By

T Mohenchander

Psychology Your Children are not your children

You are only a means to them

Do not impose your thoughts on them

Cause they have enough of themselves

Ghaleel Gibran

The Ways You need to know them closely

Watch them at every stage

They need you – you need to contribute

They are flexible

They can change gears according to plan

Of course you need to know the road map

Their Need Instilling confidence by Parents

Make them know that they are here to create greater wishes of their parents

Parents should always learn according to their needs.

Parents means not just father and mother and its beyond that

Aspirations Every child has an idea of their well being

Knows that they need a clear map of their plans

Parents need to guide them in their ambitions to achieve their goals

Create an atmosphere where the children get into the ambience at the earliest and start dreaming.

The Basics Teach them the basics in life as you had and

have

Make them know the dos and donts

Clear all apprehensions from their mind

Impart Godliness always in them

Create awareness about the family and its values

The Hurdles Sparing your time when they need that

Your compromises ultimately ends in children’s disbelief

Never promise anything which is not possible by you.

Make them understand your responsibilities also, cause they have to take the mantle latter like you.

Disciplines Teach discipline as you have envisaged

They automatically fall in line

Educate the invaluable (relationships) in life

Educate their optioned curriculum

Engage them in a sports activity on a regular basis. Let them select their activity, but an activity is a must.

They are go getters Every child has an ambition today and they are all

well informed of the electronic development.

Imbibe them through their own medium how to take up and get going

Involve them in their area of interest and encourage them at all levels

Putting in Your effort to bring in the results should be

articulate and must not be imposed

When you make them understand their roles properly the interest is created naturally

You be a guide and infuse the confidence in them in their game plan

Envisage a clear action plan involuntarily

Easy ways Create a brain storming sessions with your children at

every week end Come out of your thoughts and they can also bash out

their ordeals and positive aspects Find out a solution then and there and make them

understand, we have an answer This puts them in good stead to face the realities in

life

The Missing links We always do not come out with proper game

plan for their actions

We always find an excuse this way or that way and putting the burden on our children and say we have no time

Honesty has to be imbibed first and then preached

Most of it what you say you have to be like real Roll Models

The Strengths Parents and their everlasting faith in their

children and their growth

You decide yourself first and imp lead them in all your activities.

You have to make a kick start and rest of the game is, in their court

Select the right ball to hit for a six or else you may miss because you need to score six runs to win, the balls available are only one.

Summing up Every children are God sent with innumerable

ideas and thoughts

What we need to do is to fix them in the right place at the right time.

We are desirous and why don’t we make them also more desirable.

Wishing you all well If you have started these exercise – you are

on the right path, if not better late than never.

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