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Overall Mindset : Self amused(Non agenda) Asssume familiarity, calibrate after, set the frame, get her to react 1)Hey, I am ..(add to the fun) improvise 2)Are you from IL?(chall) improvise 3)Whats your name?(comm) 4)What do you do?(challen) 5)Who are you here with?(add to the fun) 6) ask questions about them and yourself Add Iam just kidding to all drama 80 pull 20 push Sub comm: Add to the fun Challenging Commanding you seem like a girl that has a very spontaneous expression but i also think you have feelings that you are insecure about. Hook:(Frame:Create opportunity for her to experience you and assume sex worthine ss) Do until anime eyes or display IOIs Plowing: showing bigger sample of your personality [Push(if needed), Pull(talk passionately)] Sexual Hook point 1) happens with opened 2)just improvising(and you invest/passion/interest/committed)(happens with time) 3)Trigger through push if doesnt happens and create intrigue. what you gonna do ?(challenging frame with bit playful eye contact)(we wont get along, i cant talk to you, you are too nic e, are you parents divirced? *walk away*)) 4) Make it interesting by showing passion [black girls] 90 % talking until hook point poke poke poke Be at the cause talk, talk and talk and not wait for reaction expect yes, know, i dont know answers. short response better Tests: Icy Over exaggerate Turn it around Vibing:(Frame: She is the one chasing) 50- 50 talking

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Overall Mindset : Self amused(Non agenda)Asssume familiarity, calibrate after, set the frame, get her to react1)Hey, I am ..(add to the fun)improvise2)Are you from IL?(chall)improvise3)Whats your name?(comm)4)What do you do?(challen)5)Who are you here with?(add to the fun)6) ask questions about them and yourself

Add Iam just kidding to all drama

80 pull 20 push

Sub comm:Add to the funChallengingCommanding

you seem like a girl that has a very spontaneous expression but i also think you have feelings that you are insecure about.

Hook:(Frame:Create opportunity for her to experience you and assume sex worthiness)

Do until anime eyes or display IOIsPlowing: showing bigger sample of your personality[Push(if needed), Pull(talk passionately)]

Sexual Hook point

1) happens with opened2)just improvising(and you invest/passion/interest/committed)(happens with time)3)Trigger through push if doesnt happens and create intrigue. what you gonna do?(challenging frame with bit playful eye contact)(we wont get along, i cant talk to you, you are too nice, are you parents divirced? *walk away*)) 4) Make it interesting by showing passion [black girls] 90 % talking until hook pointpoke poke pokeBe at the causetalk, talk and talk and not wait for reactionexpect yes, know, i dont know answers. short response better

Tests:

IcyOver exaggerateTurn it around

Vibing:(Frame: She is the one chasing)

50- 50 talking

With spike when needed(may be statement of intent/misinterpreating)Chat ChatPressure on Pressure offNo Logical talkingfree association(can take it sexual direction)to pump emotional state of both

1) Create togetherness(Build Comfort)Drag away to venues, Conspiracy, Role playing, Future projections, Hypothetical scenarios(what do you do if, how does it make you feel)

2)Qualification(Frame Winning you over and that you are hooked by them)Emotionally unexplained, Use commanlities(overblow it - i like blue), future projections(should have coffee sometime), showing vulnerability(sharing secret), opening up to the girl

3) Amplification:Give her room to chase(she asks your name phone number), accentuating change in pace(playful take away), strip her validation and stacking(playfull,stack them, massive push,make her chase, change topic or another push, finally she is winning you over and you are overwhelmed)

[saying horrible kisser, you are too old]

catch : be sex worthy, she might get all validation if take it extreme

4)Investment( more return, proportional to compliance)Emotional invest(pushes, playfull chanllenges, stack it)(happens during hook), Time invest, Forced investment, Windows of investment(optional to invest), Investment hoops(pull back after kiss first and add conditions)

5)Leading (be the boss)Verbally leading, cutting her threads, teacher frame(teach some unknown information), tell her feeling(you are adventurous, you love me, you are my puppet), physical leading

Value = lover;Qualification = providerTransform from lover to providerLover with glimses of provider.I am the lover, the more she invests, the more I qualify(she gets glimpses of provider). Creates codependence