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Leonard Gordon Josh Grossman Loel Weiss Rabbi Cantor Rabbi Emeritus
Our Fresh, New Voice
KOLEINU B’nai Tikvah South Area Jewish Congregation
www.BnaiTikvahMA.org
1301 Washington St., Canton, MA 02021
Kislev - Tevet December 2019
Brotherhood 12
We Care 13
Adult Ed 14
Sisterhood 15
Art Auction 16
Shabbat Choices
17
Cooking Series
19
Condolences 21
Minyan Note 2
Be Creative 5
Homeless Families
6
Giving Tuesday
7
Join the Choir
8
Scrip = Money
9
School News & Pics
10-
11
Keeper of the Flame
9
Points of interest inside:
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Office Hours 781-828-5250
Monday, Wednesday, Thursday 9 am - 2 pm
Tuesday 9 am - 5:30 pm, Friday 9 am - 1 pm
Operations Manager: Elissa Gordon
Administrative Assistants: Donna Blumenthal & Laurie Schertzer
Bookkeeper: Harvey Weisthal
Executive Board President Natalie Weinberg
VP of Strategy & Communications Andrew Baizen
VP of Education Melanie Greitzer
VP of Community Cindy Lurie
Treasurer Andrew Azer
Secretary Janice Halpern
House Steve Bernstein
Past President Sam Evans
Planning/Strategy Debbie Gladstone
Ritual Dena Kaufman & Ellie Sirk
Communication Adrienne Jacobson
Board of Directors Parliamentarian Wayne Gray
Membership Phyllis Hewson
Fundraising Howard Cooper
Youth Karen Reiser & Sari Epstein
Adult Education Robin Zoll
School Committee Rebecca Baizen & Andrea Woolner
Social Action Ann Hartstein
Brotherhood OPEN
Sisterhood Jane Silver
At-Large Myriam Azer
At-Large Melissa Charnitsky
At-Large Marc Silver
At-Large David Wolicki
Other Committees Bulletin Jodi Rome-Avrus
Israel Affairs Stan Zoll & Marvin Wolfert
Judaic Gift Shop Heidi Wortzman
Library Harriet Lavine, Wendy Lustbader, & Stan Zoll
Scrip Janet Silberberg
Special Gifts Phyllis Moore
An Important Notice from the
Minyan Rangers
Any snowbirds out there? If so, please notify us
asap as to when you are leaving and when you are
returning so we can adjust the calendar accordingly.
If you look at this month’s calendar you will see that
Thursday morning minyan will stop after December
5th and not resume until after Passover.
Please remember to try to find a replacement if you
can’t make it your scheduled date.
We are still in need of minyanairres. If you are able
to add your name to the list, please contact us at
Joe Doniger 781-963-2436
Andrew Langmead 781-344-0016
Jon Snyderman 781-297-7881
KOLEINU sponsored by
Dena Kaufman
I'd like to thank all my friends and fellow
congregants who reached out to me with love and
support after my recent surgery. I know that the Mi
shebeirachs helped my healing and allowed me to
come back to shul that much sooner. Love, Dena
Grace & Bella daCamara and
Lucy & Molly Friedrich
In honor of our Papa
(Joe Doniger)
being named Hatan Torah.
(Thanks to everyone who made donations and sent
cards and well wishers in honor of Papa!)
Donation Card Cost
Due to elevated postage rates and printing costs, the minimum donation has been changed from $5
to $8 per card.
An alternative to traditional Shabbat services: Casual conversation
over coffee. Topics are related to the parsha or current events.
Meets in the library. December 7, 14, and 21
Also check out Shabbat Stroll info on page 17.
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SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY
1
Exec Board Mtg 9:30 am
SH Celebrates 1pm
Minyan 7:30pm
2
BH Board Mtg 7:15pm
Minyan 7:30pm
3
Religious School 3:45pm
SH Board Mtg 7pm
Minyan 7:30pm
4
Lunch & Learn 11:30am
Minyan 7:30pm
5 Minyan 6:40am
Minyan 7:30pm
6
Candles 3:54pm
Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm
7 Early Study 8:30am Shabbat Services 9:30am
Religious School
9:30am
8
Rabbi’s Hanukkah series 11am
Minyan 7:30pm
9
BOD Mtg 7pm
Minyan 7:30pm
10
Religious School 3:45pm
Minyan 7:30pm
11
Lunch & Learn 11:30am
Minyan 7:30pm
12
Minyan 7:30pm
13
Candles 3:54pm
Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm
14
Shabbat Services 9:30am
Religious School 9:30am
Art Auction 7pm
15
Minyan 7:30pm
16
Book Club 7:30pm
Minyan 7:30pm
17
Religious School 3:45pm
Social Action Mtg 7pm
Minyan 7:30pm
18
Lunch & Learn 11:30am
Fun Day Movie 1pm
Cooking Program 7pm
Minyan 7:30pm
19
Minyan 7:30pm
20
Candles 3:56pm
Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm
21 Early Study 8:30am
Shabbat Services 9:30am
Soul Stroll
Religious School 9:30am
Hanukkah Party & Concert 7pm
22
Adult Ed Hanukah program 11am
Family Cooking Program 2pm
Minyan 7:30pm
23
Ritual Mtg 7pm
Minyan 7:30pm
24
NO Religious School
NO Minyan
25
NO Minyan
26
Minyan 7:30pm
27
Candles 4:00pm
Kabbalat Shabbat Dinner & Services 6pm
28
Shabbat Services 9:30am
NO Religious School
29
Minyan 7:30pm
30
Minyan 7:30pm
31
NO Religious School
NO Minyan
1
NO Minyan
2
Minyan 7:30pm
3
Candles 4:06pm
Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm
4 Early Study 8:30am
Shabbat Services 9:30am
Religious School
9:30am
Chai - lights December
Family Table
1st Night Chanukkah
2nd Night Chanukkah
3rd Night Chanukkah
5th Night Chanukkah
4th Night Chanukkah
6th Night Chanukkah
7th Night Chanukkah
8th Night Chanukkah
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Rabbinic Reflections from Rabbi Gordon [email protected]
These first months as your rabbi have
been a time of learning about B’nai
Tikvah, its diverse traditions, the
hopes that motivate people, and most
especially, of getting to meet people in the synagogue,
in homes, and through a series of parlor meetings. With
the assistance of Leslie Pearlstein, I have been meeting
weekly (except during the holidays) with singles and
couples from the various towns that make up our broad
catchment area, and with parents in our religious school.
This month, I will be meeting with new members before
the process takes a break for the winter.
At each session, I begin by asking people to share their
personal stories and what they hope for at B’nai Tikvah
for themselves. Recognizing that we all want financial
stability, membership growth, more participation at
programs and in leadership, what I want to know is:
What would you like B’nai Tikvah to become that would
better serve you and your family? I seek guidance in
building a synagogue program that includes events that
take things off your personal “to do” list, rather than be
another set of obligations. As people think about how
they spend their time and how they would like to spend
their time, the synagogue emerges as a place that can
meet a number of core needs.
B’nai Tikvah can be a place to expand your social circle.
People value our shared meals and ask about adding
simple Friday night dinners and kid-friendly services so
congregants can share a Shabbat experience with their
families (children and grandchildren). Those without
local extended families ask about building a network of
havurot, Jewish fellowship groups that meet for pot luck
meals and ritual celebrations, family projects and adult
learning. There is excitement about learning, both
speakers programs and living-room learning on topics
such as “Jewish ideas of God,” “How to navigate the
Shabbat morning service,” and “Understanding today’s
Conservative Judaism.” Some of you expressed interest
in studying Talmud or other classic texts of rabbinic and
mystical Judaism. Others are interested in getting
involved in Social Action in support of a strong, bi-
partisan US-Israel relationship, in support of immigrant
rights, and in support of neighbors who suffer from
food insecurity. I have also heard how much music
matters and people have expressed a desire for a more
engaging music on Friday nights and perhaps an
accompanist on Shabbat morning, as we also work on
restarting our choir.
The word that is repeated most often at our gatherings
is community. People want B’nai Tikvah to be a place
where relationships are built and strengthened, across
generational lines and geographic boundaries.
Community building is something we will all need to
work on together. We can create opportunities;
everyone needs to reach out and meet new people.
These parlor meetings have been eye-opening and will
help me develop our program for the rest of this year
and the years to come. I look forward to meeting
more of you in this setting this spring, but in the
meantime, please be in touch with your ideas and
concerns. I am always available to meet in person,
and I appreciate ideas shared through e-mail
([email protected]). This month we have some
wonderful Hannukah programs including talks by
myself (December 8) and Lori (December 22) and a
Klezmer celebratory concert (December 21). Please
join us, dance, learn, and meet new people!
Please DO NOT use the door closest to the
Chapel when leaving Minyan. That
door MUST remain closed and locked at all
times with the exception of during an
emergency. Thank you!
Getting to Know You
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Words From Our Temple President Natalie Weinberg [email protected]
So many ways to give, so many ways to share. The
temple is a sharing place but we need you to
give. December is considered the season of
giving. There are many opportunities at B’nai Tikvah to
share through supporting our many funds and programs.
If you are interested in supporting our professional staff
and their programs, the Rabbi’s and Cantor’s
Discretionary Funds as well as the Religious School
Fund help in so many ways. Our youth are important
to us so why not contribute to the Joel Kessel Memorial
Youth Fund. Saturdays are an example of enjoying
the benefits of giving through the Adult Kiddish Fund and
Simcha Tribute Fund and celebrate your simcha
with your B'nai Tikvah temple family. The Ritual Fund
aides all aspects of observances at B’nai Tikvah whether
it’s the Megillah reader or a special kiddush. The Bimah
has undergone some changes including lighting and
sound systems. The Bimah Enhancement Fund as well as
the Novick/Cherenson/Finkel Memorial Arts Fund will be
used in the future for beautification and need in our
sanctuary. We all have come to a lecture, seen a movie,
or enjoyed a concert sponsored by the Rubin Adult
Education Fund. Wouldn’t we all enjoy more? The
Kirshner/Pearlstein Bereavement Fund helps
congregants when they need comfort the most.
Throughout the past year we have
been raising money for the B’nai
Tikvah Holocaust Courtyard. As
many of you may know our
Holocaust Program is many
faceted. We have an Educational
Program named for Izzie Geller and the Lustbader-
Babcock Library. We should be proud of our
commitment to Never Forget in all its aspects.
We have now established a new fund called
Accessibility Fund. I ts sole purpose is to make all
parts of the temple as handicap accessible as we can
physically do. Everything takes time and money. The
Al Burak Building Fund aides the kitchen, the
building and the temple in so many ways.
With so many choices and so many special people
remembered through funding, it may be difficult to
make a decision. A gift to the General Fund is always
helpful.
Frequently people have said that they are always
being asked for money. We are not asking for
ourselves. For many the temple is a focal point. In
order for the B’nai Tikvah to remain vibrant and vital,
it must be maintained. It’s an on-going challenge -
one that I feel is worth it. Please join me in this
effort.
Hunger doesn’t take
time off!
FAMILY TABLE
DONATIONS
As part of our
congregational
commitment to Family
Table, we pledge to collect
40 vegetarian soups
(preferably low salt) and
25 brand name whole
grain cereals (Cheerios,
Raisin Bran, Corn Flakes,
etc.) every month.
The collection bin in the
lobby of the temple is
ready for your monthly
contribution.
Perform a Special Mitzvah
for the Homeless Children living in Randolph
right now.
The holidays are not the only time of the year when we need to
open our hearts and our wallets to share with those less fortunate,
those who live in temporary homes.
Toiletries & food needed: travel size personal care items, snacks,
pudding, applesauce, real juice boxes, pb crackers, fruit cups,
chips, etc. They will also appreciate scrip cards to stores to buy
groceries, basic essentials, clothes as well as
gift cards for T passes.
Call Jackie Barry @781.961.5574 or e-mail: jsbarry25 @aol.com.
She will arrange pick-ups.
You can drop items off at the temple office.
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We are only a few days from being halfway through the month of Marcheshvan. I have always been fascinated with this month and the addition of the prefix “mar” which has been added to it. Do we translate the Hebrew “mar” as bitter? If so, why? We are all somewhat familiar with this translation from Pesach and from our Seder where we discuss the bitter herbs of the same name representing the time of slavery.
Perhaps Cheshvan earns the bitter title due to its simple lack of chagim (holidays). It was only a few weeks ago we celebrated Rosh Hashanah, and the festive Sukkot and Simchat Torah. Looking ahead to Kislev, we will soon celebrate Chanukah, leaving nothing for lonely Cheshvan. Maybe this designation goes back to biblical times where it is said we lost both Sarah and Rachel during Cheshvan. Of course, the anniversary of Kristallnacht also falls during Cheshvan as well. Any of these events would be enough to note this month as bitter.
In true Jewish fashion, however, some look at this negative name with an alternative view. Mar may also be defined as a drop (as in a drop of water) since it is here in Cheshvan where we begin to pray for Geshem
(rain). Also, history indicates it was during Cheshvan that Solomon completed the construction of the Temple.
Personally, this may be my favorite month on the calendar; the holiday-rich Tishrei is behind us, the weather is perfect, we settle into a routine of Shabbat services that bring us through Bereshit and, of course, we celebrate the quintessential American holiday of Thanksgiving.
Whatever views we take on Cheshvan, like all other months, we each should look to do what we can to “sweeten” it for ourselves and others. If I may use this medium as an advertisement, our B’nai Tikvah chorus is reforming and we would love to have as many members as we can this year. As we said in the email: all voices and all ages are welcomed and encouraged to participate! I am sure that singing new and exciting melodies (as well as some existing favorites) with friends and families is one sure way to take some of the Mar out of Marcheshvan.
B’Shalom.
Cantor’s Column
Josh Grossman [email protected]
Thank you to all who
donated to the
Thanksgiving Pie Drive
for the Canton and
Randolph food
pantries. We collected
and donated 150 pies!
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Scrip—Let Me Explain
Each card is worth the full amount
stated on the card; there are no extra
fees.
Each company decides the
percentage it gives back to
B’nai Tikvah.
Since some cards are not being
purchased, only Stop & Shop,
Shaw’s, and Dunkin‘ Donuts will
always be kept in stock. All other
cards will be obtained by request 2
weeks in advance. Mobile gas will be
ordered in small denominations.
As always, American Express is a
special order, requiring two weeks in
advance.
Please note that money from
purchases is given directly to our
bookkeeper every two weeks.
Janet Silberberg,
[email protected], 781-961-1384
This is a picture of Stan Zoll receiving his Keeper of the Flame Certificate from New England Region Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs Past President, Eliot Feldman. Rabbi Gordon delivers the invocation at the
Veterans Day service in Milton.
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School Happenings Michelle Langmead, Lead Teacher
On November 15th, our religious school students lead the Friday night Shabbat service for the first time this year. The students have been working on their Hebrew reading skills in class. It was wonderful to see them davening on the bimah. The group gave a presentation explaining how each letter is important in the aleph bet, complete with songs. The joy in the children’s’ faces as they led the prayers and the pride on their parents’ and grandparents faces was such a wonderful way to welcome Shabbat. In Morah Shapiro’s class, the students are learning all about Shabbat. The children studied Parsha Beresheet to discover how the world was created and the first Shabbat began. The class can chant and read the prayers for the wine, challah, and candles. They learned how to get the table ready for Shabbat and are working on the Friday night service. The unit on Shabbat will end with the class making Havdalah kits to celebrate the ending of Shabbat at home. The children will be spending the month of December learning about Hanukkah, the story of the Maccabees, and how to count in Hebrew. In Mrs. Langmead’s class, we have been learning why we keep kosher and how to discover the symbols on the foods we eat. There are many different symbols which makes finding them a challenge. We looked in our temple pantry to see how many different symbols we could find (eleven different kinds!) This lead to a discussion of what the children consider Jewish symbols. We created art projects that show some of the symbols the students thought are important. We are working on our understanding of different kinds of mitzvot [tzedakah, mitzvot of Shabbat, Kiddush, Hanukkah nerot (lights), giving gifts]. We came to the realization that we perform many mitzvot every day and now that we are aware of this, we will try extra hard to do more. In Cantor Josh’s class, the students are studying the weekly parsha. The group chants the blessings before the
after an Aliyah. The children are now going into the beginning of the Torah service on Shabbat to join and learn from the congregation. The students are reading the prayers during Hebrew lessons so they can follow along with the congregation. They hope to be leading the prayers soon. Since these students are not in the service at the beginning, they will be learning about how we choose Hebrew names and what exactly is involved in naming a boy or a girl. As a school, we have been collecting our tzedakah money to purchase gift cards for needy children. On November 26, Ben and Sydney J. lead our classes on a discussion of Maimonides and the different levels of charity. Through an awesome power point presentation and activity, our students will understand the true meaning of giving. We look forward to celebrating Hanukkah as a community on December 22 at the Family cooking class where we will make some delicious holiday treats.
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Religious School
Photos
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This may be the last flea market. We're all
getting older and the time and effort to
organize one of these is taking its
toll. We're tired.
Brotherhood is thankful, however, to those
volunteers who helped make the flea market
work. In this season of Thanksgiving, we
are thankful for Howie Cooper. Without him
there would be no flea market. We are
thankful for Floyd Aaron and Paul Sirk who
spend a good portion of the day in the
kitchen. We are thankful for Harvey Levine
and Marshall Silberberg who do the shopping
for the breakfast and lunch menus then work
in the kitchen. We are thankful for Stan
Zoll, Eric Dickstein, Phil Levine, Phyllis
Hewson, Kayla Friedman and Janet
Silberberg who manned the entrances and
Brotherhood Table.
Thank you all for a job well done.
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Notes from the Membership Committee Phillis Hewson, Chair [email protected]
Membership in B'nai Tikvah, WHY? Because we are a progressive, egalitarian congregation,
offering distinctive Jewish programming! Our members are committed and involved! We are truly a community that is engaging with each other! We are known and respected, not only within our walls, but also throughout the local Canton/Randolph, and other south shore areas. We are inclusive, thus welcoming all regardless of age, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, individuals with disabilities, interfaith couples, etc.
We are committed to help our members through all life cycles: from birth to death, from marriage to Bar/Bat Mitzvot, youth engagement and beyond, through good and bad times, etc. Rabbi Gordon and Cantor Grossman can guide and counsel you during these times. And our president, Natalie Weinberg, is always available to answer your questions or concerns.
Through your spiritual journey, we seek to provide you with a home for growth and new horizons. We offer traditional, as well as alternative Shabbat Services. Perhaps you would like to attend "Soul Stroll," or "Starbucks Shabbat" Maybe you would like to attend "Lunch and Learn" with Rabbi Gordon. These are held Wednesday afternoons. Perhaps a social action ( a program on anti Semitism, among others is coming soon), or adult education (speakers, films) program would grab your attention. And keep your eyes open for information on these "coming attractions" (some of which are ongoing): a brotherhood indoor flea market, a sisterhood "fun" day, an art auction, cooking classes, speaker series, and a Chanukah Party with a Klezmer band. There is truly something for everyone!!!
If you would like to contact me for any reason, I can be reached at [email protected]. I am open to any suggestions, ideas, you may have.
Happy Chanukah!
B’nai Tikvah-Northeastern University Jewish Studies
Scholar Series kicked off on November
1 with Professor Dov Waxman who spoke about
”American Jews and Israel in the Age of
Trump” following services with guest Cantor Lisa Kipen-
Hershenson of Newbridge. Well over 100 attendees
were treated to a very interesting and insightful lecture.
On Veteran’s Day weekend, we presented the finished
version of “Sammy’s Story”. Sam Bernstein z”l was
Randolph resident who fought in Iwo Jima. His son
Howie joined us, on Sunday November 10. The following
night members and friends were in Foxboro enjoying
“Tevye’s Daughters”.
On Sunday, December 8 to 11 am Rabbi Gordon will
teach us “The True Story of Hanukah.” Two weeks later
we will start our celebration with a Pre- Hanukah
celebration weekend. It will start Saturday night with
“Too Klez for Comfort” which will feature a 7 piece
Klezmer Band.
Sunday, December 22 at 11 am we will join with
Sisterhood and learn with Prof. Lori Lefkovitz, “The
Secret of the 7th Candle: Women in the story of
Hanukkah”.
Adult Ed has an ambitious agenda, so we desperately
need more members to help plan and carry out more
wonderful programs. Please join us.
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On Tuesday, October 29th we held our Pink Minyan in the chapel. We had a lovely group who prayed together and then we had a number of women share their stories of their breast cancer journey and story of survival. We learned about newer forms of treatment and found what strong women we have in our congregation. As always, pink desserts helped to make the evening special.
The Mah Jongg Tournament we held in conjunction with South Suburban Hadassah on November 17th was a resounding success with 68 players from all over the state! The room was buzzing with clicking and clacking of tiles (and voices!) Despite the calls for quiet it was hard for everyone to keep quiet as the excitement of over $300 worth of prize money was on the line!
Several folks came down to knit on Tuesday, November 18th to make Afghans for Veterans and it was so much fun for me to re-learn this craft. My poor Mom taught me but could not get me excited in one of her favorite pastimes. Hopefully the excitement will continue for me now!
December 1st is the Sisterhood Celebrates our Jewish Roots program which will include the announcement of the Woman of Distinction. More detail on that will be in the January bulletin.
We are looking forward to partnering with Adult Education on Sunday December 22nd at 11 am to bring you a special talk from Dr. Lori Lefkowitz as part of the Northeastern University Speaker Series. Her topic will be “The Secret of the Seventh Candle - Women in The Story of Hanukkah”.
ANNOUNCEMENT - ANNOUNCEMENT - ANNOUNCEMENT!
We have started a free Mah Jongg Club that will be playing every Wednesday from 4:30 - 6:30 at the temple. This group is for ALL levels of Mah Jongg players INCLUDING learners! Please rsvp to [email protected] Please note that we will NOT be playing on Wednesday, November 27th, but we will on all other Wednesdays this year. If turnout is good, we will consider continuing this into 2020. Speaking of Mah Jongg, our own Nancy Swartz is making her hand painted Mah Jongg bags again! Please come check them out on any Wednesday. They are hand painted and made especially for you! Bags to fit either sized card are only $24 and Nancy is making a donation to Sisterhood from the proceeds. It is a win-win as you get a good deal and a beautiful bag! Order one for yourself or several to give as gifts. Contact me for details.
FUN Days are moving to Wednesdays! On December 18th we will have a movie afternoon. Come enjoy "Mama Mia" with your Sisterhood friends. Free! Movie snacks included.
Did you know that the Sisterhood Gift Shop has many items in stock that we cannot fit in the case? Did you know that we can order something for you at a good price? If you would like to make a purchase of anything you see in the case, please let the office know. If you are looking for something special or if you have any questions, please contact either Heidi at [email protected] or 781-975-6506 or me at [email protected] or 617-470-6779. We also have all your Chanukah needs, which will be on display on Sunday December 1st at the Sisterhood Celebrates and on Sunday December 22nd at the Hanukkah Speaker event. We are here to help you!
If you are interested in working with the Sisterhood Board and or working on a committee for a specific program, or have ideas for a new program, I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to call or email me.
Plenty more exciting events are scheduled for 2020. Stay tuned!
Torah Fund Cards are available.
Call Judith Caplan
617-965-4144
Mah Jongg
card order
form on
page 10.
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Celebrate Your Simcha with Our
B’nai Tikvah Temple Family
December 14th
Once A Month On Shabbat You Can Honor Yourself or Someone who is Celebrating a
Birthday, Anniversary or any Simcha. We place the honoree’s name and
celebration in a frame on the Shabbat sweets table.
L’CHAIM $18 donation
Come And Enjoy The Shabbat And Celebrate These Happy Occasions With Your Temple
Family
Please call the office to let us know the
name of the Simcha Honoree by
Wednesday, December 11th
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Observing Yahrzeit on the anniversary of a loved one’s death is a Jewish tradition. In Judaism, there is a focus on carrying on the memory of those before us from generation to generation. Family and friends light Yahrzeit candles which burn for twenty-four hours, they say the mourner’s kaddish prayer, and often donate money to their temple in honor of their loved one’s memory. Additionally, the Yahrzeit candle is lit on four other designated days of the year, called Yizkor dates - Yom Kippur, Shemini Atzeret, eighth day
Yahrzeit Observances
December 1
Nathan Cutler Father-in-law of Clifford Seresky
Sylvia Plotkin Mother of Harriet Heyman
Sonia Waldman Mother of Judith Shapiro December 2
Irene Fleischer Mother of Sandra Richmond December 3
Rita Dubrofsky Sister-in-law of Anita Shatz
Israel Geller Husband of Marilyn Geller
Florence Segal Sister-in-law of Adele Levenson December 4
Louis Bloom Father-in-law of Roberta Bloom
Eva Gillin Mother of Robert Gillin
Alan Hochberg Father of Myriam Azer
Alan Hochberg Husband of Judy Hochberg
Alan Hochberg Father of Benjamin Hochberg
Harold Lavien Brother-in-law of Anita Podolsky
Benjamin Warsofsky Father of Joseph Warsofsky
December 5
Meyer Brown Father of Dr. Bruce Brown
Abram Green Father of Susan Gotshalk
December 7
Barnet Mason Father of Evelyn Fisher
Marion Pearlstein Mother of Arthur Pearlstein
Maurice Weiner Father of Gil Weiner December 8
Marian Aaron Mother of Floyd Aaron
Hyman Goldstein Father of Arthur Goldstein
Hyman Goldstein Father of Bernice Weiner
Irving Goodman Father of Janice Halpern
Harvey Levine Brother-in-law of Arthur Podolsky
Anne Myers Mother-in-law of Ellen Myers
Irene Sandler Mother of Adrienne Misiph
December 9
Daisy Baron Mother of Herbert Baron
Daniel Gollegly Stepfather of Sherri Finer
Rose Green Grandmother of Peter Lurie
Sidney L. Shapiro Father of Joanna Small
Robert Shuster Father of Karen Reiser December 10
Florence Edgers Mother of Natalie Weinberg
Lillian London Mother of Marjorie Litman
Audrey Werner Sister of Charles & Beverly Kramer
Milton Wittenberg Grandfather of Kimberly Lurie December 11
Isaac Schneider Father of Helene Frank December 12
Harold Wolrich Father of Elyse Cohen December 13
Harry Krantzman Father of Phyllis Richman
Levi Lappen Father of Harvey Lappen
Bessie Marcus-Goldman Grandmother of Phyllis Lerner
Alan R. Miner Brother-in-law of Carol Pelini
Leona Raskin Sister-in-law of Ruby Debrave
Benjamin Sabel Cousin of Simeon Korisky
Frances Smith Sister of Cynthia Kramer
December 14
Gloria Appleton Auster Sister of Harvey Malin
Samuel Lerner Father of Neil Lerner
Jacob Zieper Father of Sheldon Zieper
December 15
Betty Bello Mother of Stanley Bello
Beatrice Brown Mother of Dr. Bruce Brown
Wilma Eagerman Niece of Ruth Diamond
Nathan Weiss Father of Selma Blacker
December 16
Samuel Cutler Father of Blossom Glassman
Edith Grossman Aunt of Renee Tepper
December 17
Mary F. Heffron Mother of Eleanor Forman
Carol Hochberg Aunt of Judy Hochberg
Gladys Perlin Mother of Marc Perlin
December 18
Alfred Brittan Father of Leslie Kramer
Ann Cohen Sister of Beatrice Salden
Howard Druker Husband of Audrey Druker
December 19
David Lennick Father-in law of Dorothy Lennick
Nathan Plotkin Father of Harriet Heyman
Aron Raboy Father of Frances Raboy
December 20
Harry Glassman Father-in-law of Blossom Glassman
Jacob Grosky Father-in-law of Marilynn Grosky
December 21
Morris Bernstein Grandfather of Leslie Weiner
Sonia London Aunt of Beatrice Spiro
December 22
Ida Wolf Mother of Leonard Wolf
December 23
Minnie Garber Grandmother of Cheryl Hiltz
December 24
Ruth Wine Mother of Beverly Kramer
December 25
Ethel Hoffman Mother of Irving Lipsky
Karen J. Newberger Sister of Wendy Lustbader
Hyman Rasnick Father of Edith Goldstein
Samuel Sheinfeld Grandfather of Judy Freedman
Louis Sherman Brother of Barbara Finkle
Mary Swardlick Grandmother of Neil Lerner
December 26
Rose Chasin Grandmother of Eleanor Borr
Jacob Lowe Father of Harriet Rossen
Esther Menachem Mother of Sherry Rosen-Brown
Irving S. Rokeach Father of Sharon Orkin
December 27
Nathan Adler Grandfather of Leslie Pearlstein
Lee Crosby Grandmother of Adrienne Jacobson
Lee L. Crosby Mother of Benita Goldman
Henry Lappen Brother of Harvey Lappen
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Yahrzeit Observances cont. Our Condolences
Dorothy Golub
Beloved wife of Alan Golub
George Marshall
Lenny Kaster
Father of Bruce and David Kaster and
Robin-Sue DeSimone
Albert Goldman
Husband of Jaqueline Goldman
Sonya Scharf
Sister of Rose Ann Berwald and
husband George Chism
Norman Berkowitz
Beloved father of Ronna and
husband Robert Nesselle
A Novel Group
New Members are ALWAYS Welcome!
All meetings are on the third
Monday of the month at 7:30.
December 16 –The Girl who Wrote in Silk by Kelli
Estes
Hosted by Fern Cagan at her home (52 Indian Woods
Way, Canton)
January 20 – The Lost Girls of Paris by Pam Jenoff.
Hosted by Janis Monat
February 17 – Book to be determined.
Hosted by Leslie Kramer
March 16 - The History of Love by Nicole Krauss.
Hosted by Susan Lipsitt at B’nai Tikvah.
April 20 - Inheritance: A Memoir of Geneology,
Paternity and Love by Dani Shapiro.
Hosted by Ann Hartstein at her home (7 Cedar Drive,
Canton)
May 18 - The Hired Girl by Laura Amy Schlitz.
Hosted by Laina Levine at B’nai Tikvah.
June 15 - Book to be determined.
Hosted by Paula Atkins. Location to be determined.
For details and more information, contact Harriet Lavine
December 28
Leonora Marcus Mother of Ellen Myers
Betty Stopnick Mother of Shirley Soltz
Samuel Widrow Father of Michael Widrow
December 29
Harry Spring Grandfather of Elaine Levitts
December 30
Gussie Bennett Mother of Thelma Sandberg
Dr. Irvin Berwald Father of Rose Ann Berwald
December 31
Goldie Grosky Mother-in-law of Marilynn Grosky
Jerome Parnes Brother of Phyllis Moore
Albert Segal Grandfather of Debbie Segal
Leo (Hersh) Simon Father of Arthur Simon
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