sedwick12 Years old. Died from suicide 8/10/13

Cyber Bullying

Danger! Beware!

Completely Anonymous

Cyber Bullying1) Ask the tough uncomfortable questions!

Ask “What if…” questions.

2) Keep the laptop and cell phone out of the bedroom for as long as possible.

3) Look for the signs of bullying. Depression, excessive sleeping, complains of headaches / stomach aches.

4) Remove apps that are commonly used for bullying.

5) Look at your kids texts. Monitor their apps.

Cyber Bullying

Sexting

Definition…

Sending of sexually explicit photos or text through one’s mobile phone to friends or suitors.

Sexting

Hook up Apps

Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, Skout, and Swoon

Hook up Apps

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We are the first generation of parents that

have had to deal with the new phenomenon!

Colleges and employers are

looking!

Part 2How do I keep my kids

safe from the ever changing world of

technology!?!

Virus – Malware - Phishing

Virus – Malware - Phishing

KidZui

Passwords

The most common problem

Location….Location….Location…

Cell phones at night…

Cell phones at night…

Zip Mini

thejoyfactory.comKeyword: integrity

Cell phones at night…

Scott’s low cost budget version…..

The iBasket

Contracts!

• Cell phone contract• www.iccguru.com/cellphonecontract.doc

• Computer Contract• www.iccguru.com/computercontract.doc

Software you can use to keep your

kids safe

Google and YouTube

• Google’s “Safe Search”

Google and YouTube

• YouTube’s “Safety Mode”

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• Set internet usage rules• Disable ALL internet on phone• See list of currently installed apps• See internet usage per app• Weekly reports, emailed• http://curbi.com/c/iccguru

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Scott’s Final Tips

1)Educate yourselves on social

media whenever possible

2)Know the log-ins of all your

children's accounts

3) Remove technology at bedtime

4)Talk about consequences of social

media

5)Consider some monitoring

software

Connect with your KIDS