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NeedsFocusedTeaching.com

5 Quick & Powerful

Techniques to Relieve Teacher Stress Right Now

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NEEDS-FOCUSED TEACHING Coping Strategies for Stressed Teachers

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Coping Strategies for Stressed

Teachers

5 Quick & Powerful Ways to Relieve Teacher

Stress Right Now

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In this FREE (But Extremely Useful) Report You’re About to

Discover the Special Technique You Can Use to REDUCE

ANXIETY and STRESS-PROOF Yourself Plus 4 Additional Stress

Management Strategies

But first, some comments from a few of our Quiet Mind for Teachers

satisfied customers:

“I now feel much more content, calmer and happier even when I have a lot going on.” “I used to feel that my life was in a rush all the time. I was stressed and anxious over silly things and felt life was passing me by. I now feel much more content, calmer and happier even when I have a lot going on. I am able to take things slowly now and think much more positively.” Sue Howarth, Teaching Assistant

“I am able to stay calm in stressful situations and to focus on NOW rather than worrying my life away. I am enjoying life again.”

“I was very stressed before the course. I worried a lot and was unable to relax. I felt responsible for the happiness of my whole family. I am now finding it much easier to stay relaxed and not become stressed. I am able to stay calm in stressful situations and to focus on NOW rather than worrying my life away. I am enjoying life again.” Steph Jack, Bursar

“I feel as if the stress is like drops of rain on my waterproof jacket – they just run off rather than soaking in.” “I used to constantly mull over what had happened at work and repeat scenarios over and over in my head. I worried about what might happen in the future and couldn’t switch off at all. I felt totally overwhelmed. Now, even though work and home life is just the same, I am able to deal with it effectively without dwelling on things. I am also able to switch off and detach from situations without losing empathy or compassion for those I’m dealing with.

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I feel as if the stress is like drops of rain on my waterproof jacket – they just run off rather than soaking in.” Linda Smith, Head Teacher “Better sleep, anxiety way down, no longer being upset with the craziness at work (student fights, fowl mouths, dangerous urban setting)” “It has been a Godsend. I continue to be thrilled by the positive impact it has had on my life. Better sleep, anxiety way down, no longer being upset with the craziness at work (student fights, fowl mouths, dangerous urban setting), physical pain mitigation, improved sense of smell and taste, weight loss without any dieting. . . If it sounds miraculous, it is because sometimes it feels that way. I feel like I'm getting a life back and am so grateful!" Barbara Hinners, Teacher NJ

To find out how you can take part in this career-saving stress

reduction program for teachers and learn powerful tools you can use

for the rest of your life, register for one of our web tutorials here:

http://needsfocusedteaching.com/webinar-sign-up-2/

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Introduction

I know you’re busy and short on time; you’re at the sharp end of education so you’re

bound to be. For that reason, I’ll keep the preamble to a minimum and get straight into

this.

Bottom line: stress is a killer.

It’s the main reason why so many teachers are leaving the profession and, let’s be

honest, it’s the reason why you’re reading this.

Because without getting too melodramatic, I’m guessing you’re already concerned about

the effects your ridiculously heavy workload is having on your life.

Effects such as being increasingly irritable with your students, your colleagues and

perhaps even those close to you. Feeling overwhelmed by the constant demands on your

attention and time. Feeling annoyed that you no longer seem to have any time for

yourself or your family. Finding it difficult to concentrate. Dismayed by the senseless

paperwork. Annoyed at the ridiculous stress and strain of constant student testing.

Angered by the lack of support & needless pressures placed upon you. Feeling drained and

tired out but unable to sleep when your head finally hits the pillow after yet another

evening of planning, marking and other school work.

With all this pressure you may have already noticed a few cracks. Perhaps you suffer from

headaches? Maybe you’re worried about the fact that you find it so difficult to relax. You

might have already seen your doctor about stress-related illnesses? You may even have

had thoughts of leaving the profession.

If ANY of that is true… you might want to read the rest of this little report very carefully

because I’m going to tell you about some powerful tools you can use to alleviate the

pressures you’re facing right now as well as how to stress-proof yourself against further

difficulties and responsibilities. I’m also going to show you how to achieve a state of deep

calm and relaxation whenever you feel things are getting too much.

But I’m getting a little ahead of myself. Let’s start by looking at why it’s so important that

you learn how to protect yourself from the ravages of stress…

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The human body is not actually designed to cope with the type of stress associated with

the teaching profession. Our innate mammalian stress reflex, the ‘fight or flight’ response,

was originally intended to protect us from genuinely life-threatening dangers such as

hungry wild animals.

I’m sure you know how this automatic reflex operates – your body, in response to a

dangerous situation, releases stress hormones (such as adrenaline and cortisol) so that

you are prepared and ready for immediate action – to either run away or defend yourself.

Heart rate and blood pressure is increased (to get more energy round your system),

muscles become tense (to cope with the strain you’re about to put them under) and non-

essential systems such as your digestive organs – are temporarily shut down (because

they’re obviously not needed at this time).

The key word here is ‘temporarily’ - this process is supposed to be a short term

intervention because stress hormones are detrimental to your health over time.

Fortunately, once the danger subsides, hormone production is shut off and everything

reverts back to normal; you can relax again. If you’re ever lucky enough to go on safari or

watch a wildlife film showing grazing animals such as zebra, you may see this process in

action. When a predator appears, the animals spring into action and run like crazy (the

stress reflex has kicked in) - but as soon as the danger has passed, they immediately go

back to munching on grass as if nothing has happened. The automatic reflex shuts down

automatically and the animals revert back to their normal, relaxed state.

In teaching, of course, the stress we face is different to that encountered by our ancestors

and life-threatening situations are very rare (unless you teach in Gateshead). Having said

that, the thing that makes this type of stress so dangerous and damaging is that it is

CONSTANT. It’s relentless. The goal posts keep changing and the bar is continually being

raised.

Managing difficult students and trying to get them interested in learning, dealing with

unsupportive parents, putting up with school leaders who don’t seem to care, being

walked on by bureaucrats who don’t know what they’re talking about, meeting crazy

deadlines or any of the million-and-one other pressures you face each day in school (not

to mention the additional pressures you face at home – ill/elderly relatives to care for,

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children and spouses to look after, money worries, your own health etc. etc.) – results in

a near-constant stream of toxic stress hormones circulating round your body.

Did you get that? When you’re under continual pressure, the stress hormones in your

body aren’t given chance to subside. Unlike the zebra, you rarely revert to your fully

relaxed condition – your body experiences a never-ending succession of mini-fight or

flight reactions leaving you in a perpetual state of TENSION and ANXIETY.

The longer you live like this without doing something about it, the more unhappy,

unhealthy and VULNERABLE you become.

You see, when you consider the effect of these stress hormones on the body - increased

blood sugar, raised heart rate, muscle tension and shutdown of non-essential systems and

organs – is it any wonder that so many of us today are suffering from stress-related

illnesses and complaints?

High blood pressure, heart disease, ulcers, strokes, migraines and irritable bowel

syndrome are well known stress-associated problems but it is now believed that almost

ALL illnesses can be attributed to stress in some way.

Research suggests that raised levels of stress hormones can cause inflammation in the

body and this can aggravate conditions like arthritis, psoriasis, eczema and skin rashes.

This inflammatory response can also have a debilitating effect on our immune system

making it harder to fight off colds and other infections.

Then there is the issue of unrelieved chronic muscle tension. This has been shown to

cause tension headaches, back pain, joint problems, tendonitis and bones being pulled out

of alignment resulting in further pain.

Finally there are the knock-on effects which can spring from chronic exposure to these

health complaints - depression, panic attacks, irritability, obesity, social withdrawal,

insomnia etc.

Many of us cope with stress and the problems it causes by reaching for cigarettes, alcohol,

food or even drugs. Of course, a glass of wine can help us relax, and a bar of chocolate

can cheer us up (mmmm, chocolate), but ‘self-medicating’ excessively by consuming any

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of these things in excess can lead to further health problems that in turn create even

more stress. And even healthy coping strategies - such as exercise and offloading to

friends, can’t be relied on 100% as they merely mask the underlying causes of your

stress.

So it becomes something of a downward spiral once stress starts to impact on your life,

and the magnitude of the problem can’t be overlooked. According to the Health and

Safety Executive in the UK, stress is now the biggest cause of sickness in the UK with up

to five 5 million people ‘very’ or ‘extremely’ stressed through work. It is estimated that as

many as one in four will experience some kind of mental health problem in the course of a

year.

The very fact that you downloaded this report would suggest that some or all of these

issues are of concern to you. And unless you do something about your situation, it isn’t

likely to improve.

So what’s the answer?

Well, in the next few pages I’m going to show you how you can effectively stress-proof

yourself from here on in by learning an incredibly powerful method of relaxation by

getting connected to all the peace, calm and clarity that lies inside you. And I’m going to

give you three additional strategies to further equip you against the immense pressures

you’re under.

But first, let me tell you a little bit about myself so that you can trust what I’m saying

here.

First and foremost… I get it. I understand. Believe me, I understand. I’ve been extremely

close to the end of my rope on many occasions.

As a young teacher I was passionate, committed and devoted to my students… but

hopelessly ill-equipped to deal with the stress & strain of the teaching profession. True, I

am now the author of a best-selling book on classroom management (cue the shameless

plug for Take Control of the Noisy Class) … but you must understand that I really

struggled with the pressures of teaching before I finally started to get a grip on things. I

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hated pointless paperwork, tough students frustrated the hell out of me and I could see

no point whatsoever in the constant hoop-jumping and box-ticking exercises.

I truly came very close to leaving the profession because of my frustration and it was only

a lack of money which kept me in the job. A period of resentment followed during which I

had to literally drag myself to work each morning and spent every minute of the day

complaining bitterly and getting more and more depressed.

My first big turnaround came simply as a result of becoming better at my job. To cut a

long story short, I had a few breakthroughs with some very troubled and badly behaved

students and my confidence started to go up. The more success I had, the better I felt.

It’s obvious, I know, but progress is a tremendous antidote to stress. It removes the

feeling of helplessness, of not having any control. Incidentally, if you are looking for some

really effective (and quite novel) strategies and tools in the areas of classroom

management, student engagement, connecting with tough students, time management

and other teaching related topics, pop over to my blog when you get chance. You’ll find

everything you’re looking for there. Here’s the link: www.needsfocusedteaching.com/blog

My second big turnaround (really big) came much later – after I had left teaching and had

set up my first training business – Behaviour Needs Ltd. Again, I’ll not go into detail here

but let’s just say life had got on top of me and I was finding it hard to get out of bed in a

morning; I was on the verge of a breakdown. This time it was ‘life stress’ rather than

teaching stress but I’m sure you’ll appreciate and understand some of the pressures

because they are common to most adults at some stage – house moves, relationship

breakdown, financial hardship, parenting issues and caring for dying relatives (my poor

mother had dementia and cancer while my dear father had Parkinson’s and leukemia). In

addition, my elder sister was desperately in need of a kidney transplant and I was rapidly

developing stress-related health issues of my own. All in all it was a very difficult time.

Actually, there was nothing out of the ordinary really – most people experience similar

trials and tribulations in life - it’s just that over a period of about 5 years, I was

experiencing everything at once.

Things came to a head in 2010 when my partner, Sally, and I were almost killed in a

bizarre knife attack while we slept at our home. From here, for another couple of years we

added Post Traumatic Stress Disorder to our list of difficulties.

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But I’m a firm believer in the old adage ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger’ and

that every problem carries with it a tremendous opportunity for growth… should we

choose to look for it.

My big growth opportunity was finding a way to deal with the incredible anxiety I was now

under and I’m delighted to say that eventually, after trying almost every imaginable

therapy and technique, I discovered true, lasting, life-changing peace and happiness.

My life changed totally after learning the techniques I’m going to tell you about in a

moment and ANYONE can experience the same incredible benefits.

Oh, and let me clear here - my circumstances didn’t change – certainly not immediately.

The same stressful stuff was still present – the time pressures, the people pressures, the

health pressures, the financial pressures. It was all still there. Life didn’t change… I

changed.

You see, you can’t escape stress. You can’t change the world so that it suits you. You

can’t change the weather. You can’t change other people. You can’t control events. Life

doesn’t work like that. The more you try to control life, the more you try to bend it to suit

you, the harder it becomes.

There will always be unwelcome reforms and changes in education. There will always be

crazy deadlines, ridiculous amounts of paperwork and curriculum initiatives which make

no sense. There will always be students who refuse to behave appropriately, parents who

offer no support and colleagues who make things worse. There will always be managers

who don’t have a clue, don’t offer support and use bullying tactics to get what they want.

You can’t escape these things. And even if you manage to achieve a breakthrough in one

area, something else will come along to take its place. You can’t escape stress.

But what you can do is change the way stress affects you.

You can make yourself more resilient. You can learn to remain calm, relaxed and

composed in the face of chaos and adversity. You can learn to be happy even when life

isn’t going the way you’d lie it to.

Let’s find out how…

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I want to now tell you about the incredibly effective stress-management technique I

learned a few years ago - and have been practicing ever since – which completely

changed my life for the better and enabled me to cope with the extreme stress I was

facing. The technique is MINDFULNESS and I practice it in various ways, including

meditating.

Mindfulness can be defined as simply paying full attention to the present moment. Sounds

simple, and it is, but it is paying attention in a very specific way which creates the magic.

This unique quality of awareness is the golden key that unlocks the door to absolute

freedom from stress, anxiety, unhappiness and worry.

What you can expect from mindfulness:

1. You’ll stop getting so wound up

As I’ve already mentioned earlier in this report, you can’t stop stressful events from

happening. Life continues to do what it does – stressful things happen, day in day out. But

when you practice mindfulness you begin to notice that things which would normally wind

you up simply don’t bother you as much. You’ll be able to face the same situations and

circumstances without the same level of anxiety, depression, anger, irritability and

confusion. You’ll experience life without being so tied to the turmoil.

A friend of mine – who trained to be a meditation teacher with me - describes the feeling

you get from practicing as being ‘Teflon-coated’ and I really can’t think of a better

description. Stressful events no longer get their teeth into you; they just slip away.

From a practical point of view this means you’ll become far less reactive. You won’t get so

annoyed and you’ll be able to respond to difficult circumstances coolly and calmly. It really

is quite amazing that a few minutes doing something so simple can bring about such

profound results.

2. You’ll be able to relax much more easily

With surprisingly little practice, mindfulness can lead you to a deep level of relaxation and

peace within a matter of minutes; a state of profound stillness where NOTHING can

bother you. This can be a massive relief if you’re going through a difficult patch or just

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need a break. It’s like going to your own private oasis; your mental chatter slows down

and you settle into a very calm state of being.

In this stillness even sounds won’t disturb you and stress and worries simply melt away.

And the best thing about this is that these benefits continue LONG after your actual

practice – you can feel waves of peace and calm washing over you throughout the day

which makes it MUCH easier for you to relax.

3. You’ll sleep better

As your ability to overcome the effects of stress improves and as your busy mind starts to

settle and become more peaceful, problems associated with sleep naturally subside.

You’re likely to find yourself dropping off to sleep much more easily and waking up during

the night less frequently. This was a major event for me having long suffered from

insomnia and Restless Leg Syndrome. The first day of my mindfulness training course I

slept right through the night for the first time in years.

4. Your immune system will work better

People who practice mindfulness regularly have been found to be better able to ward off

infectious disease and develop serious illnesses far less often than non-meditators.

Psychosomatic Medicine (2003), Perspectives on Psychological Science (2011), Journal of

Alternative and Complementary Medicine (2010 )

5. You’ll experience more freedom from negative emotions

Anger, grief, sorrow, fear, anxiety and depression can prevent us from enjoying life and if

not addressed they can lead to illness. While you can’t force the world to change and

make all the problems go away you CAN learn to feel calm & peaceful in the midst of

these things. People who meditate regularly tend to find that negative emotions no longer

bother or affect them the way they once did.

6. You’ll probably start to feel happier

Research using brain imaging shows that parts of the brain associated with happiness

actually change when people meditate. Networks linked with happiness, empathy and

compassion become stronger and more active while those relating to anxiety, stress and

general unhappiness appear to weaken and dissolve. Biological Psychology (2004).

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One of the biggest improvements I’ve noticed since learning to meditate is coming to the

realisation that happiness doesn’t depend on material ‘stuff’ or situations. It doesn’t really

matter what we’ve got (or not got) because ultimately it’s only our thoughts about these

things which make us happy (or unhappy). Meditation helps you see that you have total

choice over your thoughts and that by changing them, you really can change your world.

Shakespeare wrote a wonderfully perceptive line in Hamlet which explains this beautifully

‘There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.’

He obviously meditated a lot in between best sellers.

So… whichever areas of your life you want to improve, be it:

✓ to reduce the effects of stress and be able to relax deeply

✓ to stop out-of-control emotional feelings from running your life

✓ to improve your sleep and overcome insomnia

✓ to reduce feelings of anxiety and depression

✓ to feel a general sense of increased happiness

✓ to have more energy and a greater sense of health and well-being

… it’s highly likely that meditation and mindfulness can provide you with a realistic way of

getting through all the blocks to achieving these things. And the most amazing thing is

that you can see results from just a few minutes practice each day.

Now, while it is beyond the scope of this report to give you a comprehensive training in

mindfulness, I’ve decided to give you a useful mindful breathing technique which can help

reduce your anxiety levels and make you more resilient when under stress. Practice this

for a few minutes a day and you should very soon start to see an improvement in your

ability to remain calm and in-control when facing a difficult class or stressful situation at

school.

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Four Additional Stress Management

Strategies

1. Whole-Class Behaviour Files

Most teaching courses train student teachers to be adept at organizing the ‘teaching’ part

of the job. When new teachers qualify they very quickly develop special mark-books,

subject files, schemes of work files, assessment sheets, report banks, lesson plan

templates etc. etc.

But there is, of course, much more to the job than just teaching. Increasingly, a large part

of the busy teacher’s day is taken up managing behavior problems and dealing with

associated pastoral concerns, external agencies, parent contacts etc.

Teachers seldom get shown how to handle the sheer mountain of paperwork related to

this part of the job despite the fact that it takes up a large part of the working day and

causes endless stress, headaches and frustration.

The best way of coping with this is to have a separate file – specifically for behaviour and

associated issues.

The benefits are enormous and it will make your job a whole lot easier if you don’t already

do this. Being able to lay your hands on important information from impromptu meetings,

documented evidence of behavior incidents and having a comprehensive record of

conversations with outside agencies and parents is very useful.

How to make your behaviour files

1. Have one file for each class you teach – otherwise you’ll find one file will fill up too

quickly.

2. Have dividers labeled as follows…

i) Students’ Timetable

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In this section you keep a timetable for each child so that you know at any time of the

school day where they should be.

ii) Teachers’ Timetables and contacts

In this section you keep a timetable of all the teachers so that you know where to find

them at any time of day. Also have a sheet with email addresses and other contact

methods for each member of staff.

iii) Map of the school

iv) Students’ Contact Details

In this section you have a separate page for each student in the class – phone numbers,

medical details, specific behavior problems (if any), and any other relevant information.

v) Record Cards

Have a copy of each child’s completed ‘Record Card’ (hobby/interest questionnaire).

You can read about them in my book ‘Take Control of the Noisy Class’

vi) Parent contact log

In this section you have a sheet for each child and record any phone calls or

conversations you have with parents.

vii) I.E.P for each child

This document (Individual Education Plan) details recommended strategies for dealing

with a individual students as well as specific short term targets the child should attain in a

given period of time.

viii) Pupil Log

I find these INVALUABLE. They are so simple to use and yet so beneficial – for writing

reports and feeding back to parents, staff, outside agencies etc. I strongly advise you

start keeping these.

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All you really need is a blank sheet of A4 paper for each pupil with their name at the top

so that you can log information about a child when you teach them. You don’t have to

write in them every day – it’s just there as a place to log important events, conversations,

achievements, incidents etc. as and when they occur.

Whenever a child has caused trouble in a lesson, conversely, been helpful or hard-

working, simply turn to their page, and under the date write a sentence or two about

what happened such as “John was using foul language repeatedly throughout the lesson”,

“Stephanie had to be removed from class today for refusing to follow instructions” or Jake

finished his work early and helped two other pupils.

Over time, these comments build up to form a comprehensive record of a child’s

performance so that whenever you are in a position where you have to give feedback on

the child, you have at your disposal this wonderful record rather than having to rely on

your memory.

Hot Tip: If you use plastic wallets to hold individual sheets of paper in your files they will

end up being wider than the actual dividers – so you won’t be able to see the dividers

without leafing through the whole file – very time consuming. Instead, you can use

masking tape to extend the dividers outwards by sticking a piece of tape to the divider

folded over on itself. You can then write on the tape instead of the divider and it will stick

out past the plastic wallet for easy visibility.

2. Learn to Deal Effectively With Requests From School

Managers and Other Colleagues

Sometimes we need to say “no” in order to protect our time. We say “yes” to others

because we want to please them but sometimes our desire to please can lead to us taking

on more than we can cope with. When eventually we can't continue, we feel guilty and

both parties suffer. A desire to please often prevents us from saying no in the first place

and preventing ill feeling or stress.

Next time you're asked to do something outside your normal duties:

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i. Make sure you understand exactly what is being asked of you before you

respond. Perhaps the task is more time consuming than you thought. On the other hand,

it may not take much effort at all. Think it all through carefully - knowing all the facts can

save you from embarrassment or frustration.

ii. Remember that others may take you for granted and even lose respect for you

if you say “yes” to every request. You have a right to say no. Be polite but definite if

you say no. You only build false hopes with wishy-washy ‘maybe’ responses.

iii. Keep your answers and reasons short. This way, you can say no without feeling

the need for a lengthy justification. ("I'm sorry, I'm not available that night.") On the

other hand, some say that giving a longer answer with reasons reinforces your credibility.

Let the situation decide.

iv. Always try to provide suggestions or alternatives for the person who is

asking. This is a key point and stops people thinking you're just being awkward. You

should always look for a suitable alternative or helpful suggestion.

When in doubt, it's easier to say no now and change your mind to a yes later, than it is

the other way around.

What about when you have to say ‘yes’?

Sometimes saying ‘no’ is simply unavoidable but that doesn't mean you have to be any

less assertive. Here are some techniques to use when you have to say 'yes':

- Tell the person you can agree to their request this time, but suggest the two of you

discuss how they might plan better for the next time.

- Tell them yes, but remind them they owe you one. For example, they might cover you

for a lesson/break duty next time you need time off.

- Tell them yes, but take control by saying you'll come back to them with a timetable. For

instance, say, 'I expect I'll be able to do that for you by the end of the week'.

- Put a condition on your agreement such as 'If it would only take an hour, I'd be able to

help, but I can't give you more than that.' You can always respond to requests by asking

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for a bit of time to think about it. Sometimes we make decisions without really considering

whether we have the time to do a job, or whether we really want to do the job in the first

place. Give yourself some 'think time' to look thoroughly at what's involved.

3. Exercise

Exercise is one of the most important coping mechanisms to combat anxiety and stress.

By discharging negative emotions and stress hormones through physical activity, you can

enter a more relaxed state from which to deal with the issues and conflicts that are

causing your anxiety.

The benefits come in many ways: the sheer distraction from your worries, the effects on

self-image, and the biochemical and physiological changes that accompany the exercise.

Exercise increases blood flow to the brain, releases hormones, stimulates the nervous

system, and increases levels of morphine-like substances found in the body (such as beta-

endorphin) that can have a positive effect on mood and pain.

I know exercise can seem a daunting prospect for many people so let me try and convince

you that exercise should play a part in your life…

Firstly, exercise increases your energy levels. This is because it causes an increase in the

number of mitochondria (tiny energy-producing organelles) in your cells. In numerous

studies and surveys, people who exercise regularly have been found to have higher

energy levels and significantly less tension and stress than they had before they started

exercising.

Studies have shown that definite psychological changes take place in people who

undertake regular exercise. They seem to find it easier to accomplish their daily tasks and

become more effective in achieving their potential in all areas of their lives. Participants in

exercise studies have been found to be more emotionally stable, better able to cope with

stress and much more self sufficient and confident.

Exercise also enhances the production of Nor-adrenaline, a hormone found to be

responsible to lift your mood and combat sensations of fatigue and depression giving a

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much more balanced emotional state. This accounts for the fact that so many emotional

disorders have been successfully treated with exercise.

Even moderate exercise can raise levels of brain chemicals such as endorphins and

improve a person's mood. One such substance is phenylethylamine, or PEA, a natural

stimulant produced by the body. It is related to amphetamines but does not have the

long-lasting effects that make "speed" or "ice" such deadly drugs.

Researchers now argue that this increase in PEA causes the euphoric mood often called

"runners' high." And because depressed people tend to have low PEA levels, the

researchers say this is an explanation of why exercise has a natural antidepressant action.

Finally, exercise burns fat. Yay! Studies in both animals and people have shown time and

time again that exercise helps burn fat and make you lean. And the benefits of exercise

don’t stop when you leave the gym, take off your walking shoes or get off your bike.

Studies have shown that after 30 minutes of exercise you will continue to burn calories

throughout the day at a faster rate than normal because the exercise speeds up your

RESTING metabolism. That means you not only burn extra calories during the exercise,

you burn extra calories when you rest as well!

So there you have it. Now you know why you simply have to start exercising!

4. The Special Breathing Technique You Can Use to

REDUCE ANXIETY and STRESS-PROOF Yourself

The simple mindful breathing technique I’m going to share with you here is a natural

tranquilizer for the nervous system. The effects are subtle when you first try the exercise

but become more obvious with repetition and practice. Variations of this controlled

breathing method are actually used by elite athletes to improve performance and by the

military to help soldiers remain calm in traumatic conditions.

The technique is called Box Breathing and is best explained with the aid of the following

diagram...

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As you can see, the pattern is simply a box (hence the name), whereby you inhale to a

count of 4, hold for a count of 4, exhale to the same count of 4 and hold again for 4. You

can start at 3 if this is difficult, or take it up a notch if easy. You should be reasonably

comfortable throughout the exercise – don’t stretch yourself so that breathing and/or

holding becomes a strain.

Note: Box breathing is best done in a relaxed setting – it is a way of ‘preparing’ yourself

for stressful situations rather than a remedial technique to be used in the middle of

arguments and other stressful events - for the simple reason that it’s best not to hold

your breath in such circumstances. If you are interested in a breathing technique that can

INSTANTLY RELAX & CALM you when faced with confrontation and stressful circumstances

the following web session will be of interest to you…

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Join a Free LIVE Web Tutorial On

Stress Management Strategies For Teachers &

Learn…

- How to 'LET GO' of any troubling thoughts, sensations and emotions whenever

you need to (when you grasp this, it is literally LIFE-CHANGING!)

- A special psychological technique you can practice ANYWHERE to dramatically

increase your health and happiness (Don't be put off by the apparent simplicity of this -

this one technique alone has the potential to improve every area of your life as you’ll

see when you attend the tutorial).

CLICK HERE to join the next LIVE web Tutorial

About Rob Plevin:

Rob provides resources & runs training courses internationally for teachers, lecturers, parents and care workers on behaviour management, student motivation, stress management & mindfulness. His live workshops are frequently described as 'unforgettable' and his materials are used in thousands of schools worldwide. He can be found at www.theliferaft.org, www.biglovechallenge.org & www.needsfocusedteaching.com