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Japanese Culture 101: Why Japanese and Americans Seem Rude to Each Other Darien Reinman

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Japanese Culture 101: Why Japanese and

Americans Seem Rude to Each Other

Darien Reinman

 

Japanese Culture 101: Why Japanese and

Americans Seem Rude to Each Other

Darien Reinman

 

Japanese Culture 101: Why Japanese and

Americans Seem Rude to Each Other

Darien Reinman

 

Japanese Culture 101: Why Japanese and

Americans Seem Rude to Each Other

Darien Reinman

 

My Connection with Japan

Darien Reinman

 

My Connection with Japan

Darien Reinman

 

Culture Shock!!

• Differences in the Japanese and Americans think

• Differences in the way Japanese and Americans view life

• Differences in the Japanese and Americans think

• Differences in the way Japanese and Americans view life

• the way we do business• the way we make friends• the way we discipline our kids• the way we joke• the way we communicate with each

other

• the way we do business• the way we make friends• the way we discipline our kids• the way we joke• the way we communicate with each

other

Why? Why?

Why?

Communication Breakdown

Why?Why? Why?

Why?

Polite FictionsNancy SakamotoReiko Naotsuka

Polite FictionsNancy SakamotoReiko Naotsuka

What is a “polite fiction”?

…a certain fiction that is acted out for the sake of being polite—regardless

of the facts

What is a “polite fiction”?

…a certain fiction that is acted out for the sake of being polite—regardless

of the facts

Japanese and American SHARED polite fiction:

“You and I like each other.”

Japanese and American SHARED polite fiction:

“You and I like each other.”

Japanese and American DIFFERING Polite Fictions

Japanese and American DIFFERING Polite Fictions

MOST FUNDAMENTALAmerican POLITE FICTION:

“You and I are equals.”

VS.

Japanese POLITE FICTION:

“You are my superior.”

MOST FUNDAMENTALAmerican POLITE FICTION:

“You and I are equals.”

VS.

Japanese POLITE FICTION:

“You are my superior.”

FUNDAMENTAL American Polite Fiction:

“You and I are equals.”

FUNDAMENTAL American Polite Fiction:

“You and I are equals.”

• KEIGO – honorific language or parts of speech which show respect to the listener

Keigo is used to:• emphasize social distance• show disparity of rank• emphasize social intimacy• show similarity in rank

• KEIGO – honorific language or parts of speech which show respect to the listener

Keigo is used to:• emphasize social distance• show disparity of rank• emphasize social intimacy• show similarity in rank

American Polite Fiction:

“You and I are equals.”

American Polite Fiction:

“You and I are equals.”

On opposite ends!!

Japanese Polite Fiction:

Happy New Year!今年もよろしくお願いします。

Happy New Year!今年もよろしくお願いします。

• Best Wishes!• God’s Best in the New Year!

• Please continue to help me this year??

• Best Wishes!• God’s Best in the New Year!

• Please continue to help me this year??

出る杭は打たれる。 The nail that sticks out gets hammered down.

出る杭は打たれる。 The nail that sticks out gets hammered down.

Difference in culture is to be enjoyed and

celebrated!!

Difference in culture is to be enjoyed and

celebrated!!