interpersonal conflict
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Interpersonal Conflict. Wimot & Hocker. Chapter overview. Why study conflict? Definition of conflict Scares resources Personal history Three categorize of family conflict behaviors The Lens model. Why study conflict? . - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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Interpersonal ConflictWimot & Hocker
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Chapter overviewWhy study conflict? Definition of conflictScares resourcesPersonal historyThree categorize of family conflict
behaviors The Lens model
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Why study conflict? “The study of conflict is a basic human requirement and the practice of constructive conflict is an essential set of interpersonal skills.”Conflict can help maintain and understand one’s own interpersonal relationships
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Conflict defined Conflict is an expressed struggle between two or more interdependent parties. Conflict has perceived incongruent goalsConflict can be a struggle for scares resources In conflict, individuals perceive other as a road bock to attain their own goals.
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Examples of scares recourses
MoneyTimeAffectionAttention
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Personal History"History never repeats itself ,as most people fear. People usually repeat history.“ – Divine Chikobvu
How a person deals with history can be tied to their own families history with conflict
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The three categorize of family origin
Avoidant families Collaborative families Aggressive families
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Rules of an Avoidant family
Family doesn’t recognize conflictWalks away when conflict arises Doesn’t allow expressions of strong feelingsDoesn’t acknowledge struggle
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Rules of Collaborative families
Have family meetings or meal time discussions Say openly what they are feelingParents help resolve children’s conflictsStrong feelings are normal and allowed
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Rules of Aggressive Families
Survival of the fittest describes the general climateBe brutally honest regardless of impact People who don’t engage are weak Have an audience present when you engage someone
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The Lens Model of conflict
Conflict can be viewed like lenses through glasses.The fundamental aspects in the lens model are 1) communication behaviors 2) the perceptions of those behaviors Individuals may have different perspectives of the same behaviors. Each person may have a different view of…
OneselfThe other personThe relationship
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Two people in conflict can have different
perspectives on the same conflict
Notice how the two characters perceive the odds differently http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX5jNnDMfxA
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Bibliography Hocker, Joyce. Wilmot, William. “ Interpersonal Conflict”. McGrawHill. Boston. 2007.