making shibaricon the best con ever
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How to make this your best ShibariCon ever: a guide for newbies, geeks, introverts and the less than 100% braveTRANSCRIPT
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ShibariCon: Your Best Con Ever
Shibaricon for newbies, introverts and less-than-100%-brave: how to get the most out of your Shibaricon experience
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Don’t wait until you get there!
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Stalk in advance
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Stalk the speakers
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Stalk the speakers
Lolita Wolf
Scott Smith
Susan Wright
Sir C
Lochai Stine
Murphy Blue
Mark Devi8 Derek da Silva
Leon Monkeyfetish
Amy Morgan
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Keep a list
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• Name & pseudonym
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• Name & pseudonym
• Organizations & associations
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• Name & pseudonym
• Organizations & associations
• Blog & Twitter topics
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• Name & pseudonym
• Organizations & associations
• Blog & Twitter topics
• Recent events attended
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• Name & pseudonym
• Organizations & associations
• Blog & Twitter topics
• Recent events attended
• Mutual friends mentioned
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Before you go: Stalk the mailing list
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Listen first
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Answer questions
Ask questions
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Continue interesting
conversations with individuals
offlist
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Mailing list DON’Ts
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Don’t be that
guy
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Fresh con cards
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Fresh con cards
• Name or pseudonym
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Fresh con cards
• Name or pseudonym
• Twitter ID
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Fresh con cards
• Name or pseudonym
• Twitter ID
• blog
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Fresh con cards
• Name or pseudonym
• Twitter ID
• blog
• cell phone for texting (outside the space)
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Give partner some lovin’
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During the con
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OMG! That’s her! What do I
say??
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Statement
Disclosure
Invitation
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Statement
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Statement“I just went to Minx’s session on How to Make This Your Best ShibariCon Ever.”
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Statement“I just went to Minx’s session on How to Make This Your Best ShibariCon Ever.”
“This is my first ShibariCon.”
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Statement“I just went to Minx’s session on How to Make This Your Best ShibariCon Ever.”
“This is my first ShibariCon.”
“Your boobs are spectacular.”
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Disclosure
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“I think Minx is full of shit.”
Disclosure
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“I think Minx is full of shit.”
Disclosure
“I really like the people I’m meeting.”
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“I think Minx is full of shit.”
Disclosure
“I really like the people I’m meeting.”
“I’m a boobiesexual.”
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Invitation
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“What did you think of Minx’s talk?”
Invitation
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“What did you think of Minx’s talk?”
Invitation
“What do you think of the con?”
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“What did you think of Minx’s talk?”
Invitation
“What do you think of the con?”
“So, what do you think of your boobs?”
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Statement
Disclosure
Invitation
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Conversation Starters
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Conversation Starters• Which session are you going to?
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Conversation Starters• Which session are you going to?
• Oh? I missed it. How was it?
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Conversation Starters• Which session are you going to?
• Oh? I missed it. How was it?
• Are you going anywhere for dinner?
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Conversation Starters• Which session are you going to?
• Oh? I missed it. How was it?
• Are you going anywhere for dinner?
• Are you going to XXX tonight?
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Conversation Starters• Which session are you going to?
• Oh? I missed it. How was it?
• Are you going anywhere for dinner?
• Are you going to XXX tonight?
• I’m trying to decide between Mollena’s class on (something awesome) and Lochai’s class on (something else awesome) Which would you choose?
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Conversation Starters
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Conversation Starters
• What do you do at XXX?
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Conversation Starters
• What do you do at XXX?
• How did you find out about ShibariCon?
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Conversation Starters
• What do you do at XXX?
• How did you find out about ShibariCon?
• Did you see the season finale of Dr. Who?
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Ask for what you want
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Ask for what you want
• I’d really like to scene with you this weekend/tonight.
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Ask for what you want
• I’d really like to scene with you this weekend/tonight.
• I’d like to get into your pants this weekend.
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Ask for what you want
• I’d really like to scene with you this weekend/tonight.
• I’d like to get into your pants this weekend.
• I would love to hear you scream.
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Ask for what you want
• I’d really like to scene with you this weekend/tonight.
• I’d like to get into your pants this weekend.
• I would love to hear you scream.
• I’d like to get to know you better.
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Ask for what you want
• I’d really like to scene with you this weekend/tonight.
• I’d like to get into your pants this weekend.
• I would love to hear you scream.
• I’d like to get to know you better.
• I’d love to chat you up over coffee.
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No.
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Practice believing in yourself
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If you’re nervous...
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Say fears aloud
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Take care of yourself
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Take care of yourself
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Take care of yourself
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Adopt a policy of
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Adopt a policy of
trying new thingsFriday, May 27, 2011
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meeting new
people
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having new experiences
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no regrets
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decide you will kick ass
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Which sessions?
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Mollena Williams• Self-care and aftercare: who
needs ‘em?
• From the bottom up: a sub’s missives on rope play
• Intangibles: manifesting power with rope
• Sins of our fathers: rope as taboo play
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Favorite speakers?
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Favorite speakers?
Lolita Wolf
Scott Smith
Susan Wright
Sir C
Lochai Stine
Murphy Blue
Mark Devi8 Derek da Silva
Leon Monkeyfetish
Amy Morgan
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ShibariCon bingo!
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ShibariCon: Your Best Con EverShibaricon for newbies, introverts and less-than-100%-
brave: how to get the most out of your Shibaricon experience
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