newton-conover leaders
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“The challenge of leadershipis to be strong, but not rude;be kind, but not weak;be bold, but not bully;be thoughtful, but not lazy;be humble, but not timid;be proud, but not arrogant;have humor, but without folly.”-Jim Rohn
“The remarkable thing is that we have a choice every day
regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.”
Covey’s Fourth Habit
“A person or organization that approaches conflicts with a win-win attitude possesses three vital character traits:• Integrity: sticking with your true
feelings, values, and commitments• Maturity: expressing your ideas and
feelings with courage and consideration for the ideas and feelings of others
• Abundance Mentality: believing there is plenty for everyone”
What does a good attitudeat work look like?
• Enthusiastic• Efficient• Excellence• Early• Easy
From LinkedIn
An Example of “Proactive Focus”
• Work ethic & practice• Preparedness• Re-grouping when
needed• Strategy• TEAM
• “Begin with end in mind.”
Covey says…
“Your language is a good indicator of how you see yourself. A proactive person uses proactive language--I can, I will, I prefer,
etc. A reactive person uses reactive language--I can't, I have to, if only. Reactive people believe they are not responsible for
what they say and do--they have no choice.”
Expect the Best & Provide Support
“I want to make a difference with people who want to make a difference, doing something that makes a
difference.”
John Maxwell
“I want to make a difference with people who want to make a difference, doing something that makes a
difference.”
John Maxwell
What it ‘looks’ like:
• Speaking and acting from a place of informed convictions.
• Knowing your non-negotiables and sticking to them.
10 Traits of Courageous Leaders
• Confront reality head-on.
• Seek feedback and listen.
• Say what needs to be said.
• Encourage pushback.• Take action on
performance issues.
• Communicate openly and frequently.
• Lead change.• Make decisions and
move forward.• Give credit to others.• Hold people (and
yourself) accountable.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/susantardanico/2013/01/15/10-traits-of-courageous-leaders/
Little Leadership Lessons
• Be present.
• Be visible.
• Start now being the leader you want to be.
• Find a mentor. Watch. Listen. Learn.
Who We Are As Leaders
• We are in positions of influence and trust.
• We are expected to have a moral compass.
• We are modeling the expectation. (What are you modeling?)
• We determine the ‘weather’ in our roles.
Be a courageous leader
Be awesome.
Leaders multiply.
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