marriage - 3rd copy

8/2/2019 Marriage - 3rd Copy

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The Sacrament ofMatrimony

pol villagraciaTheology-SBCA


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Objectives:To understand the background ofMatrimony, its nature and

essential properties

To identify the prerequisites of a validmarriage.


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Established GoalsMarriage is a unique sacrament, in that it isbuilt into the very nature our human reality ascreated male and female in the image of Godand called to a covenant of loving others with

Gods love.

The two creation accounts present the twobasic ends of marriage; procreative,propagating the human race and unitive, the

two will become one body.


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Issues Against Marriage

Adultery

RH Bill

ConcubinageBigamy

Live-in

Same SexMarriage

polygamy

contraception

polyandry

sterilization

Divorce


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Terms for distinctions

Divorce

Annulment

Legal Separation


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Remember an adage:

To have three wives is

To have two wives is

To have only one wife is a

A new mentality emerges: What about 10 wives?

Gluttony!

polygamy.

bigamy.

Monotony.

monogamy is passe.


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Read, reflect and answer

Marriage is like a zipper.

There are two rows of teeth on azipper. These teeth fit into one

another very neatly. But you cannever fasten the zipper unless youuse the little zip that draws theteeth together and locks them.


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Questions

1. How is marriage compared to a zipper? Explain.

2. In Christian marriage, who do you think

acts as two rows of teeth? Who actsas the little zipper?

3. What is the message of the story?


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Words to reflect on

It takes three to get married:a man and a woman and

God.Bishop Fulton Sheen


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1. Man is intrinsicallygood.

2. Man is basically

loving and self-giving.

3. Man is born, livesand dies in

community.

Gen 1:27

God created man in His own image,


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Gen 1:27

God created man in His own image,

Gen 2:18 Then the LORD God said, "It isnot good that the man should be alone;

I will make him a helper fit for him.


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and the rib which the LORD Godhad taken from the man he madeinto a woman

Genesis 2:22

and brought her to

the man.


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Genesis2:24 For thisreason a man shallleave his father and

his mother, and bejoined to his wife; and

they shall become

ONE FLESH.

"Marriage and conjugal loveare by their nature ordained

toward the begetting andeducating of children.

Humanae Vitae
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The best way to express the

meaning of marriage is to

speak of it in terms of a

covenant.

A covenant in the Scripture is a

binding agreement or bond

between two parties. Gods

dealing with his people was

within the context of a

covenant.

Both the Old and the New

Testament used marriage as a

symbol of Gods ownfaithfulness to his people (CFC,

1888-95).


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The reality of marriage as a

covenant has its basis in the

story of Creation.

When the Lord Godbrought the woman to theman, the man said:

This one, at last, is bone of

my bones and flesh of myflesh; This one shall be calledwoman, for out of her man

this one has been taken.

That is why a man leaves hisfather and mother and clings

to his wife, and the two ofthem become one body.Genesis 2:23-24


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TheEphesians 5:22-23

Christian Wives and Husbands.

Wives should be submissive to

their husbands as if to the Lord

because the husband is the

head of his wife just as Christ

is the Head of His body theChurch, as well as its Savior.

As the Church submits to

Christ, so wives should submit

to their husbands in

everything.

Husbands, love your wives,

as Christ loved the Church. He

gave himself up for her make

her holy, purifying her in the

bath of water by the power of

the word, to present to himself

a glorious church, holy and

immaculate without stain or

wrinkle or anything of that

sort. Husbands should love

their wives as they do theirown bodies. He who loves his

wife loves himself.


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TheEphesians 5:22-23

Observe that no one ever

hates his own flesh; no, he

nourishes it and takes care of

it as Christ cares for the

Churchfor we are members

of his body. For this reason

a man shall leave his father

and mother, and shall cling to

his wife, and the two shall be

made one,

This is the great

foreshadowing; I mean that it

refers to Christ and the

Church. In any case, each one

should love his wife as he

loves himself, the wife of her

part showing respect for her

husband.


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ThePaul, in this passage,

exhorts married Christians to a

strong mutual love.

In verse 31, Paul quotes

Genesis 2:24 to show that

marriage is instituted by God.

He sees Christian marriage as

taking on a new meaning that

symbolizes the intimate

relationship of love between

Christ and the Church.

Both Husbands and wives

are admonished to be

subordinate to one anotherout of reverence for Christ


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Canon 1055The marriage covenant, by which a man and a woman

establish between themselves a partnership of their wholelife, and which of its own very nature is ordered to thewell-being of the spouses and to the procreation andupbringing of children, has, between the baptized, been

raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament.


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Consequently,

a valid marriagecontract cannotexist betweenbaptized personswithout its being by

the very fact asacrament.


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Canon 1056The essential properties of marriage

are unityand indissolubility;in Christian marriage they acquire a

distinctive firmness by reason of thesacrament.


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The effects of Marriage

Canon 1134From a valid marriagethere arises between the spouses abond which of its own nature is

permanentand exclusive.


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Ang Lubidpolvillagracia

Nong kami ay naglaro ng trumpo,Gustong-gusto ko yung gawa ko.Mula sa sanga ng malaking bayabas

At gamit ko ang itak na matalas.

Pinutol ko ng dalawang pulgada,At putol na pako ibinaon ko sa kanya.Dulo ng itak ay nakatusok sa puno,At maging trumpo koy nasa kalso.


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Dahan-dahan ko syang tinapyas,Upang lilitaw ang hugis na hiyas.Sa pasensya at tiyaga ko sya nabuo,Ang napakaganda kong trumpo.

Ngunit upang itoy aking mapaglaruan,Kailangan ko itoy aking matatalian.Kumuha ako ng tuyong hibla ng abaka,

Hinihimayhimay ko at hinati sa dalawa.


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Itoy aking nilubid sa ibabaw ng hita,Gamit ng palad, pisi ay unting nakikita.Nilubid ko ng nilubid hanggat humaba,At itoy aking pinutulan sa gawing baba.

Kamiy nagsimulang maglaro ng trumpo,Ngunit di tumagal, lumuwag ang pisi ko.Akoy nagtanong sa aking tatay at nanay,

Anong sikreto sa pagawa ng pisi nakalagay?


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Huwag hatiin sa dalawa, anya ni nanay,Tatlong parte dapat para mas matibay.Sinimulan kong gumawa ulit ng lubid,Sa wakas akoy nakalaro ng masigasig.

Sa karanasang iyun, aking napag-isipan,Anumang samahan, mag-asawa o kaibigan,

Kundi kasama ang Panginoon sa buhayAy nakakatiyak, yan ay hindi matibay!


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Words to reflect on

It takes three to get married:a man and a woman and

God.Bishop Fulton Sheen


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Abangan ang

susunod

Thank you


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Objectives:To understand the background ofMatrimony, its nature and

essential properties

To identify the prerequisites of a validmarriage.


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Terms to be distinguished

Divorce

Annulment

Legal Separation


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Essential QuestionsHow can a marriage be valid?

(What are its prerequisites?

What is an impediment?How does it invalidate marriage?


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Prerequisites of a Valid Marriage

Can. 1063

Catechetical instruction

Personal preparation for enteringmarriage disposition toholiness and the obligations of

their new state


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Matrimonial Consent

Marriage is broughtinto being by thelawfully manifested

consent of legallycapable persons.

Therefore , no

human authority canmake up for thisconsent.


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Matrimonial consent is an act of thewill by which a man and a woman by

irrevocable covenant mutually giveand accept one another for thepurpose of establishing a marriage.


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Matrimonial consent must

be true, free, anddeliberate;

actual (to get married

here and now);mutual andsimultaneous; externallyand lawfully manifested(according to the requirements of theecclesiastical law);

and unconditional.


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Impediments

Diriment Impediment

-(Can. 1073) renders a person incapable of

make marriage invalid

Impedient Impediment

valid but illegal


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Impediments


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Terms to be distinguished

Divorce

Annulment

Legal

Separation


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Essential QuestionsHow can a marriage be valid?

(What are its prerequisites?

What is an impediment?How does it invalidate marriage?

R d d l :


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Read and analyze:Jerry and Shane are married for six

years now. They are blessed with twobeautiful and lovely kids. The eldest is 5years old and the other is 3. The couplestarted to quarrel almost everyday since thesecond child was added to the family. Thewife got a job to alleviate financialdifficulties. The husband went home often

late and drunk or would not go home at all.He wanted to end their marriage andconsidered of looking another one.

- How will you help them?


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Sending >>>>> Receiving

Receiving


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Tone, Tempo,

TimbrePhysiology,

Breathing, Rhythm,Facial Expression,

Posture,

GestureTone

Olny srmat poelpe can


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Olny srmat poelpe can.I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty

uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid,aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at CmabrigdeUinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr theltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng istaht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit

pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can

sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseaethe huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter byistlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh?yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was

ipmorantt!


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LOVE


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pol villagracia


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Ang pag-aasawa ay parang pamamangkaSa gitna ng karagatang malalim at malawak.

Ang dalaway nanagwan ng pag-asa at baka,Pagkat bukas ay hindi tayo ang mayhawak.

Ang dalawa ay kailangang maninimbang,Kung ang isay sa kaliwa, isa naman sa kanan.Dahil pagsabay sa gilid, panganib ay nakaabang,

Ang bangka ay tatagilid, tataob sa karagatan.


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Ang dalawa ay dapat magkakaintindihan,Kahit wala man lang salitang nababanggit,Ni utos man ng kabiyak o anumang sinyasan,Ngunit ang pakiramdaman ang nakakahigit.

Mi h l bh i


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Minsan ang panahon ay lubhang masungit.Mga along malumay, unti-unting bumagsik.

Kumakapal na ulap, pinadilim ang langit,Hampas ng hangin at tubig tumatalsik.

K b k k b t


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Kung ang bangkay magkaroon ng butas,Itoy manganganib sa karagatan malunod.Kung agad-agad itoy hindi malulutas,

Ang dalaway di makatiyak saan maaanod.

Ang butas ay dapat agad malunasan,Pagkat itoy lalaki kung matatagalan.Ang daloy ng tubig, pupuno sa sinasakyan,Na ang dalaway mawawalan ng puwang.

Sa pamamangka ay dapat pinagplanuhan,


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Sa pamamangka ay dapat pinagplanuhan,Ang ihip ng hangin at mga along haharapin.Kung kaya mong tawirin kahit padahandahan

May awa ang Diyos ang siyang laging iisipin.

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