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    Nick Rogue Epik

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    Background

    A different approach (maybe)

    Science

    Always prepared

    "Before studying this method of seduction, I had some success... but only insocial circle and parties, etc. I had no approach anxiety, but had still nevergotten a girl from a bar or club. When I put this stuff into practice, I got laidthe FIRST NIGHT. I almost pulled a second time that night, and then the nextnight, I TURNED A GIRL DOWN in order to chase an even more gorgeous

    one. Talk about a turn around!"-Brent R., N. Carolina

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    What you NEED for an SNL

    Are they common?

    In every case, there are 5 elements thatMUST be present

    If even one is missing = no sex

    If youre even mediocre at all 5 = sex

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    The 5 Prerequisites to Sex

    1. Approaching

    2. Escalation

    3. Screening for Logistics

    4. Baiting to Invest

    5. Going to a Discreet Location

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    = TIME

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    Prereq #1: Approaching

    The #1 thing you can do to INFINITELY increase your oddsof banging her

    But tragically, most guys FAIL to do this Master Task(which, by default, means they fail to accomplish the other4 Master Tasks)

    All it takes to accomplish this task is to walk up and sayanything that gets an interaction going! MissionAccomplished!

    The worst case scenario:You won't end up banging her! My favorite and most effective opener is simply: "Hey"

    The absolute WORST opener: Trying to come up with theperfect, "guaranteed" line to get her in bed

    Plug: Read How to get laid by simply saying Hello

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    Prereq #2: Logistics

    1. Who are you here with?

    2. How do you know each other?

    3. How did you get here?

    4. What are your plans for later?

    5. What time do you have to wake up in themorning?

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    Prereq #3: Escalation

    Sexual Tension

    3-D Escalation (Isolation)

    Kino (physical)

    Inoculating Against 5 Hesitations/Objections

    Sexual Languaging

    SEXUAL FRAMES

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    Escalate with: Sexual Frames

    The art of speaking dirty but not sleazy

    Starts the trend of her viewing you as apotential sexual partner

    Frames, once set, amplify over time

    Keeps you out of Friend Land

    You look like a nice girl, but I detect a serious

    naughty side

    Youre cute. If you dont stop talking to me, Ill be

    forced to get you into bed later.

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    Master Task #4: Baiting toInvest The be-all-end-all of seduction

    Increases the mistakes youre allowed

    Slop factor

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    Why it works:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Escalation_of_commitment

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anchoring

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attentional_Bias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choice-supportive_bias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Framing_(social_sciences)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere_exposure_effect

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outcome_bias

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wishful_thinking http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusion_of_transparency

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias

    Baiting To Invest (Why)

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    Cognitive Dissonance

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    Many girls begin investing in you on theirown. If she doesn't (or only invests in smallincrements) then you want to bait her.

    The process: Throw out the bait

    She invests

    If not, Prime The Pump and bait again

    Reward her

    Her actual investment does NOT matterOnly HER PERCEIVED INVESTMENT

    Baiting To Invest (How Part 1)

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    Qualification

    Physically move her (3D Escalation) Properly using silence (The Gravity Hook)

    Baiting Openers ("Hey")

    Verbal & Nonverbal Kino Baiting Cialdini's Law of Reciprocation (Prime The Pump) Cialdini's Commitment & Consistency (Bring the Slurpee)

    Implied Compliance

    Roleplays

    The Double-Bind (investment) Direct investment request (Verbal/Nonverbal)

    "Hijacking"

    Baiting To Invest (Some Tools)

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    In summation:

    Time is the biggest cockblock

    Dont be afraid to set sexual frames

    Get her to invest

    The more she invests,the more you can touch her chest.

    Get her to invest in you,

    or shell blow some OTHER dude

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    Big Deal!

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    Questions?