RECONCILABLE

DIFFERENCESSong of Songs

ALL

COUPLES

FIGHT

“Verbal missiles”“Physical assault”“Logistic attack”

“ SCI-WAR”“ kidnap for ransom”

“Death-match”

Different types

of fighting strategy

Solomon & Shulamite apart

2 I slept, but my heart was awake.A sound! My beloved is knocking."Open to me, my sister, my love,my dove, my perfect one, for myhead is wet with dew, my lockswith the drops of the night."

3 I had put off my garment; howcould I put it on? I had bathed myfeet; how could I soil them?

THE ROOT CAUSES OF CONFLICT

UNMET

EXPECTATIONS

SELF-

CENTEREDNESS

16 My beloved is mine, and I amhis; he grazes among the lilies.

IDENTIFY THE BIGGEST ROOT IN

YOUR HEART

23 Search me, O God, and knowmy heart; try me, and know mythoughts,

24 and see if any wicked way is inme; and lead me in the wayeverlasting.

LOVERS

APART

4 My beloved put his hand to thelatch, and my heart was thrilledwithin me.5 I arose to open to my beloved,and my hands dripped with myrrh,my fingers with liquid myrrh, onthe handles of the bolt.

6 I opened to my beloved, but mybeloved had turned and gone. Mysoul failed me when he spoke. Isought him, but found him not; Icalled him, but he gave noanswer.

Too many

competition

8 There are sixty queens, andeighty concubines, and virginswithout number.

TO RESOLVE CONFLICT

I WILL ACTAND

NOT React

21 Do not be overcome by evil, butovercome evil with good.

Love your wife & do not beharsh with her.

Be considerate.

Treat her with respect and asheirs with you of the graciousgift of life.

Love her.

Cherish.

Don’t try to change yourspouse—you change

I WILL FOCUSON THE Good

AND NOT THE Bad.

8 Finally, brothers, whatever istrue, whatever is honorable,whatever is just, whatever is pure,whatever is lovely, whatever iscommendable, if there is anyexcellence, if there is anythingworthy of praise, think aboutthese things. (ESV)

I WILL talk AND

NOT walk

26 Be angry and do not sin; do notlet the sun go down on youranger,

27 and give no opportunity to thedevil.

LEGALSETTLEMENT

58 As you go with your accuserbefore the magistrate, make aneffort to settle with him on theway, lest he drag you to thejudge, and the judge hand youover to the officer, and the officerput you in prison.

PRAYERS NOT HINDERED

7 Likewise, husbands, live withyour wives in an understandingway, showing honor to the womanas the weaker vessel, since theyare heirs with you of the grace oflife, so that your prayers may notbe hindered.

NO LONGER SELF-CENTERED

3 I am my beloved's and mybeloved is mine; he grazes amongthe lilies.

SYMBOL OF HOPE

11 I went down to the nut orchardto look at the blossoms of thevalley, to see whether the vineshad budded, whether thepomegranates were in bloom.

FAITHWORKS CHRISTIAN CHURCH GLOBAL

Presented By:

Pastor Alan Esporas

FCC Patiis, San Mateo, Rizal, PH Greenbrier Worship Service,

FEBRUARY 21, 2016

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FAITHWORKS CHRISTIAN CHURCH GLOBAL

Presented By:

Pastor Alan Esporas

FCC Main San Mateo, Rizal, PH 6:30 p.m. Evening Worship Service,

FEBRUARY 21, 2016

Website: http://faithworkschristianchurch.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/Faithworks-Christian-Church-Global-292363410916567/