khmer and tajik wedding
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PREPARED BY:SHAKHZODA KHAMIDOVA
LIMHAY CHHUM
CAMBODIA AND TAJIKISTAN
Wedding Ceremony
o IS MARRIED IS IMPORTANT?
o HISTORY OF KHMER WEDDING
o BEFORE WEDDING
o WEDDING CEREMONY
1ST DAY OF WEDDING
2ND DAY OF WEDDING
3RD DAY OF WEDDING
o WEDDING LAW IN CAMBODIA
o SOCIAL ISSUE
o TAJIK TRADITIONAL WEDDING
COURTSHIP
ENGAGEMENT ( FOTIKHA)
OSHI NAHOR
CHOY GASHTAK
NIKAH
o WEDDING CEREMONY
POST-WEDDING RITUAL
o WEDDING LAW IN TAJIKISTAN
o SOCIAL ISSUE
CONTENT:
IS IT MARRIED IMPORTANT?
.Let’s everyone knows we have a family now
.To be legal in the social
.It is the culture that we have to follow
BRIEFLY ON KHMER WEDDING HISTORY
. Since the 1st century when Indian king came to married with Khmer king
. Preah Thoang Toang Sbai Neang Neak
Before WeddingChe Chov’s Ceremony: (ពិ� ធី� ចែ��� វ )
. To ask permission from Girl ’s family. 3 t imes to ask permission. In the last round, gir l decide to be OK Or បើ�� កជបើ��� រ បើ�ងផ្ទះ� and we cal led “Sy Sla Dork”ស៊ី��ស្លា� ដក�
Areca is very important in each Che Chov
Engagement Ceremony1st Round: 3 women from boy’s side go to girl’s house2nd Round: those 3 women still go and girl’s side
still ignore ( ស៊ី��ស្លា� កន្�ង)3rd Round: girl decide to be OK and both family want them to meet face to face ( ស៊ី��ស្លា� ភ្ជា� ��ពាក�)Neak Plov Chao Maha ( For boy’s side )(អ្ន�កផ្ទះ��វបើ�មហា)Me’Ba ( For girl’s side ) បើមបា
Choun Kam’Not Ceremonyពិ#ធី�ជ�ន្ក%�ត់�
Boy’s side have to choose the date of the wedding
They believe that choosing the right date will let the new couple lucky
On wedding ceremony day1st Day : Wedding Hall CeremonyGroom has to build the hall in front of Bride’s houseThere are 3 different Halls: Chef Hall Eating Hall Areca Hall
2nd Day: Th’ngay Sy Kam’Not ថ្�ស៊ី��ក%�ត់�
The groom’s processional ceremony: Groom and guest
have to walk on the road in order to get inside the Areca Hall
Hair cutting/Cleansing Ceremonyពិ�ធី�កាត់�សក់�Keep the hair in banana leaf and
throw it away because they think all badness will go with it
Saen Krong Pea Leaពិ#ធី�សែស៊ីន្ក�ងពាលី�
To let the god knows that, There is a new couple so God will praised and acceptThere are also have Sot Mun ceremony which provide the Couple good luck and prosperous by Magic Water
Wedding PARTY
Article 5: men have to be 20 and women have to be 18. Article 16: no discrimination on religion, Nationality, and Skin.
Article 23: Parents cannot force their children to accept a marriage without his/her decision.
Wedding LAW in Cambodia
TOO late to read
SOCIAL ISSUE: Rural Area:
Girl: 18-22 lack of knowledge, they think wedding at young is good especially they can have many children to do their job
Urban City:Boy: 24-27 think a lot about financial and they think at the old age both of them have enough ability to run a family
Everybody wants to be like this
•TAJIK WEDDING - A WHOLE RANGE OF
CUSTOMS, RITUALS AND CEREMONIES, THE GENESIS OF WHICH IS ASSOCIATED WITH VARIOUS HISTORICAL
EPOCHS. WEDDING INCLUDES ALL THE ORIGINALITY OF RITUAL SYMBOLISM.
WHY DO PEOPLE MARRY?
BUILD A FAMILY THAT RECOGNIZE BY LAW, CUSTOM, AND SOCIETY
• BECOME INDEPENDENT
• CONTINUE NEXT GENERATIONS
• HAVE PARTNER
• OFFER LOVE, HAPPINESS, AND SAFETY TO SPOUSE
AGE
•MALE – 22 – 28
• FEMALE – 18 – 23
THE YOUNGER GIRL, THE MARRIAGE WILL BE MORE SUCCESSFUL.
POORNESS
LOVE
FEAR OF BEING ALONE
Why do people marry early?
• NUMBER OF GUESTS MUST NOT EXCEED 200 PEOPLE, AND THE COST OF THE EVENT SHOULD BE IN THE
RANGE OF 2-3 THOUSAND SOMONI (TAJIK CURRENCY). WEDDINGS MUST NOW BE CARRIED OUT ONLY ON
WEEKENDS.
• IN RURAL AREA: MOST OF THE GIRLS GET MARRY AT VERY YOUNG AGE ABOUT 15 – 17
• IN URBAN AREA: BOTH MEN AND WOMEN, THEY PRETEND TO HAVE HIGHER EDUCATION
COURTSHIP
•FORMAL MEETING OF YOUNG OCCURS,
THEIR FAMILIES ASSIGNED ENGAGEMENT
DAY AND NEGOTIATED RESOLUTION DOWRY.
•THE FIRST TAJIKS CEREMONY ASSOCIATED
WITH MARRIAGE.
ENGAGEMENT
• IN 10 DAYS OR A MONTH AFTER THE
COURTSHIP.
•ALL THE GUESTS WERE TOLD THAT THE GIRL
HAD BEEN MARRIED OFF.
•RESPECTED PERSON PRAYED FOR THE
HAPPINESS OF THE GROOM AND THE BRIDE.
•FOTIKHA ("OPENING", "BEGINNING")
OSHI NAHOR
•COOKING TRADITIONAL MEAL - OSH.
•MEN CAN COME TO THIS RITUAL AND EARLY IN THE MORNING.
•MULLO, HAS TO PRAY FOR THE HAPPINESS OF THE GROOM AND THE BRIDE.
CHOY GASHTAK
•AT THIS PARTY THE BRIDE HAS TO SHOW HER TRADITIONAL DRESSES.
•SHE HAS TO CHANGE THEM EVERY TIME AND COME TO THE GUESTS GREETING AND BOWING TO THEM.
•IT IS LIKE HEN-PARTY.
NIKAH• ACCORDING TO MUSLIM LAW MARRIAGE IN
ACCORDANCE WITH SHARIA, CALLED "NIKAH".
• MARRIAGE - THE CUSTOM OF THE PROPHETS AND
MESSENGERS.
• THE WEDDING CEREMONY BEGINS WHEN SERMON IMAM READS DURING WHICH TELLS THE YOUNG ABOUT THEIR FUTURE RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS.
• NIKAH CAN BE COMMITTED BOTH IN THE MOSQUE AND AT HOME.
• CLOTHES SHOULD NOT BE TIGHT AND CAN BE LEFT OPEN ONLY THE FACE AND HANDS.
• ON THE HEAD-SCARF TO BE HIJAB, CAREFULLY AND BEAUTIFULLY TIED IN ACCORDANCE WITH SHARIA, SO AS TO COVER THE EARS, NECK AND HAIR.
• THE GROOM IN TURN PUTS ON HIS HEAD A SKULLCAP.
WEDDING CEREMONY
• " CHIMILIK " (THICK CURTAIN IN THE CORNER OF THE ROOM , DESIGNED TO CONCEAL THE YOUNG DURING WORSHIP AND THE SACRAMENTS )
• BESIDE HIM HANGING KNIFE, WOODEN SPOON , AND A POD OF RED PEPPER . KNIFE SYMBOLIZES THE STRONG AND BRAVE SON, SPOON SHOULD "HELP" GIVE BIRTH THE DAUGHTER - MISTRESS , AND PEPPER, BELIEF TO PROTECT YOUNG FAMILY FROM THE EVIL EYE .
• Observing the ritual, the groom himself first try honey, and then brings his bride to their further life was sweet and serene.
• Before entering to the house, the groom has to raise his wife and go around the bonfire seven times, after he takes the bride to his house.
POST-WEDDING RITUALS
• “DOMOD TALBON"- "SON-INLAW'S BOW“
• RUBINON - OF "LOOKING AT THE BRIFE'S FACE" BY HER FAMILY.