mostly true: an exploration of my family history

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Family histories are tricky things, especially when the people in the stories don't necessarily want to talk about their pasts. My family immigrated to the US in the early 1800's, many to escape the anASemiAsm that was rampant in their countries. Through a series of personal interviews, family stories passed down from generaAon to generaAon, and my own imaginaAon to fill in the gaps, I have compiled a series of short stories about my family and their lives in America from their arrival here in the 1800's to the present day. Although each family has a different story to tell, the stories of love, loss, and faith unite all of us, no maIer our backgrounds. Mostly True: An ExploraAon of My Family History Jessica Urban Advisor: Albino Carrillo Abstract Frank Walter Urban 1893 - 1979 Anna Barbara Molson 1895 - 1971 Ralph John Urban 1920 - 2011 John Persowich 1898 - 1977 Tillie Liszter 1901 - 1967 Millie Persowich 1923 - 2011 Tod Urban 1958 - Samuel Berke 1901 - 1987 Claire Stein Berke 1904 - 1959 Perry Morton Berke 1931 - Sidney Grinker 1904 - 1986 Ethel Winer 1907 - 1989 Joan Grinker 1931 - Lisa Berke 1958 - Jessica Lindsey Urban 8 short stories Opening Remembrance Tell Me Again: Rae’s Story De jure – Concerning the Law Polka Dots and Moonbeams The ‘C’ Word Grinker’s Pharmacy AZerward 1800’s – Present Day Topics range from adopAon to death to religion to immigraAon What is CreaAve NonFicAon? Family Tree Content CreaAve nonficAon is stories that are based on and rooted in fact, but are not necessarily 100% true. The creaAve porAon of the nonficAon makes the stories read more like ficAonal pieces, meant to grab the readers aIenAon. CreaAve nonficAon oZen requires historical research. Research Ancestry.com Primary sources Primary documents Secondary Sources ImmigraAon Records A story should have a beginning, a middle and an end, just not necessarily in that order. Jean Luc Godard There is a quote in Carousel (that’s the pesky theatre major popping up) that goes, “as long as there’s one person on earth who remembers you – it isn’t over.” My aunt and uncle died in July and September of 2012. Then enAre idea for wriAng this thesis started with a simple story about them – parts of which have been meshed into “The C Word.” My grandparents died sooner than that, but theirs were expected deaths. I like to think that I have said their names oZen enough – David Sco0 Berke, Rosalind Foy Berke, Millie Urban, Ralph John Urban, Jeanne Wyman, Claire Berke, Samuel Berke, Sidney Grinker, Ethel Winer Grinker, Sophie Berke, Toiv Berke – that they are not forgoIen, not passed over. They are alive in our memories, even someAmes in our words and acAons – something I am always pleased to see. Call it my version of the Mourner’s Kaddish if you will. As long as there are people who are willing to listen, there will always be stories to be told.

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Page 1: Mostly True: An Exploration of My Family History

Family  histories  are  tricky  things,  especially  when  the  people  in  the  stories  don't  necessarily  want  to  talk  about  their  pasts.  My  family  immigrated  to  the  US  in  the  early  1800's,  many  to  escape  the  anA-­‐SemiAsm  that  was  rampant  in  their  countries.  Through  a  series  of  personal  interviews,  family  stories  passed  down  from  generaAon  to  generaAon,  and  my  own  imaginaAon  to  fill  in  the  gaps,  I  have  compiled  a  series  of  short  stories  about  my  family  and  their  lives  in  America  from  their  arrival  here  in  the  1800's  to  the  present  day.  Although  each  family  has  a  different  story  to  tell,  the  stories  of  love,  loss,  and  faith  unite  all  of  us,  no  maIer  our  backgrounds.  

Mostly  True:  An  ExploraAon  of  My  Family  History  

Jessica  Urban  Advisor:  Albino  Carrillo  

Abstract  

Frank Walter Urban

1893 - 1979

Anna Barbara Molson

1895 - 1971

Ralph John Urban

1920 - 2011

John Persowich1898 - 1977

Tillie Liszter1901 - 1967

Millie Persowich1923 - 2011

Tod Urban1958 -

Samuel Berke1901 - 1987

Claire Stein Berke

1904 - 1959

Perry Morton Berke1931 -

Sidney Grinker

1904 - 1986

Ethel Winer1907 - 1989

Joan Grinker1931 -

Lisa Berke1958 -

Jessica Lindsey Urban

Vertical Pedigree Chart for Jessica Lindsey Urban

•  8  short  stories  v  Opening  v  Remembrance  v  Tell  Me  Again:  Rae’s  Story  v  De  jure  –  Concerning  the  Law    v  Polka  Dots  and  Moonbeams  v  The  ‘C’  Word  v  Grinker’s  Pharmacy  v  AZerward  

•  1800’s  –  Present  Day  •  Topics  range  from  adopAon  to  death  to  

religion  to  immigraAon  

What  is  CreaAve  Non-­‐FicAon?  

Family  Tree  

Content  

•  CreaAve  nonficAon  is  stories  that  are  based  on  and  rooted  in  fact,  but  are  not  necessarily  100%  true.  

•  The  creaAve  porAon  of  the  nonficAon  makes  the  stories  read  more  like  ficAonal  pieces,  meant  to  grab  the  readers  aIenAon.    

•  CreaAve  nonficAon  oZen  requires  historical  research.    

Research  

•  Ancestry.com  •  Primary  sources    •  Primary  documents  •  Secondary  Sources  •  ImmigraAon  Records    

A  story  should  have  a  beginning,  a  middle  and  an  end,  just  not  necessarily  in  that  order.  Jean-­‐Luc  Godard  

There  is  a  quote  in  Carousel  (that’s  the  pesky  theatre  major  popping  up)  that  goes,  “as  long  as  there’s  one  person  on  earth  who  remembers  you  –  it  isn’t  over.”  My  aunt  and  uncle  died  in  July  and  September  of  2012.  Then  enAre  idea  for  wriAng  this  thesis  started  with  a  simple  story  about  them  –  parts  of  which  have  been  meshed  into  “The  C  Word.”  My  grandparents  died  sooner  than  that,  but  theirs  were  expected  deaths.  I  like  to  think  that  I  have  said  their  names  oZen  enough  –  David  Sco0  Berke,  Rosalind  Foy  Berke,  Millie  Urban,  Ralph  John  Urban,  Jeanne  Wyman,  Claire  Berke,  Samuel  Berke,  Sidney  Grinker,  Ethel  Winer  Grinker,  Sophie  Berke,  Toiv  Berke  –  that  they  are  not  forgoIen,  not  passed  over.  They  are  alive  in  our  memories,  even  someAmes  in  our  words  and  acAons  –  something  I  am  always  pleased  to  see.  Call  it  my  version  of  the  Mourner’s  Kaddish  if  you  will.  As  long  as  there  are  people  who  are  willing  to  listen,  there  will  always  be  stories  to  be  told.