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    Live YourStrengths! Key Insights:

    Business Dont Grow, People Do.

    Consider a coach for helpimproving your skills.

    Inspiring Leaders

    Ask help from others to make better

    choices,

    Create unified and aligned teams

    Thank others with specifics,

    Listen to team members,

    Do the right thing ALL the time.

    You may be the one who needs tochange in order to experience

    explosive growth in your firm.

    When we examine our strengthsand constantly help those around usto know their strengths and build onthem, success will come our way.

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    I Will Do My Best to Help the

    Company and the People Within ItAchieve Results

    Honor It. Betray It.

    Self Betrayal.

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    The Jobs 1st Day Vs. 1st Anniversary

    Starting a New Job, Project

    Outside the Box, Think AboutStarting a New Job, Project

    Obtain Research, Talk toOthers, Interview, ArePresentable

    Get the Job, Group Project

    Attitude Toward Company

    Attitude Toward Team

    Attitude Toward YourCapabilities, Contribution

    Attitude Toward Results Outside Box, Desire Win-Win.

    One Year Later

    In the Box, we cant truly focuson results because were so busyfocusing on ourselves.

    No longer committed,engaged, motivated, looking

    forward to working as a team Adds to stress, develops lack

    of trust, communicationissues, misalignment, poorteamwork, backbiting, badattitudes, creates conflict,troublemaking

    Blame game. Inside box,need problems. Stay battleready to conquer.

    People who formerly were committed, engaged, motivated, looking forward toworking as a team, ..now have problems in many of these areas. And who do

    you suppose they think caused those problems? Is it them? Is it others?

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    When We Help Other People With Our Best,

    We Honor Our Own Values (Instincts).

    When We Honor Our Instincts,We Work in Perfect Harmony:

    Proud of Our Work Product, Enjoyment of the Relationships,

    Thankful for the People, Work.

    When We Betray Our Values, We: See Ourselves as Victims, Hardworking,Fair, Sensitive, Good Workers

    See Others as Lazy, Inconsiderate, Un-appreciative, Insensitive, Lousy Workers

    You (We) (I) may be the one who needs to change in orderto experience explosive growth in (y)our firm.

    Operation: Eliminating the Blame Game

    Do the right thingALL the time.

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    Anatomy of Peace

    Heart at War (In The Box) - Not Facing Fears Need a Battle (Problem) to Justify Actions, Thoughts

    Blame Others for Lack in Ourselves

    Consider a coach for help

    improving your skills.

    Heart at Peace (Outside the Box) Matches Values and Goals to Reach Dreams WhileChallenging Limiting Beliefs (Facing Fears)

    Our Success Depends on Honoring Our Instincts(taking responsibility for our actions).

    Remember, once I get in the box in response, I actually

    need the other guy to keep being a jerk so that Ill remainjustified in blaming him for being a jerk.

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    Honoring Your Instincts, Values, & Dreams

    What Would You Like? Face Fear of Dreaming

    Dare to Dream of Your Possibilities.

    Visualize. Make Your Own Hollywood Movie.

    How Might You Get It? Face Fear of Failure

    Develop Action Steps with a Failure is Not an

    Option mindset. Value Intentionality. Move with a Purpose.

    How Will You Stay the Course? Face Fear ofCommitment

    Prioritize and Focus, Stay True to Your Values,

    Develop Support System Of People and Tools How Will You Know When You Have It? Face Fear

    of Conflict Change Produces Different Perspective

    When is the Conflict Worth the Risk?

    When is Enough, Enough?

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    Case Study

    Kats Strength Finder Results

    Kolbe Results www.Kolbe.com

    How to Fascinate.com

    When we examine our strengths and

    constantly help those around us toknow their strengths and build onthem, success will come our way.

    http://www.kolbe.com/http://www.kolbe.com/
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    Kats 5 Top Strengths:

    Futuristic

    Activator

    Focus

    Maximizer

    Relator

    Futuristic inspired by thefuture and what could be.

    They inspire others with theirvisions of the future.

    Activator can makethings happen. They turnthoughts into action.

    Focus can take direction,follow through, and stay ontrack. They prioritize, then act.

    Maximizer stimulateexcellence with strengths

    focus. They seek totransform something stronginto something superb.

    Relator They find deepsatisfaction in working hard

    with friends to achieve a goal.

    Living Your Strengths

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    Hard Wired How We:

    Explain with facts.

    Maintain throughprocesses.

    Improvise.

    Restore Balance.

    Innovator:

    Creative process ofacquiring knowledge isintuitive, visionary, and

    highly original.

    Knack for findingalternatives anddiscovering unique waysto get things done.

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    YOUR PRIMARY TRIGGER: POWERYou are a natural leader.WHO YOU ARE: Confident Goal-Oriented Influential Opinionated

    Decisive

    HOW YOU FASCINATE:

    You influence others with self-assuredideas and action. You energetically tackle big goals, giving

    you the potential to motivate large groups. People instinctively look to you for cuesof how to behave.

    You quickly create warm emotional connections.

    WHO YOU ARE: Expressive Intuitive

    Social Impulsive EnthusiasticHOW YOU FASCINATE:

    You captivate others with your vibrantand attractive style of communication. Your approachable and transparent stylemakes you an "open book."

    You intuitively understand ideas andfeelin s of others.

    Rather than focusing on deadlines andstructure, you pursue opportunities. You are perceived as optimistic.

    Most likely, you bring an open andadventurous spirit to your work.

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    9 Seconds to Fascinate

    Greetings, it is a pleasure to meet you.

    I hope that all is well with you.

    Me, I am living the dream, helping others live

    their dream. How, you ask?

    As a CPA and a professional coach, I help build

    teams, processes, and systems in merger and

    acquisitions reaching goals of companies and

    individuals by embracing change effectively.

    I love what I doI do. Do you?

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    Additional Materials

    From a Cracker to a Cake

    Genuine Exclusivity

    Meet to Create More T. E. A. M.

    Recommended Reading List

    Solemn Vows for All Who Work Here

    When we examine our strengths andconstantly help those around us toknow their strengths and build onthem, success will come our way.

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    From A Cracker to A CakeRecipes Are Similar

    Common Ingredients Flour

    Milk

    Baking powder

    Salt Butter (Shortening)

    Added Ingredients Fora Totally DifferentExperience

    Sugar Vanilla extract

    Eggs

    Ingredients of ExtraOrdinary

    Create An Experience We Tell Others About Things that We Like. A Good

    Show, Restaurant, Shop.

    Concentrate on Service

    Way We Answer Phone

    Way We Answer Door

    Way Our Desks Are Organized

    Do Kind Acts.

    Look Like Money Your Personal Dress

    Your Office Appearance

    Have the Right People

    Do Only What We Can Do

    Communicate What We Aspire to Deliver

    Rate Ourselves

    Find a Way to Celebrate Individual Achievements

    Ask Clients About Their Experience

    Communicate Constantly

    Account Reviews

    Periodic Commentaries

    Periodic Calls/Meetings

    Report Outs of Observations

    State of the Relationship

    Offer Genuine Exclusivity

    Janet Scudder asked me to speakabout this book & now 65 managers

    at Sysco Foods are studying the booktogether.

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    Genuine Exclusivity

    What Challenge Do We Solve? Four Tests to See If We Are a Good Fit

    Good Chemistry?

    Goals Aligned?

    Do We Add Value to Current State of Affairs?

    Will Our Combined Assets Create More?

    Are We Advocators (Educators) ofEach Others Services and Contributions?

    Can Our Clients State Our Firm (Organizational)

    Value Proposition?

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    Meet to Create More - T.E.A.M.

    Replicate Easily

    Attitude

    Being In It to Win It.

    Expect to Win. Prepare toWin. Execute to Win.

    Aptitude

    Willingness

    Training

    Fortitude

    Sense of Purpose

    Sense of Development

    Remember, Reward, Internalize

    Remember Who Is the Client?

    Why You?

    Why Now?

    Reward Attitude Really is Everything

    Visualization vs. Practice

    Internalize The Lesson Of Experience

    The Application of Wisdom

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    Recommended Reading Two Books by the Arbinger Institute

    Leadership and Self-Deception Getting Out of the Box

    The Anatomy of Peace

    Resolving the Heart of Conflict

    Who Moved My Cheese? By Steve Johnson, M.D. Attitude is Everything by Keith Harrell

    QBQ! The Question Behind the Question by John G. Miller

    What to Really Ask Yourself to Eliminate Blame, Complaining,

    and Procrastination Two Books by Mark Sanborn

    The Encore Effect

    The Fred Factor

    The Wow Factor by F. C. Jones

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    Solemn Vows of All Who Work Here

    As Long As I Am Employed By .., I Promise:

    To Constantly Improve Myself,

    To Be the Best That I Can Be In Everything,

    To Be Professional in a Professional Office,

    To Be Totally Loyal to the Organization,

    To Be a Team Player,

    To Keep a Positive Mental Attitude,

    To Understand the Clients Role in Business.