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Maximised Manhood

Chapter NineLesson 7

Changing Heads


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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Chapter 9I. "Changing Heads"

A. Change always comes from the _____.

(page 99)

1. If change doesn't come from the top,

revolution will come from the bottom.(page 99)

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9I. "Changing Heads"

A. Change always comes from the top.(page 99)

1. If change doesn't come from the top,

revolution will come from the bottom.

(page 99)

__ True ___ False


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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. In business, what is always the problem

and always the solution? (circle one)

(page 100)

a. money

b. time

c. personnel


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. In business, what is always the problem

and always the solution? (circle one)

(page 100)

a. money

b. time

c. personnel


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 93. Read Proverbs 29:2 (KJV) out loud.

"When the righteous are in authority, the

people rejoice: but when the wickedbeareth rule, the people mourn."

4. Change isn't change, until it's _____.(page 101)


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 93. Read Proverbs 29:2 (KJV) out loud.

"When the righteous are in authority, the

people rejoice: but when the wickedbeareth rule, the people mourn."

4. Change isn't change, until it's change.(page 101)


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9B. Intention to change is not change.

(page 101)

1. Who must change in the home?

(page 101)

_____


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9B. Intention to change is not change.

(page 101)

1. Who must change in the home?

(page 101)

the head of the house


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. Most people judge others by their actions

and themselves by their intentions.

(page 101)

Name three times recently that you have

seen this occur, through personalexperience, media, or conveyed to you

through conversation.


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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Chapter 93. Talking about changing, pledging it,

making resolutions, considering it-none of

these are change. In your own words,what would show that change has

occurred?

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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Chapter 93. Talking about changing, pledging it,

making resolutions, considering it-none of

these are change. In your own words,what would show that change has

occurred?

When talking has ceased andaction is taken to make these

things a reality. When we become

doers and not so much talkers.


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9C. God says to men: Let go of all your own

ways and depend on Mein the totality of

your life. (page 103)


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9D. An ounce of obedience is worth a ton of

prayer.

1. Look up 1 Samuel 15:22 (KJV). "...

Behold, to obeyis better than sacrifice,

and to hearkenthan the fat of rams."


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. Read out loud Proverbs 28:9 (KJV). "He

that turneth away his ear from hearing the

law, even his prayer shall beabomination."

3. If you don't obey after praying, whathappens with your prayers? (page 105)

_____.


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. Read out loud Proverbs 28:9 (KJV). "He

that turneth away his ear from hearing the

law, even his prayer shall beabomination."

3. If you don't obey after praying, whathappens with your prayers? (page 105)

You nullify all the praying.


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9E. Change is not change until it is

change. (page 106)

Giving is not giving, until it's _____.(page 106)

Faith isn't faith, until it's _____.(page 106)


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9E. Change is not change until it is

change. (page 106)

Giving is not giving, until it's given.(page 106)

Faith isn't faith, until it's action.(page 106)


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9F. Courage is a requirement of leadership.

(page 107)

1. Read out loud 2 Samuel 10:12 (KJV).

"Be of good courage, and let us play the

men for our people, and for the cities ofour God: and the LORD do that which

seemeth him good."


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9What in your own words is meant by the

phrase "play the men?"

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2. "Be of good _____" is a scriptural refrain.

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9What in your own words is meant by the

phrase "play the men?"

Let us be strong for our people.

2. "Be of good courage" is a scripturalrefrain. (page 107)


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9G. Write out the definition of courage.

(page 108)

Courage is the _____

that enables a man to face

_____

with a real manliness.


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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Chapter 9Read out loud Deuteronomy 31:6 (KJV).

"Be strong and of a good courage, fearnot, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD

thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he

will not fail thee, nor forsake thee."


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9H. Some things in life are more important

than life itself. (page 109)

1. Joseph saw the honor of God as the

criteria for his life. Read Joseph's

statement from Genesis 39:7-9 (KJV)."... how then can I do this great

wickedness, and sin against God?"


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9H. Some things in life are more important

than life itself. (page 109)

1. Joseph saw the honour of God as the

criteria for his life. Read Joseph's

statement from Genesis 39:7-9 (KJV)."... how then can I do this great

wickedness, and sin against God?"


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Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. Name some Biblical heroes who

courageously gave their lives for a Godly

purpose.

1. _____

2. _____

3. _____

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 92. Name some Biblical heroes who

courageously gave their lives for a Godly

purpose.

1. John the Baptist

2. Paul

3. Stephen

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9I. Courage is necessary in a man's life to

_____. (page 109)

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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Chapter 9I. Courage is necessary in a man's life to

change. (page 109)

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9Practical:

1. A man is seeking God and prays, "God,

please help my wife to have a goodattitude toward me, and please make my

boss recognize what a good job I'm

doing." His prayer is admirable, but whois he praying will change? In your words,

what would be a better way to pray?

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 93. What can you change in your life today?

_____

How will you go about changing it?

_____

How will you follow up to ensure you've

changed?

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Lesson 7 - Chapter 9Prayer: Father, in Jesus' Name, I ask You to

change me as You have changed so many

other men. Help me to accept responsibilityfor the changes that need to be made and

forgive me for blaming others. I will be

courageous to change in each area You show

me. I will be seen as Your man above all else.

Thank You, in Jesus' Name, for walking with

me through every step. Amen.

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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Self Test1. If change doesn't come from the top,

what will come from the bottom?

_____

2. _____ is always the problem; _____ is

always the solution

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Lesson 7 - Self Test1. If change doesn't come from the top,

what will come from the bottom?

revolution

2. Personnelis always the problem;

personnelis always the solution

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Changing Heads

Lesson 7 - Self Test3. Men often judge others by their _____,

and themselves by their _____.

4. Give a personal definition of what it

means to have courage.

_____

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Lesson 7 - Self Test3. Men often judge others by their actions,

and themselves by their intentions.

4. Give a personal definition of what it

means to have courage.

Courage is a virtue that a man needs

to face real life situations-even the

unpleasant. In order to change,

courage must be exhibited.

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Lesson 7 - Self Test5. A ton of prayer will always produce more

than obedience.

___ True ____ False

6. Name the number one virtue that men

need to face reality._____

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Lesson 7 - Self Test5. A ton of prayer will always produce more

than obedience.

___ True _

_False

6. Name the number one virtue that men

need to face reality.

courage

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Maximised Manhood

Chapter TenLesson 8

The Buck Stops Here

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The Buck Stops HereLesson 8 - Chapter 10

I. "The Buck Stops Here"

A. The man is to be the headof the house.

1. Look up Ephesians 5:23 (NIV). "For the

husband is the head of the wife as Christ

is the head of the church, his body, ofwhich he is the Saviour."

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2. Christ provides _____ to the _____ of the

members of the church.

The man prayerfully provides _____ to

the _____ of his family. (page 111)

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2. Christ provides solutionsto the

problemsof the members of the

church.

The man prayerfully provides solutions

to the problemsof his family. (page111)

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B. Men cannot leave the ministry of

_____

to their wives.

It is their responsibility as well.

(page 117)

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B. Men cannot leave the ministry of

listening to the childrento their

wives.

It is their responsibility as well.

(page 117)

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C. One of the marks of a true leader is not to

pass the _____. (page 117)

1. "Justification" theologically means _____.

(page 117)

2. Self-justification is the term for what we

call _____. (page 117)

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C. One of the marks of a true leader is not to

pass the proverbial buck. (page 117)

1. "Justification" theologically means being

made right. (page 117)

2. Self-justification is the term for what we

call buck passing. (page 117)

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D. Read Genesis 3:1-10

Now the serpent was more cunning than any

beast of the field which the Lord God had made.And he said to the woman, Has God indeed

said, You shall not eat of every tree of the

garden? And the woman said to the serpent,

We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden;

but of the fruit of the tree which isin the midst of

the garden, God has said, You shall not eat it,

nor shall you touch it, lest you die.

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Then the serpent said to the woman, You will

not surely die. For God knows that in the day

you eat of it your eyes will be opened, andyou will be like God, knowing good and evil.

So when the woman saw that the tree was

good for food, that it waspleasant to the

eyes, and a tree desirable to make onewise,

she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to

her husband with her, and he ate.

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Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and

they knew that they were naked; and they sewed

fig leaves together and made themselvescoverings.

And they heard the sound of the Lord God

walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and

Adam and his wife hid themselves from thepresence of the Lord God among the trees of the

garden.

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Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to

him, Where areyou?

So he said, I heard Your voice in the garden,and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid

myself.

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1. What are the three results of sin?

(pages 117-118)

a. _____

b. _____

c. _____

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1. What are the three results of sin?

(pages 117-118)

a. guilt

b. fear

c. hiding

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2. Guilt is a killer. (page 118) Give aBiblical example of someone who

was plagued by guilt. ]_____

3. Guilt leads to _____. (page 118)

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2. Guilt is a killer. (page 118) Give aBiblical example of someone who

was plagued by guilt. ]Adam

3. Guilt leads to fear. (page 118)

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4. Fear leads to hiding. Name someways in which you have tried to hide

from or escape guilt andfear in your life. (page 118)

_____

__________

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E. The devil made you do it!

___ True ___ False

1. Whom did Adam blame? (page 118)

_____

2. Whom did Eve blame in the Garden of

Eden? (page 118) _____

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E. The devil made you do it!

___ True __ False

1. Whom did Adam blame? (page 118)

Eve

2. Whom did Eve blame in the Garden of

Eden? (page 118) the devil

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F. Every man must answer for hisactions to _____. (page 120)

1. Some men would rather cover uptheir _____ than save their

marriage. (page 120)

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F. Every man must answer for his

actions to God alone. (page 120)

1. Some men would rather cover up

their sinsthan save their marriage.

(page 120)

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2. Others would rather cover up their_____ than save their

business. (page 120)

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2. Others would rather cover up their

failure and let their business

collapsethan save theirbusiness. (page 120)

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G. There are times when silence is golden;

other times it is just plain _____. (page

120)

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G. There are times when silence is golden;

other times it is just plain yellow. (page

120)

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H. Some men think they are punishing their

child for correction, when they are really

punishing for _____. (pages 121-122)

The result is that it _____ a child, not

changes him. (page 122)

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H. Some men think they are punishing their

child for correction, when they are really

punishing for revenge. (pages 121-122)

The result is that it hardensa child, not

changes him. (page 122)

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I. God is not indifferent to your _____.

(page 124)

1. God can do nothing for men who say they

have no _____. (page 124)

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I. God is not indifferent to your needs.(page 124)

1. God can do nothing for men who say they

have no needs. (page 124)

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2. Read Revelation 3:17 (KJV). "Because

thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with

goods, and have need of nothing;and knowest not that thou art wretched,and miserable, and poor, and blind and

naked."

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J. God loves you personally. He has given

you _____ and wisdom. (page 125)

To reach your family, God looks to: (circle

one)

1. your wife2. your church

3. you

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J. God loves you personally. He has given

you His Wordand wisdom. (page 125)

To reach your family, God looks to: (circleone)

1. your wife

2. your church

3. you

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Practical:

1. Take a sheet of paper and start listing all

the things you are guilty of, or feel guiltyabout. Spend some time in prayer for God to

remind you of sins, mistakes, and errors.

After writing as many as you can think of,take a red pen or marker and begin to ask for

forgiveness for each one. As you mark over

the item, say aloud, "God forgives me and I

now for ive m self as well."

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The Buck Stops Here Lesson 8 - Chapter 10

2. Name the last thing you did thatyou blamed someone else for. Then

think of the one before that. Go back asfar as you can. Then, using the redmarker again, ask God to forgive youand forgive yourself. Whereappropriate, contact the person youblamed and ask them to forgive you.

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The Buck Stops Here Lesson 8 - Chapter 10

I accept responsibility for myself, for my

situation, for my family and for the way we are

today, and I commit to becoming the one whosolves the problems, not the one who is part

of the problem. For those things I cannot

solve, I ask You to cover them with Your

grace and mercy and deliver me and my

family. I give You praise in advance for a

complete change in my life. Amen.

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The Buck Stops Here Lesson 8 - Self Test

1. As the husband, I am responsible to lead

the home. Therefore, as Christ takes care

of the members of His church, I must_____ for the problems in my home and

family.

2. Buck passing is the common term for

_____.

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1. As the husband, I am responsible to lead

the home. Therefore, as Christ takes care

of the members of His church, I mustprovide solutionsfor the problems inmy home and family.

2. Buck passing is the common term for

self-justification.

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3. The sequentially ordered result of sin is:

a. _____b. _____

c. _____

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3. The sequentially ordered result of sin is:

a. guiltb. fear

c. hiding

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4. Name some major ways men try to

escape or hide from responsibility.

a. _____

b. _____

c. _____

d. _____

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4. Name some major ways men try to

escape or hide from responsibility.

a. philosophy

b. drugs

c. alcohol

d. pleasure


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Maximised Manhood

Chapter Eleven

Lesson 9

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The Video Daddy Lesson 9 - Chapter 11

I. "The Video Daddy"

A. The most powerful thing that can be done

in life is to create an _____; the next mostpowerful thing is to destroy an _____.

(page 127)

1. Men have been victimized by forces and

images they could have _____. (page

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I. "The Video Daddy"

A. The most powerful thing that can be done

in life is to create an image; the nextmost powerful thing is to destroy an

image. (page 127)

1. Men have been victimized by forces and

images they could have controlled.

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Images in our mind influence the way we

act, dress, speak and influence the

way we: (add more in your own words)_____

_____

__________

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3. Young men and women are motivated

greatly by the _____ they have in life.

(page 129)

Read Proverbs 23:7 (KJV). "For as a

man thinketh in his heart, so is he ..."

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3. Young men and women are motivated

greatly by the hero imagethey have in

life. (page 129)

Read Proverbs 23:7 (KJV). "For as a

man thinketh in his heart, so is he ..."

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Read Numbers 13:33 (KJV). (Spies at

the border of Canaan) "And there we

saw the giants ... and we were in our ownsight as grasshoppers, and so we were in

their sight."

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B. The degree of disappointment is found in

the difference between the _____ and the

_____. (page 129)

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B. The degree of disappointment is found in

the difference between the idealand the

real. (page 129)

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C. Without Jesus men are unable to be

restored in the _____. (page 130)

When we become new creations we have

new _____. (page 130)

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C. Without Jesus men are unable to be

restored in the image of God. (page

130)

When we become new creations we have

new motivations. (page 130)


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D. Form a committee of onein yourhome. (page 132)

Read Psalms 101:6-7 (TLB). "I will make

the godly of the land my heroes, and

invite them to my home. Only those whoare truly good shall be my servants. But I

will not allow those who deceive and lie to

stay in my house."

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What does this have to do with the "video

daddy?"

_____

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The man can become addicted to television

and force his wife and children into

unnatural responsibilities and roles. He is

supposed to guide, guard and govern.When he gratifies his own selfish desires at

the expense of his wife and children and

allows the filth of the world to come into his

house by way of video, he has made the

ungodly his heroes and rescinded the

responsibility of guiding, guarding and

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Read Deuteronomy 6:7 (KJV). "And thou

shalt teach them diligently unto thy

children, and shalt talk of them when thou

sittest in thine house, and when thou

walkest by the way, and when thou liest

down, and when thou risest up."

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What does it mean you should do for your

children?

_____

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What does it mean you should do for your

children?

We should not only teach our

children the Word of God, but

make it practical by living it everyday-in every situation-continually.

We must be doers of the Word.

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E. Man has three functions in thehome and community. (page 132)

1. Guide

2. Guard

3. govern

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E. Man has three functions in thehome and community. (page 132)

1. Guide

2. Guard

3. govern

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d o ddyLesson 9 - Chapter 11

Look up John 17:12

While I was with them in the world, I keptthem in Your name. Those whom You

gave Me I have kept; and none of them is

lost except the son of perdition, that theScripture might be fulfilled

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yLesson 9 - Chapter 11

Look up 2 Corinthians 10:4-5

For the weapons of our warfare are notcarnal but mighty in God for pulling down

strongholds, casting down arguments and

every high thing that exalts itself againstthe knowledge of God, bringing every

thought into captivity to the obedience of

Christ,

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Look up 1 Timothy 3:4

one who rules his own house well, havinghis children in submission with all

reverence

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What points can you learn from these

verses?

_____

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What points can you learn from these verses?Just as Jesus kept the disciples and is

responsible to keep the church, men should

keep the family from the world and keep the filthof the world from the family. The husband and

father must guard the family from evil, by being

compliant to the Lord and His Word, destroying

the weakness of the flesh (keeping pure in his

thoughts) by His Word and walking in obedience

to His Word.

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F. The greatest addiction in today's society

is: (circle one) (page 133)

a. drugsb. food

c. Alcohol

d. televisione. gambling

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F. The greatest addiction in today's society

is: (circle one) (page 133)

a. drugsb. food

c. alcohol

d. televisione. gambling

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1. Read Romans 12:2 (KJV).

"And be not conformed to this world: butbe ye transformed by the renewingof

your mind, that ye may prove what is

that good, and acceptable, and perfect,will of God."

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2. The absentee father in front of the

television forces the wife and children into

unnatural roles and responsibilities.

(page 133)

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2. The absentee father in front of the

television forces the wifeand children

into unnatural roles and responsibilities.(page 133)

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G. Men, families and nations are made great

by the _____ of their virtues, not by virtue

of their _____. (page 134)

Men are God's _____. While men look

for better _____, God looks for better_____. (pages 135-136)

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G. Men, families and nations are made great

by the wealthof their virtues, not by

virtue of their wealth. (page 134)

Men are God's methods. While men

look for better methods, God looks forbetter men. (pages 135-136)

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Practical:

1. Start a television log book. HONESTLY

keep a record of how much time youspend watching television. Once you've

controlled your own television habits,

work to control the habits of the rest of

the family, making yourself available to fill

their time with other activities.

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Lesson 9 - Chapter 11

2. Read 1 Corinthians 16:13 (KJV).

"Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you

like men [or act like a man], be strong.

Break it into four parts and write what you

can do to fulfill each one.

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Watch ye: _____

Stand fast in the faith: _____

Act like a man: _____

Be strong: _____

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Repeat this prayer out loud:

Father, Your word says to set no wicked thing

before my eyes. This day I make the decision to

make a covenant with my eyes, to not look upon

images that will grieve Your Spirit, and to not

glorify the way of evil and violent men. I choose

instead to make my home a welcome place forYour Spirit to dwell and abide. I choose to guard

well my family whom You have entrusted to my

care. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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Lesson 9 - Self Test

1. What is the most powerful thing that can

be done in a life?

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2. What is the second most powerful thing

that can be done?_____

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1. What is the most powerful thing that can

be done in a life?

to create an image

2. What is the second most powerful thing

that can be done?

to destroy an image

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3. Name some popular "anti-heroes" of

today.

a. _____

b. _____

c. _____

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3. Name some popular "anti-heroes" of

today.

a. Archie Bunker

b. Ed Bundy

c. Homer Simpson

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4. Throughout life, there is a constant

adjustment of the _____ and the _____.

The distance between the _____ and the

_____ is the degree of disappointment in

life.


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5. Every man has three major functions in

the home. What are they?

a. _____

b. _____

c. _____

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5. Every man has three major functions in

the home. What are they?

a. guide

b. guard

c. govern

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6. What is the greatest addiction in America

today?

_____

7. Men are truly great when measured by

the wealth of their _____, not the _____of their wealth.


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