managing change: handling stress
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Managing Change: Handling Stress
Changing the world one story at a time
Javed MohammedJaved [email protected]@live.com
Copyright 2009
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Change
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Change: let’s face it, comes at you from all sides
Customers
Family
Technology
School
Work Economy
Taxes
Health
Debts
Money
Life
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But it’s an uphill struggle
OLD NEW
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It’s natural to resist
Just ask the butterfly
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Some people get frustrated
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Others Argue
Argument
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Some just want to pull their…
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So what is stress? Any outside force
that has an effect on our body or mind.
A physical, mental, or emotional response to events that causes bodily or mental tension.
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We create our own stress through deadlines
The more unrealistic the expectations the greater the stress
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It’s hip to be busy, even if it’s stressful
Does this spell success?
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We lose perspective
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We face stress in all our daily roles
@Home
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We face stress in all our daily roles
@Work
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizesSome Good:
Prepping for exams
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizesSome Good:
Getting Married
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizesSome Good:
Relocation
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizesSome Good:
Career change, Promotion
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizes Some bad:
Rejection Demotion Losing Job
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizes Some bad:
Overwhelmed @work
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizes Some bad:
Accident or illness
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizes Some bad:
Divorce
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Stress comes in all shapes & sizes Some bad:
Death in family
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You don’t control the economy
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Or the stock market
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The only thing you directly control is you
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OK I know stress and I know problems, give me the fix!
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The truth is I don’t have a fix But the good
news is there are many small fixes.
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Low High
Activity
PerformanceHigh
Low
Optimumperformance
Laidback
Anxious
CrisisInactive
Bored out of my mind
Wow I’m getting paid to do this!
I can’t take it!
Ideally we need a balance
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Ride the Roller Coaster
Shock/Confusion
Emotional Turmoil
Anger/Denial/Blame/
Guilt/Grief
Depression
Acceptance
(letting go of past)
Looking for new ideas and meaning
Moving On
Time
Sense
of
Well
bein
g
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In a crisis we have 2 choices
Fight or flight
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Our body and mind may tense up
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Think of alternate plans
Plan C & D are good too
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We carry around blame and resentment
We suppress feelings and emotions
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Forgiveness
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No one’s perfect, go easy with criticism
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But if you must, try this
Warning: Very Hot; This criticism-sandwich should be handled with care
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Ask will it matter 100 years from now?
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Accept people as they are
OK it’s easier said, but it does work!
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Simplify your life
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Remember you, your relationships and life are not perfect
And neither is the tower of Pisa, but it is still standing
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Have big dreams
But face reality
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Separate Needs from Wants
Ask is it nice or necessary?
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Live in the present
Take one thing at a time, one minute at a timeYesterday is gone, tomorrow has yet to arrive.
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Exercise & eat well
You know regular exercise & good nutrition takes the blues away
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A little prayer goes a long way
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So just to recap Change is inevitable It’s natural to resist
change We deal and cope
with change in different ways
The more we start to accept life and people with all its warts the less stress all the way round.
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“Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.”
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References
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