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InterviewwithAndrea Rocchitelli andmicropsychoanalysis, away for people tobetter get to know themselves. Formorethan twenty years CorradoManaresi hasbeen exporting top Italian brands to Russia.Federico Barbarossa, Italian president of “Lechiavi d’oro”, talks.Mizé, anAngolan fashiondesigner, talks about her fashion line. BancaMediolanumandUniversità Bocconi awardcompanies that have distinguishedthemselves for the quality of their services. Anart tour to admire theworks by great artistsof international renownorganised byPrimaFila Club of BancaMediolanum.Ourusual appointmentwith advice fromUIPAconcierges.

Intervista ad Andrea Rocchitelli e lamicropsicanalisi, per una più profonda

conoscenza di sé stessi. Corrado Maranesi da oltrevent’anni esporta i marchi di prestigio italiani inRussia. Federico Barbarossa, presidente italiano di“Le chiavi d’oro” descrive il lavoro del concierged’hotel. Mizé, stilista angolana, racconta la suamoda. Banca Mediolanum e l’università Bocconiconsegnano un premio alle aziende che si sonodistinte per la qualità del servizio offerto. Un tourartistico per ammirare le opere di grandi artisti difama internazionale organizzato dal PrimaFilaClub di Banca Mediolanum. Il consuetoappuntamento con i suggerimenti dei conciergede l’UIPA.

!нтервью с Андреа %оккителли ипсихоанализ, для глубокого познания

самого себя. "оррадо #аранези более 20 летзанимается экспортом престижных марок в%оссию. &едерико арбаросса, президентитальянского объединения “Le chiavi d’oro”рассказывает о работе портье в отеле. #изе,дизайнер из Анголы, рассказывает о своемстиле. анк Mediolanum и университет оккони награждают фирмы, показавшиенаивысший уровень сервиса.'удожественный тур, организованный Pri-maFila Club банка Mediolanum позволитполюбоваться великими произведениямиискусства разных стран. Обыкновеннаявстреча и советы портье из UIPA.

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How People BecomeWhat They Are

“Micropsychoanalysis, i.e.the luxury of knowing

oneself, is a Freudian technique ela-borated in Switzerland by Silvio Fan-ti for in-depth observation of our un-conscious state. The determining in-novation of this psychoanalyticalschool is the length of sessions,which exceed the 45 minutes of atraditional session, and takes up to 3hours. It is like diving using oxygentanks and not only the mask andmouthpiece. In the depth of the seawe can observe aquatic life that wewouldn’t otherwise be able to ob-serve just below the sea waves. Se-veral sessions can be carried out in aweek, because the more a person li-stens to his unconscious the less hedefends himself, the less he with-draws into himself…”Andrea Roc-

chitelli, a psychologist born in 1971under the Aries sign with a passionfor classical music, describes mi-cropsychoanalysis in this way: “Atthe root of ever psychical movementthere are two main drives: the deathdrive and the life drive. The deathdrive can be mostly found amongthose who repeat the same thingsand continuously deal with old af-flictions that resurface in seeminglynew relations. The life drive allows asubject to move away from his ownbehavioural stereotype to open hisheart to a new inner freedom. Mi-cropsychoanalysis facilitates the shiftfrom death drive to life drive”.It is ajourney that allows people to redi-scover a feeling of deep and sincereintimacy with themselves. “Theanalyst is none other than a “mir-

by Matteo d’Altiliaphoto by Ivan Cerullo

How People becomeWhat They Are

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Andrea Rocchitelli andmicropsychoanalysis, a wayfor people to get to knowthemselves

fashion

The Beauty

Corrado Manaresi’s opinion on fashion, energyand culture in nowadays Russia

“Russia is a riddle wrappedin a mystery inside an

enigma”, wrote Winston Chur-chill. And this riddle has beensolved by Corrado Manaresi, agreat Italian expert in the Russianmarket and an expert of the souland culture of one of the largestcountries in the world. “Almostas if it were written in their DNA,Russians love beautiful things:glamour, fashion and luxury.They deeply love their culture,their history, their art and litera-ture – says Corrado Manaresi,who has been travelling through

Russia for more than 20 years, ashe works in the fashion area.“We need to understand this co-untry, respect their history, cultu-re and traditions. As for business,Russians appreciate straightfor-ward and transparent peoplewho are not too overconfidentabout their skills. After havingovercome the 1998 rouble crisis,Russia has accumulated hugewealth thanks to its energy re-sources, the large availability ofraw materials and the enormousgrowth of the real estate market.This is a country with more and

more capital to invest and moneyto spend. The “Made in Italy”brand is still an effective businesscard. The great designers’ nameshave always been the main at-traction in the fashion world,and the Italian ones are theirmost prestigious expression. Inaddition to luxury brands, “massmarket” is also establishing it-self, thanks to the proliferationof new shopping malls. The Ita-lian fashion market and manyother firms should thus saythanks to the Russian market,without which they probably


TWO VIEWS OF THEKREMLIN

DUE VEDUTEDEL CREMLINO

�вефотографии свидом �ремля

IN THIS PAGE.CORRADOMANARESI AT HISMILAN HOMEIN QUESTAPAGINACORRADOMANARESINELLA SUA CASAAMILANOНа этойстраницеКоррадоМанарези всвоем доме вМилане


would not have achieved the sa-me success. Italy is now well re-presented and more and moreappreciated in the area of designand interior design, too, whilestill having some troubles in as-serting itself in the automotivefield, a market dominated byGerman carmakers like Mercedesand BMW and the Japanese. Butthe great Italian brands like Fer-rari, Maserati and Lamborghini,which landed in Russia someyears ago (to tell the truth, so faronly in Moscow), are also buil-ding their own market ni-

che.”Indispensable guidance isprovided to Corrado Manaresi byhis wife Maria Grazia, whofluently speaks five languages,Russian included.“Russians areboth cultured and educated.Young male and female entre-preneurs are highly trained,speak two or three languagesand are always updated in re-gards to world issues. They arewasting no time in making upfor lost ground.”In a future whe-re superpowers like China andIndia seem to be in the forefront,what will be the role played by

Russia? “Compared to China orIndia, Russia is much closer toEurope and is now the largestenergy supplier, having 25% ofworld resources. In addition tothis, this country has been stea-dily changing for the last 15years, mainly in cities, and is stillchanging. The 2014 WinterOlympics in Sochi will be the firstimportant international showca-se, and Putin is investing a lot toshow the world that Russia hasbecome once again one of thegreat powers of the world. May-be the greatest.”

Superpower

by Matteo d’Altilia

Federico Barbarossa is a namenot to be easily forgotten:

from Genoa, 52, a long past ex-perience in the world of 5-starhotels, Barbarossa started his ca-reer in Sardinia in the 1970s. To-day he works as first concierge atthe Hotel Cala di Volpe, on CostaSmeralda, and is the president ofthe Italian section of Chiavi d’Oro(UIPA, the Italian association ofhotel concierges), which boasts al-most 400 congierges from thebest Italian hotels and is affiliatedwith the international association“Les Clefs d’Or” present in 40

countries. Married to a journalist,and a literature lover (“I readSchiller in German and Shake-speare in English, and I also speakSpanish and French”), FedericoBarbarossa, born under the zodiacsign of Cancer, tells the “extraor-dinary ordinariness” behind theprofession of concierge: “Whatdistinguishes 5-star hotels is right-ly the presence or absence of aconcierge, who can be defined asa man who has made culture ofhospitality his creed. A conciergetakes care of everything: he findstickets for sold out concerts, as

interview

Federico Barbarossa, recentlyelected Italian president ofthe Italian association of hotelconcierges “Le Chiavi d’Oro”,describes the qualities of hotelconcierges

Federico Barbarossa, recentlyelected Italian president ofthe Italian association of hotelconcierges “Le Chiavi d’Oro”,describes the qualities of hotelconcierges

The Cultureof HospitaliityThe Cultureof Hospitaliity

well as plane tickets, train ticketsor sports tickets, and whateverother request a customer mayneed. Moreover, he can rely onthe international network of ourassociation: for example once aguest needed to know the nameof the best florist of New York. Myanswer was only a phone callaway to an American col-league….” Outgoing and dynam-ic in his choices, Federico Bar-barossa has created “Il bollettinodelle Chiavi d’oro” online (whichhe hopes to soon turn into a mag-azine), and at the same time is

committed to training the newconcierge candidates at highschool level: “In this profession,which hotel directors rightly de-fine “as the added value of a ho-tel”, it is fundamental for candi-dates to start working as soon aspossible, initially through intern-ships and specialised mastercourses. This is a good start topromoting and defending theconcierge profession”. On top ofthat, through “Le Chiavi d’oro”association Barbarossa would liketo resume contacts with other Ital-ian concierges working abroad, so

that the senior members of the as-sociation can share and pass ontheir life long experience toyounger concierges. And forthose who would like to becomeconcierges, what skills are re-quired? “Certainly a title of hotelreceptionist and the knowledge oflanguages: but fundamental re-quirements are willingness tohelp, flexibility, good attitude to-wards clients and empathy. Re-member that nothing is impossi-ble for a client, and that love forhospitality is fundamental: we arethe ambassadors of our country”..

IN THESE PAGES, SOMEIMAGES OF THE CALA DIVOLPE HOTEL ON COSTA

SMERALDA. PAGE ON LEFT,BOTTOM, FEDERICOBARBAROSSA, UIPA

PRESIDENT.IN QUESTE PAGINE, ALCUNE

IMMAGINI DELL’HOTELCALA DI VOLPE IN COSTA

SMERALDA. PAGINAASINISTRA IN BASSO,

FEDERICO BARBAROSSA,PRESIDENTE UIPA.

�а этой странице фотоотеля Hotel Cala di Volpeна �оста �меральда. �астранице слева внизу,�едерико �арбаросса,

президент Uipa.

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by Matteo d’Altilia

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Her name is Maria José De SilvaVentura, but everybody knows

her as Mizé, the symbol of a newAfrica. A fashion designer with rootsboth in Angola and Germany, whereshe studied fashion, today she livesin Koln with her two daughters andher husband André Thomsen (“In asplendid home in a castle…”), andGermany is the country where in2002 she launched her first collec-tion, with a brand name that has be-come an established symbol of wo-men’s fashion. Mizé proposes gla-mour, luxurious and elegant fashioninspired by Africa. “I have always lo-ved playing with dolls, and when Iwas a child I decided I wanted to be-come a fashion designer. I studied inGermany while my mother, a busi-ness woman who reached Europewhile fleeing the war in Angola, tra-

velled between Germany, Portugaland Africa”. In 1997, with the helpof her husband, Mizé set up her firstEuropean fashion show, and a yearlater she jumped in heart and soul in-to the fashion world. “I started withbridal dresses. Then I managed ashop in Koln for three years and Ilearned about customer relationsand business management”. NowMizé and her husband want to resto-re contacts with Africa: “We want totake luxury items to Africa, to showpeople Africa is not only an unhappycountry but is also an interesting pla-ce to visit, where one can get toknow really unique and stimulatingpeople. Despite that Africa is still ne-gatively depicted, this is a continentof enormous contrasts: Angola, forexample, is a wonderful country thatafter war is finally changing for the

best”. Mizé, who was born underthe Cancer sign, is also socially com-mitted: “I would like to help build aschool in Angola, build my own ho-me in Africa, and create an orphana-ge here in Germany. I would like tocall this project Valentina, like mydaughter…”What is your idea offashion? “At present I’m creatingclothes for women and children, butsooner or later I will also start to crea-te men’s clothes. My fashion is desi-gned for a happy satisfied woman.Everything originates from my ideasand my collaboration with Natalia, adear friend of mine. We have a lookaround, we try to write down ourideas, we go to Paris to see collec-tions and find all the fabrics weneed, and then our collection slowlytakes shape. There is no specific agerange for wearing my clothes: a wo-


THIS PAGE,MARIA JOSÈVENTURA, A.K.A.MIZÉ. RIGHTPAGE, TOP, ANDRÉTHOMSEN, MIZÉ’SHUSBAND, BELOW,MIZÉIN QUESTAPAGINA, MARIAJOSÈ VENTURA,IN ARTE, MIZÉ.PAGINA A DESTRA,IN ALTO ANDRÉTHOMSEN,MARITO DI MIZÉ,E IN BASSO MIZÉНа этойстранице МарияХосе Вентура, вискусствеизвестная какМизе. Справавверху АндрэТомсен, супругМизе, внизуМизе

The Symbol ofNew Africa

The Symbol ofNew Africa

Maria José De Silva Ventura, a.k.a. Mizé,an Angolan fashion designer with aGerman heart

Maria José De Silva Ventura, a.k.a. Mizé,an Angolan fashion designer with aGerman heart

man simply needs to be in harmonywith herself”. Are you preparing anew collection? “Of course. A collec-tion of very light and transparentcocktail dresses, these are very femini-ne and colourful, because colour isback”. Do you sell your creations ex-clusively in Germany? “Yes, for themoment, but this year I will start witha show room in Angola and for thefuture I’m looking at Europe, Russiaand the USA. Moreover, this year so-me of my clothes were worn by fa-mous TV personalities, which was agreat promotion for me”. What areyour dreams?“That my children behappy and healthy, and that theirdreams be fulfilled. I would like for asmany women as possible to familiari-ze with my brand, and I hope to al-ways be supported by my husband.He believes in me, as I believe in him”.

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How People BecomeWhat They Are

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“Micropsychoanalysis, i.e.the luxury of knowing

oneself, is a Freudian technique ela-borated in Switzerland by Silvio Fan-ti for in-depth observation of our un-conscious state. The determining in-novation of this psychoanalyticalschool is the length of sessions,which exceed the 45 minutes of atraditional session, and takes up to 3hours. It is like diving using oxygentanks and not only the mask andmouthpiece. In the depth of the seawe can observe aquatic life that wewouldn’t otherwise be able to ob-serve just below the sea waves. Se-veral sessions can be carried out in aweek, because the more a person li-stens to his unconscious the less hedefends himself, the less he with-draws into himself…”Andrea Roc-

chitelli, a psychologist born in 1971under the Aries sign with a passionfor classical music, describes mi-cropsychoanalysis in this way: “Atthe root of ever psychical movementthere are two main drives: the deathdrive and the life drive. The deathdrive can be mostly found amongthose who repeat the same thingsand continuously deal with old af-flictions that resurface in seeminglynew relations. The life drive allows asubject to move away from his ownbehavioural stereotype to open hisheart to a new inner freedom. Mi-cropsychoanalysis facilitates the shiftfrom death drive to life drive”.It is ajourney that allows people to redi-scover a feeling of deep and sincereintimacy with themselves. “Theanalyst is none other than a “mir-

by Matteo d’Altiliaphoto by Ivan Cerullo


Andrea Rocchitelli andmicropsychoanalysis, a wayfor people to get to knowthemselves

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ror” that reflects the images,thoughts and memories the analy-sed subject freely expresses. In theframe of micropsychoanalysis thisrecovery of one’s inner self can beemphasized through the analysis ofphotos from a family album througha magnifying lens. “By observingthe images of one’s childhood and

his family members, the analysedsubject becomes aware of the ex-tent to which he was influenced bythe past. His father and mothertransmitted much more than onlythe colour of eyes or hair. In fact, wealso inherit from our ancestors im-portant standards in our way of li-ving. This does not mean we always

imitate their behaviours. But alsowhen we behave in a totally diffe-rent way from them, we actually fol-low their pattern of life. Repetition ismore inherent in the human beingthan what we are willing to accept.This awareness allows the analysedsubject to be in peace with himselfand consequently with others. Afterseveral sessions the subject overco-mes his guilty feelings and gets ridof his inner conflicts. Then he will re-gain the infinite potentials of hiscreative skills everyone of us has butis afraid of using”.The analyticalwork helps every subject to accom-plish what he desires – if he reallywants it. Obstacles are in fact mostlyinterior. But when can an analysistreatment be considered termina-ted? “Like any natural processanalysis has a beginning and an end.It is over when the analysed subjectbecomes autonomous in analysinghis dreams. This is the momentwhen the analysed subject becomeshis own analyst”. It happens to ever-yone to have strange dreams but –Rocchitelli adds – “this is not true!Dreams belong to a different lan-guage than the everyday one. Andthis language becomes incompre-hensible when the subject has notthe key to interpret it. Analysis al-lows the subject to understand thevocabulary of the unconscious. Onthe other hand, Freud said dreamsare the main way to have access tothe unconscious. Human nature pre-serves in dreams the deepest truthsof ourselves. A dream holds the indi-vidual and collective memories ofmankind”.And if one thinks analysisis a luxury, this is not true: “It is a lu-xury, though not an economic one. Ihave met billionaires who have ne-ver undergone analysis, though theyneeded it. One of them in particularhad a prevailing masochist attitudethat led him to destroy his patri-mony. He had inherited a fortunefrom his father with whom he hadnot managed to reconcile with.Then there is the case of an emplo-yee who, by choosing to invest mo-ney in herself, had fully exploited her


Andrea Rocchitelli, psico-logo micropsicoanalista,

ha lo studio a Milano ed opera fre-quentemente in varie città Euro-pee. E’ membro della Società Inter-nazionale di Micropsicoanalisi cheutilizza un metodo di analisi di de-rivazione Freudiana introdotta inSvizzera da Silvio Fanti. La novità

principale di tale metodo è la sedu-ta lunga anche di tre ore, ripetutapiù volte la settimana, che permet-te un’approfondimento dei proprivissuti infantili, intrauterini e ance-strali. Fotografie, corrispondenza,planimetrie del domicilio, albero ge-nealogico, producono dettagli mi-croscopici della vita psichica.

УАндреа #оккителли,психолога и

микропсихоаналитика, естьофис в �илане и он частоработает в различных городах�вропы. Он является членом�еждународного Общества�икропсихоаналитиков,которое использует методанализа, основанного на теориях'рейда, разработанного в)вейцарии $ильвио 'анти. оваторство этого метода –

длительность сеанса около трехчасов, и они проходятнесколько раз в неделю, что онпозволяет более глубокоанализировать переживаниядетства, ощущения нахожденияв утробе матери,унаследованные особенности.'отографии, взаимоотношения,место жительства,генеалогическое дерево, все этосоздает микроскопическиедетали психики.

Andrea Rocchitelli, a micropsy-choanalyst, has his studio in

Milan but frequently works in seve-ral European cities. He is a memberof the International Society of Mi-cropsychoanalysis, which uses aFreudian analysis method introdu-ced in Switzerland by Silvio Fanti.The main innovation of this me-

thod is that a session can last up tothree hours, several times a week,allowing the subject to deeplyanalyse his infancy, intrauterineand ancestral experiences. Photos,correspondences, planimetries ofthe subject’s home, his family tree,are used to provide microscopic de-tails of his psychic life.

�икропсихоанализ

Micropsychoanalysis

own potentials, attaining a highprofessional level and total serenityeven after a sudden and traumaticloss in her family. Thanks to mi-cropsychoanalysis this woman ex-perienced a “rebirth” that led herto enjoy her life and relativize griefthat she hadn’t caused herself, fee-ling guilt-free. Therefore analysis is aluxury, but ….as the Latins meant it.The word luxury derives from Latinlux, which means light. Actually,those who listen to themselves inthe dim light of a micropsychoa-nalysis studio bring light to theirshadows. When an analysed sub-ject succeeds in enlightening his in-ner life he allows himself the luxuryof becoming what he really is.

Alcune notizie sulla Micropsicoanalisi

ANDREA ROCCHITELLIWHILE EXAMINING SOMEDOCUMENTS ANDVIEWING PHOTOS PRIORTO AMICROPSYCHOANALYSISSESSIONANDREA ROCCHITELLIMENTRE STUDIA DEIDOCUMENTI E VISIONADELLE FOTOGRAFIEPRIMA DELL’INIZIO DIUNA SEDUTA DIMICROPSICANALISIАндреа Роккителли заизучениемдокументов ипросмотромфотографий передначалом заседаниямикропсихоанализа.


“La micropsicanalisi, ossia illusso di conoscersi, è una

tecnica di derivazione freudianaelaborata in Svizzera dal dott. Sil-vio Fanti che permette di appro-fondire l’osservazione della vita in-conscia. Novità determinante diquesta scuola psicanalitica è la du-rata della seduta che supera i 45minuti, tradizionalmente utilizzatidagli psicanalisti, arrivando a treore. E’ come effettuare un’immer-sione con le bombole e non solocon la maschera ed il boccaglio. Inprofondità del mare si può osserva-re la vita acquatica difficilmenteimmaginabile appena al di sottodelle onde del mare. Si arriva a piùsedute a settimana, perché più unapersona ascolta il proprio incon-scio, meno si difende, meno sichiude…”Andrea Rocchitelli, psi-cologo, classe 1971–nato sotto ilsegno dell’ariete con passione perla musica classica – introduce cosìla micropsicoanalisi: “Alla base diogni movimento psichico ci sonodue spinte principali: la pulsione dimorte e la pulsione di vita. La pul-sione di morte si ritrova maggior-mente tra chi ripete le stesse cosee che anche in apparenti nuove re-lazioni ritrova vecchie sofferenze.

La pulsione di vita permette di spo-starsi dal proprio cliché comporta-mentale per aprirsi a nuova libertàinteriore. L’analisi micropsicanaliti-ca facilita il passaggio dalla pulsio-ne di morte a quella di vita.” Per-corso dunque che permette di ri-scoprire un rapporto di profonda esincera intimità con sé stessi.“L’analista non è altro che unospecchio atto a riflettere immagini,pensieri, ricordi che liberamentel’analizzato lascia emergere. Recu-pero della propria vita interiore chein micropsicoanalisi può essere po-tenziato attraverso l’analisi di fotodell’album di famiglia con la lented’ingrandimento. Osservando leimmagini della propria infanzia edei famigliari, il soggetto in analisiprende coscienza di quanto sia sta-to influenzato dal passato. Il padree la madre non hanno trasmessosoltanto il colore di occhi o capelli.Dagli antenati abbiamo, di fatto,ereditato condizionamenti impor-tanti nel nostro modo di vivere.Non significa che imitiamo semprei loro comportamenti. Anchequando agiamo in modo del tuttodiverso da loro, lo facciamo sullascia della loro vita. La ripetizione èinsita nell’essere umano più di

quanto non si accetti. Tale consa-pevolezza permette alla personaanalizzata di essere in pace con séstessa e di conseguenza con gli al-tri. Seduta dopo seduta il soggettosupera i propri sensi di colpa e si li-bera dai conflitti interiori. Guada-gna l’infinita potenzialità delle pro-prie capacità creative che ciascunopossiede ma teme di utilizzare.” Illavoro analitico aiuta qualsiasi sog-getto a realizzare ciò che desidera,-se davvero lo vuole. Infatti gli osta-coli sono principalmente interiori.Ma quando un’analisi può essereconsiderata conclusa? “Come ogniprocesso naturale l’analisi ha uninizio ed una fine. La conclusione

Come si diventa ciò che si èAndrea Rocchitelli e la micropsicoanalisi,una via verso la conoscenza di sé stessi.


avviene quando l’analizzato diven-ta autonomo nell’analizzare i pro-pri sogni. E’ il momento in cuil’analizzato diventa analista di séstesso.” Capita a chiunque fare deisogni strani, ma - come precisa ildott. Rocchitelli- “non è così! I so-gni appartengono ad un linguag-gio diverso da quello quotidiano.Diventa una lingua incomprensibi-le quando non si conosce la chiavedi lettura. L’analisi permette di co-noscere il vocabolario dell’incon-scio. Freud affermava, del resto,che i sogni sono la via reginad’accesso all’inconscio. La naturaumana custodisce nei sogni le piùprofonde verità dell’essere. Il so-

gno racchiude memoria individua-le e collettiva dell’umanità.” E se siritiene che l’analisi sia un lusso, ciònon corrisponde al vero: “E’ unlusso ma non di natura economi-ca. Ho conosciuto miliardari chenon hanno mai intrapreso un’ana-lisi pur avendone bisogno. In unodi loro in particolare prevaleva ilmasochismo che lo portava a di-struggere il patrimonio. Aveva ere-ditato una fortuna da un padrecon il quale non riusciva a riappa-cificarsi. Poi vi è il caso di un’impie-gata che preferendo investire soldinel prendersi cura di sé avevasfruttato completamente le pro-prie potenzialità, ed ottenuto un

alto livello professionale e pienaserenità anche dopo un improvvi-so e traumatico lutto famigliare.Con la micropsicoanalisi, la donnaebbe una “rinascita” che la portòa gioire della vita e relativizzare,non avendo più sensi di colpa, sof-ferenze non dipendenti da lei.L’analisi dunque è un lusso ma…come lo intendevano i latini... Laparola lusso deriva da luce. Chinella penombra di uno studio dimicropsicoanalisi si pone in ascoltodi sé mette,infatti, la luce nelleproprie ombre. Quando un analiz-zato riesce ad illuminare la propriavita interiore si concede il lusso didiventare ciò che è realmente.”

Андреа Роккителли и микропсихоанализ, путь к познанию самого себяКак становятся самим собой

“�икропсихоанаиз, или жероскошь познания самого

себя, - техника, основанная наработах 'рейда, разработанная в)вейцарии $ильвио 'анти, которыйпозволяет исследовать и наблюдатьбессознательные аспекты жизни. овизна этой психоаналитическойшколы - продолжительность сеанса,более 45 минут, традиционных длядругих психоаналитиков, и достигаеттрех часов. Это как погружение скислородными баллонами, а непросто плавание с маской и трубкой. а глубине можно наблюдатьневообразимую жизнь океана,которая открывается если нырнуть.%аким образом, увеличилоськоличество занятий на неделе, потомучто больше человек прислушиваетсяк своему бессознательному, темменьше он защищается, меньшезакрывается…” Андреа #оккителли,психолог, родился в 1971 году подзнаком Овна, страстный любительклассической музыки – рассказываето микропсихоанализе: “� основе

каждого психического движениясуществуют две основные причины:импульс смерти и импульс жизни.�мпульс смерти мы видим главнымобразом в тех, кто повторяет все тоже самое и кто даже в новыхотношениях видит старую боль.�мпульс жизни позволяет уйти отсобственных поведенческих клише,чтобы открыть для себя новуювнутреннею свободу.микропсихоанализ облегчает этотпереход от импульса смерти кимпульсу жизни.” %аким образом,пройденный путь позволяет вновьсоздать отношения искренности иблизости с самим собой. “Аналитик –это ничто иное как зеркало,созданное для того чтобы отражатьобразы, мысли, воспоминания,которым пациент позволяетпроявиться. �аново открытьсобственные внутренниепереживания в микропсихоанализевозможно анализируя фотографии изсемейного альбома «подувеличительным стеклом».

#ассматривая свои детскиефотографии, фотографииродственников, пациент приходит косознанию того, на сколько оннаходится под влиянием прошлого.От отца и матери он получил нетолько цвет глаз или волос. а самомделе, от предков мы унаследовали иважные условности нашего образажизни. Это не значит, что мы простоимитируем их поведения. %акже,когда мы действуем совершенноиначе, нежели они, мы все равно идемпо их стопам. "овторение присущеечеловеческому существу больше,нежели мы признаем. Осознаниеэтого позволяет человеку находитьсяв мире с самим собой и, какследствие, с окружающими. $еанс засеансом пациент преодолеваетсобственное чувство вины иосвобождается от внутреннихпротиворечий. Он приобретаетбесконечную веру в собственныетворческие способности, которымиобладает каждый, но почти всякийбоится использовать. ”

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ANDREAROCCHITELLIWITH A PATIENTAND IN HISSTUDIOANDREAROCCHITELLICON UNAPAZIENTE E NELSUO STUDIOАндреаРоккителли спациенткой всвоем офисе

Аналитическая работа помогаетлюбому субъекту реализовать то, чтоон желает - если это действительно то,чего он хочет. а самом деле всепрепятствия - в основном внутренние. о когда анализ может считатьсязаконченным? “как и у любого другогоестественного процесса, у анализа естьначало и конец. �авершается он, когдапациент становится независимымдостаточно, чтобы самостоятельноанализировать собственные сны. Этомомент, когда пациент становитьсяаналитиком для себя самого.”$транные сны бывают у всех, но - какон уточняет, #оккителли - “Это не так!Язык снов совсем не похож на языкгазеты. Он становится нечитабельным,если не известен ключ к коду. Анализпозволяет узнать словарьбессознательного. 'рейд утверждал,кроме всего прочего, что сны –кратчайший и главный путь кбессознательному. (еловеческаяприрода хранит в снах истинусуществования. $он содержит в себеиндивидуальную и коллективнуюпамять человечества.” �сли высчитаете, что анализ –непозволительная роскошь, знайте,что это не так: “Это роскошь, но неэкономического свойства. Я узналмиллиардеров, которые не прибегали к

психоанализу, даже когда это былонеобходимо. � одном из них главнымобразом преобладал мазохизм, которыйзаставлял его проматывать состояниесемьи. Он повторил судьбу от отца, скоторым ему так и не удалосьпомириться. $ другой стороны, мывидим то, что произошло с одной неочень богатой дамой, котораяпредпочла потратить деньги на заботуо себе и максимально использоваласвой потенциал, достигла высокогопрофессионального уровня и полногодушевного спокойствия, несмотря навнезапно обрушившиеся на семьюгоре. $ помощью микропсихоанализа,женщина буквально заново «пережила

свое рождение», которое заставило еерадоваться жизни и пережить, неиспытывая больше чувства вины,старой боли, не зависящих от нее."сихоанализ, таким образом, - этороскошь, но …, как говорили латиняне... $лово «роскошь» (luxus) происходитот слова «свет» (lux). %от, кто вполумраке изучениямикропсихоанализа стараетсяприслушиваться к самому себе, насамом деле приносит свет в теньсобственного сознания. �огдапациенты удается осветить свойвнутренний мир, позволяет себероскошь стать тем, кем он является насамом деле.

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