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Love Systems InsiderDate: November 17, 2010

In this issue,

y Q & A with Savoy:

o Meeting women at the gymo Seeing her after the first meeto Sleeping with your roommate's girlfriend (uh oh..)

yLove Systems opportunities - don't miss out!

Q & A with Savoy

Dear Savoy,

Are gyms a good place to meet women? I see hot girls there all the time, but they

always seem busy and have their headphones on.

-Eric, Rockville, MD

Hi Eric,

I love gyms for meeting women.

I went to college in Montreal, where it gets pretty darn cold. In the winter, women wear 7

layers of clothing. It's impossible to guess a women's weight within 25 lbs. At least at

the gym, you know what you're getting - physically, anyway.

In general, approach women when it's difficult. Not just when it's easy. When you

approach a woman with her headphones at the gym, or a girl on the street, or a woman

in the corner of the bar surrounded by a group of men - yeah it will be a bit harder, but

you will definitely stand out. Most women will appreciate a guy with the "balls" to go


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where other men don't.

(And don't worry about the headphones. Unless she's on a treadmill or something, she'll

turn her iPod down when you start talking to her anyway. Just ignore it.)

A couple gym tips:

y Go to the gym later in the day. It's less likely she'll be in a rush or have plans forright after. Start a conversation, then suggest getting a smoothie after or goingfor a drink.

y Bring a change of clothes to the gym. If you have an instant-date, you don't want

to have to go home and change first.y Skip long, drawn out "opinion openers" at the gym. Instead, comment on the

invariably crappy music the gym is playing or the Richard Simmons lookalike whois inevitably stalking the yoga mats.

y Gym pickups are short, like Day Game. Actually, a lot of what Jeremy Soul talkedabout in his book Daytime Datingwill work for you at the gym.

y Choose your gym carefully. Buying a membership at the local college gym notonly usually means access to great facilities but also a high percentage of young,hot women.

Hope this helps! There is a lot of great advice on The Attraction Forums on picking up at

the gym.

Take care,

Savoy

Dear Savoy,

I want to thank you everything Love Systems has done for me. I first read the

Magic Bullets Handbooka year ago and read it again a few times last summer and

got SERIOUS about changing my life. Holy F---! It worked exactly as I hope. Last

week, I went back to my five year college reunion and no one recognize the "old

Jason" but the popular hot girls loved the "new me". It's added a lot of confidence

and FUN to my life. It's like in the movies where you get to go back in time and do


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it all over - except it was real!

Through my friends [social circle], I hook up very easily. Bars are more trouble.

One out of every two or three nights I get a same-night lay, but if I don't go home

with the girl, I can never get her out to see me again. This is even if she is

BEGGING me to take her phone number? What am I doing wrong?

-J.S., Sugar Land, TX

Hi J.S.,

I had to really shorten your letter down; hope you don't mind. And congratulations on

your progress so far. Sometimes, as men, we are too focused on the next mountain to

climb that don't appreciate how far we've already come.

Onto your question - it's almost definitely a problem with your "phone game" or, as we

call it now "phone and text game".

Phone and text game is the bridge between the first meeting ("the pickup") and the

second meeting ("the first date"). If you're not good at that, you'll be wasting your timemeeting women since you'll never get to see them again. If you're really good at phone

and text game, even very quick or fleeting pickups can turn into something.

My girlfriend before I left San Diego - a legit "10" - came from a 5-minute conversation

after the bar closed when her friends were yelling at her to get in the car. After some

great phone for a couple weeks, she invited me over to dinner and the rest was history.

The master's guide to Phone and Text Game is of course the full-length book by top-10

pick up artists Braddock and Mr M, called The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game.

I don't have space to summarize a couple hundred pages of text message scripts,phone call transcripts, etc., here, but I can give you a few pointers to start you off:

y Make sure she has your phone number in her phone when you get hernumber. That way she'll know it's you when you call.

y Never leave voicemail. If you have to leave a message, send a text.y Text her later that night if possible. (This can be great for same-night


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Dear Savoy,

I slept with my roommate's girlfriend. I feel like an asshole. I can't really explain it,

except we were all drunk and she was flirting pretty hard. I was using a couple

games and teases from the Routines Manualon other girls at the party and they

were biting pretty hard, so do you think that was it? That she saw other girls

wanting me so she wanted some herself? She's a nice girl and this doesn't seem

like her. And how do you "turn it off" so the wrong girls aren't attracted to you?

-Darren K, San Diego, CA

Hi Darren,

The reason that you "feel like an asshole" is because you are, in fact, an asshole.

Here's how you avoid sleeping with your friends' girlfriends: You know that part of the

night where you took your pants off and got on top of her? Don't do that.

The customer is not always right.

Best,

Nick Savoy

P.S. As for your question - the answer is probably yes. When a woman isn't used to

seeing other women attracted to you and all of a sudden you start saying exactly the

right things to trigger women's emotions, then yes, it will usually make her curious about

you. Though most women have more self-control than that.

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