leaders toolbox
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Live YourStrengths! Key Insights:
Business Dont Grow, People Do.
Consider a coach for helpimproving your skills.
Inspiring Leaders
Ask help from others to make better
choices,
Create unified and aligned teams
Thank others with specifics,
Listen to team members,
Do the right thing ALL the time.
You may be the one who needs tochange in order to experience
explosive growth in your firm.
When we examine our strengthsand constantly help those around usto know their strengths and build onthem, success will come our way.
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I Will Do My Best to Help the
Company and the People Within ItAchieve Results
Honor It. Betray It.
Self Betrayal.
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The Jobs 1st Day Vs. 1st Anniversary
Starting a New Job, Project
Outside the Box, Think AboutStarting a New Job, Project
Obtain Research, Talk toOthers, Interview, ArePresentable
Get the Job, Group Project
Attitude Toward Company
Attitude Toward Team
Attitude Toward YourCapabilities, Contribution
Attitude Toward Results Outside Box, Desire Win-Win.
One Year Later
In the Box, we cant truly focuson results because were so busyfocusing on ourselves.
No longer committed,engaged, motivated, looking
forward to working as a team Adds to stress, develops lack
of trust, communicationissues, misalignment, poorteamwork, backbiting, badattitudes, creates conflict,troublemaking
Blame game. Inside box,need problems. Stay battleready to conquer.
People who formerly were committed, engaged, motivated, looking forward toworking as a team, ..now have problems in many of these areas. And who do
you suppose they think caused those problems? Is it them? Is it others?
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When We Help Other People With Our Best,
We Honor Our Own Values (Instincts).
When We Honor Our Instincts,We Work in Perfect Harmony:
Proud of Our Work Product, Enjoyment of the Relationships,
Thankful for the People, Work.
When We Betray Our Values, We: See Ourselves as Victims, Hardworking,Fair, Sensitive, Good Workers
See Others as Lazy, Inconsiderate, Un-appreciative, Insensitive, Lousy Workers
You (We) (I) may be the one who needs to change in orderto experience explosive growth in (y)our firm.
Operation: Eliminating the Blame Game
Do the right thingALL the time.
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Anatomy of Peace
Heart at War (In The Box) - Not Facing Fears Need a Battle (Problem) to Justify Actions, Thoughts
Blame Others for Lack in Ourselves
Consider a coach for help
improving your skills.
Heart at Peace (Outside the Box) Matches Values and Goals to Reach Dreams WhileChallenging Limiting Beliefs (Facing Fears)
Our Success Depends on Honoring Our Instincts(taking responsibility for our actions).
Remember, once I get in the box in response, I actually
need the other guy to keep being a jerk so that Ill remainjustified in blaming him for being a jerk.
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Honoring Your Instincts, Values, & Dreams
What Would You Like? Face Fear of Dreaming
Dare to Dream of Your Possibilities.
Visualize. Make Your Own Hollywood Movie.
How Might You Get It? Face Fear of Failure
Develop Action Steps with a Failure is Not an
Option mindset. Value Intentionality. Move with a Purpose.
How Will You Stay the Course? Face Fear ofCommitment
Prioritize and Focus, Stay True to Your Values,
Develop Support System Of People and Tools How Will You Know When You Have It? Face Fear
of Conflict Change Produces Different Perspective
When is the Conflict Worth the Risk?
When is Enough, Enough?
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Case Study
Kats Strength Finder Results
Kolbe Results www.Kolbe.com
How to Fascinate.com
When we examine our strengths and
constantly help those around us toknow their strengths and build onthem, success will come our way.
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Kats 5 Top Strengths:
Futuristic
Activator
Focus
Maximizer
Relator
Futuristic inspired by thefuture and what could be.
They inspire others with theirvisions of the future.
Activator can makethings happen. They turnthoughts into action.
Focus can take direction,follow through, and stay ontrack. They prioritize, then act.
Maximizer stimulateexcellence with strengths
focus. They seek totransform something stronginto something superb.
Relator They find deepsatisfaction in working hard
with friends to achieve a goal.
Living Your Strengths
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Hard Wired How We:
Explain with facts.
Maintain throughprocesses.
Improvise.
Restore Balance.
Innovator:
Creative process ofacquiring knowledge isintuitive, visionary, and
highly original.
Knack for findingalternatives anddiscovering unique waysto get things done.
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YOUR PRIMARY TRIGGER: POWERYou are a natural leader.WHO YOU ARE: Confident Goal-Oriented Influential Opinionated
Decisive
HOW YOU FASCINATE:
You influence others with self-assuredideas and action. You energetically tackle big goals, giving
you the potential to motivate large groups. People instinctively look to you for cuesof how to behave.
You quickly create warm emotional connections.
WHO YOU ARE: Expressive Intuitive
Social Impulsive EnthusiasticHOW YOU FASCINATE:
You captivate others with your vibrantand attractive style of communication. Your approachable and transparent stylemakes you an "open book."
You intuitively understand ideas andfeelin s of others.
Rather than focusing on deadlines andstructure, you pursue opportunities. You are perceived as optimistic.
Most likely, you bring an open andadventurous spirit to your work.
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9 Seconds to Fascinate
Greetings, it is a pleasure to meet you.
I hope that all is well with you.
Me, I am living the dream, helping others live
their dream. How, you ask?
As a CPA and a professional coach, I help build
teams, processes, and systems in merger and
acquisitions reaching goals of companies and
individuals by embracing change effectively.
I love what I doI do. Do you?
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Additional Materials
From a Cracker to a Cake
Genuine Exclusivity
Meet to Create More T. E. A. M.
Recommended Reading List
Solemn Vows for All Who Work Here
When we examine our strengths andconstantly help those around us toknow their strengths and build onthem, success will come our way.
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From A Cracker to A CakeRecipes Are Similar
Common Ingredients Flour
Milk
Baking powder
Salt Butter (Shortening)
Added Ingredients Fora Totally DifferentExperience
Sugar Vanilla extract
Eggs
Ingredients of ExtraOrdinary
Create An Experience We Tell Others About Things that We Like. A Good
Show, Restaurant, Shop.
Concentrate on Service
Way We Answer Phone
Way We Answer Door
Way Our Desks Are Organized
Do Kind Acts.
Look Like Money Your Personal Dress
Your Office Appearance
Have the Right People
Do Only What We Can Do
Communicate What We Aspire to Deliver
Rate Ourselves
Find a Way to Celebrate Individual Achievements
Ask Clients About Their Experience
Communicate Constantly
Account Reviews
Periodic Commentaries
Periodic Calls/Meetings
Report Outs of Observations
State of the Relationship
Offer Genuine Exclusivity
Janet Scudder asked me to speakabout this book & now 65 managers
at Sysco Foods are studying the booktogether.
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Genuine Exclusivity
What Challenge Do We Solve? Four Tests to See If We Are a Good Fit
Good Chemistry?
Goals Aligned?
Do We Add Value to Current State of Affairs?
Will Our Combined Assets Create More?
Are We Advocators (Educators) ofEach Others Services and Contributions?
Can Our Clients State Our Firm (Organizational)
Value Proposition?
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Meet to Create More - T.E.A.M.
Replicate Easily
Attitude
Being In It to Win It.
Expect to Win. Prepare toWin. Execute to Win.
Aptitude
Willingness
Training
Fortitude
Sense of Purpose
Sense of Development
Remember, Reward, Internalize
Remember Who Is the Client?
Why You?
Why Now?
Reward Attitude Really is Everything
Visualization vs. Practice
Internalize The Lesson Of Experience
The Application of Wisdom
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Recommended Reading Two Books by the Arbinger Institute
Leadership and Self-Deception Getting Out of the Box
The Anatomy of Peace
Resolving the Heart of Conflict
Who Moved My Cheese? By Steve Johnson, M.D. Attitude is Everything by Keith Harrell
QBQ! The Question Behind the Question by John G. Miller
What to Really Ask Yourself to Eliminate Blame, Complaining,
and Procrastination Two Books by Mark Sanborn
The Encore Effect
The Fred Factor
The Wow Factor by F. C. Jones
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Solemn Vows of All Who Work Here
As Long As I Am Employed By .., I Promise:
To Constantly Improve Myself,
To Be the Best That I Can Be In Everything,
To Be Professional in a Professional Office,
To Be Totally Loyal to the Organization,
To Be a Team Player,
To Keep a Positive Mental Attitude,
To Understand the Clients Role in Business.