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Leonard Gordon Josh Grossman Loel Weiss Rabbi Cantor Rabbi Emeritus Our Fresh, New Voice KOLEINU B’nai Tikvah South Area Jewish Congregation www.BnaiTikvahMA.org 1301 Washington St., Canton, MA 02021 Kislev - Tevet December 2019 Brotherhood 12 We Care 13 Adult Ed 14 Sisterhood 15 Art Auction 16 Shabbat Choices 17 Cooking Series 19 Condolences 21 Minyan Note 2 Be Creative 5 Homeless Families 6 Giving Tuesday 7 Join the Choir 8 Scrip = Money 9 School News & Pics 10- 11 Keeper of the Flame 9 Points of interest inside:

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Page 1: KOLEINU B’nai Tikvah€¦ · 5th and not resume until after Passover. Please remember to try to find a replacement if you can’t make it your scheduled date. We are still in need

Leonard Gordon Josh Grossman Loel Weiss Rabbi Cantor Rabbi Emeritus

Our Fresh, New Voice

KOLEINU B’nai Tikvah South Area Jewish Congregation

www.BnaiTikvahMA.org

1301 Washington St., Canton, MA 02021

Kislev - Tevet December 2019

Brotherhood 12

We Care 13

Adult Ed 14

Sisterhood 15

Art Auction 16

Shabbat Choices

17

Cooking Series

19

Condolences 21

Minyan Note 2

Be Creative 5

Homeless Families

6

Giving Tuesday

7

Join the Choir

8

Scrip = Money

9

School News & Pics

10-

11

Keeper of the Flame

9

Points of interest inside:

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2 Koleinu December 2019

Office Hours 781-828-5250

Monday, Wednesday, Thursday 9 am - 2 pm

Tuesday 9 am - 5:30 pm, Friday 9 am - 1 pm

Operations Manager: Elissa Gordon

Administrative Assistants: Donna Blumenthal & Laurie Schertzer

Bookkeeper: Harvey Weisthal

Executive Board President Natalie Weinberg

VP of Strategy & Communications Andrew Baizen

VP of Education Melanie Greitzer

VP of Community Cindy Lurie

Treasurer Andrew Azer

Secretary Janice Halpern

House Steve Bernstein

Past President Sam Evans

Planning/Strategy Debbie Gladstone

Ritual Dena Kaufman & Ellie Sirk

Communication Adrienne Jacobson

Board of Directors Parliamentarian Wayne Gray

Membership Phyllis Hewson

Fundraising Howard Cooper

Youth Karen Reiser & Sari Epstein

Adult Education Robin Zoll

School Committee Rebecca Baizen & Andrea Woolner

Social Action Ann Hartstein

Brotherhood OPEN

Sisterhood Jane Silver

At-Large Myriam Azer

At-Large Melissa Charnitsky

At-Large Marc Silver

At-Large David Wolicki

Other Committees Bulletin Jodi Rome-Avrus

Israel Affairs Stan Zoll & Marvin Wolfert

Judaic Gift Shop Heidi Wortzman

Library Harriet Lavine, Wendy Lustbader, & Stan Zoll

Scrip Janet Silberberg

Special Gifts Phyllis Moore

An Important Notice from the

Minyan Rangers

Any snowbirds out there? If so, please notify us

asap as to when you are leaving and when you are

returning so we can adjust the calendar accordingly.

If you look at this month’s calendar you will see that

Thursday morning minyan will stop after December

5th and not resume until after Passover.

Please remember to try to find a replacement if you

can’t make it your scheduled date.

We are still in need of minyanairres. If you are able

to add your name to the list, please contact us at

[email protected]

Joe Doniger 781-963-2436

Andrew Langmead 781-344-0016

Jon Snyderman 781-297-7881

KOLEINU sponsored by

Dena Kaufman

I'd like to thank all my friends and fellow

congregants who reached out to me with love and

support after my recent surgery. I know that the Mi

shebeirachs helped my healing and allowed me to

come back to shul that much sooner. Love, Dena

Grace & Bella daCamara and

Lucy & Molly Friedrich

In honor of our Papa

(Joe Doniger)

being named Hatan Torah.

(Thanks to everyone who made donations and sent

cards and well wishers in honor of Papa!)

Donation Card Cost

Due to elevated postage rates and printing costs, the minimum donation has been changed from $5

to $8 per card.

An alternative to traditional Shabbat services: Casual conversation

over coffee. Topics are related to the parsha or current events.

Meets in the library. December 7, 14, and 21

Also check out Shabbat Stroll info on page 17.

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December 2019 Koleinu 3

SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY

1

Exec Board Mtg 9:30 am

SH Celebrates 1pm

Minyan 7:30pm

2

BH Board Mtg 7:15pm

Minyan 7:30pm

3

Religious School 3:45pm

SH Board Mtg 7pm

Minyan 7:30pm

4

Lunch & Learn 11:30am

Minyan 7:30pm

5 Minyan 6:40am

Minyan 7:30pm

6

Candles 3:54pm

Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm

7 Early Study 8:30am Shabbat Services 9:30am

Religious School

9:30am

8

Rabbi’s Hanukkah series 11am

Minyan 7:30pm

9

BOD Mtg 7pm

Minyan 7:30pm

10

Religious School 3:45pm

Minyan 7:30pm

11

Lunch & Learn 11:30am

Minyan 7:30pm

12

Minyan 7:30pm

13

Candles 3:54pm

Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm

14

Shabbat Services 9:30am

Religious School 9:30am

Art Auction 7pm

15

Minyan 7:30pm

16

Book Club 7:30pm

Minyan 7:30pm

17

Religious School 3:45pm

Social Action Mtg 7pm

Minyan 7:30pm

18

Lunch & Learn 11:30am

Fun Day Movie 1pm

Cooking Program 7pm

Minyan 7:30pm

19

Minyan 7:30pm

20

Candles 3:56pm

Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm

21 Early Study 8:30am

Shabbat Services 9:30am

Soul Stroll

Religious School 9:30am

Hanukkah Party & Concert 7pm

22

Adult Ed Hanukah program 11am

Family Cooking Program 2pm

Minyan 7:30pm

23

Ritual Mtg 7pm

Minyan 7:30pm

24

NO Religious School

NO Minyan

25

NO Minyan

26

Minyan 7:30pm

27

Candles 4:00pm

Kabbalat Shabbat Dinner & Services 6pm

28

Shabbat Services 9:30am

NO Religious School

29

Minyan 7:30pm

30

Minyan 7:30pm

31

NO Religious School

NO Minyan

1

NO Minyan

2

Minyan 7:30pm

3

Candles 4:06pm

Kabbalat Shabbat 7:30pm

4 Early Study 8:30am

Shabbat Services 9:30am

Religious School

9:30am

Chai - lights December

Family Table

1st Night Chanukkah

2nd Night Chanukkah

3rd Night Chanukkah

5th Night Chanukkah

4th Night Chanukkah

6th Night Chanukkah

7th Night Chanukkah

8th Night Chanukkah

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Rabbinic Reflections from Rabbi Gordon [email protected]

These first months as your rabbi have

been a time of learning about B’nai

Tikvah, its diverse traditions, the

hopes that motivate people, and most

especially, of getting to meet people in the synagogue,

in homes, and through a series of parlor meetings. With

the assistance of Leslie Pearlstein, I have been meeting

weekly (except during the holidays) with singles and

couples from the various towns that make up our broad

catchment area, and with parents in our religious school.

This month, I will be meeting with new members before

the process takes a break for the winter.

At each session, I begin by asking people to share their

personal stories and what they hope for at B’nai Tikvah

for themselves. Recognizing that we all want financial

stability, membership growth, more participation at

programs and in leadership, what I want to know is:

What would you like B’nai Tikvah to become that would

better serve you and your family? I seek guidance in

building a synagogue program that includes events that

take things off your personal “to do” list, rather than be

another set of obligations. As people think about how

they spend their time and how they would like to spend

their time, the synagogue emerges as a place that can

meet a number of core needs.

B’nai Tikvah can be a place to expand your social circle.

People value our shared meals and ask about adding

simple Friday night dinners and kid-friendly services so

congregants can share a Shabbat experience with their

families (children and grandchildren). Those without

local extended families ask about building a network of

havurot, Jewish fellowship groups that meet for pot luck

meals and ritual celebrations, family projects and adult

learning. There is excitement about learning, both

speakers programs and living-room learning on topics

such as “Jewish ideas of God,” “How to navigate the

Shabbat morning service,” and “Understanding today’s

Conservative Judaism.” Some of you expressed interest

in studying Talmud or other classic texts of rabbinic and

mystical Judaism. Others are interested in getting

involved in Social Action in support of a strong, bi-

partisan US-Israel relationship, in support of immigrant

rights, and in support of neighbors who suffer from

food insecurity. I have also heard how much music

matters and people have expressed a desire for a more

engaging music on Friday nights and perhaps an

accompanist on Shabbat morning, as we also work on

restarting our choir.

The word that is repeated most often at our gatherings

is community. People want B’nai Tikvah to be a place

where relationships are built and strengthened, across

generational lines and geographic boundaries.

Community building is something we will all need to

work on together. We can create opportunities;

everyone needs to reach out and meet new people.

These parlor meetings have been eye-opening and will

help me develop our program for the rest of this year

and the years to come. I look forward to meeting

more of you in this setting this spring, but in the

meantime, please be in touch with your ideas and

concerns. I am always available to meet in person,

and I appreciate ideas shared through e-mail

([email protected]). This month we have some

wonderful Hannukah programs including talks by

myself (December 8) and Lori (December 22) and a

Klezmer celebratory concert (December 21). Please

join us, dance, learn, and meet new people!

Please DO NOT use the door closest to the

Chapel when leaving Minyan. That

door MUST remain closed and locked at all

times with the exception of during an

emergency. Thank you!

Getting to Know You

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6 Koleinu December 2019

Words From Our Temple President Natalie Weinberg [email protected]

So many ways to give, so many ways to share. The

temple is a sharing place but we need you to

give. December is considered the season of

giving. There are many opportunities at B’nai Tikvah to

share through supporting our many funds and programs.

If you are interested in supporting our professional staff

and their programs, the Rabbi’s and Cantor’s

Discretionary Funds as well as the Religious School

Fund help in so many ways. Our youth are important

to us so why not contribute to the Joel Kessel Memorial

Youth Fund. Saturdays are an example of enjoying

the benefits of giving through the Adult Kiddish Fund and

Simcha Tribute Fund and celebrate your simcha

with your B'nai Tikvah temple family. The Ritual Fund

aides all aspects of observances at B’nai Tikvah whether

it’s the Megillah reader or a special kiddush. The Bimah

has undergone some changes including lighting and

sound systems. The Bimah Enhancement Fund as well as

the Novick/Cherenson/Finkel Memorial Arts Fund will be

used in the future for beautification and need in our

sanctuary. We all have come to a lecture, seen a movie,

or enjoyed a concert sponsored by the Rubin Adult

Education Fund. Wouldn’t we all enjoy more? The

Kirshner/Pearlstein Bereavement Fund helps

congregants when they need comfort the most.

Throughout the past year we have

been raising money for the B’nai

Tikvah Holocaust Courtyard. As

many of you may know our

Holocaust Program is many

faceted. We have an Educational

Program named for Izzie Geller and the Lustbader-

Babcock Library. We should be proud of our

commitment to Never Forget in all its aspects.

We have now established a new fund called

Accessibility Fund. I ts sole purpose is to make all

parts of the temple as handicap accessible as we can

physically do. Everything takes time and money. The

Al Burak Building Fund aides the kitchen, the

building and the temple in so many ways.

With so many choices and so many special people

remembered through funding, it may be difficult to

make a decision. A gift to the General Fund is always

helpful.

Frequently people have said that they are always

being asked for money. We are not asking for

ourselves. For many the temple is a focal point. In

order for the B’nai Tikvah to remain vibrant and vital,

it must be maintained. It’s an on-going challenge -

one that I feel is worth it. Please join me in this

effort.

Hunger doesn’t take

time off!

FAMILY TABLE

DONATIONS

As part of our

congregational

commitment to Family

Table, we pledge to collect

40 vegetarian soups

(preferably low salt) and

25 brand name whole

grain cereals (Cheerios,

Raisin Bran, Corn Flakes,

etc.) every month.

The collection bin in the

lobby of the temple is

ready for your monthly

contribution.

Perform a Special Mitzvah

for the Homeless Children living in Randolph

right now.

The holidays are not the only time of the year when we need to

open our hearts and our wallets to share with those less fortunate,

those who live in temporary homes.

Toiletries & food needed: travel size personal care items, snacks,

pudding, applesauce, real juice boxes, pb crackers, fruit cups,

chips, etc. They will also appreciate scrip cards to stores to buy

groceries, basic essentials, clothes as well as

gift cards for T passes.

Call Jackie Barry @781.961.5574 or e-mail: jsbarry25 @aol.com.

She will arrange pick-ups.

You can drop items off at the temple office.

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We are only a few days from being halfway through the month of Marcheshvan. I have always been fascinated with this month and the addition of the prefix “mar” which has been added to it. Do we translate the Hebrew “mar” as bitter? If so, why? We are all somewhat familiar with this translation from Pesach and from our Seder where we discuss the bitter herbs of the same name representing the time of slavery.

Perhaps Cheshvan earns the bitter title due to its simple lack of chagim (holidays). It was only a few weeks ago we celebrated Rosh Hashanah, and the festive Sukkot and Simchat Torah. Looking ahead to Kislev, we will soon celebrate Chanukah, leaving nothing for lonely Cheshvan. Maybe this designation goes back to biblical times where it is said we lost both Sarah and Rachel during Cheshvan. Of course, the anniversary of Kristallnacht also falls during Cheshvan as well. Any of these events would be enough to note this month as bitter.

In true Jewish fashion, however, some look at this negative name with an alternative view. Mar may also be defined as a drop (as in a drop of water) since it is here in Cheshvan where we begin to pray for Geshem

(rain). Also, history indicates it was during Cheshvan that Solomon completed the construction of the Temple.

Personally, this may be my favorite month on the calendar; the holiday-rich Tishrei is behind us, the weather is perfect, we settle into a routine of Shabbat services that bring us through Bereshit and, of course, we celebrate the quintessential American holiday of Thanksgiving.

Whatever views we take on Cheshvan, like all other months, we each should look to do what we can to “sweeten” it for ourselves and others. If I may use this medium as an advertisement, our B’nai Tikvah chorus is reforming and we would love to have as many members as we can this year. As we said in the email: all voices and all ages are welcomed and encouraged to participate! I am sure that singing new and exciting melodies (as well as some existing favorites) with friends and families is one sure way to take some of the Mar out of Marcheshvan.

B’Shalom.

Cantor’s Column

Josh Grossman [email protected]

Thank you to all who

donated to the

Thanksgiving Pie Drive

for the Canton and

Randolph food

pantries. We collected

and donated 150 pies!

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Scrip—Let Me Explain

Each card is worth the full amount

stated on the card; there are no extra

fees.

Each company decides the

percentage it gives back to

B’nai Tikvah.

Since some cards are not being

purchased, only Stop & Shop,

Shaw’s, and Dunkin‘ Donuts will

always be kept in stock. All other

cards will be obtained by request 2

weeks in advance. Mobile gas will be

ordered in small denominations.

As always, American Express is a

special order, requiring two weeks in

advance.

Please note that money from

purchases is given directly to our

bookkeeper every two weeks.

Janet Silberberg,

[email protected], 781-961-1384

This is a picture of Stan Zoll receiving his Keeper of the Flame Certificate from New England Region Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs Past President, Eliot Feldman. Rabbi Gordon delivers the invocation at the

Veterans Day service in Milton.

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School Happenings Michelle Langmead, Lead Teacher

On November 15th, our religious school students lead the Friday night Shabbat service for the first time this year. The students have been working on their Hebrew reading skills in class. It was wonderful to see them davening on the bimah. The group gave a presentation explaining how each letter is important in the aleph bet, complete with songs. The joy in the children’s’ faces as they led the prayers and the pride on their parents’ and grandparents faces was such a wonderful way to welcome Shabbat. In Morah Shapiro’s class, the students are learning all about Shabbat. The children studied Parsha Beresheet to discover how the world was created and the first Shabbat began. The class can chant and read the prayers for the wine, challah, and candles. They learned how to get the table ready for Shabbat and are working on the Friday night service. The unit on Shabbat will end with the class making Havdalah kits to celebrate the ending of Shabbat at home. The children will be spending the month of December learning about Hanukkah, the story of the Maccabees, and how to count in Hebrew. In Mrs. Langmead’s class, we have been learning why we keep kosher and how to discover the symbols on the foods we eat. There are many different symbols which makes finding them a challenge. We looked in our temple pantry to see how many different symbols we could find (eleven different kinds!) This lead to a discussion of what the children consider Jewish symbols. We created art projects that show some of the symbols the students thought are important. We are working on our understanding of different kinds of mitzvot [tzedakah, mitzvot of Shabbat, Kiddush, Hanukkah nerot (lights), giving gifts]. We came to the realization that we perform many mitzvot every day and now that we are aware of this, we will try extra hard to do more. In Cantor Josh’s class, the students are studying the weekly parsha. The group chants the blessings before the

after an Aliyah. The children are now going into the beginning of the Torah service on Shabbat to join and learn from the congregation. The students are reading the prayers during Hebrew lessons so they can follow along with the congregation. They hope to be leading the prayers soon. Since these students are not in the service at the beginning, they will be learning about how we choose Hebrew names and what exactly is involved in naming a boy or a girl. As a school, we have been collecting our tzedakah money to purchase gift cards for needy children. On November 26, Ben and Sydney J. lead our classes on a discussion of Maimonides and the different levels of charity. Through an awesome power point presentation and activity, our students will understand the true meaning of giving. We look forward to celebrating Hanukkah as a community on December 22 at the Family cooking class where we will make some delicious holiday treats.

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Religious School

Photos

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This may be the last flea market. We're all

getting older and the time and effort to

organize one of these is taking its

toll. We're tired.

Brotherhood is thankful, however, to those

volunteers who helped make the flea market

work. In this season of Thanksgiving, we

are thankful for Howie Cooper. Without him

there would be no flea market. We are

thankful for Floyd Aaron and Paul Sirk who

spend a good portion of the day in the

kitchen. We are thankful for Harvey Levine

and Marshall Silberberg who do the shopping

for the breakfast and lunch menus then work

in the kitchen. We are thankful for Stan

Zoll, Eric Dickstein, Phil Levine, Phyllis

Hewson, Kayla Friedman and Janet

Silberberg who manned the entrances and

Brotherhood Table.

Thank you all for a job well done.

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Notes from the Membership Committee Phillis Hewson, Chair [email protected]

Membership in B'nai Tikvah, WHY? Because we are a progressive, egalitarian congregation,

offering distinctive Jewish programming! Our members are committed and involved! We are truly a community that is engaging with each other! We are known and respected, not only within our walls, but also throughout the local Canton/Randolph, and other south shore areas. We are inclusive, thus welcoming all regardless of age, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity, individuals with disabilities, interfaith couples, etc.

We are committed to help our members through all life cycles: from birth to death, from marriage to Bar/Bat Mitzvot, youth engagement and beyond, through good and bad times, etc. Rabbi Gordon and Cantor Grossman can guide and counsel you during these times. And our president, Natalie Weinberg, is always available to answer your questions or concerns.

Through your spiritual journey, we seek to provide you with a home for growth and new horizons. We offer traditional, as well as alternative Shabbat Services. Perhaps you would like to attend "Soul Stroll," or "Starbucks Shabbat" Maybe you would like to attend "Lunch and Learn" with Rabbi Gordon. These are held Wednesday afternoons. Perhaps a social action ( a program on anti Semitism, among others is coming soon), or adult education (speakers, films) program would grab your attention. And keep your eyes open for information on these "coming attractions" (some of which are ongoing): a brotherhood indoor flea market, a sisterhood "fun" day, an art auction, cooking classes, speaker series, and a Chanukah Party with a Klezmer band. There is truly something for everyone!!!

If you would like to contact me for any reason, I can be reached at [email protected]. I am open to any suggestions, ideas, you may have.

Happy Chanukah!

B’nai Tikvah-Northeastern University Jewish Studies

Scholar Series kicked off on November

1 with Professor Dov Waxman who spoke about

”American Jews and Israel in the Age of

Trump” following services with guest Cantor Lisa Kipen-

Hershenson of Newbridge. Well over 100 attendees

were treated to a very interesting and insightful lecture.

On Veteran’s Day weekend, we presented the finished

version of “Sammy’s Story”. Sam Bernstein z”l was

Randolph resident who fought in Iwo Jima. His son

Howie joined us, on Sunday November 10. The following

night members and friends were in Foxboro enjoying

“Tevye’s Daughters”.

On Sunday, December 8 to 11 am Rabbi Gordon will

teach us “The True Story of Hanukah.” Two weeks later

we will start our celebration with a Pre- Hanukah

celebration weekend. It will start Saturday night with

“Too Klez for Comfort” which will feature a 7 piece

Klezmer Band.

Sunday, December 22 at 11 am we will join with

Sisterhood and learn with Prof. Lori Lefkovitz, “The

Secret of the 7th Candle: Women in the story of

Hanukkah”.

Adult Ed has an ambitious agenda, so we desperately

need more members to help plan and carry out more

wonderful programs. Please join us.

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On Tuesday, October 29th we held our Pink Minyan in the chapel. We had a lovely group who prayed together and then we had a number of women share their stories of their breast cancer journey and story of survival. We learned about newer forms of treatment and found what strong women we have in our congregation. As always, pink desserts helped to make the evening special.

The Mah Jongg Tournament we held in conjunction with South Suburban Hadassah on November 17th was a resounding success with 68 players from all over the state! The room was buzzing with clicking and clacking of tiles (and voices!) Despite the calls for quiet it was hard for everyone to keep quiet as the excitement of over $300 worth of prize money was on the line!

Several folks came down to knit on Tuesday, November 18th to make Afghans for Veterans and it was so much fun for me to re-learn this craft. My poor Mom taught me but could not get me excited in one of her favorite pastimes. Hopefully the excitement will continue for me now!

December 1st is the Sisterhood Celebrates our Jewish Roots program which will include the announcement of the Woman of Distinction. More detail on that will be in the January bulletin.

We are looking forward to partnering with Adult Education on Sunday December 22nd at 11 am to bring you a special talk from Dr. Lori Lefkowitz as part of the Northeastern University Speaker Series. Her topic will be “The Secret of the Seventh Candle - Women in The Story of Hanukkah”.

ANNOUNCEMENT - ANNOUNCEMENT - ANNOUNCEMENT!

We have started a free Mah Jongg Club that will be playing every Wednesday from 4:30 - 6:30 at the temple. This group is for ALL levels of Mah Jongg players INCLUDING learners! Please rsvp to [email protected] Please note that we will NOT be playing on Wednesday, November 27th, but we will on all other Wednesdays this year. If turnout is good, we will consider continuing this into 2020. Speaking of Mah Jongg, our own Nancy Swartz is making her hand painted Mah Jongg bags again! Please come check them out on any Wednesday. They are hand painted and made especially for you! Bags to fit either sized card are only $24 and Nancy is making a donation to Sisterhood from the proceeds. It is a win-win as you get a good deal and a beautiful bag! Order one for yourself or several to give as gifts. Contact me for details.

FUN Days are moving to Wednesdays! On December 18th we will have a movie afternoon. Come enjoy "Mama Mia" with your Sisterhood friends. Free! Movie snacks included.

Did you know that the Sisterhood Gift Shop has many items in stock that we cannot fit in the case? Did you know that we can order something for you at a good price? If you would like to make a purchase of anything you see in the case, please let the office know. If you are looking for something special or if you have any questions, please contact either Heidi at [email protected] or 781-975-6506 or me at [email protected] or 617-470-6779. We also have all your Chanukah needs, which will be on display on Sunday December 1st at the Sisterhood Celebrates and on Sunday December 22nd at the Hanukkah Speaker event. We are here to help you!

If you are interested in working with the Sisterhood Board and or working on a committee for a specific program, or have ideas for a new program, I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to call or email me.

Plenty more exciting events are scheduled for 2020. Stay tuned!

Torah Fund Cards are available.

Call Judith Caplan

617-965-4144

Mah Jongg

card order

form on

page 10.

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Celebrate Your Simcha with Our

B’nai Tikvah Temple Family

December 14th

Once A Month On Shabbat You Can Honor Yourself or Someone who is Celebrating a

Birthday, Anniversary or any Simcha. We place the honoree’s name and

celebration in a frame on the Shabbat sweets table.

L’CHAIM $18 donation

Come And Enjoy The Shabbat And Celebrate These Happy Occasions With Your Temple

Family

Please call the office to let us know the

name of the Simcha Honoree by

Wednesday, December 11th

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Observing Yahrzeit on the anniversary of a loved one’s death is a Jewish tradition. In Judaism, there is a focus on carrying on the memory of those before us from generation to generation. Family and friends light Yahrzeit candles which burn for twenty-four hours, they say the mourner’s kaddish prayer, and often donate money to their temple in honor of their loved one’s memory. Additionally, the Yahrzeit candle is lit on four other designated days of the year, called Yizkor dates - Yom Kippur, Shemini Atzeret, eighth day

Yahrzeit Observances

December 1

Nathan Cutler Father-in-law of Clifford Seresky

Sylvia Plotkin Mother of Harriet Heyman

Sonia Waldman Mother of Judith Shapiro December 2

Irene Fleischer Mother of Sandra Richmond December 3

Rita Dubrofsky Sister-in-law of Anita Shatz

Israel Geller Husband of Marilyn Geller

Florence Segal Sister-in-law of Adele Levenson December 4

Louis Bloom Father-in-law of Roberta Bloom

Eva Gillin Mother of Robert Gillin

Alan Hochberg Father of Myriam Azer

Alan Hochberg Husband of Judy Hochberg

Alan Hochberg Father of Benjamin Hochberg

Harold Lavien Brother-in-law of Anita Podolsky

Benjamin Warsofsky Father of Joseph Warsofsky

December 5

Meyer Brown Father of Dr. Bruce Brown

Abram Green Father of Susan Gotshalk

December 7

Barnet Mason Father of Evelyn Fisher

Marion Pearlstein Mother of Arthur Pearlstein

Maurice Weiner Father of Gil Weiner December 8

Marian Aaron Mother of Floyd Aaron

Hyman Goldstein Father of Arthur Goldstein

Hyman Goldstein Father of Bernice Weiner

Irving Goodman Father of Janice Halpern

Harvey Levine Brother-in-law of Arthur Podolsky

Anne Myers Mother-in-law of Ellen Myers

Irene Sandler Mother of Adrienne Misiph

December 9

Daisy Baron Mother of Herbert Baron

Daniel Gollegly Stepfather of Sherri Finer

Rose Green Grandmother of Peter Lurie

Sidney L. Shapiro Father of Joanna Small

Robert Shuster Father of Karen Reiser December 10

Florence Edgers Mother of Natalie Weinberg

Lillian London Mother of Marjorie Litman

Audrey Werner Sister of Charles & Beverly Kramer

Milton Wittenberg Grandfather of Kimberly Lurie December 11

Isaac Schneider Father of Helene Frank December 12

Harold Wolrich Father of Elyse Cohen December 13

Harry Krantzman Father of Phyllis Richman

Levi Lappen Father of Harvey Lappen

Bessie Marcus-Goldman Grandmother of Phyllis Lerner

Alan R. Miner Brother-in-law of Carol Pelini

Leona Raskin Sister-in-law of Ruby Debrave

Benjamin Sabel Cousin of Simeon Korisky

Frances Smith Sister of Cynthia Kramer

December 14

Gloria Appleton Auster Sister of Harvey Malin

Samuel Lerner Father of Neil Lerner

Jacob Zieper Father of Sheldon Zieper

December 15

Betty Bello Mother of Stanley Bello

Beatrice Brown Mother of Dr. Bruce Brown

Wilma Eagerman Niece of Ruth Diamond

Nathan Weiss Father of Selma Blacker

December 16

Samuel Cutler Father of Blossom Glassman

Edith Grossman Aunt of Renee Tepper

December 17

Mary F. Heffron Mother of Eleanor Forman

Carol Hochberg Aunt of Judy Hochberg

Gladys Perlin Mother of Marc Perlin

December 18

Alfred Brittan Father of Leslie Kramer

Ann Cohen Sister of Beatrice Salden

Howard Druker Husband of Audrey Druker

December 19

David Lennick Father-in law of Dorothy Lennick

Nathan Plotkin Father of Harriet Heyman

Aron Raboy Father of Frances Raboy

December 20

Harry Glassman Father-in-law of Blossom Glassman

Jacob Grosky Father-in-law of Marilynn Grosky

December 21

Morris Bernstein Grandfather of Leslie Weiner

Sonia London Aunt of Beatrice Spiro

December 22

Ida Wolf Mother of Leonard Wolf

December 23

Minnie Garber Grandmother of Cheryl Hiltz

December 24

Ruth Wine Mother of Beverly Kramer

December 25

Ethel Hoffman Mother of Irving Lipsky

Karen J. Newberger Sister of Wendy Lustbader

Hyman Rasnick Father of Edith Goldstein

Samuel Sheinfeld Grandfather of Judy Freedman

Louis Sherman Brother of Barbara Finkle

Mary Swardlick Grandmother of Neil Lerner

December 26

Rose Chasin Grandmother of Eleanor Borr

Jacob Lowe Father of Harriet Rossen

Esther Menachem Mother of Sherry Rosen-Brown

Irving S. Rokeach Father of Sharon Orkin

December 27

Nathan Adler Grandfather of Leslie Pearlstein

Lee Crosby Grandmother of Adrienne Jacobson

Lee L. Crosby Mother of Benita Goldman

Henry Lappen Brother of Harvey Lappen

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Yahrzeit Observances cont. Our Condolences

Dorothy Golub

Beloved wife of Alan Golub

George Marshall

Lenny Kaster

Father of Bruce and David Kaster and

Robin-Sue DeSimone

Albert Goldman

Husband of Jaqueline Goldman

Sonya Scharf

Sister of Rose Ann Berwald and

husband George Chism

Norman Berkowitz

Beloved father of Ronna and

husband Robert Nesselle

A Novel Group

New Members are ALWAYS Welcome!

All meetings are on the third

Monday of the month at 7:30.

December 16 –The Girl who Wrote in Silk by Kelli

Estes

Hosted by Fern Cagan at her home (52 Indian Woods

Way, Canton)

January 20 – The Lost Girls of Paris by Pam Jenoff.

Hosted by Janis Monat

February 17 – Book to be determined.

Hosted by Leslie Kramer

March 16 - The History of Love by Nicole Krauss.

Hosted by Susan Lipsitt at B’nai Tikvah.

April 20 - Inheritance: A Memoir of Geneology,

Paternity and Love by Dani Shapiro.

Hosted by Ann Hartstein at her home (7 Cedar Drive,

Canton)

May 18 - The Hired Girl by Laura Amy Schlitz.

Hosted by Laina Levine at B’nai Tikvah.

June 15 - Book to be determined.

Hosted by Paula Atkins. Location to be determined.

For details and more information, contact Harriet Lavine

at [email protected]

December 28

Leonora Marcus Mother of Ellen Myers

Betty Stopnick Mother of Shirley Soltz

Samuel Widrow Father of Michael Widrow

December 29

Harry Spring Grandfather of Elaine Levitts

December 30

Gussie Bennett Mother of Thelma Sandberg

Dr. Irvin Berwald Father of Rose Ann Berwald

December 31

Goldie Grosky Mother-in-law of Marilynn Grosky

Jerome Parnes Brother of Phyllis Moore

Albert Segal Grandfather of Debbie Segal

Leo (Hersh) Simon Father of Arthur Simon

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Did you know... Amazon will make a donation to B'nai Tikvah for every purchase you make.

www.smile.amazon.com will take you to your Amazon main page to donate

to B'nai Tikvah! Just find us in the charitable organization drop down

and shop to your 's content!

There is more than one B'nai Tikvah so please be sure to choose the correct address.

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Chapel available for indoor funeral services

Pre-need planning / interfaith sections available

781-821-8900

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