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INTERPERSONAL DEPENDENCE
AND PATHOLOGICAL BONDING
PATTERNS (ID - PBP)
Workshop
Nederland, 2014
Arun S Mansukhani. PsyD. EMDR Consultant . IASP. Málaga, Spain
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ID (and PBP) is a major social and clinical problem:
– Underlying feature or comorbid in most emotional and mental disorders. Related to all five major symptomps clusters in psycho-emotional disorders (S-Seglert, 2006).
– Great subjective suffering in people messed up in disruptive relations and others that have given up on having a (healthy) relationship.
– Directly related to major social problems as gender and domestic violence, including suicides and homicides.
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High number of direct
and indirect cases
Major soc. & clinical
problem
ID+PBP is overlooked and remains unattended
in most cases
Lack of integrative models to assess and treat PBP
ID + PBP
UNTREATED UNDERDIAGNOSED
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Some typically
overlooked cases: • People who exhibit ID-PBP problems in any
type of interpersonal relationships (not only significant) but have made this symptoms ego-sintonic and don’t detect nor refer them.
• People who only show ID-PBP problems in significant inter-personal relationships and are stable when not in a couple.
• People who only show ID-PBP problems only in a particular type of significant relationships, frequently have chosen partners that have compatible ID-PBP features. (V: LS-1)
• The avoidante types.
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Major types of patients
• Type 1: Symptomatic patiens (mainly Axis
I features).
• Type 2: Chaotic patients (mainly Axis II
features; frequently PDNOS or BPD).
• Type 3: Stable (seemingly) unsymptomatic
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Major types of patients
Type 1: Symptomatic patiens : Axis I Symptomps
Dual attention easily
Type 2: Chaotic patients : BPD -PDNOS
Difficulties staying present:
Frequent abreactions (hyperactive dissociation)
Type 3: Stable unsymptomatic patients: no D-OCPD-APD
Difficulties conecting with past/sensations:
Frequent numbness or sleep or “getting off” (hypoactive dissociation)
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(V: DS-1)
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1. ID and PBP?
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Independence
Healthy dependence
(Healthy bonding patterns)
in adults
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Healthy dependence
(Healthy bonding patterns)
in adults
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Self-depend (auto-regulate + safe)
+
Inter-depend (co-regulate + trust)
=
Horizontal Relationship
(Reciprocal regulation; Cooperation and Reciprocity)
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“People think that to love is
easy and that the difficult
task is to find and
apropriate obejct to love…
Nevertheless, all intents of
loving will be condemed
until the person doesn’t
develop a complete and
mature personality… A
culture in which these
qualities are rare, the
capacity to love will be rare
too”.
Erich
Fromm
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2. Diagnosis
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When do ID and BP become
pathological?
A persistent pattern or tendency:
-To have a number of conflictive interpersonal
relationships adopting submissive, dominant or
avoidant (manifest or emotional) patterns in
their various forms.
-Forsake having a partner or interpersonal
relationships through manifest or emotional
avoidance.
-To feel that our emotional needs are not being
fulfilled in the relationship with significant others
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PBP - Characteristics.
-Emotional de-regulation:
-Frequent hyper o hypo arousal.
-External regulation: excessive need of co-
(fusion) or auto- (separation)
-Deregulation of self:
-Externally cued sense of identity.
-Fragile and changing self esteem.
-Difficulty maintaining sense of self
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-Interpersonal-Behavioral deregulation:
-Difficulty managing self needs and others
needs. Difficulty establishing limits.
-Pathological bonding patterns: clinging or
avoidant.
-Need to control partners behavior: direct or
indirect means, due to fear.
-Need to harm (emotionally or physically).
PBP - Characteristics
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PBP-Types & Subtypes
SUBMISSIVE
(Anxiety/Frustration)
DOMINANT
(Fear/Anger)
AVOIDANT
(Sadness/Distrust)
Pleasing
Helpless
*Oscilatting
Agresive
Pasive-Agresive
*Carer-Codependent (Inverse Dep.)
Manifest
Emotional
*Suspicious/Seductive
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PBP – Who links with who?
Submissive pleasing
Submissive helpless
Oscillating
Domintant Aggressive
Passive-Aggresive
Carer
Avoidant manifest
Avoidant emotional
Avoidant Seductive
Submissive pleasing
Submissive helpless
Oscillating
Domintant Aggressive
Passive-Aggresive
Carer
Avoidant manifest
Avoidant emotional
Avoidant Seductive
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Healthy dependence
(Healthy bonding patterns)
in adults
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Self-depend (auto-regulate + safe)
+
Inter-depend (co-regulate + trust)
=
Horizontal Relationship
(Reciprocal regulation; Cooperation and Reciprocity)
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Healthy dependence
(Healthy bonding patterns)
in adults
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Self-depend (auto-regulate + safe)
+
Inter-depend (co-regulate + trust)
=
Horizontal Relationship
(Reciprocal regulation; Cooperation and Reciprocity)
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Variables that underly BP
SECURITY
Security (trust)
Vs.
Fear (distrust)
SELF REGULATION
Auto-Regulation
Vs.
Co-Regulation
Myers 1940, Van der Hart 2006, 2010,
Panksepp 1998. Porges 1995, 1998
,
Tronic (1989), Sroufe 1995, Schore
2000, 2013.
Gerzon 1998, Sanz 2007
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Variables that underly PBP
AUTO
REGULT. CO
REGULT.
SECURITY
(TRUST)
FEAR
(DISTRUST)
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SECURE
FEARFUL
Bonding patterns
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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Bonding patterns
SECURE
FEARFUL
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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PBP-Types & Subtypes
SUBMISSIVE
(Anxiety/Frustration)
DOMINANT
(Fear/Anger)
AVOIDANT
(Sadness/Distrust)
Pleasing
Helpless
*Oscilatting
Agresive
Pasive-Agresive
*Carer-Codependent (Inverse Dep.)
Manifest
Emotional
*Suspicious/Seductive
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3. Treatment:
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• Prerequisites:
• Attachment
• Dissociation
• Pharmacological
• Phased Treatment Plan
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Treatment prerequisites
ATTACHMENT
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THE NATURE OF THE CHILD'S
TIE TO HIS MOTHER1 By
JOHN BOWLBY, LONDON 1. An abbreviated version of this paper was read before the British
Psycho-Analytical Society on 19th June, 1957.
2. Although in this paper I shall usually refer to mothers and not
mother-figures, it is to be understood that in every case I am concerned
with the person who mothers the child and to whom it
becomes attached rather than to the natural mother.
The Nature of Love Harry F. Harlow (1958)[1]
University of Wisconsin
First published in American Psychologist, 13, 673-685
Address of the President at the sixty-sixth Annual Convention of the
American Psychological Association, Washington, D. C., August 31, 1958.
First published in American Psychologist, 13, 573-685.
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http://psychclassics.yorku.ca/Harlow/love.htm
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Attachment
• Primary dyadic bond between babies and their caretakers.
• One of the behavioral control systems (also action-motivation systems).
• A child can have different attachment bonds with different people, but needs at least one for a healthy developement.
• Each person developes an attachment style that influences how he relates to himself and others and what outcomes will occur in relationships
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“The infant and young child should
experience a warm, intimate and
continuous relationship with his mother (or
permanent mother substitute) in which
both find satisfaction and enjoyment [and if
this should not occur] will result in sever
anxiety conditions and psychopatic
personality”
Bowlby, 1951 Maternal care and mental health
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Attachment bond
Defining aspects
1. Proximity seeking. Availability
2. Separation anxiety-Attachment cry.
3. Safe Haven.
4. Secure Base.
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Mary Ainsworth
-Strange Situation Procedure
-Convirts Attachment into a dimensional and interactive
variable (grades of emotional availability). Identifies:
•Secure Attachment
•Insecure attachment (divided into avoidant and
anxious ambivalent).
Mary Main
-Identifies Disorganized attachment
-Designs AAI.
-Extends attachment studies to adults.
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SECURE AVOIDANT ANXIOUS DISORGANIZED
Attachment Types
(Ainsworth-Main classification)
A B C D AUTONOMOUS DISMISSIVE PREOCCUPIED UNRESOLVED
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Attachment Types
SECURE
INSECURE
Organized
Disorganized
Hostile/Intrusv
Fearful
Hyper-activating
(Anx-Resistant)
De-activating
(An-Avoidant)
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"Attachment theory regards the
propensity to make intimate emotional
bonds to particular individuals as a
basic component of human nature,
already present in germinal form in the
neonate and continuing through adult
life into old age."
Bowlby, 1988. A secure base.
“There is a strong continuity
between infant attachment
patterns, adolescent patterns
and adult attachment
patterns"
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Secure
Autonomous
Dismissing
Deactivating
Preoccupied
Hyperactivating
Unresolved
Disorganized
• Secure-Autonomous (S2-F2)
• Somewhat dismissing (S1-F1)
• Somewhat preoccupied (S3-F3)
• Earned Secure (S4-F5)
• Inatentive (D1)
• Devaluating-Dismissing (D2)
• Restricted in feeling (D3)
• Fearful (D4)
• Passive-Submissive (E1) • Angry (E2)
• Enmeshed (E3)
• Controlling-Caretaking
• Hostile-Intrusive.
• Afraid.
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Secure Attachment 1
(Parents)
• Positive affect (state of mind) towards
child
• Attention: Mindsight.
• Cooperatión (vs Interference).
• Availability and Continuity (Secure Base)
• Predictibility.
• Acceptance of the child’s needs.
• Mentalising Capacity (Fonagy & Steele)
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Autonomous Attachment
(Adults) • Coherent narrative, explains largely, enters in
details. Not polarised. Realistic.
• Wide range of IWM of attachment. Flexible.
• Distinguishes healthy relationships
• Values positive interactions.
• Is cooperative and also self-protective
• Has in intuitive understanding of attachment:
considers attachment bonds very important.
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Dismissing (Avoidant)
Attachment Avoidant parents or too intrusive
• Don’t give much details about childhood. Define childhoo as “good” or “excellent”
• Don’t see adults as regulating and comforting.
• Self-reliant. Good social analysis capacity.
• Covert or manifest hostility towards equals.
• Restricted emotional expression.
• Intimacy avoidant strategies.
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Anxious-Resistant Attachment
Caregivers with selective and biased attention patterns. Self-centered or centered on their emotion.
• Gives a lot of details. Defines childhood as good but then enters into contradictions
• High emotion expression.
• Frequently express dependency overt patterns.
• Difficulties self-regulating. .
• Insecure. Low self-esteem
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Disorganized Attachment
Fearsome or fearful caregivers.
• Very few memories. Disorgranized tales. May fabulate.
• No sense of security.
• Emotional swings.
• Contradictory behaviour.
• Impulsive.
• Difficulties with sefl-regulation.
• Bizarre behaviour: fearsome or fearful.
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SECURE AVOIDANT ANXIOUS DISORGANIZED
Attachment Types
(Ainsworth-Main classification)
A B C D AUTONOMOUS DISMISSIVE PREOCCUPIED UNRESOLVED
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SECURE AVOIDANT ANXIOUS DISORGANIZED
Attachment
Types
A B C D
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SECURE
FEARFUL
Bonding patterns
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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Transition from:
CHILD
ATTACHMENT
PATTERNS
ADULT
ATTACHMENT
STYLES
ADULT-CHILD
ATTACHMENT
RECIPROCAL
ATTACHMENT
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ATTACHMENT THROUGH
LIFE-SPAN • 0-6 MONTHS: Dual
Primary Attachment (Crow & Randolph, 2005).
• 6 M onwards: – Primary attachment
figures as agents too.
– Secondary attachment figures: elder siblings, grandmothers, grandfathers, pets, others (teachers, therapists).
• 2-3 years: growing
independence
• Adolescence: peer
group and first
romantic relations.
• Adulthood:
– Recirprocal
attachment to adults
– Children
– Resolved previous
attachments
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CORTICAL
Meaning making and intersubjectivity
LIMBICAL
Attachment
(Care-seek)
Care-give
Social Rank
(Dom/Sub)
Cooperation
Affiliation
to social
groups
Sexual
Bonding
BRAIN ST.
Defense
Homeostati
c systems
Predatory
aggression
Exploration
Territory
Primordial
Sexuality
Liotti 2014
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Behavioral (action-motivation) systems
Attachment
Social Ranking
Affiliation
Exploration
Defense
Sexuality
Adult (care-giving)
Child (care-seeking)
Dominance
Submission
Cooperation
Social play
Exploration
Fight/Flight
Freeze/Feigned death
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SECURE
INSECURE
Organized
Insecure
DISORGANIZED
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ATTACHMENT
BEHAVIOR
GOAL
To activate the care-
taking system in
the adult
Creating an atenttive
and positive state
of mind in the adult
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SECURE
INSECURE
Organized
INSECURE
DisOrganized
CONTROLLING
STRATEGIES
“The activation of
alternative
behavioral
(motivational)
systems to maintain
closeness (sense of
security) that
hampers high
dysregulation that
leads to frank
disorganization.”
*Hilburn-Cobb 2004.
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• Controlling punitive (domineering strategies)
• Controlling caregiving (inverted attachment)
Lyons-Ruth and Jacobwitz, 2008
• Controlling submissive.
• Sexualized behaviour.
Liotti 2014
• Instrumental supplies for protection and comfort. Others as “agents”.
Hilburn-Cobb 2014
“...as maturation proceeds, felt security can be obtained
through the operations of many other behavioural systems
besides attachment”. Mary Ainsworth 1990.
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The search for Regulation (Crow and Randolph, 2005)
• Love, Affection.
• Care, Protection.
• Appreciation, Recognition.
• Admiration
• Control
• Cause Fear.
Needs Hierarchy
(Maslow, 2006)
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SECURE
INSECURE
Organized
INSECURE
DISORGANIZED
CONTROLLING
STRATEGIES
“The collapse of the
controlling strategies
lead to DTD and
Complex PTSD
and, with later
cumulative traumas,
to Dissociation”
*Liottti 2014.
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•Disorganized attachment (DA)
predicts dissociation as it activates
attachment and defense systems
simultaneously (Liotti, 2014)
• Infant DA predisposes to dissociation in
later years (Ogawa et al., 1997)
• Relational processes play a key role in
dissociation (Lyons-Ruth, 2003).
• Infant DA is by far a much more powerful
predictor of dissociation than later trauma
(Dutra et al, 2009)
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Treatment prerequisites
DISSOCIATION
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“Adult personality, as we know it in us and
our neighbours, is the result of a process
of integration” William McDougall (1926)
– Adult integrated personality is a construction.
– We have to have integrated diverse negative
experiences during our life.
– When don’t manage this, ir results in
dissociation.
– Unresolved attachment is cause of
dissociation.
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Different parts of the self have:
• Different ideas about me and the world
(Nijenhuis 2008)
• Different needs
• Different functions
• Different action tendencies
And we can add:
Different attachment styles!
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SECURE
FEARFUL
Bonding patterns
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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SOCIAL P (ANP)
CHILD AVOIDANT P
(EP)
CHILD BONDING P
(EP)
FEARFUL OR DESTRUCTIVE (EP)
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SECURE
FEARFUL
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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Parts Adult Parts (ANP)
Child anxious-avoidant parts (EP)
Child afraid-agressive parts
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PBP-Types & Subtypes
SUBMISSIVE
(Anxiety)
DOMINANT
(Fear/Anger)
AVOIDANT
(Sadness/Empty)
Pleasing
Helpless
*Oscilatting
Agresive
Pasive-Agresive
*Carer-Codependent (Inverse Dep.)
Manifest
Emotional
*Suspicious/Seductive
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SECURE
FEARFUL
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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Parts P. Adulta
P. Infantiles Ansiedad (protec/retraim)
P. Infantiles Enfadadas-Temerosas.
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SECURE
FEARFUL
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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Parts P. Adulta
P. Infantiles Ansiedad (protec/retraim)
P. Infantiles Enfadadas-Temerosas.
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SECURE
FEARFUL
AUTO
REGULT.
CO
REGULT.
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Parts P. Adulta
P. Infantiles Ansiedad (protec/retraim)
P. Infantiles Enfadadas-Temerosas.
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Treatment Phased
PLAN
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PHARMACOLOGICAL TREAT.
*Cabello-Santamaría, 2013
SSRI: Paroxetine, 20-40 mg/d
TCA: Chlorimipramine: 25-150 mg/d
Propanolol (40 mg x 3)
Topiramate (25-200)
Lamotrigine (25-200)
Sulpiride
Quetiapine
Aripirazol
Risperidone (1 mg)
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Treatment – Basic Assumptions -Pathology expresses itself in intimacy relationships.
-Rigid interaction patterns reflect and create absorbing emotional states, due to neuroendocrine response patterns linked to the activation of behavioral systems.
-For many patients, the external world is suffused with the feelings belonging to the inner world (Fonagy and Target’s, 1997).
-Psychopathology is seen in terms of the persistence into adult life of earlier response patterns (Fonagy et al 2002) the activation of different behavioral systems simultaneously.
-There’s a high risk of decompensation and, therefore, retraumatization.
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Treatment – Basic Assumptions -Emotions (states) are the center of change.
-People cope as optimally as they can, given their current circumstances and life history.
-Change involves a new undertsanding and experience of the self, of the other and the interaction.
-Therapy should be based on a solid and safe relationship that respects limits and is predictable. Many times, this will be the first healthy relationships the patient has experienced in his/her life.
-Work with subtlety and finesse (Janet), gradually helping the patients to expose themselves to manageable bits of disturbance and discomfort, specially with the most avoidant patients.
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Treatment – Therapeutic Relationship
-Therapy is an “in vitro experiment in intimacy” (Holmes J, 2010). Intimacy is the core of problems of these patients. So:
-Conflicts are the norm, not the exception, in these cases, as patient and therapist encact emotional scenarios from his (patient’s) past.
Schore (2003): “The greatest challenge facing the therapist is the skillful managemente of enactments that often put the trerapist on the defensive evoke boredom, irritation, anger and hostility and in other respects put pressure on the therapist to behave in ways that are indompatible with empathic listening”.
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-As an attachment figure must have worked on his/her attachment history and be able to interact safely and securely (Earned Secure Attachment, Mayn & Goldwyn, 1984; Hess 2008).
-As a interactive co-regulator should have the capacity of being in relational mindfulness
-Has to enter (and therefore validate) the clients’s worldview before challenging it. This implies understanding the patients bonding patterns and respecting them and accepting all parts, specially the “inner monsters”.
-Be sure that the past that is being re-created is not his (therapists) but the patients.
-Understand that conflicts in therapy, when correctly managed and interpreted, are the begining of therapeutic change.
Treatment – The therapist
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Reminder of EMDR basics
• Image
• Cognition
• Emotion
• SUD
• Body Sensation
• Right Hemisphere
• Left Hemisphere
• Limbic System and
ANS
• Brainstem and ANS
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DUAL FOCUS
Present
Past
Cognitive (adult)
Emotion+Sensation
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When to do EMDR
In each session:
• Emotional impact has
been felt. There is no
numbness.
• It’s being articulated
• The person can stay
present with it.
Solomon, 2013
In therapy:
• Stability (stabilized or
has resources or
prepared to de-
stabilize).
• Security
• Understanding
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Major types of patients
Type 1: Symptomatic patiens : Axis I Symptomps
Dual attention easily
Type 2: Chaotic patients : BPD -PDNOS
Difficulties staying present:
Frequent abreactions (hyperactive dissociation)
Type 3: Stable unsymptomatic patients: no D-OCPD-APD
Difficulties conecting with past/sensations:
Frequent numbness or sleep or “getting off” (hypoactive dissociation)
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EMDR and Attachment Trauma
• Patients are mind-blind to their unresolved
attachment issues (Siegel, 2012). Including therapists.
• A lot of mentalising work to be done all along.
• Targets are not clear in initial therapy. Frequently new targets will appear during sessions, only when AS is activated.
• Images won’t come or will take long to come. Cognitions and body sensations help conect and lead the processing.
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EMDR and Attachment Trauma
(cont.) • Targets appear in a hierarchical way (from
less to more important; i.e: school or
situations where the person felt insecure).
• Frequent use of symbolic images (face of
mother, inner child, etc.) and imagined
situations that allow to activate the AS.
• Frequent projection: children, children on
TV, pets, etc.)
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EMDR and Attachment Trauma
(cont.) • Hypoactivation is linked to feeling of helplessness
• Dissociation is central even in not overtly dissociated patients (normally partial dissociations). Integration is progressive.
• Hypoactivation defences (dissociation) is more frequent than hyperactivation defences and is more difficult to notice, even by the patients. It will frequently seem that nothing is happening or the person is bored ant tired, etc.
• Initially negative emotions may appear with positive or neutral face/body language, disguising the feeling.
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Phased Treatment
0. Reception:
– Tune one’s interaction to the attachment mode of the patient.
– Accept all parts, specially the “inner monsters”.
– Create a space of acceptance and calm from which exploration is possible and not fearful.
*With Avoidant/dismissive patients, help them to • Understand that the therapist is not going to be
invasive or manipulative.
• Be aware of their comfort zone and non-comfort zones
• To start understanding the reason behing extreme experiential avoidance (Hayes et al, 1996).
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1. De-scalation and stabilization:
– Restore security: help understand and deal with the negative interaction cycle: • Initial self regulation techniques: window of tolerance.
• Start using parts language.
– Initial objective: conflict reduction.
– Relapse prevention/prescription: a chance to observe interaction and what failed. Before, during and after.
– Start differentiating correct responses from wrong ones.
Phased Treatment
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Conflict cycle
Honeymoon
Crisis
Acumulation tension
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2. Detect, understand and correct personal traits in safety and self regulation (underlying variables)
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AUTO
REGULT. CO
REGULT.
SECURITY
(TRUST)
FEAR
(DISTRUST)
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Phased Treatment
3. Endue and strengthen resources.
– Self-care abilities: Learn how to listen, respect and cover needs. (starting fr. homeostasic).
– Create rutines and structures.
– Initiate pleasurable activities: hedonic and eudaimonic.
– Strengthen ANP. Work with the Inner child
– Learn to regulate energy levels (even in sessions).
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4. Solve current interaction and intimacy problems
– Work on limits.
– Comunication and interaction styles. Window of tolerance.
– Understand interactive and co-regulation.
– Understand dependence and it’s cycles.
– Solve specific couple therapy problems.
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5. Work with parts: *Mosquera & González, 2012
– Co-conscienceness. Internal and external interaction types. Internal cooperation
– Understanding the needs of all parts.
– Phobia reduction. Acceptance of parts. Integration.
Phased Treatment
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6. Analyze attachment patterns, and when and how they were formed.
– Progressive insights about attachment history
– Attachment styles of parents and relevant attachment figures. Combined effect.
– The role adopted in interaction with attachment figures.
– Mourning of the idealized family (Jung, 1967)
7. Learn healthy bonding patterns: – Capacity to self-regulate and co-regulate.
– Heal past relations.
– Generalize to other relations. Future relations
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