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    Imitation of Emotion:How meaning affects the linkbetween imitation and liking

    Sytske van der Velde

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    Cover: Syske van der Velde

    Prined by: GildePrin

    ISBN: 978-90-367-3879-8

    © 2009, (Syske W. van der Velde)

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    RIJKSUNIVERSIEI GRONINGEN

    Imiaion o Emoion:How meaning affecs he link beween imiaion and liking

    Proeschri

    er verkrijging van he docoraa in de

    Gedrags- en Maaschappijweenschappen

    aan de Rijksuniversiei Groningen

    op gezag van de

    Recor Magnificus, dr. F. Zwars,in he openbaar e verdedigen op

    donderdag juni

    om . uur

    door

    Syske illemien van der Velde

    geboren op april e Hoorn

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    Promoores: Pro. dr. D. A. Sapel

      Pro. dr. E. H. Gordijn

      Pro. dr. S. Oten

    Beoordelingscommissie: Pro. dr. A.H. Fischer

      Pro dr. .. Posmes

      Pro. dr. D.H.J. igboldus

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    Chapter 1

    General introduction

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    Imagine a couple in love, oally engrossed in each oher. Tey order he same ice cream,

    finish each oher’s senences and copy each oher’s mannerisms. Tey are even emoionally in

    une: hen one smiles he oher smiles, when one eels sad abou a scene in a movie he oher

    immediaely sars o eel sad oo. Ten, he man says somehing which causes he woman

    o become angry wih him. ha will he do? ill he ge angry wih her as well? Or will he

    apologise and ry o calm her down? ha will happen i he does ge angry? I wil l probably ruin

    he dae and could possibly even be he end o heir relaionship….

     As his example il lusraes, people someimes imiae each oher. And indeed, especially

    people who are ond o each oher, are in love wih each oher or like each oher very much, have

    a endency o copy each oher’s behaviour (Lakin, Jefferis, Chang, & Charrand, ; Sel,

    Blascovich, McCall, & Vonk, ). Alhough research shows people also imiae each oher

    even when hey are no especially close, muual liking ypically does increase imiaion (Lakine al., ; Sel e al., ). Lakin and colleagues () have even argued ha imiaion

     benefis our l iking or each oher. Tus hrough imiaing each oher he couple in he example

     would ge even more atraced o each oher. Research shows ha people indeed generally

    like each oher more aer hey imiae each oher (Charrand & Bargh, ), and aer being

    imiaed even have an increased liking or people oher han he imiaor (Van Baaren, Holland,

    Kawakami, & Van Knippenberg, ).

    On he oher hand, even in a siuaion where imiaion is very likely o be beneficial, such

    as or a couple in love, imiaion is likely o have is limis. I he man in he example chooses animiaive approach and ges angry in reurn o he woman’s anger, i is ar more likely ha he

    dae will end badly han ha he dae will end well. In his case a more non- or ani-imiaive

    approach will probably have beter resuls: I he reacs in an apologising, calming manner his is

    more likely o have a beneficial oucome (although you never know …). Tis will almos cerainly

    also be rue or behaviour ha ranscends his imaginary example. I seems no o be oo daring

    o sae ha ‘Imiaion is unlikely o always have a posiive effec on liking’ and ‘Liking will no

    always have a posiive effec on imiaion’.

    I is ineresing ha in cerain siuaions imiaion is no likely o be beneficial or liking

    and vice versa. ha deermines wheher imiaion leads o more liking or liking o more

    imiaion? In he example he negaive effec on liking is expeced when he imiaed behaviour

    is an expression o anger. Te expression o anger is o course no simply or only behaviour, bu

    is clearly inended as a social signal: In his case i means ‘I do no like wha you jus said’. Some

    o he oher behaviour in he example such as he way he couple speaks or heir mannerisms is

    more similar o he behaviour ha has been sudied in previous research on imiaion and liking.

    Imiaing such behaviour ypically has posiive effecs on liking.  However, speech paterns and

    mannerisms are generally no social signals. 

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    11General inroducion

        I   m    i   t   a   t    i   o   n   o    f    E   m

       o   t    i   o   n

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    Te social signals emoional behaviour may be sending are especially relevan in he

    conex o imiaion, since imiaion is said o have an affiliaive uncion. Behaviour ha is

    inherenly social, such as an emoional expression, can be expeced o influence he affiliaive

    uncion o imiaion in a way ha behaviour ha is no inherenly social can no. hen people

    imiae such behaviour hey are no merely copying behaviour, hey are also sending he social

    signal associaed wih ha imiaed behaviour. I he man in he example reacs wih anger

    owards he woman his is no jus imiaion: his behaviour wil l ineviably also send her a non-

    affiliaive social signal in reurn. Sending each oher such (non) affiliaive signals can obviously

     be expeced o have an impac on how much hey consequenly like each oher.

    o dae, wha has been missing in mos research on imiaion is a ocus on he specific

    meaning o he behaviour being imiaed. Previous research has predominanly sudied

    imiaion by looking a behaviour and mannerisms ha are relaively meaningless, no behaviour ha is socia l and rich in meaning. An imporan aim o his hesis is o show ha such

    a ocus on he specific meaning o he behaviour is necessary: I imiaion is sudied wihou

    considering he communicaive meaning o he behaviour ha is imiaed, his may lead o

    overgeneralisaions, such as he belie ha here is an inrinsic link beween imiaion and

    lik ing. In order o show ha such a ocus on he social signals o behaviour is indispensable, his

    hesis ocuses on imiaion o behaviour ha is inherenly social: Te expression o emoions.

    Te hesis will ex plore he ollowing quesions: ‘ill I like you more i I imiae your emoion?’

    and ‘ill I be more likely o imiae your emoion i I like you more?’.

     ill I like you more i I imiae your emoion?

     An inspecion o he lieraure reveals ha in general imiaion o behaviour has a posiive

    effec on liking. People have been shown o imiae a variey o behaviours such as oo apping

    (Charrand & Bargh, ), increased orearm muscle ension when observing arm wreslers

    (Berger & Hadley, ) and speech paterns and accens (Capella & Panalp, ; Giles &

    Powesland, ; Giles & Smih, ; ebb, , ). hen people imiae such behaviour

    his ypical ly has a posiive effec on liking (Charrand & Bargh, ; Van Baaren e al., ).

    Mimicry has even been described as a ‘social glue’, binding people ogeher and creaing

    harmonious relaionships (Lakin e al., ).

    Is imiaing emoions differen rom he behaviour examined in hese previous sudies? I

    conend ha i is. I people imiae oo apping his will lead o more lik ing. Bu can oo apping

     be compared o ex pressing an emoion? Emoion expressions are obviously no jus a par o

    he broad group ‘human behaviour’, bu are par o he group o human behaviour wih specific

    communicaive meaning (Fridlund, ). Each specific emoion has a different meaning: each

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    expression exiss or a reason, has a differen communicaive social signal value, and is hereore

    likely o have a differen effec on he observer. Tis means ha i people imiae someone’s

    emoion expression, hey wil l no jus be imiaing ha behaviour, bu will ineviably also be

    sending he oher he signal generally associaed wih such an expression. Sending each oher

    such signals can clearly have an impac on wheher people like each oher.

     ha social signals do emoions convey? hen someone is expressing an emoion i is

    usually wih he purpose o reveal o ohers wha he or she is eeling (Frijda, ). However,

    he emoional sae someone is in is no he only hing an emoion reveals. I can also be

    communicaive in oher ways: or example, i can be inended as an affiliaive signal (Fridlund,

    ; Hess, Blairy, & Kleck, ; K nuson, ). Smiles in paricular are oen shown o reveal

    riendly inenions. hereas i people wan o reveal o someone hey are displeased wih hem,

    hey migh send ha person an expression o annoyance, disgus, or, when hey wan o makehemselves exremely clear, anger. Research shows ha observers indeed rae acial expressions

    differenly on affiliaion. Happiness is seen by observers as highly affiliaive (Hess, e al., ;

    Knuson, ). Disgus and anger are seen as highly non-affi liaive wih anger being he mos

    non-affiliaive. Fear and sadness are seen as neural on raings o affiliaion (Hess, e al., ;

    Knuson, ).

     ha effec does his affiliaive aspec o emoion have on imiaion? Te social signal

    each emoion is sending is especial ly relevan in he conex o imiaion since imiaion is said

    o have an affiliaive uncion. Because emoions are seen as affiliaive hey can be expecedo influence imiaion, in a way ha simpler ypes o behaviour can no. Imiaion oen serves

    a goal o ry o improve liking (Lakin & Charrand, ). However, i he behaviour isel is

    also sending an affiliaive or non-affiliaive signal, his can inerac or even inerere wih he

    affiliaive goal. Imiaing a highly affiliaive emoion, such as happiness, imiaion will only

    ampliy he affiliaive aspec o imiaion and resul in more liking, because boh sender and

    observer are sending highly affiliaive signals o each oher. However, imiaing a highly non-

    affiliaive emoion, such as anger, means ha boh sender and observer are sending highly non-

    affiliaive signals o each oher. Tis will probably lead o less liking even hough he behaviour

    is imiaive.

    In shor, I expec imiaion o non-affiliaive behaviour, such as anger, o have a negaive

    effec on liking. However, I also argue ha here is one precondiion or such negaive liking

    effecs o occur. Social signals generally have a arge: In he example a he beginning o his

    inroducion he woman is angry and he man is he arge o ha anger. I he woman in he

    sory would have been angry a a hird person, her boss or example, he man could have saely

    imiaed her anger by becoming exremely angry a her boss. She migh even have liked him

    more aer his (‘You and I are boh angry a my boss’). Tus, i he highly non-affiliaive signals

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    13General inroducion

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    are no sen a each oher, bu a a hird pary, anger imiaion may in ac serve an affiliaive

    goal. Tis means ha he expecaion or anger imiaion o lead o less liking only holds when

    he anger is, or can be perceived o be, direced a he observer. hen he anger is clearly no

    direced a he observer, here will be no decrease in lik ing and here migh even be more liking,

     because alhough he behaviour is non-affiliaive, i is no non-affi lia ive owards he observer.

     Anoher aspec ha is likely o influence he effec o imiaion o anger is he gender o

    he person sending he emoion. Gender has been shown o influence how anger is seen: Anger

    is seen as especially non-affiliaive when shown by men (Hess, e al., ). Men are also in

    general seen as more likely o ac aggressively (Swim, ), which migh make an angr y man

    more righening han an angry woman. How will his influence how imiaion o anger affecs

    lik ing? I could signal o he observers how he emoion is o be perceived. Especially i i is

    unclear wheher he behaviour is non-affiliaive or affiliaive owards someone, he simple acha he person showing he anger is a man migh signal ha he emoion is non-affiliaive. Tus

    imiaing an angry man could resul in a decrease in liking even when imiaing he anger migh

    oherwise have had a more mild effec on liking.

    In sum: ill I like you more i I imiae your emoion? I expec ha he answer will be ‘no

    always’. More specifical ly, people will indeed like each oher more i he emoion is, or is seen as,

    affiliaive. In conras, i he emoion is, or is seen as, non-affiliaive and is no direced owards a

    hird pary (away rom he observer), hen he oher person will be liked less.

     ill I be more likely o imiae your emoion i I like you more?

    Researchers in he imiaion and lik ing field do no only argue ha imiaion should lead o

    more liking bu also argue ha liking should lead o more imiaion (or an overview, see Lakin

    e al., ). Sudies on non-emoional behaviour show ha an unlikable person is imiaed less

    han a likable person (Sel e al., ), and more personal, inimae conversaions lead o more

    imiaion (Jefferis, van Baaren & Charrand, ).

     Disliking and Imitation

     Alhough liking is oen associaed wih imiaion ( Jefferis e al., ; Lakin e al., ;

    Sel e al., ), disliking is ypically only argued o lead o less or a mos no imiaion, bu

    not  o he opposite o imiaion or oher dissimilar reacions. Teoreically, however, dissimilar

    reacions are no impossible. Lakin and Charrand () showed ha an acive affiliaion

    goal leads o more imiaion, and hey argued ha lik ing probably leads o more imiaion

     because people generally are more likely o have an acive affilia ion goal owards liked ohers.

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     Alhough hey did no menion he possibiliy o dissimilar reacions owards disliked ohers,

    such reacions would sill be in line wih heir reasoning. One merely has o ake Lakin and

    Charrand’s () reasoning one sep urher: Tus, I argue ha i is possible ha people do

    no merely have less or no desire o affiliae wih disliked ohers, bu migh also have an acive

    desire o not affiliae or even distance hemselves rom disliked ohers. Since imiaion can

    ulfil an affiliaion goal, such a desire o no affiliae could be ulfilled by dissimilar reacions. I

    hereore argue ha dissimilar reacions owards disliked ohers are ar more likely han similar

    (imiaive) reacions. I a disliked person is showing happiness, or example, I expec people o

    reac wih disancing behaviour raher han wih imiaion.

    Only one sudy has previously been done on he effec o liking on he imiaion o

    emoions (Likowski, Mühlberger, Seib, Pauli, & eyers, ). Tis sudy showed ha boh

    happiness and sadness were imiaed more when paricipans had a more posiive atiudeowards he oher person. Imporanly, hey also ound some suble indicaions o dissimilar

    acial muscular reacions (smiling) owards disliked sad ohers. Tey did no show such effecs

    or happiness. However, because heir main ineres was in imiaion o happiness and sadness,

    hey only ocused on muscle aciviy consisen wih sadness and happiness. I argue ha he

    reacions o disliked happy ohers are likely o include disancing behaviour and unlikely o

    include sadness i is unsurprising ha his sudy did no show any such effecs. Te dissimilar

    reacions owards he disliked sad ohers does however suppor he idea ha people do no jus

    imiae disliked ohers less, bu can indeed show dissimilar reacions. 

     Liking and imitation

    Even when he oher is liked, however, i does no seem logical o always expec more

    imiaion. Te man in he example abou he couple probably would no have reaced o he

     woman’s anger wih imiaion. He would probably be more inclined o calm he woman down

    han o ge angry a her in reurn. Even hough he relevan lieraure ypical ly argues ha liked

    ohers should be imiaed more (Jefferis, e al., ; Lakin, e al., ; Likowski, e al, ;

    Sel, e al., ), a non-imiaive reac ion owards a liked oher noneheless makes perec sense

    i he meaning o he behaviour is again aken ino accoun. Anger is non-affiliaive and hus

    showing anger in response o he oher’s anger (imiaion) is ambiguous: I could be consrued

    as empahic behaviour (e.g., ‘ogeher we are angry a someone else’), bu could also be

    consrued as a non-affiliaive message (e.g., ‘I am angry a you’). I consequenly expec, conrary

    o he research on non-emoional behaviour, ha anger will not be imiaed i he oher is liked:

    People wil l be especially unlikely o risk sending a non-affiliaive message owards someone

    hey like. Tey will be more likely o wan o be unmisakably affiliaive, or example by rying

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    15General inroducion

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    o help he oher in some way. I he oher person is no liked people are more likely o show

    non-affiliaive expressions. However, as beore, showing anger i he oher is already showing

    anger (imiaion) is ambiguous: as well as possibly being consrued as a non-affi liaive message

    i could also be consrued as empahic behaviour. Tereore I do no expec people o imiae

    anger owards disliked people eiher. People will be more likely o wan o be indispuably non-

    affiliaive, or example by urning heir back on he oher person (disengaging).

    In sum: ill I be more likely o imiae your emoion i I like you more? As wih he

    previous quesion he answer is likely o be more complicaed han a simple yes or no. I he

    emoion is affiliative or neural on affiliaion, liking will lead o more imiaion compared o

    disliking. I he emoion is non-affiliative , here will be no imiaion, regardless o wheher he

    oher is liked or disliked. However, when I say no imaion I do no mean inacion. Raher han

    inacion I expec non-imiaive (dissimilar) reacions.

    Overview o he empirical chapers

     Above I have argued ha he affiliaive aspecs o behaviour are ex remely imporan when

    sudying he effec o imiaion on liking and he effec o liking on imiaion. Especially or

    emoions, which are imporan social signals in and o hemselves, hese affiliaive aspecs are

    likely o play an imporan role when sudying imiaion. For boh quesions ‘ill I like you

    more i I imiae your emoion?’ and ‘ill I be more likely o imiae your emoion i I like youmore?’, he expeced differences are in large par due o wheher he emoion is eiher affiliaive

    or non-affiliaive. In he ollowing hree empirical chapers I will es hese expecaions.

    Will I like you more i I imitate your emotion?

    In Chaper he idea ha he affiliaive naure o he emoion will affec liking aer

    imiaion is esed. An affiliaive emoion (happiness) and a non-affi liaive emoion (anger) are

    pited agains each oher.

    In Chaper he effec o arge and gender o he sender o he emoion are explored. Te

    inenion being o show how he same behaviour, imiaion o anger, can cause differen effecs

    on lik ing depending on how ha anger is perceived.

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    Will I be more likely to imitate your emotion i I like you more?

    In Chaper he reverse side o he link beween imiaion and lik ing is invesigaed: Does

    lik ing affec wheher people are more likely o imiae oher people’s emoions? In order o

    invesigae he influence o he affiliaive aspecs o emoions, hree differen emoions are used

     var ying on how affilia ive hey come across: happiness, sadness and anger. Tese emoions are

    expressed by eiher an inensely disliked or an inensely liked person.

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    Chapter 2

    Imitation of emotion:When meaningleads to aversion

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    I is easy o imagine a siuaion where you find yoursel imiaing someone else. You

    probably have, a imes, sponaneously reurned a riend’s big smile wih he same acial

    expression. O course, people do no always respond o ohers by maching hem, oherwise hey

     would all quickly behave in exac ly he same manner. However when people do imiae each

    oher, i oen makes ineracions smooher: Several sudies have shown ha people like ohers

    ha imiae hem more han ohers ha do no imiae hem. A nd, vice versa , imiaors like he

    people hey imiae more han he people hey do no imiae (Charrand & Bargh, ; Sel

    & Vonk, ; Van Baaren, Holland, Kawakami, & Van Knippenberg, ). In oher words,

    previous research suggess ha imiaing ends o have a posiive effec on liking. Furhermore,

    i has even been described as a ‘social glue’: “…he consisen link beween behavioral mimicry

    and lik ing suggess ha his behavior may have ulimaely evolved o serve a ‘social glue’

    uncion, binding people ogeher and creaing harmonious relaionships” (Lakin, Jefferis,Cheng, & Charrand, , p. ).

    However, i is imporan o noe ha hese previous sudies oen ocused on relaively

    neural behaviour like ace ouching or oo apping. Some behaviour clearly includes a message

    o he oher person: Research shows or example ha emoions differ widely on wheher hey

    are seen by ohers as affiliaive or non-affiliaive (Hess, Blair y, & Kleck, ; K nuson, ).

    Happiness is usually shown o encourage conac and show riendly inenions and is seen by

    ohers as highly affi liaive, and anger is oen expressed o show disconen or hosiliy owards

    someone and is seen as highly non-affiliaive by ohers (Hess e al., ; Knuson, ). Iseems logical o argue ha even hough imiaion generally leads o more lik ing, imiaion o

     behaviours ha are o heir inheren meaning already clearly affiliative or non-affiliative may

    have a differen effec on liking. In he presen sudies, we aim o es his logical assumpion

    and show ha imiaing an affiliaive emoional expression (happiness) may indeed lead o more

    lik ing, whereas imiaing a non-affiliaive emoional expression (anger) can lead o less liking.

     Imitation o emotional expressions

     ha effec does he affilia ive or non-affiliaive aspec o emoion have on imiaion?

    Imiaion o more neural behaviour generally leads o more liking and is oen said o have

    an affiliaive uncion (see Lakin e al., ). In ha conex he affiliaive signals emoional

     behaviour may be sending are especial ly relevan. Behaviour ha is inherenly affi lia ive, such

    as emoional expressions (Fridlund, ), can be expeced o influence he affiliaive uncion

    o imiaion unl ike behaviour ha is no inherenly social. hen people imiae such behaviour

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    hey are no merely copying behaviour. Tey are also sending he affiliaive signal associaed

     wih ha imiaed behaviour. Sending each oher such (non-) affilia ive signals can obviously be

    expeced o have an impac on how much people consequenly like each oher.

    Imiaing an affiliaive emoional expression such as happiness is likely o lead o more

    liking, since he affiliaive aspec o he behaviour is likely o aciliae he affiliaive uncion

    o imiaion. However, because imiaing means sending he non-affiliaive signal associaed

     wih ha behaviour, imiaing a non-affi liaive emoional expression such as anger will probably

    resul in less liking. Boh sender and observer are sending highly non-affiliaive signals o each

    oher, cancelling ou any posiive effec ha he mere ac o imiaion migh have.

    Te lieraure on imiaion and mimicr y oen implies ha hese processes are he cemen

    o sociey and uncion as a sor o social glue (e.g., Lakin e al ., ). From his perspecive

    i ollows ha in siuaions where mimicry has negaive effecs on liking here should be lessmimicry. Tus, precisely because we expec imiaing anger will have negaive effecs we should

    also expec anger will generally no be imiaed sponaneously. Tereore, o be able o sudy he

    effecs imiaing such non-affiliaive behaviour has on liking, i is necessary o sudy inenional

    imiaion (insruc people o imiae). Much o he previous research on imiaion and liking,

    however, sudied sponaneous imiaion: Ta is, paricipans in hese sudies were generally

    unaware hey were imiaing. Tis difference in mehods could poenially pose a problem;

    however, recen research shows ha inenional imiaion is likely o have similar effecs

    on liking compared o sponaneous imiaion (Sel & Vonk, ). Moreover, oher sudiescomparing he wo kinds o imiaion sugges ha he choice or inenional imiaion migh

    acually be a conservaive one: Inenional imiaion is slower and more efforul (Dimberg,

    Tunberg, & Grunedal, ) and inenional imiaion is more sensiive o siuaional demands

    and culural influences (Ekman, ).

    o summarise: we expec imiaion will only cause increased liking when a acial

    expression is seen as affiliaive (when he expression is happy). hen i is seen as non-affiliaive

    (when he expression is angry), we expec ha inenionally sending such a non-affiliaive signal

     back (imiaing) will lead o less liking. e invesigae hese hypoheses in wo sudies. In boh

    sudies we looked a he impac o emoion (happy / angr y) and imiaion on liking. In Sudy

    ., we used compuer generaed aces (avaars) as arges o have maximum conrol over acial

    eaures and srengh o he emoional expression. In Sudy ., we used videos o real people as

    arges.

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    Sudy .

     Method

     Participants and design. Universiy sudens (n = ) ook par in Sudy .. Te sudy had

    an emoion (happy / angry) versus imiaion insrucion (imiaion yes / no) design and wih

    lik ing as he dependen variable. Paricipans were randomly assigned o he our condiions and

     were disribued equally across condiions.

     Material . Te paricipans were shown a shor video in which a acial ex pression changed

    rom neural o a specific emoion: angry or happy. In his sudy we used compuer generaed

    aces (avaars) as arges.

     Procedure. Paricipans were old ha hey would look a and evaluae videos in order o es

    maerial or uure research. Tey were also old ha in order o preven hem hinking oo much

    abou he video hey would ge a specific insrucion. In he imiaion condiion, he paricipans

     were asked o imiae he arge. In he conrol condiion he paricipans were asked o jus

    look a he video. All paricipans were recorded wih a webcam in order o be able o check

     wheher hey were ollowing our insrucions. Aer he video he paricipans compleed several

    quesions including he main dependen measure. Aer ha paricipans were asked wha hey

    hough he sudy was abou and hey were debrieed.

     Dependent measure . o measure lik ing we used he quesion ‘wha was your firs impressiono he person in he video’. Paricipans answered by dragging a marker on a l ine rom negaive

    o posiive. Te posiion on he line corresponded wih a number beween and . e asked

    people abou heir ‘firs impressions’ because we el ha direcly asking abou o wha exen

    hey “liked” he arge would be likely o bias heir responses in a posiive direcion (see

    Podsakoff, MacKenzie, Lee, & Podsakoff, ; Sudman, Bradburn, & Schwarz, ).

    o give credibiliy o he cover sory and o be able rule ou or conrol or oher

    explanaions we asked several oher quesions, including quesions abou he video (“wha was

     your firs impression o he video isel ”), and experienced emoions (“Do you eel…?”). Forhese measures he same scales were used as or he main dependen measure.

    Results

    In order o deermine wheher he paricipans ollowed our insrucions we scored

    our webcam recordings on he presence and inensiy o acial expressions. Because some

    paricipans disappeared ou o view we were able o score o he oal number o recordings

    For more inormaion abou he simuli conac he firs auhor.

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    o which saw he happy emoion and saw he angry emoion. wo experienced judges, who

     were blind o condiions, independenly scored he recordings on inensiy o expressions

    (happy and angry among ohers) on scales rom o (a score o was used when he expression

     was absen). o deermine iner-raer reliabiliy we compued inraclass correlaions, using a wo

     way random model and consisency definiion (McGraw & ong, ; Shrou & Fleiss, ).

    Te scores were . or he happiness raings and . or he anger raings, which is excellen

    according o he crieria specified by Cicheti and Sparrow (). e hen ook he averages o

    he wo judges as he dependen variables in our manipulaion check. e ound a significan

    effec o imiaion or boh he angry emoion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ., and he happy

    emoion, F (,) = ., p < ., ηp

     = .. Paricipans showed sronger anger expressions when

    hey were asked o imiae he angr y emoion compared o when hey were asked jus o look

    ( M  = ., SD = . vs M  = ., SD =.). Paricipans also showed sronger happy expressionsi hey were asked o imiae he happy emoion compared o when hey were asked jus o look

    ( M  = ., SD = . vs M  = ., SD = .). So our paricipans did ollow our insrucions.

    Nex, we analysed he resuls o emoion and insrucion on liking o he arge. In line

     wih our expecaions here was a significan ineracion beween insrucion and emoion on

    liking, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. Alhough he means were in he expeced direcions

    (see able .), simple effecs analysis or happiness and anger unorunaely showed ha he

    effec o insrucion was no significan wihin each emoion –when using wo-ailed ess

    (F (,) = ., p = ., ηp  = . and F (,) = ., p = ., ηp = . respecively). Neverheless,simple effecs analysis did show a srong effec o emoion wihin imiaion insrucion: hen

    he paricipans imiaed an angr y person hey liked his person less han when hey imiaed

    a happy person, F (,) = ., p < ., ηp

     = . (see able .). As prediced, no significan

    differences were ound or emoion wihin he ‘jus look’ insrucion, F (,) = ., p = .,

    ηp

     = (see able .).

    able .

    Te means o firs impression o he arge as a uncion o emoion and insr ucion or Sudy ..

    Insrucion

    Imiaion No assignmen

    Happy 58.7a (24.6) 50.8

    ab (25.1)

     Angry 35.5 b

     (29.4) 43.8ab

     (30.6)

    Noe: Scores are given on a scale rom (negaive) o (posiive). Te sandard devia ions are in parenheses . Means

    ha do no share he same subscrip are significanly differen ( p < .).

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    No oher effecs were ound on any o he oher measures (all F’s < ). Tis is imporan o

    noe because i suggess ha he ineracion effec on he lik ing measure can no be inerpreed

    as a response bias ha could have been ound on any evaluaive measure. Tus, imiaing an

    angry arge did no cause paricipans o become more negaive in general , i merely caused

    paricipans o become more negaive abou he target .

    o es he robusness o our findings, we conduced Sudy .. In his sudy, emoion was

    a wihin-subjecs variable so ha we could see wheher he effecs o imiaing an angry video

    inerered wih he effecs o imiaing a subsequen happy video. Aside rom his we used videos

    o real aces (Van der Velde, Sapel & Gordijn, ) raher han avaars o ensure ha he sudy

     would more closely resemble a siuaion in daily lie.

    Sudy .

     Method

    Universiy sudens (n = ) paricipaed in Sudy .. Each paricipan looked a and

     judged he angry video firs and hen looked a and judged he happy video. For each par icipan,

    insrucion (imiae or no) was consan hroughou he sudy and paricipans were randomly

    assigned o eiher he imiaion or ‘jus look’ insrucion. Tus he design was a mi xed design

     wih emoion as he wihin-subjecs variable and insrucion as he beween-subjecs var iable.Te res o he sudy was idenical o he firs sudy.

    Results

    In order o deermine wheher he paricipans ollowed our insrucions we firs scored

    our webcam recordings on he presence and inensiy o acial expressions. In his sudy we

     were able o score he recordings o only paricipans due o auly camera posiioning and

    paricipans disappearing ou o view, o hese recordings were scoreable or he ime heysaw he happy emoion and were scoreable or he ime hey saw he angry emoion. wo

    experienced judges, who were blind o condiions, independenly scored he recordings o he

    paricipans, or he duraion ha hey were waching he videos, on inensiy o expressions on

    a scale rom o (a score o was used when he expression was absen). o deermine iner-

    raer reliabiliy we compued inraclass correlaions, similar o Sudy .. Te scores were . or

    he happiness raings and . or he anger raings, which is excellen according o he crieria.

     e hen ook he averages o he wo judges’ raings or happiness and anger as he dependen

     variables in our manipulaion check. e ound a significan effec o imiaion or boh he

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    angry emoion, F (,) = ., p < ., ηp

     = . and he happy emoion, F (,) = ., p < .,

    ηp

     = .. Paricipans showed sronger anger expressions when hey were asked o imiae he

    angry emoion compared o when hey were asked jus o look ( M  = ., SD = . vs M  = .,

    SD = .). Tere were also sronger happy expressions or he paricipans who were asked

    o imiae he happy emoion ( M  = ., SD = . vs M  = ., SD = .). So our paricipans

    ollowed he insrucions and also did no imiae i hey were no asked o.

    Nex, we analysed he resuls o emoion and insrucion on liking o he arge using a

    repeaed measures analysis. During oulier analysis we ound one score ha had a disance o

    more han . he Iner uarile Range (IQR) o he median. Since he oulier crierion or IR

    is scores ha are over . IR his is a definie oulier. e hereore removed his score rom

    urher analysis.

    Te repeaed measures analysis showed here was a clear ineracion beween emoionand insrucion on liking, F (,) = ., p = ., η

    p = .. Aer imiaing an angry person

    paricipans liked his person less compared o he conrol group, F (,) = ., p = .,

    ηp

     = ., and aer imiaing a happy person hey liked his person more, F (,) = ., p = .,

    ηp

     = . (see able . or he means). Analyses or each insrucion separaely also showed an

    effec o emoion wihin he imiaion insrucion: hen he paricipans imiaed an angry

    person hey liked his person less han when hey imiaed a happy person, F(,) = .,

     p = ., ηp

     = .. Again no effec o emoion on liking was ound wihin he ‘jus look’

    insrucion, F(,) = ., p = ., ηp  = . (see able .).

    able .

    Te means o firs impression o he arge as a uncion o emoion and insr ucion or Sudy ..

    Insrucion

    Imiaion No assignmen

    Happy 61.8a (19.1) 50.5

     b (18.5)

     Angry 42.6c (23.8) 56.0 b (16.9)

    Noe: Scores are given on a scale rom (negaive) o (posiive). Te sandard devia ions are in parenheses . Means

    ha do no share he same subscrip are significanly differen ( p < .).

    I is imporan o noe ha all paricipans firs saw he angry person and hen he happy

    person. I being angry a an angry person induced a negaive response bias (see Sudy .), his

    should have disruped he resuls on he happy video. Te opposie was rue: Te means or he

    happy condiion were even higher han beore. Again we did no find any oher effecs on he

    oher measures (all Fs < ). Tus, again, hese findings suppor he hypohesis ha even hough

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    imiaing a happy arge causes paricipans o like ha arge more, imiaing an angry arge

    causes paricipans o like he arge less.

    Discussion

    Behaviour is meaningul and oen has a communicaive uncion. Tis is especially rue

    or emoional behaviour. hen people show emoions, hey oen do his o le oher people

    know wha hey are eeling. Tus, a happy ace is oen inended o be (and recognised by

    ohers) as affiliaive, whereas an angry ace is oen inended o be (and recognised by ohers)

    as non-affiliaive. Te presen findings suppor he noion ha when behaviour is meaningul,

    imiaion does no necessarily breed liking. Specifically, imiaing non-affiliaive behaviour,

    such as an angr y rown, may lead o less raher han more liking. Ineresingly, his imiaion-may-decrease-liking effec is in disagreemen wih a hos o recen social cogniion sudies o

    imiaion effecs (see Lakin e al., or an overview). Tese previous sudies, however, have

    never looked a he effec o imiaing meaningul non-affiliaive behaviour. Tus, he presen

    sudies show ha o ruly undersand he consequences o imiaion, i is imporan o look a

    he (social) meaning o wha is imiaed.

    I is imporan o noe ha even hough he wo emoions we used o sudy he impac

    o “meaning” on he imiaion-liking link differed in valence, our resuls can no be explained

    simply in erms o he posiiviy o happiness or negaiviy o anger. As a recen sudy by Sel and Vonk () comparing imiaion o sadness and happiness has shown, someimes (in he case

    o sadness) imiaing negaive emoions may increase lik ing. Tus, no all negaive emoions are

    creaed equal. e would like o argue ha he difference is relaed o he affiliaiveness o hese

    emoions: Sadness is neural on affi liaion, whereas anger is a non-affiliaive emoion (see Hess

    e al., ; Knuson, ). A ruiul avenue or uure research may hus be o compare he

    effecs o imiaing sadness and anger and oher negaive emoions ha differ on how affiliaive

    hey come across.

     Anoher issue which may be sudied in uure research is he idea ha or he presen

    effecs o occur i may no be necessary or people o imiae. Jus saring angrily a someone

    migh be enough o induce disliking. Since scowling a a person already implies you do no

    like hem overmuch, his cerainly may be possible. e would argue, however, ha when

    wo people look angry a each oher his gives more inormaion abou he ineracion hen

     when one is angry and he oher is no, and hereore will give sronger effecs on lik ing. Te

    imporan message in he presen sudies, however, is ha imiaion does no always and does

    no necessarily increase liking, as many imiaion sudies have argued or implied (e.g., Charrand

    & Bargh, ; Lakin e al., ; Van Baaren e al., ).

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    In line wih he lieraure on imiaion we argued ha i imiaion is he cemen o sociey

    and uncions as a social glue, imiaion should be absen enirely or a leas decrease o a level

    invisible o oher people when i has negaive effecs on liking. e hus expeced anger o be

    imiaed less han happiness. Paricipans in our sudies indeed did no sponaneously mimic

    anger. Some previous sudies show imiaion o emoions smiles and rowns (Blairy, Herrera, &

    Hess, ; Dimberg & Tunberg, ; Dimberg, Tunberg, & Elmehed, ; Hess & Blairy,

    ). Tese sudies oen use non-vivid simuli such as phoos. Oher sudies using more vivid

    simuli however have resuls ha more closely fi our heory showing litle imiaion o rowns

    compared o smiles (Hinsz & omhave, ; Esow, Jamieson, & Yaes, ). However,

    unexpecedly, he smiling person was also no sponaneously imiaed in our sudies (bu see

    also Ruys & Sapel, ). I could be ha our simuli were already vivid enough o elici eelings

    o liking or disliking aer insruced imiaion bu needed o be even more vivid or personallyrelevan or paricipans o have visibly imiaed he happy arges sponaneously. I would be

    ineresing o urher invesigae o wha exen sponaneous imiaion occurs or does no occur

     when i is or is no uncional.

    Because we did no expec any sponaneous imiaion o anger o occur i was necessar y

    o use inenional imiaion in our sudies. However, because previous sudies oen used

    sponaneous imiaion he possibiliy remains ha he resuls were obained merely because o

    he difference in imiaion. For example, he simple ac ha people were aware ha hey were

    mean o imiae he oher person’s behaviour could have resuled in more people guessing hereal purpose o he research and hus influencing he resuls. e o course checked or his

    possibiliy and we did no find any such effecs: people were generally compleely unaware why

    hey were asked o imiae. More imporanly, research suggess inenional imiaion is l ikely

    o be an equal or even a more conservaive choice han sponaneous imiaion (Dimberg e al,

    ; Ekman, ; Sel & Vonk, ), Tus, alhough i would be good o be able o compare

    he wo orms o imiaion in one design, we hink ha i is likely ha sponaneous imiaion

    o non-affiliaive behaviour will also have a negaive effec on lik ing, perhaps an even sronger

    effec.

    In conclusion hen, he link beween imiaion and liking is no as simple as he relevan

    lieraure suggess. Imiaion and liking are no always posiively relaed. Especially when he

     behaviour is meaningul, he link beween imia ion and liking may someimes be negaive.

     heher he imiaor hinks he behav iour is affiliaive or non-affilia ive has a grea impac

    on he effec imiaion has on liking. Imiaing non-affiliaive behaviour can have negaive

    consequences.

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    Are you angry at me?The importance ofmeaning and direction

    when imitating emotion

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    Imagine ha your riend is angry. I she is no angry at you, her anger wil l probably

    no affec he warmh o your relaionship. Similarly, i you reurn her anger wih an angr y

    expression ha is clearly not directed at her  , your riendship is also l ikely o be unaffeced.

    However, i she is clearly angry a you and you reurn her anger wih an angr y expression ha is

    direced a her, muual affecion is likely o decrease. Ta is he hypohesis we will be esing

    in he presen se o sudies: hen someone expresses anger oward you and because o you,

    imiaing may decrease liking.

    In conex o he relevan lieraure his sraighorward hypohesis may seem

    counerinuiive. Mos sudies on mimicry and imiaion sugges ha imiaion will increase

    lik ing (Charrand & Bargh, ; Sel & Vonk, ; Van Baaren, Holland, Kawakami, & Van

    Knippenberg, ). Mimicr y has even been described as a ‘social glue’: “…he consisen link

     beween behavioural mimicry and liking suggess ha his behaviour may have ulimaelyevolved o serve a ‘social glue’ uncion, binding people ogeher and creaing harmonious

    relaionships.” (Lakin, Jefferis, Cheng, & Charrand, , p. ).

     Alhough we are no conesing he idea ha imiaion may increase liking, we hink i is

    imporan o noe ha he imiaion-liking link is no ubiquious. Previous research on mimicry

    and imiaion has oen ocused on he imiaion-liking link in he conex o relaively simple,

    neural behaviours. Tere are o course many orms o behaviour ha can no be considered

    neural. Research shows, or example, ha emoions differ widely on wheher hey are seen by

    ohers as affiliaive or non-affiliaive (Hess, Blairy, & Kleck, ; Knuson, ). Happinessis usually inended as a way o encourage conac and is seen by ohers as highly affiliaive,

     whereas anger is oen ex pressed o discourage conac and show disconen and is ypically

    seen as highly non-affi liaive by ohers (Hess e al., ; Knuson, ). Even hough imiaion

    generally leads o more liking, i seems logical o argue ha imiaion o such inherenly

    affiliaive or non-affiliaive behaviours may affec liking in a differen manner.

     Imitation o emotional expressions

     ha effec does he affilia ive or non-affiliaive aspec o emoion have on imiaion?

    Imiaion o more neural behaviour generally leads o more liking and is oen said o have

    an affiliaive uncion (see Lakin e al., ). In ha conex he affiliaive signals emoional

     behaviour may be sending are especial ly relevan. Behaviour ha is inherenly social, such as

    emoional expressions (Fridlund, ), can be expeced o influence he affiliaive uncion o

    imiaion unlike behaviour ha is no inherenly social. hen people imiae such meaningul

     behaviour hey are no merely copying he behaviour. Tey are also sending he (non-) affiliaive

    signal associaed wih ha behaviour. Sending each oher such (non-) affiliaive signals can

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    obviously be expeced o have an impac on how much people consequenly like each oher.

    Imiaing a non-affiliaive emoional expression such as anger will hus probably resul in

    less lik ing. Boh sender and observer are sending highly non-affiliaive signals o each oher

    cancelling ou any posiive effec ha he mere ac o imiaion migh have.

    Such signals are oen directed at  a paricular arge or objec, oen a person or siuaion

    (Frijda, ). hen sudying he effecs o emoions, i is hus relevan o consider he arge

    o he emoion. Te meaning and inerpreaion o he emoion may depend on wheher i

    is direced oward he observer or a someone or somehing else. Tis is rue especially or

    anger. Sudies have shown ha anger direced oward he perceiver is a clear hrea or he

    perceiver and is more easily recognized, whereas anger direced away rom he perceiver

    is more ambiguous and less easily recognized (Adams, Gordon, Baird, Ambady, & Kleck,

    ; Adams & Kleck, ). Furhermore, i has been shown ha in negoiaions anger isinerpreed differenly when i is direced oward people personally han when i is direced

    a heir behaviour (Seinel, Van K lee, & Harinck, ). e hereore argue ha imiaing a

    non-affiliaive emoion will only resul in less lik ing o he emoion was direced a he perceiver

    personally. I he anger is no direced a he perceiver personally he perceiver is imiaing he

    same behaviour bu because he signal is no direced a he perceiver personally he social

    message o disconen ha is associaed wih he emoion will also no be direced a he sender.

    Imiaing his behaviour can even have posiive consequences because he imiaion can be seen

    as empahic: ‘I eel he same way, I share your anger’.I here is no imiaion, we do no expec direcion o he emoion o have an effec on

    lik ing. Some people migh dislike someone ha is angry a hem, however, oher people migh

    have more o an inclinaion o eel guily when someone is angr y a hem and will no ake

    offence. Furhermore, someone who is angry a someone else is no necessarily more likeable

    han someone who is angry a he observer personally: i is jus as likely ha such a person will

     be equally disliked.

    Te direcion o he anger does, noneheless, give he observer inormaion abou how he

    anger should be inerpreed. Oher acors can do he same: siuaional acors such as specific

    acial eaures can also give people inormaion abou how a person’s expression should be

    inerpreed. Facial eaures indicaive o, or insance, gender, age, healh, or dominance may be

    used o iner he meaning behind he expression. Gender has, or example, been shown o have

    an influence on how anger is seen: Anger is seen as especially non-affiliaive when shown by

    men (Hess, e al., ). Men are also in general seen as more likely o ac aggressively (Swim,

    ), and men are oen seen as more aggressive han women, even when hey show exacly he

    same angry behaviour (Harris & Knigh-Bohnhoff, ). All o hese known effecs migh make

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    people eel ha when a man expresses anger, i is also a non-affiliaive signal owards hem, even

    hough he direcion o he anger migh indicae oherwise.

    Tus, when people hink anger is direced a hem we expec acial eaures indicaing

    aggression will add o our expeced effecs o imiaion: people will like he person even

    less. And even when anger is no direced a people personally we expec ha people will

    neverheless inerpre he anger as a non-affiliaive signal owards hem when he anger is shown

     by a man and hus lead o less liking. In his case he simulus isel gives inormaion abou how

    he emoion is o be inerpreed.

    Te lieraure on imiaion and mimicr y oen described hese as he cemen o sociey and

    as social glue (e.g., Lakin e al ., ). Siuaions ha enable imiaion o have an adverse effec

    on liking should, hereore, lead o less mimicr y. Tus, precisely because we expec imiaing

    anger wil l have negaive effecs, we should also expec anger will generally no be imiaedsponaneously. Tis makes i necessary o insruc people o imiae, in order o be able o

    sudy he effecs o imiaing such non-affiliaive behaviour. In much o he previous research

    on imiaion and liking, however, paricipans were unaware hey were imiaing (sponaneous

    imiaion). Tis difference in mehods could creae a problem or comparing his research wih

    pas findings. However, recen research shows ha inenional imiaion does have similar

    effecs on lik ing compared o sponaneous imiaion (Sel & Vonk, ). Moreover, oher

    sudies comparing he wo kinds o imiaion sugges inenional imiaion migh acually be

    less likely o have an effec, making i a more conservaive es o our hypoheses: Inenionalimiaion is slower and more efforul (Dimberg, Tunberg, & Grunedal, ), and inenional

    imiaion is more sensiive o siuaional demands and culural influences (Ekman, ).

    In sum, we expec ha people will like ohers less aer imiaion when he behaviour o

    he oher is non-affiliaive oward he imiaor or when oher acors, such as aggressive acial

    eaures, sugges he behaviour should be inerpreed as non-affiliaive. hen he behaviour

    is no seen as non-affiliaive or when he non-affiliaiveness is no direced a he imiaor, we

    expec imiaion migh even lead o more liking. hen he emoion is no imiaed, we do

    no expec any such arge effecs. e invesigae hese hypoheses in wo sudies. In boh

    sudies we looked a he impac o arge o he emoion (is ha person angry a me or no?)

    and imiaion on liking. In Sudy . we also looked a how using an aggressive simulus can

    influence he effec o arge and imiaion on liking.

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    Sudy .

     Method

     Participants and design. One hundred and eigh women and eighy hree men paricipaedin Sudy .. Te sudy had an imiaion insrucion (imiaion, yes / no) versus arge

    insrucion (perceiver is arge, yes / no) design wih ‘firs impression o he simulus person’ as

    he dependen variable. Men and women were randomly assigned o he our condiions.

     Material . Te paricipans were shown a shor video in which a woman’s acial expression

    changed rom neural o angry. For boh sudies we used compuer generaed aces (avaars) as

    simulus maerial.

     Procedure. Paricipans were old ha hey would look a and evaluae videos in order o

    es maerial or uure research. Tey were also old ha in order o preven hem hinkingo much during he video, hey would ge specific assignmens o carr y ou. In he imiaion

    condiion paricipans were asked o imiae he simulus person. In he conrol condiion

    paricipans were asked o jus look a he video. All paricipans knew hey were being recorded

     wih a webcam in order o be able o check wheher hey were ollowing our insrucions.

     Al l paricipans knew hey would see an angry person in he video. Paricipans in he arge

    condiion were asked o imagine ha his person was angry a hem and paricipans in he non

    arge condiion were asked o imagine ha his person was no angry a hem. Aer he video

    he paricipans compleed several quesions including he main dependen measure. Aer ha

    paricipans were asked wha hey hough he sudy was abou and hey were debrieed.

     Dependent measure . o measure lik ing we used he quesion ‘wha was your firs impression

    o he person in he video’. Paricipans answered by dragging a marker on a l ine rom negaive

    o posiive. Te posiion on he line corresponded wih a number beween and . e asked

    people abou heir ‘firs impressions’ because we el ha direcly asking abou o wha exen

    hey “liked” he arge would be likely o bias heir responses in a posiive direcion (see

    Podsakoff, MacKenzie, Lee, & Podsakoff, ; Sudman, Bradburn, & Schwarz, ).

    o give credibiliy o he cover sory and o be able rule ou or conrol or oher

    explanaions we asked several oher quesions, including quesions abou he video (“wha was

     your firs impression o he video isel ”), perceived emoion (“How angry do you hink he

    For more inormaion abou he simuli conac he firs auhor. e used a conrol condiion ha simply asked paricipans o look a he video. I could be argued ha his i s no a

    suiable conrol condiion because people end o sponaneously mimic (cerain ypes o ) behaviour (see Lakin e al.,

    or an overv iew). A more widely used conrol condiion is o ask par icipans no o imiae. However as we noed

     beore, we did no ex pec sponaneous mimic ry when mim icry migh have adverse effecs. e waned o make sure

    ha par icipans could do wha hey would ‘normally’ do when encounering such a person. Our earlier sud ies showha indeed people do no (visibly) imiae anger (Van der Velde, Sapel, & Gordijn, in press).

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    person in he video is?”) experienced emoions (“Do you eel…?”) and experienced effor (“How

    easy did you hink i was o (insrucion)?”). For hese measures he same scales were used as or

    he main dependen measure.

    Results

     Manipulation check. In order o deermine wheher he paricipans ollowed our

    imiaion insrucion we scored our webcam recordings on he presence and inensiy o

    acial expressions. Because some paricipans disappeared ou o view o he camera, we

     were able o score o he oal number o recordings. wo experienced judges, who were

     blind o condiions, independenly scored he recordings on inensiy o expressions, anger

    among ohers, on scales rom o (a score o was used when he expression was absen). odeermine iner-raer reliabiliy we compued inraclass correlaions, using a wo way random

    model and consisency definiion (McGraw & ong, ; Shrou & Fleiss, ). Te score was

    . or anger, which is good according o he crieria specified by Cicheti and Sparrow ().

     e conduced an ANOVA wih arge insrucion and imiaion insrucion as independen

     variables and he average o he judges’ score as he dependen variable. e ound a significan

    effec o imiaion on anger expressions, F (,) = ., p < ., ηp

     = .. Paricipans showed

    sronger anger expressions when hey were asked o imiae, compared o when hey were asked

     jus o look ( M  = ., SD = . vs M  = ., SD = .). Tis shows ha paricipans did ollowour insrucions. Tere was no effec o arge insrucion on occurrence o imiaion and no

    ineracion, F ’s < . Oher expressions han anger hardly occurred and did no occur in such

    quaniies ha analysis on hese was possible.

    Outlier Analysis. Nex, we analyzed he resuls o arge insrucion and imiaion

    insrucion on lik ing o he simulus. Analysis showed one oulier. Tis poin deviaed more

    han . Inerquarile Range (IQR) rom he mean. e excluded his poin rom urher

    analyses. Resuls were comparable wihou removal o he oulier.

     Effects on liking. e did an ANOVA wih arge insrucion and imiaion insrucion as

    independen variables and liking as he dependen variable. In our analyses we also looked a

    he effec o paricipan gender. Because here were no par icipan gender effecs (F s < ), we

    collapsed across his variable. In line wih our expecaions here was a significan ineracion

     beween arge insrucion and imiaion insrucion on he dependen variable liking,

    F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. See able . or he means. Furher analysis showed ha when

    paricipans imiaed he angry simulus person hey liked her less compared o he conrol

    condiion when hey imagined hey were he arge o he anger, F (,) = ., p = .,

    ηp

     = .. hen hey imagined hey were no he arge o he anger here was no effec, F < .

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    able .

    Firs impression o he simulus person as a uncion o imiaion insrucion and arge insrucion or Sudy ..

    Imiaion InsrucionImiaion Jus Look  

    arge Insrucion arge 36.9a (22.1) 47.6 b (27.6)

    Non-arge 48.8 b

     (24.9) 45.0 b

     (23.1)

    Noe: Scores are given on a scale rom (negaive) o (posiive). Te sandard devia ions are in parenheses . Means

    ha do no share he same subscrip are significanly differen ( p < .).

    Other variables. I here were differences in perceived anger o he simulus hese could

    have had an effec on liking independenly o he inerpreaion o ha anger. An A NOVA wih‘how angry do you hink he person in he video was?’ as he dependen variable showed only

    a main effec or imiaion insrucion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. hen paricipans

    imiaed he simulus hey hough she was less angry ( M  = ., SD = .) han when hey had

    no imiaed her ( M  = ., SD = .). Tis can no explain our ineracion on liking however.

    Furhermore we analyzed he resuls conrolling or his perceived anger and ound he exac

    same ineracion and patern o means as beore, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ..

    Paricipans own anger could also affec liking. I paricipans are angrier hey migh reac

    more negaively o he simulus. However here was only a main effec o arge insrucion onhis variable, F (,) = ., p = ., η

    p = .. hen par icipans imagined he person o be

    angry a hem hey were angrier ( M  = ., SD = .) hen when hey imagined he person no

    o be angry a hem ( M  = ., SD = .). Tis canno explain he ineracion resuls we ound.

     Also conrolling or his variable si ll resuled in he same inerac ion and patern o means,

    F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ..

    Insrucion difficuly migh also have influenced liking. Perceived ease o perorming he

    insrucion did show an ineracion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. Paricipans hough

    imagining ha he simulus was angr y a hem was easier o do when hey were no also asked o

    imiae ( M  = ., SD = .) compared o when hey were asked o imiae ( M  = ., SD = .),

    F (,) = ., p < ., ηp

     = .. Te insrucion o imagine ha she was no angry a hem

     was hough by paricipans o be equally easy wheher hey were asked o imiae ( M  = .,

    SD = .) or no ( M  = ., SD = .), F < . So he condiion ha was he mos difficul, he

    combinaion o imiaing and imagining he simulus was angry a hem, also showed he leas

    lik ing or he simulus. However conrolling or perceived difficuly in he original ANOVA

    resuled in he same ineracion and patern o means as beore, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ..

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     Discussion

    Te resuls o his sudy show ha when sudying he effecs o imiaion i is indeed

    imporan o keep in mind how his behaviour is inerpreed. Imiaing an angry expression has

    an effec when people imagine hemselves o be he target  bu no when people imagine hey are

    not  he arge.

     As we noed earlier, non-emoional acial eaures may also be inormaive or he imiaor

    and help o give meaning and evaluae a acial expression. Ta is why, or example, men are

    oen seen as more aggressive han women, even when heir (anger-relaed) behaviour is similar

    (Harris & Knigh-Bohnhoff, ). Since such eaures migh influence how he behaviour is

    seen and affec our resuls we waned o ake a closer look a our simulus. e used a emale

    simulus in Sudy .. Since a man is probably seen as more aggressive his could influence heresuls o arge and imiaion on liking.

    o ge a beter idea o how women and men are seen when hey are angry we did a pilo

    sudy wih paricipans. e examined how paricipans rae angr y women and men on how

    aggressive and righening hey come across on scales rom (no a all) o (very). e used he

    angry woman rom Sudy . and a newly creaed angry man. Even hough hey were perceived

    as equally angry, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ., he angry man was seen by paricipans as more

    aggressive ( M  = ., SD = .) han he woman (M  = ., SD = .), F (,) = ., p = .,

    ηp = .. Te man was also seen as more righening ( M  = ., SD = .) han he woman( M  = ., SD = .), F (,) = ., p < ., η

    p = .. So an angry man is indeed seen as more

    aggressive and more righening han an angry woman. Tus compared o angry women, angry

    men possess acial eaures ha are more likely o indicae aggressiveness. In Sudy . we will

    use a male simulus o examine wheher direcion o anger is irrelevan when he simulus is

    seen as very aggressive.

    Sudy .

    In Sudy . we repeaed Sudy . wih he male simulus we used in he pilo sudy. As

    angry men are perceived o be very aggressive, we expec his acial eaure o influence our

    expeced effecs o imiaion: people will like he person even less, independen o wheher

    people hink he anger is direced a hem or no. Tus unlike Sudy ., in which we used an

    angry woman, we expec only a main effec o imiaion in Sudy ., because an angry man is

    used as he simulus.

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     Method

    Sudy . had emale and male paricipans. Tis ime he simulus person was a man.

    Te res o he sudy was idenical o Sudy ..

    Results and discussion

     Manipulation check. In order o deermine wheher he paricipans ollowed our

    imiaion insrucion we scored our webcam recordings on he presence and inensiy o

    acial expressions. Because some paricipans disappeared ou o view we were able o score

    o he oal number o recordings. wo experienced judges, who were blind o condiions,

    independenly scored he recordings on inensiy o expressions (anger among ohers) on scalesrom o (a score o was used when he expression was absen). e compued he iner-

    raer reliabiliy he same way as in Sudy .. Te score was . or anger, which is seen as good

    (Cicheti & Sparrow, ). e did an ANOVA wih arge insr ucion and imiaion insrucion

    as independen variables and he average o he judges score as he dependen variable. e

    ound a significan effec o imiaion on anger expressions, F (,) = ., p < ., ηp

     = ..

    Paricipans showed sronger anger expressions when hey were asked o imiae ( M  = .,

    SD = .) compared o when hey were asked jus o look ( M  = ., SD = .). So hese

    paricipans did ollow our insrucions. Oher expressions han anger hardly occurred and didno occur in such quaniies ha analysis on hese was possible. Tere was no effec o arge

    insrucion on occurrence o imiaion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ., and no ineracion, F  < .

    Outlier analysis. Nex, we analyzed he resuls o arge insrucion and imiaion

    insrucion on liking o he simulus. Analysis showed hree ouliers. Tese poins deviaed

    more han . Inerquar ile Range (IQR) rom he mean. e excluded hese poins rom urher

    analyses. Resuls were comparable wihou removal o he ouliers.

     Effects on liking. e did an ANOVA wih arge insrucion and imiaion insrucion as

    independen variables and liking as he dependen variable. Tere was an effec o paricipan

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    gender in hese analyses , bu his effec was no relevan or our hypoheses. Tere was no

    ineracion beween arge insrucion and imiaion insrucion on he dependen variable

    liking, F < . As expeced, here was a main effec o imiaion insrucion, F (,) = .,

     p = ., ηp

     = .. Aer imiaion ( M  = ., SD = .) paricipans always liked he man less

    compared o no imiaion ( M  = ., SD = .). In his case i did no mater i paricipans

    imagined themselves to be the target o the anger or not. 

    Other variables. Similar o Sudy . we waned o rule ou some alernaive explanaions.

    Difference in perceived anger was again no a suiable explanaion. An ANOVA wih ‘how

    angry do you hink he person in he video was?’ as he dependen variable showed no effecs

    or imiaion insrucion or arge insrucion, F < . As in Sudy . we analyzed he resuls

    conrolling or his perceived anger and ound he same main effec or imiaion insrucion,

    F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. Paricipans own anger also urned ou no o explain heresuls. Paricipans own anger only showed a main effec or arge insrucion, F (,) = .,

     p = ., ηp

     = .. hen paricipans imagined he person o be angry a hem hey were angrier

    ( M  = ., SD = .) hen when hey imagined he person no o be angry a hem ( M  = .,

    SD = .). Conrolling or his variable sil l resuled in he same main effec or imiaion

    insrucion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = ..

    Differences in difficuly o he ask also did no explain our resuls. Perceived ease o

    perorming he insrucions showed a main effec o arge insrucion, F (,) = ., p < .,

    ηp = ., and a main effec o imiaion insrucion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp = .. Paricipanshough imagining ha he simulus was no angr y a hem was easier o do ( M  = ., SD = .)

    han imagining he simulus was no angry a hem ( M  = ., SD = .). Paricipans also

    hough no imiaing was easier o do ( M  = ., SD = .) han imagining he simulus was

    no angry a hem ( M  = ., SD = .). Conrolling or his variable in he original ANOVA

    resuled in he same main effec o imiaion insrucion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. Tis

    shows ha our resuls once again canno be easily explained by oher acors.

    Tese resuls show ha indeed he acial eaure indicaing gender is imporan or he

    effecs o imiaion o anger. As expeced we ound ha imiaion led o less liking compared

     Tere was a main effec o paricipan gender on lik ing, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = . and an ineracion effec

    o paricipan gender and arge insrucion, F (,) = . , p = ., ηp

     = .. Men liked he angry man more when

    hey imagined he was no angr y a hem ( M  = ., SD = .), compared o when hey imagi ned he was ( M  = .,

    SD = .), F (,) = ., p = ., ηp

     = .. omen however liked he angr y man less when hey imag ined he was

    no angry a hem ( M  = ., SD = .), compared o when hey imagined he was ( M  = ., SD = .), F (,) = .,

     p = ., ηp

     = .. ih par icipan gender as an independen variable in he ANOVA here was however sil l an effec

    o imiaion on liking and no wo-way or hree-way ineracions wih imiaion F s < . Conrolling or paricipan

    gender in he original ANOVA sil l resuled in he same main effec or imiaion, F (,) = ., p = ., ηp = .. Teresul or par icipan gender hereore did no affec our hypo heses.

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    o no imiaion regardless o he arge o he emoion. Presumably his was because he acial

    eaure gave inormaion abou how he emoion was o be inerpreed. In his case he anger

     was perceived o be unriendly (aggressive) regardless o he arge.

    General discussion

    Behaviour is meaningul and oen has a communicaive uncion. Emoional behaviour

    in par icular is inherenly social and communicaive in naure. hen people show emoions

    hey oen do his o le ohers know wha hey are eeling. Expressing anger, or example, is

    oen a way o inimidae or show disconen. Te presen sudies suppor he noion ha when

     behaviour is meaningul, imia ion will no always lead o increased liking o he one who is

    imiaed. Specifically, imiaing unriendly behaviour, such as an angry rown, may lead o lessraher han more liking.

    Ineresingly, his imiaion-may-decrease-liking effec is conradicory o a hos o

    recen social cogniion sudies o imiaion effecs (see Lakin e al., or an overview). Te

     behaviour ha was mimicked or imiaed in previous sudies, however, was oen neural or

    riendly. Conrary o hese well-known imiaion-increase liking sudies, our sudies show ha

    imiaing an unriendly angry expression may increase disliking o he simulus.

    Furhermore, our sudies sugges ha suble bu meaningul arge cues may change

    he impac o imiaion on lik ing when such cues sugges how an angry expression may beinerpreed. Ta is, we showed ha exacly he same angr y acial expression had an effec when

    people imagined hemselves o be he arge o his anger, bu no effec when people imagined

    hey were not  he arge, as we expeced.

    Final ly, we showed ha non-emoional acial cues may also deermine he effec o

    imiaion on liking. Ta is, he effecs o arge cues were only presen when people imagined

    a woman o be angry or no angry a hem. Sudy . showed ha when he angry person was a

    man, arge cues did no mater anymore: paricipans always liked he man less aer hey had

    imiaed him. Here i seems he inormaion ha he ace was male provided inormaion on

    how he emoion should be inerpreed (as aggressive regardless o he direcion o he anger).

    In our sudies, we manipulaed he meaning o emoional acial expressions by providing

    paricipans wih he reasons or sources o he expressed emoion (‘she is angry a you’; ‘she

    is angr y bu no a you’). Gaze direcion migh have been anoher effecive manipulaion o

     wheher or no he acial expression is direced a he observers. In he presen research we

    did no choose o manipulae gaze direcion, because we waned o be able o conrol he

    meaning or he observers raher han leave he change in meaning up o he observers own

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    inerpreaions. Tis had he addiional benefi o being able o keep he simulus maerial

    idenical across condiions.

     e did no expec any sponaneous imiaion o anger o occur, which made i necessary

    o sudy inenional imiaion in our sudies, o be able o sudy he limis o he imiaion-

    lik ing link. However, because previous sudies oen used sponaneous imiaion he possibiliy

    remains ha he resuls were obained merely because o he difference in imiaion ype. For

    insance, he ac ha people were aware ha hey had o imiae he oher person could have

    resuled in more people guessing he real purpose o he research and hus influencing he

    resuls. Our debriefing resuls, however, clearly did no show any such effecs: people were

    compleely unaware why hey were asked o imiae. Furhermore, research suggess inenional

    imiaion is likely o be an equal or more conservaive choice han sponaneous imiaion

    (Dimberg e al, ; Ekman, ; Sel & Vonk, ). Tus, alhough a comparison o he woorms o imiaion in one design would be good, we neverheless hink based on he available

    lieraure ha i is likely ha sponaneous imiaion o non-affiliaive behaviour will also have a

    negaive effec on liking, perhaps even sronger han he effec o inenional imiaion.

     An obv ious disincion o invesigae when looking a effecs o imiaion on liking is he

    disincion beween non-affiliaive and affiliaive behaviour. And his disincion indeed proved

    o be very influenial or he effecs o imiaion on liking. Te presen sudies suppor he noion

    ha since social behaviour is rarely meaningless, i is wise o ake meaning o behaviour ino

    consideraion when sudying he impac o imiaion on social behaviour.o conclude wih some well-mean advice, when you wan o be liked by ohers, imiaing

    hem is no always he bes roue o ollow. Raher, you migh be beter o ocusing on wha

    he behaviour o he oher conveys and how you can reply o his message in a meaningul

    and empahic way. Someimes liking can be achieved by imiaion, bu someimes li e is more

    complex and i is beter o choose a differen approach.

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    Chapter 4

    I hate it whenyou are happyHow liking and disliking

    influence emotion imitation

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    Imagine ha you have a colleague ha you really can no sand. You encouner her in

    he caeeria downsairs when you are going or some coffee. She is siting here alone and is

    obviously very happy; she seems almos unable o sop hersel rom laughing. ha would you

    do? Probably you would no join in wih her laugher and perhaps even eel like leaving o go

    somewhere else or coffee. ha i he colleague was no someone you despised bu a colleague

     you really liked? In all likelihood your reac ion would be compleely differen: you would be

    more likely o share he happiness by reurning her happy expression and even join in wih her

    laugher.

     Alhough o a lay audience he above wi ll probably sound rue and unsurprising, in conex

    o he relevan lieraure on imiaion such differen reacions owards he same behaviour

    are unexpeced. Te mere idea ha disancing onesel as well as smiling could be a reacion

    owards a happy person goes agains recen heories and findings in hose fields (see Lakin, Jefferis, Chang, & Charrand, or an overview). Tese imiaion heories predominaely

    argue ha a wide variey o behaviour is imiaed and imiaion, alhough lessened by cerain

    acors, almos always occurs and he findings seem o suppor his (see Lakin e al., or an

    overview). e hink, however, ha i makes sense o expec ha people will no always reac

     wih he same behaviour. In he curren research we examined his issue. e argue ha liking

    plays an imporan role in he case o imiaion. I he disliked colleague laughs exuberanly, or

    insance, we do no expec even a small amoun o imiaion o ha behaviour. Raher we expec

    dissimilar reacions, such as disancing behaviour.

     Disliking and Imitation

     Alhough liking is oen associaed wih imiaion ( Jefferis, van Baaren, & Charrand,

    ; Lakin e al., ; Sel, Blascovich, McCall, & Vonk, ), disliking is ypically only

    argued o lead o less or a mos no imiaion, bu not  o he opposite o imiaion or oher

    dissimilar reacions. Teoreically dissimilar reacions are, however, no impossible. Lakin and

    Charrand () showed ha an acive affiliaion goal leads o more imiaion, and hey argued

    ha liking probably leads o more imiaion because people generally are more likely o have

    an acive affiliaion goal owards liked ohers. Alhough hey do no menion he possibiliy

    o dissimilar reacions owards disliked ohers, such reacions would sill be in line wih heir

    reasoning. One merely has o ake Lak in and Charrand’s () reasoning one sep urher:

    Tus, we argue ha i is possible ha people do no merely have less or no desire o affiliae wih

    disliked ohers, bu migh also have an acive desire o not affiliae or even distance hemselves

    rom disliked ohers. Since imiaion can ulfil an affiliaion goal, such a desire o no affiliae

    could be ulfilled by dissimilar reacions. e hereore argue ha dissimilar reacions owards

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    disliked ohers are ar more likely han similar (imiaive) reacions. Tus, we predic ha a

    happy disliked person will no be me wih imiaion bu is more likely o be me wih disancing

     behaviour.

     Alhough he principle ha people migh reac dissimilarly o disliked ohers’ behaviour

    could apply o any behaviour, we hink cerain behaviours are more likely o show such an effec.

    Some behaviour clearly includes a message o he oher person: Research shows or example ha

    emoions differ widely on how affiliaive or non-affiliaive hey are (Hess, Blairy, & Kleck, ;

    Knuson, ). Happiness is usually shown o encourage conac and show riendly inenions

    and is indeed seen by ohers as highly affiliaive, sadness is oen shown o elici empahy and

    helping behaviour in ohers alhough i is seen as neural on affiliaion, and anger is oen

    expressed o show disconen or hosiliy owards someone and is seen as highly non-affiliaive

     by ohers (Hendriks & Vingerhoes, ; Hess e al., ; Knuson, ). e argue haaffiliaive behaviour in paricular will lead o imiaion o liked ohers and o dissimilar reacions

    owards disliked ohers, because affiliaive behaviour can serve an affiliaive goal beter han

    any oher ype o behaviour. I people like someone and wan ha person o like hem back,

    hey are more likely o show behaviour ha is affi liaive, such as happiness. Since we already

    know imiaion can serve an affiliaive goal, he combinaion o he wo, imiaing happiness, is

    likely o serve an affiliaive goal even beter and lead o more liking because o his. However,

    ollowing he same line o reasoning, affiliaive behaviour is very unlikely o be able o serve a

    desire not o affiliae, making imiaion o a disliked happy oher very unlikely and dissimilar(non-affiliaive) behaviour in response o his oher more likely.

    Tere have been ew sudies ha have looked a he effec o liking on imiaion and only

    one o hose, o our knowledge, ocused on he effec o liking on he imiaion o emoions

    (Likowski, Mühlberger, Seib, Pauli, & eyers, ). Tis sudy showed ha boh happiness

    and sadness were imiaed more when paricipans had a more posiive atiude owards he

    oher person. Imporanly, hey also ound some suble indicaions o dissimilar acial muscular

    reacions (smiling) owards disliked sad ohers. Tis suppors our idea ha people do no jus

    imiae disliked ohers less, bu can indeed show dissimilar reacions. e would expec even

    sronger dissimilar reacions owards disliked happy ohers han owards disliked sad ohers,

    however, such a dissimilar reacion was no ound in he case o happiness by Likowski and

    colleagues (). However, because heir main ineres was in imiaion o happiness and

    sadness, hey only ocused on muscle aciviy consisen wih sadness and happiness. e argue

    ha disliked happy ohers should also elici dissimilar reacions, bu hose reacions are unlikely

    o involve sadness.

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     Liking and imitation

    Even when he oher is liked, however, i does no seem logical o always expec more

    imiaion. Imagine or example wha would happen i a colleague who you really like showed

    anger insead o happiness. Ten, we argue, you would probably be more inclined o calm he

    oher down han o ge angry yoursel. Even hough he relevan lieraure ypically argues ha

    liked ohers should be imiaed more (Jefferis e al. , ; Lakin e al., ; Sel, e al., ),

    a non-imiaive reacion owards a l iked oher noneheless makes perec sense i we again ake

    he meaning o he behaviour ino accoun. Anger is non-affiliaive and hus showing anger

    in response o he oher’s anger (imiaion) is ambiguous: I could be consrued as empahic

     behaviour (e.g., ‘ogeher we are angry a someone else’), bu could also be consrued as a non-affiliaive message (e.g., ‘I am angr y a you’). e consequenly expec, conrary o he research

    on non-emoional behaviour, ha anger will not be imiaed i he oher is liked: People will be

    especially unlikely o risk sending a non-affiliaive message owards someone hey like. Tey

     will be more likely o wan o be unmisakably affiliaive, or example by ry ing o help he

    oher in some way. I he oher person is no liked people are more likely o show non-affiliaive

    expressions. However, as beore showing anger i he oher is already showing anger (imiaion)

    is ambiguous: as well as possibly being consrued as a non-affiliaive message i could also be

    consrued as empahic behaviour. Tereore we do no expec people o imiae anger owardsdisliked people eiher. People wil l be more likely o wan o be indispuably non-affiliaive, or

    example by urning heir back on he oher person (disengaging).

    o summarize, we expec ha i a arge expresses an emoion ha is affiliaive, or neural

    on affiliaion, liking o his arge will lead o imiaion whereas disliking will lead o dissimilar

    (non-affiliaive) reacions. However, i he expressed emoion is non-affiliaive, we expec

    here will be no imiaion, regardless o wheher he arge is liked or disliked. In ha case we

    expec liking o lead o clear affiliaive behaviour and disliking o lead o clear non-affiliaive

     behaviour. o es hese hypoheses we examined emoion imia ion in an inerpersonal conex

    and compared he effecs o happiness, sadness and anger in a single design, where we pited a

    srongly liked arge and a srongly disliked arge agains each oher.

    Sudy .

    Our goal was o sudy a variey o siuaions in which oher people’s emoions play a key

    role and he effec o liking could be sudied. o keep he simulus maerial